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mangojuice:
Counsel her and if no change divorce her immediately coz She is not a good wife. My humble opinion sir.

ikaboy:
Seems you are better off in political section

VirginSearcher:
OP! Please take the house help shopping yourself.. your wife is not only wicked but mad

Taywon:
Am sure your wife is igbo
They sabi maltreat other people children

Mobree:
@OP, why are you guys using your wife's relative as a househelp sef? Not good o.

TBH, if you would get a domestic help, it is much better to get an "outsider" so you are under no other obligations asides what's on the contract and no sentiments will show up in your dealings with her.

About the issue, you should probably ask your wife what exactly is the issue cos it doesn't look like this has been a regular occurrence. I'm not in support of her attitude also but the, there might be more than you are seeing...especially since she's her relative.

TonyeBarcanista:
How did you conclude that the wife ks wicked? Let us watch what we say towards people's spouses.

I am very sure that the wife acted the way did because of the discomfort she feels with a second "woman" enjoying the attention and niceties of her husband.

Honestly, I can NEVER fault her! I have seen first hand where lovely and nice househelp got pregnant for oga and he was asked to marry her as second wife - which he did!

Unique357:
In brief, I am a male married with 2 children, my daughter is 8 and son is 5. I also have my niece 11 and a house help 15 staying with us.

On Monday I gave my wife Christmas shopping money to get foodstuffs, hers and children clothing including our house help.

Yesterday my wife went shopping, she bought clothes for herself, our children and nothing for the house help. She claimed that the girl doesn’t need any clothes for Christmas as long we feed and send her to school, the rest is her parents' duties. The girl in question is my wife's relative from the same village. This girl is so nice to our children, she is like a second mother to them despite her being just 15, I have never had any problem with her.

I was mad at her that I told her, if she cannot treat another woman's child well then she doesn’t deserve to be a mother, yes I did said some harsh words to her because of anger. She accused me of sleeping with the little girl which I told her she is mad and she couldn’t stop crying the whole night. This morning she didn’t make my breakfast and refused greeting me back.

Please house let me know if I overreacted

Graxie:
Why are you engaging a minor as househelp? Why. Both you and your wife, you are horrible.

fyneguy:
Read the piece again. They have the backing of the FG.

Venerable612:
PLEASE DO NOT TAKE BOTH OF THIS ADVICE.

Like the Lagos Mediation Centre told you - under Nigerian Law, and particularly Lagos’s Tenancy - you cannot resort to Self-help. Even when you have served the statutory notices.

So it means YOU CANNOT FORCEFULLY EJECT HIM from your house or you risk being sued for unlawful ejection Yourself and having to pay for damages.

What yu can do is this.

INSTRUCT A LAWYER

If the value of the Rent is less than #10M, proceed to the Magistrate Court. You can institute an action for ejection and serve it on the Tenant.

If the Value of the Rent is above #10M, then you must proceed to the High Court immediately to the same as above.

Note: on both cases, you will normally take a Writ to enforce the judgment of the court on ejection. With that, the Sherrifs in the court will be the one to come eject him from your house themselves.

ANYWAY - that’s if you want to do it legally. Otumokpo, Ogun lakaaye or any traditional means may be a faster and cheaper means . Just kidding.

chival:
He probably doesn't have the funds to rent a new apartment yet. He'll leave eventually. Home owners should learn to have compassion for their tenants. The state of affairs in the country is causing millions to suffer untold hardship.

bluebay:
Pebble cracked this jaguar windscreen and the car coats #25M? That's a big lie... That car isn't up to that amount unless it's bullet proof...

udoka2013:
Hausa fulani loading.

naijaguy123456:
Is that not why chioma married him cos of American papers and access to real money. If davido was a shoe maker or huzzling bottle water will she marry him ?

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Amanee:
If you had sense you won't open this thread

Ciao

Ralpdee123:
Come and cut it then...