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XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

I detest selfish people male or female...
But I've noticed that men are becoming greedy... Once they see a lady with means they start coining executive ways to beg... Annoying...

Money is important... Both parties should have means of income. Whatever gifts given by the male or female should be done in love and selflessly....

It's wrong to go into a relationship with financial motives...

But that doesn't mean you should roll with a broke ass or a financially irresponsible partner... Your partner(male/female) should be able to assist you out of a fix... When life hits you, you would wish you had someone who can take care of you (male or female)...

PoliticallyInco:
Interesting.

These are the types that murder their parents in their sleep. Calling the police on him might even make him more vengeful and destructive.

I want to believe he was barely disciplined as a child. He demands and he is given. Now he sees every demand of his as a wish to be fulfilled. So now he wants this and that and his mum's documents, rummages in her hand bag, seizes her phone and car keys, etc. Boundaries were hardly set and disciplined into him. Clearly. The thought of doing such to my mum makes me shudder. Because it has been disciplined into me that such boundaries cannot be thought of not to talk of being crossed.

I am not saying well disciplined kids all turn out to be great as teenagers. There are kids who still turn out to be black sheep. But it is still advisable to properly raise a child with discipline on dos and don'ts. And please let us stop thinking that raising a child based on African standards is a bad thing. There are a lot of good morals and wisdom about life in general that applies globally.

Get this young man out of your house and off to college or wherever pretty fast. He might soon shift his attention to physically harming the mother. Manage him and get him out of your house. After all children aren't your property. Nature only choose you to bring an individual into the world. Life will teach him great lessons without being under the protective care of "mama". It will either destroy him or make him but in the end definitely humble him.

See ehn the way "new age" or "woke" parents bring up kids these days ehn... Hmmm...
The repercussions will be terrible.
No boundaries on food, entertainment, sleep, words etc. This is just recipe for future sociopaths and psychopaths

Manlikepiece:
Let d agbaya shut up jareh..
Poor and ugly rat

Lol....
Haba, he's just feeling himself, he's probably all brawn

Kobicove:
Just damn the consequences and get a divorce

Cos till death do us part is still far o.

The caption of this topic on the front page sha...
So "gossipy" that I couldn't help but click...




Morale of the story: Try as much as possible to only have sex with those who fit your ideal mate in terms of character, looks and personality... It might make the pill easier to swallow if garri decide to pass water...

Cos do will everly be done. Some people can't abstain

Forgness:
Sir/Ma,
It is from experience with different people. The issue is that as long as one is Nigerian, he or she (I think the new accepted gender is now they, them, and their) is at disadvantage. Therefore, I have learned to be patient. And some foreigners understand that not all Nigerians are scammers. In fact, they will continue patronizing Nigerians cos we are smart. Foreigners know that if they get a good Nigeria, "they" will open path for smooth businesses. They know a faithful Nigerian spouse will change their lives positively and they are ready to take the risk. And they know it is not possible to check them. When you see one always returning after several months of silence, do not take "them" for granted. This is my advice to everyone. Whether it is business or relationship, the Nigerian based must make sure a face to face meeting occur. Any foreigner who is afraid of staying in Eko Hotel or Sheraton in Abuja or Lagos is a potential scammer. And if the person is reluctant to come to Nigeria because of Boko Haram, just know the person is a potential scammer too. After all, how can you as Nigerian travel to the US or other places now when we all know the chance is slim. Why is the person on twitter, Instagram, and nairaland looking for Nigerian? Lol! Very funny. Looking for Nigerians but not willing to travel down here. Is that not suspicious? Yet, many boys start sending their documents and information to the person to prove their innocence. This is how many will be jailed for crimes they know nothing about. And as soon as the word Nigeria is mentioned, ....lol.

Really suspicious...

Hmmmm... really true, in trying to prove realness they compensate by oversharing, and set themselves up for trouble.
I've never tried interracial dating, I just do biz with them and thus far it's been smooth

Forgness:
Online relationships are scams. Video calls are bull craps. Many have been scammed with it. Hushpuppi and Invictus did many video calls with ladies and men all over the world. The true test is meeting face to face. Anyone man or woman who refuses to meet face to face is a scammer. Scammers are first to say the other person is a scammer to have a step ahead. Just relax and be cool. The person who first asked for video calls will soon turn to be the one running away from meeting face to face, or even communicating further. Do not be deceived with video calls. Scammers are smart. So, be smarter than them. Meet face to face before you release any vital docu. Even if you will, use a smart way to show the person. If the person is legit, the fellow will show his or hers too.

A true test of legit is: if the person is opened to showing you his or her own documents too, the fellow maybe legit. But when the person uses your nation against you and does not want to show anything about himself or herself, run for your life if you are not smart. If you are smart, stay and prove yourself. Soon, the person will start running from you. Press further and face the person. The person will disappear for many months and try to connect again. Press further. Tighten up your securities. The person will swap to God as his or her defendant. Stay focused. Dont shake. The person will turn to untrue truths. That is making lies appear as the truths. Do not get confused, just stay focused. The person will disappear from your life. Then, be nice to the person. Of course, the person will never return. Thenafter, you know he is she is a scammer.

You are really experienced sir.

Why the negative comments. People meet in different ways na

I think extreme introverts express themselves better virtually...

Goke7:
The church was not initially known as Hillsong, they had to change their name to Hillsong when their musical band Hillsong became more popular than their church name. What huge impact can do

Wow... Never knew
Music is a real unifier. It transcends race, religion, tribe etc

EngineerBode:
OP they are more than 10 ooo. Pastor Chris is one pastor I know in Nigeria who massively invested in gospel talents in his church. He tried very well in that regards.



I like Christ Embassy but your claim which I made bold is wrong. That title goes to the Hillsong Church in Australia. Hillsong Church from far away Australia has produced the highest number of gospel artist and sold the highest number of gospel tracks/album out of any church worldwide

Don't mind the ill-researched piece. If he had said Nigeria, we would have understood. Hillsong Church is even more known for the Music

KrazyDave16:
Ryan Reynolds tweet cracked me up

My eyes teared up.... So funny

YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy:
1. The folly of Transsion users

Hahaha hahahaha hahahaha

Xiaomi is cool though

nonhuman:
Considering how he talks and reasons I don't doubt his age


Page 2 first to comment, I will get there soon

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mayo47:
What's the meaning of this rubbish? He's a Nigerian and that's what ultimately matters.

Don't mind them

Hahaha hahahaha
You guys are funny. Igbos and coneheads
If this had been a criminal story, you guys wouldn't mention akpu and amala...

Congrats Regina



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Vyolet:
Girls hustle oooo, so small boys won't use small small things like Apple and ice cream to test your love.
A word is enough for the wise.

Chop knuckles abeg...
As a lady don't turn men to cash cows. Let's do well for ourselves by being financially responsible and independent

donbachi:
Not ing naija...some dey even ask for takeaway,date bread and money to buy medicine for sick mother.

Hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha
House rent nko?

What is the sexual fetish you both share?

Asking for a friend

Hauwi:
I used one phone like that 'kimfly' in 2014/15 the worse phone ever..after using for like 5 minutes it will get very very hot make a screeching sound then go off..

i usually remove the battery when it starts making that noise because i felt it would explode

Wow, thank God it didn't explode.

Viciheaka:
it was that bad

I don't play near these strange brands o

When it comes to phones, I haven't strayed away from Nokia, Samsung, Huawei and Xiaomi. I can't shout

Viciheaka:
Mine was archos hmmmm if I take selfie pictures with it I appear as a red alien from Mars, the heats up like crazy

Hahahaha
Hahahaha @ red alien

foxvilles:
Hahaha..... This dude is talking exactly like my bro.
I hope it's not even him sef.

Dude can just so talk in all these stuffs that I just shake my head and be like....you've come again.

Stuffs like.....Humans has been locked into this plane by layers of coded whatever.

Humans are awakening, there's a constant ray that's surging through everyone and awakening their soul into accepting the ONE consciousness

Etc

Hahahaha hahahaha
Rotf

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Abeggiii

Have a clear conversation with your husband on the way forward. You clearly now have a mate.

Ergo get a life...
Build your social circle, business or career, get your finances in order, get hobbies, ... DO YOU, BUILD YOU

This is a lesson for those who derive their life's identity from marriage.
There's a whole lot you are and can be...

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Aswear...
The comments on page 1 alone off me