₦airaland Forum

OlamiB:
Please what do I do to reduce it, I am a shy person and I don't feel comfortable when guys stare too much. It would have been better if they were just staring at me but no! Its my butt
I went to church today in long skirt and some brothers were still staring, the stupid people even had the gut to tell me I have big ukwu
I don't wear tight dress or gown just because I don't want it to be noticed, but I am fed up now how do I reduce it?

Thanks

striktlymi:
Its great to love and especially wonderful when the object of our love reciprocates the gesture.

Love, for me, should be given without any strings attached. I don't think there should be a good reason to show love to another.

On that premise, I won't blame you for 'loving' this guy even after noticing some irreconcilable traits in him.

I believe firmly that it is not a must to be with everyone we are demonstrably in love with. There are times when it is expedient that we let go, no matter the hurt.

You know yourself and I want to believe you know those bad traits that you can learn to live with in time.

If your guy's behaviour falls short of the mark, after doing a proper assessment, then by all means leave.

For me, relationships should give a bit of insight into what we should expect in marriage.

If there is anything plaguing your relationship which you know full well you won't tolerate as a married person, then there is absolutely no need to stick around.

It is not your responsibility to change a grown-up. Hoping for a change may bring untold hardships and heartbreak.

Juliaann:
OK I have been seeing this guy for a while now in short we are dating its been up to a year close to a year we started dating and I love him yes I do but the issue here is that whenever we are going out maybe to buy something or to chill out around the town it happens that if we run into a friend (his friend) he will ask me to go to the back seat for the guy to seat in the front but for what? the first day he did that I respected him and did exactly what he said but he has been doing this every time we see any of his friends on our way going out and I don't like it,,,,,assuming we all left home at same time including the friend I can seat at the back I don't mind but asking me to come down in the middle of the road just for his friend to enter I don't think I can take it any more and mind u for those of u that will start asking me to go get my own car if I don't like what he is doing I have my own car it won't be nice going out with different cars on a date since we can easily use one either his or mine

another one is that he is a hard smoker he smokes anything smokeable just name it,he drinks too but not much tho I'm OK with that one the worst is that he stays out late almost every night, I have tried discussing that with him on several occasion he always promised to change but for where he is getting worst everyday I really don't know what else to say or do to change him because I think I have done everything possible to atleast to make him reduce it but its not working,am thinking of quitting still having a second thought about it that's y I opened this thread for u guys to help me out

NB:::if u know you have nothing reasonable to say please am begging don't comment matured advice only

So my fellow NL'ers what do u suggest I do?

Walspring:
Is it reflecting now? If not wait for 1 week or 2 weeks

oloworulz:
The igbos are the one dat should have been deported. Most of them are involved in robbery.

jenns:
How long does it takes an approved visa to be collected at the various collecting point.

Walspring:
Nope i dont think so... because no news on that..

do you wanna pay sevis fee?

FEMINONI:
Hello house, has anyone paid sevis fee of recent? If yes, what method of payment?

LyfeJennings:
God please give me the patience and silence of that man o

temitemi1:
The only warning to Nigerians is to vote MASSIVELY against their father(buhari) come 2015. Let GEJ continue n come 2015 boko haram will be a thing of past... God bless Nigeria!!!

victorazy:
Ur eye go clear come 2015!
Buhari has nofin to offer than to try to Islamise Nigeria which will surely fail!

eye4eye:
Yobo is a Niger Deltan. This did not surprise me. Yobo has been a failure. He has been rejected by many clubs in the last seven months. He asked many teams to give him chance to do trial but none looked his way. Yobo is only looking for pension. He has failed to save for later day. He is only looking for one big pay day from Jonadunce.

All of you should be ready to cough out what you acquired illegally from the government, starting from May 2015.

persius555:
Well seconded.What kind of country with over 170 million people/moth will wait to be fed by importation.If the US, china, India is cutting down on importation, we should be cutting down on importation of goods that have viable alternatives. Top on import lists are rice, sugar, flour, cars.FG should work on local alternatives of these goods.

tit:
a weaker naira means that it will be cheaper to produce goods in nigeria and sell to the world!
this should be an employment opportunity for hardworking people and entrepreneurs.

kennygee:
Beautiful family, cute kids. That is why I'm praying that God gives me a cute husband.

hilsocial:
My name is Hilary. I just graduated from FUTO ( Agric Economics) . I am interested in doing my M.Sc and Ph.D but i want to know how many years it will take for each and the average cost for each in Nigerian Universities and abroad. Thank you for your anticipated response.

SavageGarden:
If una like write all the letter on earth I won't vote him he's a bloody Muslim and Northerner...

ireneony:
Op please change the title to yoruba wives are unfaithful .
this is how one egg can spoil the rest eggs

sKeetz:
I like em' thick! #TeamThick

ikekings:
She has a normal yansh now... Lol... ... Besides, na yansh I go chop?

ikekings:
She has a normal yansh now... Lol... ... Besides, na yansh I go chop?

Floyd45:
You sef why re you allowing them pay for your stuffs?

princefunmi:
Let me ask you a question?
And I speak for all guys

Why would I pay for oranges for you or give you a lift if I did not intend to ask you out sometime in the future?

I mean face it, you are a stranger just like every other girl. If I were Santa Claus or an angel, I'll go buy me a BRT bus and give every girl on the road a lift or pay for every girl I see buying soft oranges.

Its still part of the mentality that OP is talking about. Cant you refuse to accept the payment or what? The guy paid for your orange, you didn't refuse. The guy gave you a lift you didn't refuse. The guy asked for your number, you gave him. What do you think he wants to do with the number? Increase the population of numbers on his phone?

Abeg grow up GIRL.