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Spiritfun:
I work in a private company in somewhere Lagos. I got this job after some months of desperate job hunt.

When I started this job in January 2017, I thought I would grow and get some promotions maybe within the shortest time frame. So I gave my all.

Now the problem is that my boss wants to engage me for 24 hours. She calls me anytime she feels like to process some documents and respond to clients' inquiries. Even at midnight and beyond. At first, I thought it was because of the pressure we faced during the season but this continued even as I type this.

I have tried to curtail this behavior of hers but she is not giving up.


The most annoying part of this is that whenever her children are given assignments in their schools, she would tell them to give it to me to solve for them without minding my personal schedule. Her children attends one of the best schools here in Lagos.

I have personally told her to respect my unofficial hours and avoid adding unofficial assignments to my job description but she wouldn't listen.

At a point, I tactically delayed the assignment for days and she started complaining that I am incompetent.

I have made up my mind to quit the job at any slightest opportunity but the role I play in the company is very critical that I can't just wake up one day and resign.

Though she rarely praises me, a couple of her friends have told me how she boasts of my competence and the innovations and values I have added to the company..

Note that three months into the job, she offered me a one bedroom flat at her boys quarters and I didn't hesitate to accept because the place is somewhat closer to the office than where I lived. And sometimes, I join her in the car to the office in the morning thereby saving some fare cost.

Please, I need all the ideas you can give me to handle the situation.

enemmo:
Styl plus that he played 3 of their songs back to back nko?
P square like 3 songs

arinze3131:
sarkki has finally ran away in shame. stupid,senseless and illiterate man.

IkpuMmadu:
Around May, I have noticed real imbalance and lapses in my company. I'd say that the greatest mistake I made was hiring my brother to be my manager. My brother isn't a bad guy or a thief but he was simply too religious and couldn't grasp the real deal in running a large restaurant, events centre and bar.


As a Lord's Chosen mopol, his relationship with our customers were poor. He was only interested in being honest while ignoring what customers needed. He liked doing things the old way and quite opinionated.

And we started losing customers. Money wasn't flowing anymore yet I sustained their salaries with my personal money. For an events centre, restaurant and bar I put over 15m to raise, would I let it die?
One day, an idiot walked into my restaurant with food. My workers told him we don't allow people bring food from outside. He thundered out shouting that he will close my place with juju within few months.

Juju Works And So What?
By September, our baseline was down. Nobody cared about customers complaints. From the cooks to the waitresses, everyone minded their own only to be paid by month end from me.
While we were going down, the young man boasted to his friends his juju has started working against us.

https://etimes.com.ng/juju-wreck-real-life-story/

DD Orindu Restaurant, Bar and Events Centre at No 8 Marwa Road Satellite Town Lagos is surrounded by a plethora of bukas and tiny joints but we set a class and served the upper echelons of the society. Our services were expensive. So there was no way we would muscle out these bars with cheap foods etc. Since your place serves different customers why attack my place with juju?


First thing I did was to recognize our weakness. Pay off all my workers, close my company and give the guy a false impression that his juju has worked and won.

From October, I shut down my office till January.

While we were out of business, naysayers went about laughing and rejoicing about the power of their juju until last week when I drove to my office with loads of cleaners.

The juju man saw us and couldn't talk to me. I parked right in front of his bar for him to see that we ain't say never neither do we die.


To teach the juju man a lesson, I'm knocking down prices of every goddamn drink. Food will be best quality yet cheapest in Amuwo Odofin LGA. We have policemen and OPC everyday. We sale palmwine, nkwobi, fish, ugba, asu, etc.

BankeSmalls:
The heart of MAN is desperately wicked.

fulaniHERDSman:
Wike the Great IROKO of the SOUTHERN NIGERIA!

Unlike the rotten toothed, criminal minded, moralless, unspeakable evil conniving barabas in bourdillon that brought this plague upon the good people of Nigeria.

Laveda:
Man's hot.

modelmike7:
THE BLOGGERS ARE BUSY DIGGING UP PEOPLE'S PAST sha.
The Internet truly never forgets!!

Kaysurplus:
Hi Romancelanders, please ignore my grammars and try profer a solution to this issue I'm about to share.

I have this particular girl have been dating for two years, and i plan on settling down with on the long run if God permits. But recently, I discovered the young boys in her neighborhood calls her "PK" (penalty kick) , and I've challenged her several times on this derogatory word these guys refer her as, but her response was " I shouldn't be bothered cos' that's how young boys behave when they have crush on ladies they like".
It's even more confusing as these boys are always nice whenever they see me and they always treat me with respect. But whenever I'm driving with her and these boys happen to be around and sees us together, they'll keep greeting us and hailing her as PK.
This matter bothers me a lot, I love her and I'm so confused at the same time.

Jamariwolf4:
How does one find this kind of man, or shud I say where?
I've packaged myself and checked every nook and cranny of Abuja to every stone and sand of kaduna also.


Experienced nairaland ladies pls drop suggestions.

Married wives of nairaland too (married to rich men only) should advice us on how they met him.

Thanks

laff2016:
Gud morning All.I am so thankful to God, and the way he has been faithful to Nairalanders,pls for the sake of God ,I am in dire need of help.I was working with firstbank for about 7years,when I was defrauded of a whooping sum of 2m,which the bank asked me to pay after I was suspended,and detained for a crime I didn't commit.I had to sell the only car I had,and my pieces of land to pay back,thinking I would be called back after paying the money.up till date,I haven't been called back.Although,I have put it behind me,so as to move on in life.I have tried all possible ways in securing a job,that would help me take care of my aged parent as well as to be able to feed myself and pay my rent.As I am typing this,I don't know where my next meal will come from,my landlord has asked me to vacate his house,because I couldn't pay for almost a year now.I had to even enroll for my Msc at Abu,since no job was forthcoming,which I later defiled,due to lack of fund.Pls,I don't know if you All,can help me financially,no amt.is small,to enable me settle some of my challenge.pls help me for the sake of God.I don't have anybody to run to at this time.Anything,u want me to do,to ascertain my genuinty,I will gladly oblige.Anything u required from me to do,I swear I shall do it wholeheartedly.
Pls help me,as I have nothing to even feed on.
My acct.no:3072119131,fbn
phone no:07031104665

Thanks.

Berlyn1:
Planed work!

everyone wants to trend by force by fire


*modifies* I can't believe this rubbish would grace front page haba

cursedAbiola:
God bless Trump

TrueSenator:
They are only human and may had worked so hard the previous night for your sake....no one wants to leave the comfort of his home to sleep in a public hearing session.....please let's put our collective energy on pressing issues like fuel scarcity, FH, etc...

sarrki:
Life t every state make there own law on the grazing issue

If I don't have land to give you

You can't force me

midehi2:
See your shrink dick

midehi2:
quack! I have made my comment, comma beat me na

Bidobado:
You guys are fvcking idiots.. All of you involved in this Afonja/IPOB/Almajiri Tagging. When are you ret@rds going to grow up and do away with what I call Residual Racism, where the oppressed picks up what's left of institutionalised hate and then spread it amongst themselves.
Enough.

SouthEastFacts:
Money rituals don't work in Igbo land. It is cultural. It is tradition. Our land abhors that. If you must do it, then you must cross Niger River or any River bordering Igbo land. If the ritual succeeds, then you must pay with your life. There is no two words about it, unlike in the West where you will see a man who is fully into blood money dying at an old age.

Forget Nollywood. I know what an Igbo man can do to get money. An average Igbo man will rather endanger his own life than endanger the life of his first son in the name of ritual. If you don't have first son, your wealth is meaningless. We live for our Children.

Vinstel:
Name of suspect:Abdulfatai Kayode
Anatomical analysis: low fore headed & Oval face
Ancestry: Fallen demon called oduduwa
Academic qualification: B.Sc Skull mining technology
Animal spirit: Bald headed vulture
Enters data into computer......scanning.......... Scanning........ Scanning....... Results are out!! Chai!!!!! It's them again!!!!! The sophisticated afonjeezies!!! Spits!! AFONJA!!!!!!!!

midehi2:
Don't you think he was doing the rituals for an Igbo man who don't mind anything to get rich

Bidobado:
One of the most disgusting and bigoted comments and shamefully supported by 100 hatefilled idiots.
With comments like this, we certainly don't need the racism of the white man or the barbarity of the Arabs, we are already doomed.

hypemanifeanyi:
According to Ajikawo, it seemed like a staged event where hoodlum attack you at gunpoint and it was a shocking event to him.

He sustained injuries on the head as he was hit with rifle butt as well as bruises due to being handcuffed.


Source: https://www.mrifeanyisblog.com/2018/01/sars-operatives-beats-up-radio-lagos.html