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Now what do you want us to say about your encounter with her? Should we blame the woman/lady for agreeing or should we blame you for being an asshole? Tsk.. you will learn your lesson. You think she is dumb, for agreeing? Now you have a family, you are doing okay, and you want to destroy it all by yourself? Why can't men think with their head and not with your dick? Just wait until she poison one of your children, or say she is pregnant and she can't abort it, you think you are being a "redpiller" or whatever you guys are calling your self here, isn't it weird? You aren't dating or anything, she just agreed to have sex with you, and will continue having it with you, without any conversation or anything. You guys can be stupid sometimes. Don't bother updating the thread, when you get the results of what you are doing.

The way they speak. You can know a lot about a person, from the way he/she speaks.

You can't blame them, that's how they have been since they were young, so they ought to behave the same way till death. If any elderly person man/woman do anything wrong, or think he/she can intimidate you, just treat the case like you will treat any other person, that tries it with you. Age is aside. If they do anything wrong, they pay the price.

Don't have a boyfriend, nothing goods come out of it. You won't listen, now you are infected. Wahala for people wey dey get boyfriend.

saysoo:
oga dis your yan no enter. DNA result has two outcome, mother and father. The womans own must show or the child is not hers. Na the man's own be the issue.

Own what grounds?? Why must you believe it's true?? Just keep believing whatever, you will always end up with no family. If he has another wife, and the child she gave birth too, he should go ahead and have another "DNA". If the results turns out negative, he should try having another child with another woman, and should also do "DNA" again, and it turns out negative all over again. He will always end up with no family.

Y'all keep saying "DNA". So what, if the results are wrong? Do you even know how many people are getting this "DNA" stuffs done? They are so many "samples" yours can get mixed up with another's. How do you know the results is true? You people gotta do better. Do you know how many women lost their home, all in the name of "DNA"? You will just be giving a result, without any confirmation, from you that it's true. Once you get the so called "result" you believe it's true. On what grounds? That wrong.

It depends. What was her reason for leaving the relationship then? Did you do anything wrong? Or she just decided to let go of the relationship? People break up, and they later settle it, and end up together. If you were the one that felt hurt when she left, and you tried asking her what the matter was then, but you couldn't get any answers, then you don't really have to get back together. And why must you say, the thought of her to have slept with other guys is taunting you? Haven't you slept with other girls since you guys broke up? You didn't have anything with other girls?? If yes, you shouldn't be judging her with that, Cuz you both have tried out other partner.

I will always go for first. Cuz God knows, I hate partying or anything that calls for attention.

Jeon:
I don't know why Men can't let Women breathe for a second. We are too busy to notice those, but luckily we do have assistants that does the noticing.

Hope you're all getting the pay cheques from this?.




Always carrying our issues on your heads lik billboard hot 100 . Getting upset over our choices ,opinions ,wants and needs.

Like seriously!! Anything a woman does, they always question it. Can't they just leave a woman alone?? If she isn't working they say, she is a liability. If she is also working, they ask why she wouldn't marry early. Why must what woman does, be of your concern? Everyone is free too their choices. But they always want woman too do whatever they think is right. The only thread you will see on this platform is all about woman/girl. I think they can't do without talking about it. And you won't see a woman posting, why does a man, do this or that. It's always them posting about woman. They are really something else...

No, absolutely wrong. If they were dating then, but they broke up. What kind of connection is there for the person you broke up with?? And besides who says you go back to your ex, if he is the one that dis virgin you?? People go back to any ex, either he/she is the first. Your point is wrong.

TONYE001:
There’s absolutely no sense in this post.

These are the philosophies men generate to validate their cheating tendencies.

There’s nothing complex about this equation, it’s essentially of the simple linear type.

Men and women are similarly hurt by a cheating spouse, it breaks trust and demonstrates disrespect. No one is more hurt.

If you don’t like being cheated on, don’t cheat. If you won’t support beating or hurting a cheating man in other ways, don’t support the same done to a cheating woman.

Cheating is cheating, it does not carry different identities across genders.

You are right. They are just looking for ways to justify their actions. How can you betray someone trust?? And you are saying you still love her? If you love her, you wouldn't have cheated on her, in the first place. That kind of mentality is insane.

DND069:
Nope. Good girls love and will die for bad boys. Good girls feel comfortable around bad boys. The pressure of being the Good girls is less when around bad boys, they display their hidden naughtiness and their dark secrets.

A bad boy is an opened person who just wanna have fun.

Good girls may fall for bad boys, but if you find out he is just player, why would you still stay with him?? A girl knows a bad boy if they see one, but if she fall for him despite that... It means she only chose what she want too choose. As a girl if you know the kind of person you are, and the kind of person you want.. You won't settle for the exact opposite. Some were deceived. I won't evade that part. A bad boy can start acting all good for you. Even though it's all too get in the girls pant.. but the girl will fall for it, thinking if he is becoming a new leaf, just for her. No matter what others say, that the guy is a player, and will never change. Cuz people don't change. She will still wanna believe, it's a miracle, that a guy change, just for her. And in the end she will end up as a victim.

Same goes for guys too.

Skyview01:
Your conclusion has no basis in reality. Nothing but a figment of your imaginations.

So according to you, the things that make life interesting are moking, drinking and womanizing!

Lets see how interesting your life is when you have lung cancer or std or liver damage.

I shake my head in utter bewilderment at the rate at which misinformation is being asserted as facts on social media.

In Nigeria "abnormality" is "normality". The things other countries tell their kids not too do, or perhaps what the kids know as a bad things, is all a good thing in Nigeria. If you stick to that now in Nigeria, you are a boring person. The mentality this kind of people have, is insane.

It's a law of attraction. You attract what you are like. No good woman will be attracted to a player, than a player woman. If you are good, go for the good type and if you are bad, go for the bad type.

Starboytwo:
I'm about to enter inside coma cuz no beans and dodo in my system for the last 48 hours.

Eya.. Pele😂😭

Matix222:
Is been long we had sex since 7 months ago

Does having "sex" makes your relationship healthier?? If your relationship is doing well, then what does having "sex" do in a relationship?? It doesn't mean you love each other. If you are good with each other, then that's fine. Having "sex" comes with a responsibility, it doesn't have to be for pleasure. You can have "sex" if you know you are ready for kids, not for pleasure.

Now you don't even know, if she is sick or in the condition to have "sex" and yet you are still contemplating whether you should go ahead and have it or not??. Seriously??.

"Love is a must but relationship is by choice". Anyone that isn't making your life better but bitter, let them go. You don't have too keep a "burden".

There is nothing called "good" man. You just have too go for the one that seems a little bit manageable, and check if you have the same kinda attitude, then you will be a little bit compatible for each other. Then you can give it a try. No man is "good" you just go for the one that seems good for you. That's all.

Why does relationship now have to be centered on "sex"?. If you are in a relationship with someone, does having "sex" define your relationship??. How they define relationship now, as just having a sex partner is insane.

I will definitely be dead without it😭.

Padlock expert

It's possible too see the ghost of a person that is dead, if you haven't found out the person is gone yet. That may be their last time saying goodbye.
Something similar happened to me.
One of our neighbors, I usually saw her like I always do. Until a week ago that the news spread that she has been in a "life and death situation" for like 3 weeks. And I started saying that it's impossible, that I saw her between those time they said. Everyone started saying it's impossible, that she isn't the one I saw. No one believes it. But I'm sure she is the one, and she even responded normally like she always does, whenever you greet her. I still can't believe she was in the hospital, those times I kept seeing her. Whenever I remember, I feel like crying my eyes out 😭. But she is still alive but more like just barely getting by😭.

EmiDon11:
why?😏😏

[color=#000000][/color] Because of what you said...

All you can do in life is "live well" and "die well" that's all. We came with nothing and we are just gonna return with nothing.

Ladyclara002:
As a fair guy🤷
And your way of thinking

Exactly 😂. He really needs too clap for his self.

I like my dad the way he is. But sometimes, he can be annoying cuz he get angry easily. And very stingy too😭. He only does whatever he deem necessary. Whenever you need something important, he will first interrogate the hell out of you, before considering if it's important or not. And mostly no matter what you said, too him it is unnecessary.

So I tend too change that about me. Listening to your kids whenever they said they are in need of something important. And be cool headed . Not getting angry easily by the slightest things.

Anny69:
I thought you were referring to me. Yeah, I agree men did that AI thing too.

Noo not you😂. I mean he OP that posted it

Evestar200:
Guys have taken over bleaching from girls

Exactly!. Most girls have stop bleaching. They have noticed bleaching isn't beauty. And now guys have taking over it. I don't know who told them bleaching make them more handsome.

Anny69:
The topic is about Nigerian women.

That's exactly why I said he shouldn't only say women, like men also did they are a lot of post on WhatsApp, IG, the AI pics are everywhere and both gender did it. So why must he say "Nigerian women" the guys here are really funny. Finding all the ways to single out "Nigerian women"

Anny69:
😂😂😂Hehehe, abeg o. Not all Nigerian women.

I swear 😂😂. Not all did the AI stuff.. and besides men also did it. Why must you say only "Nigerian women"😒

Bea1234:
The saying that scammers are heartless is an understatement

What really happened.

Oyindamolah:
Even I did the same a few weeks ago, maybe a month ago. I finally had to let go because I realised something. It was killing my individuality, me being different from others, me being unique. I was tired of entertaining people by being someone else who I'm not and never can be. I was tired of posing to get more likes on my pictures just like everyone else does. I was tired of taking a picture first and then eating the food that had been served in front of me. I was tired of seeing nature through the eyes of the camera's lens. I was tired of begging to people to give me attention. I was tired of flexing every new thing I just bought. I was tired of looking good by editing my pictures and applying filters. I was tired of hiding behind a screen just to talk to my classmates. I was tired of portraying myself as the happiest or the coolest or the saddest or the most suicidal guy next door. I just wanted to be me. To do things that make me stand out.

Ask yourself, how many likes did you get when you posted your first profile photo posing like a weirdo, and how many likes did you get after applying some filters and posing like everyone else? See the difference, you, me, all of us are acting, adjusting, trying to fit in this social society where people will only like to see and hear you if you are upto their standards which they call being “cool”. Seriously I really feel bad for people who crave attention, who think their online so called friends actually care for them, who get “depressed” or “sad” if they don't have enough likes or followers, who are extroverts on social media and introverts in real life, who do not understand the idiom “Everything that glitters is not gold”, who think thaT writing speeches about women being unsafe sitting behind a screen will solve the problem, who can go to the heights of posting half naked pictures, alcohol/hookah/weed/cigarette pictures, and musical.ly videos. WHEN WILL THEY UNDERSTAND THAT NONE OF THESE PEOPLE CARE IF YOU ARE ALIVE OR DEAD, NO ONE GIVES A DAMN ABOUT YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA PERSONA.

And finally, I had to quit by deleting my profiles from Facebook and Instagram. And I will come back soon to these platforms, but this time with a blue tick beside my name.

Congrats on your new real life where you can be YOU

You are right.. you just have to keep trying for people too notice you and no matter what you do, people don't care. They only see what they want to see.
The most real people aren't on social media. It's good too be real in reality than trying too be real, on social media when no one seems to care. I'm not on any social platforms. I only use WhatsApp cuz that seems a bit real, cuz you talk to people you know than talking too some online people you call your friend's, that aren't really your friends. They just deem you cool. If you are in the same level as theirs. If you are not, then you are not qualified to be their " so called friend". That's just the world we live in. Everyone is trying to get attention. If you are not the one for all the social media life. They see you as a "boring person". I would rather be called a "boring person" than living a life, that isn't real. I would rather be myself. Than being someone else.