Go and ask her father

@ Loretta u absolutely hilarious!

Tiwa already answered dis, "I no do kele kele love kele kele love oh...z ma..." make whoever wan d kele kele love park well

Answer to ur last question- face ur books, n yes! I'm a bad belle

Dere is a difference btwn civility n friendship. I tink psychologists are ryt. Once it's more Dan civility den it z either neva dere b4 or it is still dere

D guy is ur husband in question so it is a more serious issue, dis let him trash d issue himself suits a boyfriend girlfriend relationship to me not a marriage. I love d fact dat u trust ur husband. If she is really obsessed den it is very serious. I think u and ur husband should speak to her together, not in ur home, probably a public place, both of u should make tinz clear to her. If it persists n even gets worse den it wil have to b reported to higher authority in d office. It gets to a point when one calls dis sexual harassment. BT first make sure two of u speak to her together first so she cn get d clear message clearly

arcbabe: Hell NO he died early when i was 2yrs and left a pregnant wife behind and she had to suffer to carter 4 her children. I dnt want to marry that type of man oh!

kpele my dear, @op d answer is no, I wish my husband would b perfect 4 me, my dad is perfect for my mum, bt I'm not my mum n I cnt tolerate or do some of d tinz she does, so I want someone who's crap I cn tolerate n who cn tolerate mine, my dad is from another generation

Sherlock Holmes: ok...update!


barely a 10days after we had a little misunderstanding, she said we should just be friends that we are better as friends... She is seeing someone else and i believe she was seeing him while we were still dating....hmmn...Trust no gal. She said the person wants to marry her and that she will soon join him to go visit his parents... ALL in ALL her plans of being married unfailingly early next year must come to pass... Now i think i have some pity for her...May God not make her fall into the wrong hands out of being desperate to get married.... And na very fine babe!

I guess dis sums it up! Thread closed! Kpomkwem! @op ride on! On 2 d next one! D babe haff go!

Shuu... which kin Jamb question b dis one? once u hv done a wedding she's ur wife, dat is y dere z a wedding, b it traditional, white or court

@op all I cn tell u is dat u cn love 2 pple bt not b in love with 2 pple. I tink u should sit down n write wat u love about dis women, take a brk n try to understand wat u're feeling. U're probably lusting after one of dem, or u pity one of dem, or one just seems so perfect bt yet dat spark is nt dere. I cnt tell u which one u're in love with. U hv to find out 4 urself, compile d list, which one cn u sacrifice d most for? Wen u're sure who u're in love with? U would den know weda to consider ur parents or urself. Good luck

Baybe: I'm still a student and he pays my school fees. Where else am I supposed to be living?

help me ask all dis Mr Mature, are undergraduates not supposed to live with their parents again?

BushyA55.Banger:

can post it her but, shes hotter than omotola. Her hips be like toolz.
Well, am nt saying short, black and fat is ugly, nope!

u did imply dat, I would still lyk to c her, considering d fact dat u're bashing NL ladies

BushyA55.Banger:

u will turn lesbian, I swear!!!!

nt a chance boo! I'm just telling u dat bin short, dark n fat does not make u ugly. Ur profile pic is Nyc, bt I wanna c how beautiful d girl u're dating is

BushyA55.Banger:
I just checked some lady's pix here on nairaland and honestly, I threw up!
They all called themselves sexy, hot, pretty in there signature but actually, they are fat and black and short, like the gosh, why decieving yrself
Mtchww, its annoying!
When a congress of meats in the pot is called, cow skin(kpomo) is trying to surface, who dash am??
Pls contribute

I do know very beautiful black, fat, short girls. N I mean dey are black beauties n dey got it going on. Now simply because u don't lyk d combo does not make such girls ugly. I would very much lyk to c d pic of ur gf

babyosisi:

Victim ke?
You give your cousin belle and you are a victim
Eediot

victim of lyf! I'm sure he looked at it differently!

sapien: Bwahahahahahahaha!! Rantings of a frustrated aristocrat! Sorry for bursting your bubble by revealing your escapades.

oh dear! It's worse Dan I tot! Don't u realise dis thread is based on ur ranting due to frustration resulting from d fact dat u just lost ur job (dats if u ever had any), n cn no longer satisfy ur girls needs? go c a shrink boo

unmask: What's the issue.... Jacob got married to his cousin..... So be yourself girl and if you love each other then keep the baby and get married or live as partners.... It's your life.... Live it.... Don't let a society that is inconsiderate and unthinking dictate it for you

joke of lyf! Except she does not plan to live in Naija! She n her child would b literally driven to commit suicide. Even a thick skin cnt handle d criticism.

Pryme-st*rr:
Best advice!... Look around ur neighborhood, find d location of the transformer or bera still... High tensión. Soak ur entire body in warm water*nodryurbodyo*, then go n embrace d transformer. #NDO

best advice ever!

obo389: you bera dont try it o.
SCAMM

scam of lyf!

@op sorry to b dis harsh bt I just gotta say "Y I neva catch maga lyk dis one" anyway I'm not a very forgiving person so I tink u're exceptional for still being able to talk to someone dat hurt u badly. I believe what u're feeling is very normal, it will take time for u to heal, d best tin would b to cut off all ties with her just as most pple hv suggested. And I don't trust d girl at all, she might get desperate some time n hatch an evil plan (I'm just saying shaa) especially since she's claiming she still loves u. Cut off ties, d more d distance d lesser d pain wen u remember. BT I don't know how u're doing it, I need ur kind of forgiving spirit, forgiving is so hard for me dat ryt now if given d opportunity to flog every teacher who punished me in secondary skul, I won't hesitate to take it . From experience I know dat being in contact with her won't help u one bit to feel less pain wen u remember. Good luck dearie

I didn't want to comment b4 bt here goes, keep d pregnancy, a 3rd abortion is to risky, if it's possible to give birth n give up d child for adoption without ur parents knowledge, I would advice dat. BT if dat is not possible, den go ahead n tell ur parents without revealing who is responsible, because u myt even tell dem who is responsible n dey demselves would insist on abortion because of d shame. Just claim u don't know d father, ur parents n u would den decide weda u would keep d baby or give it up for adoption, I had suggest adoption because dis is inbreeding. Good luck with wateva decision u make, may God help u. I really hope u hv learnt ur lesson dis tym shaa, because it seems ur case has taken d form of "Thrice beaten n still may not b shy"

xynerise: The Rise and fall ?

I was expecting to see the story of Idi-amin

so was I as for u op, dis ur English no b here oh! U must hv scored 2/10 in essay writing in secondary skul I no even know wetin to tell u cos ur relationship b like Kourtney Kardashian n Scott Disicks own! so u no wan mature ni?

alvin000: Short tiny gals love sex, unlike tall gals. Many short tiny gals tend to lose their virginity much earlier than tall gals. Fat gals are the perfect gals to love. When a fat gal loves u, ur lucky. But thin/ slim gals are in m0st cases players and not gud at loving. Most brown gals are hooked than dark gals. Ugly dudes usually get laid m0re than cute dudes. Plus m0st dudes, that are not gud looking end up dating the cutest gals. A lot of gals d0n't appreciate gud boys. Be a gud guy, m0st chicks will shun u. Be a bad guy, hurt gals, break their hearts,and they will love u. Confusing i know!!! Majority of chicks nowadays dress to draw attention, NOT to lo0k gud. Do you agree?

where n wen did u conduct dis creepy research, I don't agree at all!

I just laff at nigerians in Spanish, d same pple dat will say dere is no big deal in having Sex during d first date will call a girl a slut once she sets up a thread with dis heading, "I have had Sex with 5 guys in 3yrs, is it too much?"

@op now I ask "Are u high on beans?"

I wouldn't advice it, especially if it ends up not working out n dere is d tendency of 'c finish' like someone pointed out earlier. BT if u tink u cn cope with d whole tin n u're mature enough not to get jealous, den go ahead. It's really a personal decision cos it depends on weda u cn handle it. To me, it's lyk d opposite of long distance relationship

D bf n d girl sef na ode n dundy United respectively! 1st class ewu Gambia!

Of cos he can't, he cn get a lot of girls or even most girls bt not every girl he wants. Are there no rich girls out dere? those who hv worked 4 deir money one way or d oda n those who hav xtremely wealthy parents. Yes a lot of girls chase after material tinz, bt it does not apply to every girl. A rich guy can definitely get a lot of girls n most girls bt not anyone he wants cos it's not every girl dat even wants a man. I know guys will use dis to as an opportunity to bash Nigerian girls

nipeks001:
Why are you taking the topic P or are you also one of the "high class prostitute" op is talking about?.

if u luk closely, my first comment z quite short, bt d op was so affected dat I realised I touched a soft spot n I was making a valid point oh! n I'm far from being a prostitute, lmao! It's so funny to me cos it's not gonna happen!

I feel lyk u got dis from Linda Ikeji's blog as for d question, I tink d answer is relative cos all relationships are unique

sapien: Maga full plenty, huh?
Prolly on cyberspace where you live 24/7 and revel in fantasy and illusion.
I doubt if you have even been ever wooed for once in reality.
Oya, scurry along into your cocoon where you crawled out from!

OMG! I c ur hurt is soo deep! BT I do wonder y u decided to pick on me, hmmm... its probably because I was able to hit d nail on d head n tell u d plain truth about how frustrated u are especially because I feel it's because u just lost ur job, I wish I could give u a hug boo! Now go find a job instead of wasting ur time here bashing Nigerian girls simply because u cn no longer satisfy ur girlfriends needs. Btw who do u think wastes more time on cyberspace? honestly, don't u realise it's u who is creating dumb ass threads just to release frustration? There was a semester wen I did a course in psychology, so I was able to tell clearly after reading ur post dat its frustration dats ur wahala. And I won't ever run out of magas dear, on d internet n in real life