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ZombieTERROR:
Actually ogun but it's still same
Lagos is highly populated and bad politics isn't helping...


Politicians from the east are all Bunch of sycophants and a disgrace...
Don't blame them though but the fools who keeps voting and applauding them

who should they vote, your fada?

superstar1:
In the voice of wailers — closure of border will make investors to run away from Nigeria and arresting a revolutionist and sore-loser of an election will make investors to run away,

How market?

so the built all this just when d southern boarders were shut? Ewu!

Jiokejohn:
The girl being proposed to is a younger sister to the bride. According to the guy, the girl's parents (bride parents) are aware of their relationship. So, such act will add more vibe to the wedding. The couple, especially the bride will see it as an honour that her younger sister was engaged on her wedding day.
(read the post again).

I know! it still does not make it right! they stole the couples show.

which vibe did the add? their vibe was stolen instead. did you hear anything about the couple since this broke out? nobody even mentioned them.

Spiritfun:
I met this beautiful girl sometimes two years ago. She's intelligent, smart and well mannered. I professed my love for her some two months into our friendship but she outrightly said NO.

I decided not to give up on her but to show her more love and care. As days went by, our friendship grew stronger, my love for her grew as well. Our life's goals are so similar that I find it very difficult to let her go.

I made sure I took the center stage in her life by doing everything necessary to help her build her dreams and its working perfectly.

I started showing her off on my social media handles just to test her reaction but contrary to my expectations, she loved it. I was proud that somehow I have perforated her defences.

Along the line, she started professing love to me too and that was the best moment of my emotional life. Then I decided to propose to her again but alas, she said NO and I was very sad and frustrated and she noticed it. At that point, I decided to give up on her and focus on other goals in life. She pleaded with me not to let our friendship die because she's afraid of losing me. I didn't bother to ask her for explanation on why I should still remain her friend without knowing where it will lead to in the end. I didn't also bother to ask her reasons for turning me down two times. I just agreed to her plea and ended the conversation.

I tactically started avoiding her to enable me heal but she would complain and plead with me to keep the friendship. I sucumbed because this girl has almost all the qualities I need in a wife and because of my standard, it's really difficult for me to find someone else that matches my preferences.

I know almost all her secrets and she knows mine too except my plans to travel abroad, preferably Canada. I made sure I did not let her know about this for some reasons.

Then, I found myself being obsessed with her again and she's been all over me too.

Now the crux of the matter is that I have perfected my plans to travel on or before February next year and I want to give her the last chance and propose to her again. I've conditioned my mind to accept whatever response she will give me and move on with or without her.

My major problem is whether to tell her about my travel plans before I propose to her or vice-versa. I know she also nurses the dream of living abroad. I'm afraid she might accept my proposal if I let her know about my Canada plans if I let her know about it before proposing to her.

Kindly advise me on this please cos I don't want to make any mistakes. I LOVE THIS GIRL and I'm certain that will make a good wife for me.

why do u want to cage her down?
she keeps telling you No because her instinct is warning her about you.

you will travel and get another girl there n abandone her. that's why u are hiding it from her.
let her be pls.

goldenpenny2:
Fellow N/Landers

The future is unpredictable but nobody is praying for bad thing. This question have been bothering me for long. I thought it wise to it with good people of Nairaland and seeking for helpful advice.

As a man, is it advisable to marry the lady who loves you more than you love her?

please advice

yes, its d best set.

Damilolacoker:
Hello everyone I'm 24 years old and I have been married for three years. last year we had our first baby . Prior to our wedding, I and my husband decided I'll be allowed to work once our baby is old enough to attend day Care. Now our daughter is almost 2 years and he has refused to let me work. We've had countless arguments about this and it always ends with him saying women who work are not always submissive. I cannot be a full house wife , I am educated and cannot sit at home all say.

He recently told my parents I was being rude to him and they're all saying I should do whatever my husband wants. I love him but on this issue, I refuse to agree with him.

The other part here is he doesn't like me correcting our daughter. She's almost 2 and it irritates him whenever I try to potty train her or scold her. He insists I go to check up on Her at school during break hours. I understand that she's quite young but as her mother, I want the best for her.

Now he's changed towards me, he doesn't care or pamper me like he used to , sometimes he refuses to eat at home and when I try to speak with him, he's always very cold. Please help me, I don't know what to do anymore.

you have 2 babies in the house.

Ryan03:
did the bride and groom complain? Why is the pastor crying more than the bereaved?

if na you, you go complain? u n ur new bride still dey alter one idiot they kneel down propose to him babe just behind you.
the pastor over did it sha but his act was totally at wrong timing.

right thing in a wrong place.

Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.

He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.

He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.

I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.

So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".

I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.

He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.

Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.

At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.

I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.

So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.

I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.

I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.

coming from.a guy, he is a frigging liar! move on! he is not into you.

the lady go gree first naa!

why na inside church you propose? you stole the show from the bride n groom. ju man.

Jasen1:
Belle go pain some people now sha

ndi ofe most especially.

issa long tin

fly like a butterfly, sting like a bee.

na only that assna jersey she suppose burn.

DonBenny77:
Ororo is in tears now
See what he's missing

my people this here is how poor people reason.

long tin

That's because you are a tyrant!

Animal

dannyla:
I pray for wisdom because when you're in a predicament, you find it hard to think well so I appreciate everyone who helped/is helping me think. Thanks for the contributions and advices, both the kind and angry sounding ones. I appreciate the time and effort.

I'll find a way to quietly walk away from him.

find keh! I dont think you are alright. with all you just told us u are still planning to 'find a way'?

good luck with your life. I hate hearing/seeing foolish people.

fish brain!

Federal High Court

Nigeria is dead.

rubber stamp Senate president.

Gbam!

our prayers are working!

karma!

all those that opened cage for the hungry hyena should get ready to face it.

naijaschoolguru:
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present sir

you mean pellets.

sorry!

oyaaa:
Well giving tithes and offering was never by force
He never said it was neither does the bible say so

who is talking about tithe?