willibounce:

Whoever u are, u must be very phoo..lish. You need to read what u types all over. Tell ur president to sign the agreement. And who told u they aren't requesting for infrastructure? Abi what do u think d mone is for? Olofo!

oh pls go 2 hell! Every year dey keep requesting n notin changes! D so called 'money' for d infrastructures will it get to where it's meant to get to. Dey hv bin striking since my parents were in skul, yet a room meant for 2pple is bin used by 8 pple, instead of tinz changing dey keep deteriorating. Dey keep prolonging every strike claiming it will hv an effect yet notin changes! I'm suffering from d terrible state of our education sector bt I tell u d strike has brot no improvement wat so eva. U're a BIG I.D.I.OT! Dey should request for an implementation committee or something to make sure d so called money is used or it will just go in2 d drain as if u don't know how Naija works. Ode!

Weda ASUU is fighting 4 students or d strike is politically motivated, d fact is dis is no longer a union bargaining tool. They do nt hv d ryt 2 strike 4 dis long, dis is one and half semesters! So if Government refuses, d strike will b eternal? Dey speak as if dey are d only union in Nigeria, while there are many unions, if just ASUU holds government lyk dis den other unions will use dis as an opportunity to hold government to ransome. Jonathan is nt just d president of Education, he's d president of Nigeria and as much as dis is nt a military rule, dere is a limit to everything and a time comes wen government should stamp its foot. They cn always sue. After all their strikes for many yrs, wat hv dey achieved? Rada education has deteriorated bt dey kip coming up with demands each yr. Y don't dey request for d infrastructures n not d money itself. Bullshit!!!

lorretta u: How intelligent of you Einstein
You topic says women should expect cheating from guys.
And you're here saying everyone who disagrees with you is dull and lacks comprehension. Don't you sound imbecillic to yourself?

So what happens when your wife cheats?
Do you accept that you can't stop her and when it does happen will you look the other way and not lose your mind?
I wonder the kind of brains some people have. A human being with equal feelings and emotions like you. You expect them to be ok with your emotional abuse but you as a person can't take it. Right? Meaning they are sub-human and their feelings don't matter right?
As long as you get off doesn't matter who gets hurt right?

And you have the nerves to call us unintelligent.
So xtupid of you.

You're so not worth the time I'm using to type this.

Nne give it to him!

Geolalisa: @Lipsylicious

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tanx, will try it

Modes pls cn u move this thread closer to FP I really need suggestions. Pls comment n help me out

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Are u in Lagos?

I would neva accept crap lyk dat. It's society dat has put dat rubbish in2 our heads. Let's imagine dat in dose days women were considered superior 2 men because of deir ability to give birth n men were considered d inferior gender because all dey had is d ding dong n physical strength. Women were allowed 2 b polygamous n were heads of d house. Wat we would hv being telling men by now is dat it is in our nature 2 cheat so dey should deal with it. Utter Bullshit! Anyone cn cheat n if u cheat on me n I find out, I either quit, hv a revenge cheat, or get my vengeance in anoda way. Silly men b giving excuse 4 deir lack of self control. Both sexes hv equal tendency to cheat! because just saying d ryt words to a woman n u cn hit her V bt because of society women are managing to close deir legs small n u're talking about nature. D number one turn on 4 women, scientifically proven is words!

Oh! Deres still d issue of Sex, tryna figure dat out to is anoda wahala. Weda 2 give it up, who to give it 2, who deserves it n bla bla bla... so she's still tryna know if it's worth it. n d advice I give 2 pple in dat state of confusion 'stay away 4rm a rltship if u're nt ready' so dats also part of her reason 4 d decision

Sermwell: wooow!!! Most of you lines are what she kept telling me!! She is 18yrs! thanks so much!! I really appreciate your comment!..BTW, are you male of female cuz of the way you hit!

I'm female, wat she's experiencing is normal. She just got in2 d university, has probably had few experiences in rltships, tink she wants dis bt later wants dat. She will get over it. D issue is tym n if u're willing to let her figure tinz out. Dat friendship is d best 2 me, it will give her space n tym to c tinz 4 herself, she may end up realising dat she only likes u or maybe she loves u

I tink she's just confused. I'm sure she's pretty young n has nt sorted out her feelings yet. She enjoys d cuddling bt is nt sure wat she wants. If u enjoy d intimacy den stay, with time she will realise wat she wants. BT if u're luking 4 a sure tin den move on, dat will probably make her take a decision faster depending on how much she misses u. At dis point u guys cn hardly go bk to being just friends. It's just an issue of time n confusion.

Lmao! N I love unicorns

Dat guy is a clown! D rltship is 2 young 4 him to bring in trust. She should stand her ground 'I love you, but I need my money and if you are sure u will pay, signing should not b an issue ' pple are probably telling him dat she will give in dats y he's still using dat trick. Abeg leave matter for matthias. Abeg, d rltship is too young for her to b having hypertension, if he brks it off, den she should know he's a golddigger. I know of many lazy men who live to scam women even with all their education. As for those comparing it to women requesting, he is BORROWING! If he was asking her to give then dats anoda issue, bt to borrow, she has every damn ryt to ask 4 a written agreement. If anyone decides to lend without an agreement, deir cup of tea, she wants an agreement, her decision, d guy no gree sign, he's a golddigger, he asks for agreement for everything he gives her later on he needs to grow up cos he told her borrow! SIMPLE!!!

Godmother: ^^ did you read my post at all? Where did you see there that I want equality with a man? I said there's nothing like equality between men n women. Its like comparing day to night n saying one is better than d oda. They re both useful n serve there different unique purposes. So also do men and women. The only place I can even say this equality thing comes in is in the workplace

gbam!!! Me love dis comment die! I cn frame it n put it on a wall! Tell dese men dat try to use d Bible to support silly claims. U should probably become Shepherds n start walking around in robes. I don't know y pple are big hypocrites?! Dey will readily commit fornication bt wen it comes to gays dey will cry foul, as if all sinners won't go to hell! Using d Bible only wen it suits dem! Simply because men are physically stronger dosent make dem better. We all hv different purposes. With all d physical strength, u pple don't go thru labour or d excruciating pain some women have to go thru every month in the name of menses! We all have a purpose n no gender is better Dan d other. we all have different roles to play and my role is definitely not to kneel and slave to massage any man's ego while he sits and pride at his Conquest. Btw I think I read somewhere dat female foetus hav a higher survival chance than male foetus, so with all ur physical strength, Biology does not support u dere, dats if I'm ryt. Pls we are in d 21st century, y'all masochists should stop living in self deceit!

All dis crap about age being just a number! Thumbs up to d person dat said n so is jail just a room. Anytime dis topic comes up I'm quick to point out dis fact dat yes maturity matters a lot, bt dere are 2 tinz dat determine maturity, age n experience. Ur damn age is d number of yrs u hv spent on dis earth n d more d yrs, d more d experience n d more ur damn maturity is expected to increase bt all our expectations do not come true. Quite alright it dosent always hv to add up dat a 30yr old woman will b more mature Dan an 18yr old, bt who are u kidding? Wat are d chances? It's lyk 70-30%! Dear op, just make sure u n d lady in question are mature enough to give each oda respect. It's kinda a human default thinking to luk down at anyone younger except of cos dey are at a higher position. BT age does f * * king matter. Maybe wen an 18yr old decides to marry ur grandfather, age won't just b a number anymore.

D sooner ASUU calls of dis strike, d better, b4 girls go carry belle born pikin name am asuugbemi

Abeg abeg abeg abeg joor wat u did myt hv bin childish bt it goes a long way to show u wat ur rltship actually looks lyk. Do not tell him anything, he's a big narcissist who will only ridicule u in his mind if he finds out. Someone dat loves himself dat much?! He will tell himself dat u can't get anyone better and he will use it as an opportunity to f * * k up any chance he gets. If he brings it up, den u also bring up d fact dat he cheated. U're such a gud person n he should realise it. I don't even understand how u cn feel guilty, anyway don't mind me, I hv a serious problem with forgiveness. Honestly dis is bad advice bt I feel lyk u should get a back up plan because dis kin rltship ehn...it get k-leg. my point is do not tell him n since he cheated on u in d past, do not feel guilty consider it ur little payback after all u are innocent.

I don't believe u op bt 4 d sake of commenting, I tink u should just snoop around, eavesdrop n read her messages, I guess u cn confirm it for urself dat way its bad advice bt it won't fail u

I believe u gave ur friend very good advice. And those saying the ops friend is too young didn't u c she wrote she's in her late twenties. I tink ur friend is being desperate n Dats y she gave into d pressure after coping for all dese yrs. Her desperation is not letting her see beyond her nose n discern who just wants a cookie from d cookie jar n those who want d whole cookie jar. She should get over d heart brk n try to build her self esteem. She should let d whole pressure to get married not get to her. She should clear her head n try to improve herself. Learning a few tricks in bed is not bad oh. It will increase her confidence. She shouldn't just give any guy dat says he loves her simply because marriage is on her mind. Dat guy never loved her, bt for d sake of closure dere is no harm in finding out d actual reason he broke up with her even tho its pretty clear. Goodluck to ur friend!

Op abeg answer dis question, y do dey call an unmarried 30yr old woman an old spinster bt a 30yr old unmarried man a young bachelor? Mtcheww as if u don't know dat women don't usually marry their agemates but people older because they are usually expected to b mature n ready, it's society's influence. Maybe wen u stop expecting women to b married with children at 30 we will not refer to our mates as small boys which is exactly wat dey are! Dey hv many more yrs b4 dey are mature 4 marraige

It took a lot of reading n re reading to comprehend wat ecstatic wrote! Wtf! Wat kinda writing is dat?

BarryX: March-Aries born here, Ironically , I've had good relationship both casual and otherwise from all shades of the Zodiac !!
But, personally don't like the fishy pisceans --- They don't just come off good to me !!
The most life-threatening relationship I've had is with a Piscean!
The Stereotype just rub off on all of them
Apologies to them good pisces Bred

tank God u apologised because one of my best friends is a piscean! One of d nicest human beings, he has his flaws tho bt kind to a fault. Dis astrology ish is nt something I really blieve in, bt I'm a capricornian tho! I heard my perfect match should b a Taurus! Na dem know, I'm just looking for my oda half, he could b a Virgo 4 all I care

alingo4life:


God Bless you Raymond...Just like what happened to me to.My Former girlfriend took me for guaran[s][/s]teed.I did everything a responsible Guy should do for a Lady.No doubt,she a good girl,but at times she can be repulsive.But like you said on one of your former posts,A girl's character would pave way for her in all ways..It got to her brain and i decided to let her be for a month plus...And can you Imagine,she's the one asking after me..Doing the calling..I told her point blank that she caused it when she called last-thursday..Now she knows the Game might be up..

My 2cents,If your love for a girl starts getting to her brain and she starts taking you for granted,My Dear People..Stay off for a while

I want to believe u meant granted

All dis boys go just dey lie! :ono b una dey go buy q10 n I phone5 make girl gree 4 u?! Na real chop clean mouth! Some enjoy d thrill of d chase! It's lyk a jigsaw puzzle to dem! Dey go come here dey form say dem no send! #khona!#

Single women are everywhere, u're probably not looking in d ryt places! One more tin, ur partner should b exactly wat d word says 'part of ur life' not ur life itself, when pple make their partners their world, it's a problem! because they can't seem to exist without these pple. Search d ryt places, make money, look gud n live a healthy life, u will definitely find ur missing rib!

D girl is still in sec skul abi?! olodo yakpata!

D story has too many loopholes bt u guys should realise dat dis story was sent to a Blogger n it was d Blogger dat removed d man's details n d op only copied n pasted on NL. D story has too many loopholes n it makes some parts of it surreal.

moyarh.toh.badt:
Lol.Maturity matters most. I m 15 in a rltionship wif som1 of 29 nd we're doin fyn.

joke of d century! Child abuse!

lomomike: Honestly, the way some nigerian ladies behave baffles me. I've had an experience also. About 6weeks ago on a bright saturday at about 11am I was going to Suleja to get some stuff. I decided to drive to the place with my brother. After dawaki bridge, I decided to ask for direction to morrocco road (I didnt know where morrocco road is). I stopped in front of a lady (it was the first time I met her in my life). She was fair skinned, wearing a blouse and a skirt with judas iscariot style shoes, she tied a scarf on her head and had a book which resembled a bible. I wind down the car window down and asked "Hello si..." Suddenly, she barked out "what do you take me for, Do you think I'm like other cheap girls, so because you carry jeep you want to come and deceive me? I know your type, you ashawo that carry girls to sleep with them and use them for rituals."


I was soooo shocked, speechless and angry I almost cameout of the car to confront that silly girl but I refrained from causing a scene which she had already started. My brother was like damn WTF! I had to move about 10 metres ahead to an elderly couple standing and watchin the whole scene who gladly described the direction to that morrocco road.

lomomike: Honestly, the way some nigerian ladies behave baffles me. I've had an experience also. About 6weeks ago on a bright saturday at about 11am I was going to Suleja to get some stuff. I decided to drive to the place with my brother. After dawaki bridge, I decided to ask for direction to morrocco road (I didnt know where morrocco road is). I stopped in front of a lady (it was the first time I met her in my life). She was fair skinned, wearing a blouse and a skirt with judas iscariot style shoes, she tied a scarf on her head and had a book which resembled a bible. I wind down the car window down and asked "Hello si..." Suddenly, she barked out "what do you take me for, Do you think I'm like other cheap girls, so because you carry jeep you want to come and deceive me? I know your type, you ashawo that carry girls to sleep with them and use them for rituals."


I was soooo shocked, speechless and angry I almost cameout of the car to confront that silly girl but I refrained from causing a scene which she had already started. My brother was like damn WTF! I had to move about 10 metres ahead to an elderly couple standing and watchin the whole scene who gladly described the direction to that morrocco road.

its obvious d girl u spoke to is going thru some mental issues, she's having some problems wen it comes to understanding her faith. I cn also recount a bad experience with a guy, does dat mean I should generalise? No!

Medically advisable! Secondary smoking is one of d worst types of smoking! N if it's something u cannot tolerate den yes! Leave him! It's all about tolerance

Abegii! Is Jay-Z not 10yrs older dan Beyonce? anyway d guy wants to end d rltship n he is luking for an excuse, probably he does not mean dis literally n is being figurative, he's probably trying to say u act childish. U're d one supposed to b breaking up with him here! Do not despair, he probably has oda reasons, u're a young graduate n d world is at ur feet, enjoy d single life n try meeting pple. Have fun honey! For all u know he has one 26yr old babe on his neck. U're too young to b sad

slimmy05: I am not interested in all this make-up stories, full of lies, I know a lot of them who can't even afford a taxi ride, they'll come here spewing trash on nairaland. A lot of Nigerian girls lacks manners and are so full of themselves, so many have attitude and ego problem. Some are greedy and most are money worshippers. You're addressed how you're dressed most times. I still don't belive or accept a guy is urgly except one that doesn't take care of himself. If lil wayne happens to be in naija with no cash, that dude wouldn't even have a single hi from ladies. But look at the situation, girls flock around him and that loosed mouthed uncultured immorally dressed nitwit called loretta would gladly sleep with him in public. I am absolutely far from ugly, I take good care of myself and still have lots of female admirers. Its not only the girls that get chyked, we have a lot of guys that females go all out just to get their attention. We still have some loosed nympho's who would just want to have a taste of your 9MM to see how well you can hit. . I hate it when ladies just come here with the sole aim to attack men, leaving the fact that a lot of our ladies have huge problems as well. They won't talk about female's bad sides, but are quick to judge the male counterpart.

dear if u look closely u will c dat d sole aim of dis thread is to bash Naija girls, just check out d heading so I'm not following d last part of ur gist