La situation La simple! If u're sure of d date den u need 2 confirm @ anoda hospital. If it turns out dat it is actually 3months den u need 2 do a dna test while she's pregnant! With technological advancement dat is very possible so u guys don't have 2 wait 4 d full 9 months. U must really love her but bros u can neva b 2 sure of wat she did @ ur back. if @ d end it turns out nt 2 b urs well d ball is in ya...

;DI comment my reserve

I cnt blieve dat she even got bk wit u! Sweet revenge would hav bin d best! Rubish! If na me sef I won't call @ all,she broke up wit u wit a text n u didn't call bk! I blieve u've lost her bt jst 2 b sure I suggest u talk 2 her, nxt tym if u lyk remove ur brain put it in ur anus n sit on it instead of using it 2 tink

@op so u're lukin 4 benin gals,I'm sure u don't have pepper cos if u do u cn get all dose fresh BIU galz,benin is dry bt if it is 9yt activity,I know how crazy dey cn get. Anyway 1st tinz first,c a psychiatrist

Mobsync: @Op, are u a lesbian? Ur profile says u're female while u're here saying u proposed 2 a female.
BTW, just thank God that ur feelings for her disappeared if not, na 14 years for prison oo.

didn't u c my post?,I said d op got it 4rm linda Ikejis blog,it didn't happen 2 her

Nah she's nt a lesbian,she got d story 4rm linda Ikejis blog,so move on or ansa d question

Single n free 2 mingle bt I'll lyk 2 meet 1 nairaland 5yn bobo shaa

I dey craze its a big turn off n I cn't stand any form of racism,tribalism or fanatism,so go 2 hell if u don't lyk my pple!

Asin ehn lay down my lyf? 4 y na? Abeg make him park well! I cn do it 4 my children,my parents n no1 else! Xcept it involves risking my lyf probably thru sumtin lyk an operation n we must b married with kids sef b4 I'll agree

tintingz: eww! Really hurts you...

I simply find sum comments irritating!sum even get girls preggers b4 takin her 2 d alter,mtcheww...

Everything bt most of all my smile n I'm so good @ giving advice even 2 myself! I tell myself d hard truth so ur insulting hardly hurts

I laff in Igbo! Just go n tell her parents! Ewu Gambia! If u talk 2 her lyk she's a small girl,I'm sure she'll b 2 embarassed 2 make any move on u,bt e b lyk say u sef don dey madt,go ahead n ruin her future

YOMITEWIN: @ all with d way am seeing it I don't tink dis girl is ready to leave me ooo. Though am handsome, I av dis kind of eyelashes and a very round eyeballs. She's not d wayward type

are u d poster or are u a learner? Go n find 40yr olds 2 post! Mtcheww

Tedpgrass:

Peeps,
I said....... the thread is for the 40's.....

No one is asking for your opinions as to why they are 40 n seeking the significant other ..

Keep ur poorly researched largely biased opinions with shaky foundations to yourselves!!!!!




Let the thespians commence!!!!!!

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Honestly nothing! He cn f**k d devil 4 all I care I doubt I even did anytin worthwhile either! Very stupid luv,bt we had gud moments tho

Take am easy! I said if u're still desperate go ahead! If a woman is very com4table @ 40 n cn still have children,I tink she should focus on makin herself happy! Havin a child I tink wiLl do d magic! Dis is my honest opinion,don't u tink wen she focuses on positive tinz in her lyf,happiness comes n I'm sure men will b attracted 2 a happy woman! Evry1s lyf z nt programed 2 go d same way

shizzle11:


Wtf! Marriage no doubt is not for everyone, but to say marriage should shouldn't be a priority for those desirous of getting married(even @40), then u got to be kidding me.

Ok, now I ask Ɣ☺ΰ, what if she's not a career woman, doesn't have a good job or even non at all? And mind Ɣ☺ΰ, its not every woman thaÞ likes †ђξ idea of being a single mom

Jeez! NL won't kill me! D stupidity n d reasoning of sum posters is nt comprehendable! No1 is saying 4nication is by any means right bt it has sumhow bcme a part of society! Half of u claiming dat u won't marry a 'second hand' girl f**k ur gfs evry week n u profess love 2 her yet u're giving us crap bout a girl being 2nd hand! U all are wicked! Who told u virgins won't cheat. Many virgins bcome 'sex xplorers' afta marraige so if u lyk keep wallowing in self deceit! D end of d story is if u find a girl dats nt a LovePeddler, virgin or nt,as far as she fits ur wife profile 80%,keep her close. She's a human being lyk u,stop makin noise about a virgin being holy because dat so called virginity is nt a criteria 4 purity

@op go n tell her parents dat u both are in luv let me c if they don't cut off ur legs, age does nt matter my ironed t-shirt!

ebamma 3: see gbagauns

asin ehnn... As I c d gbagaun I z short of words. It makes 1 wonda where such pple were wen deir English teachers were teaching in secondary skul!

@ 40,marraige should nt b ur priority,mind u marraige is nt d peak of every1s lyf. @ dis stage u should focus on finding fulfilment in ur job n being a single mum,bt if u're still desperate,go ahead, by all means, its a free world

Exactly!

lindabon: Both men and women are s/exua/l creatures with temptations to overcome every now and then. Its human nature and Ideally, everyone loves intimacy. . . . . . .
In life, you "get what you give" and when you judge a person by the same "supposedly" bad qualities that you are guilty of, it easily puts you in a ridiculous, hypocritical and compromising situation.

Finally, whether you're a man or a woman, just live your life and do what makes you happy. If you need 1001men or 1001women to be happy (as long as its mutual and you're not hurting anyone one), its your life and your choice. Enjoy it! Have fun! . . . . At the same time, if you need 0men or 0women and this is what makes you happy, its your life and your choice. Enjoy it! Have fun!

lola.luv:
While I practice abstinence myself, I'll state categorically that no one should judge a girl who isn't a virgin.

Y'all know the pressure you men put on girls from a young age!
I know how on campus, guys would tell girls 'you either allow me, or it's over', and these girls are at an age where they are emotionally immature and want to please their boyfriends.

Some of my earliest toasters as a mere child were grown arze men - pedos!

In junior secondary, I was about 10, 11, on my way to church a Unilorin lecturer (he showed me his ID) followed me and asked me to be his girlfriend.
You can imagine a 10 year old girl being the one telling an old man that what he's saying is bad, that the church teaches us not to have boyfriends?
Tell me who should know better between the man and the child?
Assuming at that young age, I was ignorant, what do you think would have happened?

Then the Ibo guy who was always waylaying me on my way to school at 12, calling me his wife (na so dem dey start). I reported that one to my huge uncle and he avoided me after receiving a stern warning.

Those are just a few examples. Girls are pressurised from a very young age by men who should know better. If you escape those men, your age-mates who are boys are waiting with their love letters.
Escape those ones, your uni relationships will demand it from you.
Escape that, nysc.

And some willingly give it up for love.

And not to forget, the battle against self. When your own body fights against your will to do what you feel is right. Because let's face it, women have hormones and intimate needs too.

It's a constant struggle, I tell you. You have to be tenacious to escape unscathed.

Please don't judge anybody, except you've walked in their shoes.
Women are human. Prone to choices, circumstances, mistakes, needs, pressure and the likes.

dis is d most sensible point here! I know virgins who watch porn, masturbate n give deir bfs bjs just 2 keep d virginity! N @ d end u're givin me crap about her bin holy! Lukin @ it religiously,it is a mistake bt societally y'all insistin on virgins cn go 2 hell! As fas as she's not a slut,dere is notin wrong in bin a non-virgin!she has a past just lyk u, move on! If a guy leaves a girl perfect 4 him just because she's nt a virgin den he's a stupid a**hole!

Its a few days 2 xmas n I want 2 wish all nairalanders especially d romance section a merry christmas. I've always used NL as a guest until recently wen I joined n I don't regret my decision. U all give me sumtin 2 tink n laugh about. 4rm d funy,stupid,intelligent,eccentric threads 2 deir posters,there's neva a dull moment on NL. 4rm my short tym here I've taken note of 190 n Acidiosis(terribly obsessed with naija girls) 2 Mrs Chima,and there is Freecocoa(she inspired my Bbm name),2 Goldielocks,itsmodella and so many more. Pls put ur special christmas wishes here 2 our wonderful Nairalanders

TimePiece: you could buy her a teddy bear/box of chocolates with a nicely-worded card.
i know ladies who would appreciate this sort of gesture.

ekwe! Beta buy her either a bb,an ipad,an iphone,a car,a house,expensive jewelries,clothes,take her shopping etc,teddy bear n chocolate na jara

Can't wait 4 friday!

lecturerdabo: except when you are addicted to "sorry" that is sorriamenia

true talk! @ op u sound lyk my ex,he keeps apologising, it gets really annoying because it starts 2 make feel unimportant n I lyk a little attention

Wen u c me sleeping n u're asking my sleeping body 'u dey sleep?'

@ op if I'm correct,ur question is we should give a logical reason 4 d saying dat a man should not hit a woman? Emotions are a part of us humans n we can't distance ourselves 4rm it. so wen women are involved considering d fact dat most men are physically stronger dan women,it would b unfair 2 let a man fight a woman as dis is not even fighting but beating. If u find dat reason is based on emotions n perceptions n is not logical den d logical reason I can find here is maturity! Y would u fight with sum1 who's not ur size? If u knocked her out would u say we're equals? I'm not physically as strong as a man n I won't expect him 2 hit me because he has an advantage! If u still find all my reasons based on emotion den u have 2 accept dat emotions,sentiments,e.t.c are a part of us n our brains do not control us in everything,dat is y we are social beings n dat is y d word 'morals' exist. In general it is an animalistic n chidish behaviour 2 engage in a physical combat weda u know d person or not

Nice thread,I'll really lyk 2 know d response of guys,I come 4rm a family of all girls,so I'll lyk 2 know d thoughts of men after all they are responsible 4 d determination of sex n seem 2 b d most pressured 2 get male children

jaidor: okay....i've read both the sensible and the senseless comments here and I want to commend all you guys for responding including the 'LOW-THINKING' ones who whould neva stop making appalling comments(atleast they made the thread longer) , really apprc8 you....buh I guess ive read more than enough n the rest now lies in ma territory.

SO CASE CLOSED!

Really appr8

finally u've responded! Don't 4get 2 tell us how d toasting goes,goodluck!case closed

I would have argued in favour of d guys bt trust me yoruba 50 sumtin yrs old men are xtreme gossips. I have dis neighbour who can go any length 2 gossip. Dere is notin dat escapes his attention. He would go round d whole estate 2 gossip. @ 1st evry1 attributed it 2 loneliness bt wen he got married it doubled! His old age is not a detterent 2 his gossip!

Obama n Michelle in Africa

She has confessed,d guy has dumped her,she is moving on,topic over,thread over! No more advice!

jhydebaba: Take me to a cosy restaurant, ask me to close my eyes and hands a range rover sport 2013 key into my hands, then tell me to pls date u.

lmfao!