D6thSense:
Finding acceptance and self-love in the things you can't change is the peak of maturity and lifelong satisfaction.

Changing the things that can be changed but the consequences and aftermath are not cast in certainty or iron-proofed is a choice and risk.

In all these things, do only the things your heart wants and not what it thinks is generally acceptable. Adopt your self-ideal and be confident in your outlook for what the world sees as beauty is transient and unsteady.

Richdad

You nailed it

Richy4:
What you are battling with is nothing but superiority Complex.... In your mind/ heart you have lined up how a man should be... A man should not wash his own cloth, a man should not do chores etc... That is just nonsense...Someone that altered her simple life style of living in an apartment and foots majority of the bills just to meet your demand half way, you were not even grateful... For your information, A lot of married men do chores.... If anyone on social media tells you otherwise, he is lying to u...

Besides, You know very well that covid-19 disrupted a lot of things around the world including Nigeria.. and you should know the average time frame that one would look for job around the world has doubled because of the pandemic... Take it easy with yourself... Be a little humble and focus on your goal... Though I simply wish that Lady saw a better man who will love her in return instead of u... because your Ego is higher than Kilimanjaro...

God bless you

mofedamijo:


You are absolutely right, like you said wife cheating on husband with rich men, same way we have wives cheating on their rich husbands with one undergraduate student who sags is trousers, or even ogas driver. That is why i said a good partner is the prayer.

Also, this issue of marrying in poverty is the most silly idea i have seen. If at all, just one is fine. Sometimes its hard to blame people who have kids when they are financially down. If they start progressing financially at 48, and start child-bearing, they probably will be 70 when their first child clocks 20. That is also not easy.

Every man to his or her own struggles.

In all these discussions, you people didn’t take into consideration the fact that even those that marry early might have fertility issues and still end up giving birth to kids later in life, or no kids at all

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post=97237947:
Otedola bridge again.. lol.. this should be like the 3rd time in 2years or less

This is like the 4th time since June

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Perfectsouth:
no matter what happens, those kids will never suffer their mother's sin....
Wish she could give me my kids but she is using them as her bargaining chip

If you want your kids, you can take her to court

Palema007:
Babe, I know you of this opinion because the focus is on ladies...

No problem, I hear you. Love conquers all, even poverty.

Poverty conquers all things including love, health and sanity

Sugher:


What's the size

4 feet wide.
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Chayris:


What's the size of the bed frame...i need a 6 by 3 bed frame...and can it go for less?

It's 6 by 4

brightk:
I love this thread but i think you all need to go deeper.

I have seen certain things happen in this business. I am still learning forex trade. Una de play for 9ja as far as forex is concerned. I was privileged to be added to a south african whatsapp group by my teacher an hausa guy lol.

Com n see american wonders.

They just concluded a $5 to $100000k three month trading challenge ( no withdrawls until the third month).

Bros i just de look like mumu. Cos i just joined.

The truth is if mba is truly trading forex which i believe they are doing, then they will triumph. It is only greed that will stop them. There are days of losses and days of profit. Risk management is all dat matters

They already called out SEC to com and regulate the market but sec has been quiet up till now.

Educating the general public is good only when you have valid proof that they are into ponzi.

You can as well write a petition to efcc bro. dont com here spreading hate Op

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If Jack decides to face him, can he stand.

He didn't see corrupt politicians to sue.
Rubbish

yerokunphilips:
Wait ooo don't we have Christian in the house when the so called law was passed ? What were the Christian law makers looking ,? Some people are blaming Mr President for this ? Mr President is not the problem here, is our Christian law makers that should carry all the insults .
I think is time for CAN to call all Christian law makers and explain the sensitivity of such bill to them ,and pick one of them to lead the needed amendment of the law .
ONE THING I KNOW FOR SURE ,IF THE VICE PRESIDENT IS THE PRESIDENT THAT BILL ,WON'T SEE THE LIGHT OF THE DAY . CHRISTIAN ARE TOO DOCILE ON THE ISSUE OF THEIR FAITH ,DO YOU THINK MY MUSLIMS BROTHERS IS ACCEPT SUCH BILL IN THE HOUSE ? WE ARE PEACE LOVING DOESN'T MEAN WE SHOULD BE FOOLISH . DO YOU HEAR WHAT THE GOVERNOR OF KANO SAID ,HE IS READY TO SIGN THE KILLING OF THAT MAN .HE IS DEFENDING HIS FAITH , CHRISTIAN TOO SHOULD STAND UP AND DEFEND THEIR FAITH LEGALLY AND PEACEFUL .
BEING A CHRISTIAN IS NOT SAME AS BEING STUPID .
WE SHOULD ALWAYS REMEMBER TURKEY THE HOME OF APOSTLE PAUL .
CHURCH SHOULD STAND UP AND DEFEND THIS FAITH , WITHOUT CARRYING STICK NOR GUNS.
GET THE BEST WRITERS LET THEM START WRITING AGAINST THE LAW AND CALL FOR AMENDMENT . TALK TO CHRISTIAN SANS TO STAND UP , FOR THEIR FAITH .
THANKS THE VICE PRESIDENT FOR SHOWING US THE WAY OUT .
GOD BLESS CHRISTIANS , MUSLIMS , TRADITIONAL WORSHIPPERS AND OTHER RELIGION.
GOD MR PRESIDENT
GOD BLESS THE VICE PRESIDENT
GOD BLESS NIGERIA

This particular issue covers both the churches, mosques and charity organisations.

vicky6:
wow!! so okra goes with uziza!! I will try that for Hubby this weekend

It blends well with okro. Even ogbono soup also. Get the native uziza leaves, not the agric type, it's tastier

made4naijamusic:
Why is it so difficult for Nigerians to be happy for people. Nigerians always expect bad news about people. That is why when Toke's house was allegedly taken over, people were very happy about that bad news, why why why. Me, I was taught by my parents to always celebrate with people and never wish anyone evil. Cossy, I celebrate with you and congratulations.

Hahahaha
Why did you have to complain about other people's reactions? You should have just left it at congratulations

Before opening this, I said this is Alexreports and I wasn't disappointed
Lol

bptc10:
Are you for real?

You took the question out of my mouth

hashtagged:


Those families that women work and put food on the tables, they dont have a man in them am i right?

Unfortunately they do.

hashtagged:


Am not being silly if only the man is breadwinning the woman should do the chores and care for kids.
If they both breadwin EQUALLY then they can split the chores.
But seriously how many women have you seen providing(finicially) for the family, please answer sincerely and not cause you want to support ladies, i have seen women with jobs and stores, yet the man still provides solely, And even if the wife was to provide in place of the man for even a short time like a month, that man would be emasculated and treated like a second rate human.

I didn't want to comment, but ask those who live in delta state, Warri precisely. A lot of women are the sole breadwinners and still do all the chores. There are married women there that single-handedly do everything in the home, from rent, to food, to school fees, clothing and even go on to own houses.
Some work as laborers on building construction sites and still go home to put meals on the tables.
Some women go through a lot but keep mom. Some men still beat, abuse and cheat on them despite all they do.

Unnerve:
For a second, I thought I was about to read an MSM article accusing North Korea of indiscriminately killing it's own citizens which resulted in dead bodies found on North Korean fishing boats.

What an anticlimactic feeling, but a good one regarding this news.

Same here, covers face...

Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?

You are right. There's no point getting married if you both do not have the means of supporting your kids...

However some churches will encourage such a marriage telling them that the young man will find favour from God as soon as he gets married.

Sadly we forget that there are principles to financial independence.

lexy2014:


If u are hardworking, u wouldn't cross paths with those u call "stingy people". If u aren't economically productive, it's when u start seeing who is stingy or not. If u call someone stingy, it shows u are also stingy& an economic liability

I am mentally and economically productive and that doesn't stop you from meeting such people...
My girlfriend's sister just did something appalling this week...

Giving goes both ways... Time, intellectual, support, advise should be given in both directions

mrchineke:


May a hard working man with a plan for his future NEVER jam you in the mighty name of Jesus.

His loss
I have been a blessing to all I meet

May stingy self-centred people never see me in Jesus' name

Lajet:
One stupid girl i was planning to take serious as my girlfriend on our first date she told me that she hate stingy guys. I pretended as if I don't heard what she said. I fucke*d her like 3 times and discharge her.

To what end?

Do you like stingy ladies?