bullstilIdie:

The guy that told me is a longtime friend (high school) and I met my boyfriend through him. So he's looking out for me maybe? Idk
Anyway he sort of implied that my guy is not serious so maybe the 'screw n dump' thing might have been discussed idk he didn't want to say more so yea.

I'm guessing d ryt advice would b dat u should hv a heart 2 heart talk with him to know where ur relationship is heading. BT I hv dis urge 2 advice u to kinda find a way to eavesdrop on him, or get someone to spy on him so u c hear or c 4 ur self. @castielo pple act differently in different situations.

Just make sure u do a court wedding

Joliecoco: Exactly, I felt bad because he always paid when we go out. He should have simply accepted the offer , but he went on about the amt of money he made which was unnecessary . Money does not impress me, character us very important to me.

Nne what's with u and dis 'paid'? U do know oda tenses of d word exists n are to b used? Abeg change ur title to 'pay' joor!

dmcdad: Just offer her the opposites of what you thin she lacked.... Make her feel secure, keep her company and make her feel wanted and good of herself... Just be there for her, it could be what she needs the most....

dats gud advice! Depression is terrible. Many pple don't understand it until u probably fall in2 such a phase. Help her concentrate on d positive tinz in her life n nt d negatives. Tell her dat if disabled beggars cn stay under d hot sun everyday begging to survive, den who is she to take away d precious life she has wen she's even able bodied. Taking pple 2 d hospital to c suffering patients whose illnesses cannot b diagnosed sometimes brings pple bk 2 reality n helps dem realise wat deir life is worth. Depression is terrible n at dis point she needs all d love possible. Tell her how beautiful she is, weda u believe or not, she will start to c it herself. U cn also find out d oda causes of her depression thru a heart to heart talk. And as said earlier, just b dere 4 her. I wish her d best of luck! Suicide is never an option!

4get how old he is let's deal with d write up, op hv u nt noticed dat u wrote green girl and not green light?

Op abeg change d title to "If u were me, what would u Do?" shogbo! Were u nt present during English classes? if I was u ko, if I was u ni!

niyisky: Always welcomed... depends on the kind of person he is, Last Christmas, my gal wrote a nice poem for me and contracted a good artist to frame it with a glass frame. I loved it so much

welcomed ni welcomed ko! English is hard oh! Btw with all d gifts flying around, I should probably get myself a bf, bt guys always run, cos it's nt just 25th dey hv 2 tink of, my bday is 24th

Dey keep saying d other 3 reasons are nt weighty enough, bt ASUU is insisting, so they should just sign the damn new MOU! So we cn all move on

Segeggs: does your father "give an helping hand" in the kitchen?

Insult not intended.

I cn proudly say my father does give a helping hand wen he cn specifically pounding of yam! He's in his late 50's with a married daughter bt still helps around d house! He didn't grow up rich n even with his sisters around, he's mum insisted d boys participate in house chores. My father does nt know how to cook, bt once it comes to pounding yam, he used 2 help us b4 he got older, n we generally stopped pounding yam. We are all in skul n wen non of d children are around, my father does as much house chores as possible oda Dan cooking cos he's terrible at dat. My parents shared d chores equally as dey are both against getting a house help 4 no specific reason. N to tink dat he's an authoritarian! Even with all dat, u dare nt overstep ur boundaries, to say it's demeaning makes me laff, Cos if u meet my dad, u had neva know such a man will collect a Broom from his 10yr old daughter n sweep cos he thinks she's too tired to. My father is nt perfect bt I will definitely appreciate a husband with dat quality.

More confusion

A reliable person told me dat according to d news she watched, classes are to begin Tuesday which should b nxt wk. Hopefully FG would hv obliged ASUU n d strike suspended,So lecturers will lecture by Tuesday, if nt u resume or nt lecturers won't lecture. Dat pic of a timetable is fake!

miss.terious:

I'm not sure

u c y I said u guys are confusing me

miss.terious:

UNIBEN is reopening on the 7th but lecturers have not said they will teach so there is no point going back to school

and d reopening is a confirmed news from skul? Nt dis fake timetable going around

Pls where is he? I will gladly accept! My lazy bones need rest! I will help out Weneva he chooses bt I love dat kinda husband!

Y are u pple confusing me na, has skul decided to reopen on d 7th or not? I know dat lecturers hv nt called off, bt are we expected to resume on d 7th by skul authority? Simple

Source pls, n did dey pull out or is d skul just bin reopened? I'm sure their ASUU branch is still striking

Saw it on Tribune n I don't totally believe it, yesterday was 2nd did dey release anything?

Apart from d money, ASUU is requesting for an implementation committee, and a new MOU 2 b countersigned by a higher authority Dan perm sec preferably attorney general n witnessed by NLC. They want Government to give dem a response b4 d MOU is signed. Government should give in to stop all dis crap abeg

He said that d account has already bin opened with CBN n d 200billion paid in

If dis true, give us d link

Is it NTA Benin? Cos I watched NTA international n notin lyk dat, as for dat pic circulating round, I don't trust it

I still don't believe dis pic, why didn't they spell Xmas in full? I need more confirmation abeg!

I don't believe dis! I just saw NTA news. Will go 2 deir website to confirm!

I'm tired of dis topic! At d end of d day, education in Nigeria is bad as a result of poor governance and bad lecturers! Non of dem is 2 b exempted. BT crippling universities for 5months is just terrible! N since my frustration is at its peak, ASUU should suspend d strike. Kpa Kpa! After all most of dem want it over, I still wonder who is sponsoring Fagge n his cohorts

KingMEXX: A big lie. Unn is almost empty except for the small protest between villagers taking place in front of the VC's office. they are protesting poor treatment on them by d school. All classes are empty even Carver building (chem dept).

nna u just expose dis guy n his fake gist

willibounce:

YOU doctor? Ur joking. U don't need to clarify anything. Na ur body e dey. U are just being stubborn. U know what is right but as olodo wey u be, u no go gree.

dear Oloribruku na u go come my hospital, believe it or not, make e pain u die! C stupidity in action! U must b one of dose fools who worship d feet of doctors, so u find it so hard 2 believe. U sound as if dere are no oda courses in Nigeria, as if pple only rely on wat dey read, u must b one of those pple living in d past! I will b a doc, if u hate d idea, hang urself! U don't believe it, f * * k urself. I wonder weda u cn spiritually c my body 2 know weda I'm in2 runs?! I haff told u, If I were in2 runs, I would hv achieved more Dan u eva will! ASUU will suspend dis week in Jesus name, Amen! Any Willibounce vomiting rubbish n excusing a ridiculously lengthy strike has failed!

Amadioha strike ASUU dere! 5months @ home n my frustration is at its peak! I will do nyt vigil on deir heads dis nyt!

willibounce:

Oniranu! U think we are talking PRII..CK here. Thts all u know. U will continue to suffer from ur terrible state of education. U tink ur parents sent u to school for RUNs? Young gal wake up. If the money given to ASSU is not used judiciously, should d mumu govt not hold dem responsible and send them to jail.

Sign d agreement, give them d money and see if they use it for what it is meant for or not. 8 crazy students sleep in a hostel meanT for 2 people and they seem to be ok with it. Is that not what ur lecturers are fighting for? Infact u students should be d ones protesting but azonto and RUNs won't mke u focus. And if ur lecturers don't spend d money judiciously, u mumu naijaa students shud keep quiet and watch dem chop d money while u dance skelewu. Why I dey reply u self, u wey ur brain never mature. Oro oko ko ni a n ba e so.

u're just an olodo! Mumu of life! I'll nt even try to clarify weda I'm a runs girl or not! because dat will add to much meaning to d life of a he goat lyk u! As if ur ranting on dis thread will change d mind of government! U started out by insulting me n u shall get double. Oloribruku! If I were doing runs I probably would hv achieved more Dan u hv in ur entire life dat u spend on nairaland spewing trash. It's only a non victim dat will blab lyk dis! As for ur information skul is hard bt dose stupid lecturers make it harder n dat money, I just dey laff even if Government gives dem, 60% dats if nt 80% go enter voicemail! Kill urself! ASUU suspend, 6yrs in skul is enuf for me because I wan become doc, I don't want it to turn to 8!

ASUU will b spewing trash n vomiting rubbish! So if Government makes lower amount of revenue nxt yr, dey will b forced 2 release 225b nxt yr? Abeg abeg! As much as I'm nt in support of government, ASUU has exhausted my patience!

[quote author=Tadon200][/quote] u're d bigger mumu! If u're a student may u rot at home! If nt lemme kip quiet... wat rubbish?! dis is my opinion, go 2 hell if u don't lyk it! If u're a lecturer f**k urself! Since 19... gini? No impact! Dey were d ones fighting for retirement age increase at a certain point... mtcheww if u cannot counter my opinion without insulting me den keep f**king ur stupid self! ode!

Wen my mum z in skul, she z at home 4 six months cos of strike, has anything changed? NO!!! Even if everybody signs d sheet of paper, if Government does nt pay, nothing will happen, I'm in no way in support of government bt I'm honestly tired! No one should insult me because after watching ASUU closely n being a victim I have come 2 my own conclusion! This topic is relative, support whoever u will bt d strike should end!

How do u intend to right a wrong with another wrong, 5 f**king months students have bin at home! U're creating criminals n prostitutes yet u keep fighting! D so called lecturers how many of dem lecture?! some sexually harass students with d excuse dat dey dress too provocatively, even if u wear sack, a lecturer dat wants to f * * k u wil still go ahead! Some collect blocking! In certain skuls first class n 2:1 is buyable! Dey come to class n make a whole lot of noise, sell handouts n leave! Dey victimise students n we hv no voice! I know a lecturer whose motto is "A is for God, B is for me n C is for U" u cn neva merit a B! If dey are so into revamping d education sector, dey should start with demselves! Government has a part to play bt ASUU is nt made up of saints! Charity begins at home! We have half baked graduates cos of lack of facilities n lack of good lecturers!