₦airaland Forum

GamalNasser:
What is Buhari planning?

islamisation.

again?

Tomjazzy2:
The incident and the resultant death

how is the incident avoidable?

Omotayor123:
Met this guy late September, he was in for loving doving and all. Told me I was the perfect definition of what he was looking for in a bride.

This is a well to do single man with chains of businesses, cars, a good house & also working for mining company. He is Responsible disciplined and religious.
Bottom line is He's what any lady would be glad to have.

The thing is, He had problems with his bae & wanted to find solace and comfort with me, forget his Fiancee and moved on.

I could have taken Advantage of their situation, played the Angelic Good wife, hold him tight, pretend to tolerate all his mess & made him forget totally about his bae.
But I see it as a challenge I have to overcome.
Why

I had issues with my fiance, he left to find comfort in the hands of another girl. The girl jumped on the opportunity without hesitation, played the perfect babe and the rest is history...

I couldn't do the same to another girl, i know how heartbreak & betrayal feels.
so I decided to help them for I know their issue isn't beyond repair.

I took my time to let the guy know I am not perfect and equally have my flaws.
I made him see reason why he shouldn't give up and run to a comfort zone each time his relationship has issues.
Their issue was just communication breakdown & lack of understanding. They could fix it if they really want to and ready to shift grounds...

And now, I'm grateful my efforts played off, with my coaching, he realized he was making a mistake taking the risk of throwing a 3 years relationship away for another one which the outcome is yet unknown.

Now they are back Together, settled all differences and their wedding date is set.
I just received an IV to attend their wedding holding on 18th of January 2020.

If i had entered their Picture, it may be impossible or almost imposssible for this great feat to happen.

I couldn't be more proud of myself.

Ladies This Year Let's help ourselves out!
Don't take Advantage of other people's situations
Don't be the reason why a relationship or marriage breaks totally.
Don't let Despiration push you into hurting others.
May God help us, Give us the best of partners and not make us a stumbling block to the happiness of others.

I did well right


Sorry for the Long Epistle
Cc. Lalasticlala help push to Front Page, Let others Learn.
lalasticlala
farano

the guy ugly abi?

Tomjazzy2:
This is sad and avoidable

what is avoidable?

Pascopele:
how do you know the bolded?

because he is.

you mean 6000 church members.

pesin whey Buhari go release tru d back door? the yeye community for roast the animal b4 police show.

cook for her

damn!

Mrsprissy:
Good evening my brothers and sisters in the house. First , I am not a troll . I've been a member on NL since 2008 and am very active, but I prefer using a new account for my story to seek advice and also learn from other experienced people in this great group.

On christmas day hubby and I were invited to attend a special dinner at his friend's house and I picked a nice outfit for him to wear on the day, he wore another outfit, a t shirt and jeans his every day clothes so I asked him politely to go and change, he got angry at me and told me to keep quiet and he went inside.

He was in our room for an hour while the kids and I were still waiting for him, I even sent the kids in their room to play, he later came out he only changed his top but didn't changed the trousers and trainers. I had decided not to say anything for peace to reign, so as we were leaving, I asked him if we could take a family picture, he just snapped and slapped me and started beating me up so badly, he only stopped because my children were screaming and crying for him to stop.

I am so pained because before the incident happened, we were fine, no quarrel at all, I just don't understand his reasons for beating me like this and I swear to God, I didn't say something to make him this angry, he left me there and went out, his friend later called to know if we were still coming because he couldn't reach hubby on the phone, I told him we are coming.

I cleaned myself, changed my clothes and I left with the kids to his friend's house, to my surprise he was already there, we acted like everything was normal and I tried hard to stop tears coming because I was in pained.

For the past 3 days he has been acting as if I did wronged him, he doesn't talk to me, he doesn't eat my foods and he left the room and he is now sleeping in our son's room. I just don't know what to do again

Boom! you just realised you married an immature brat. Sorry.

Le124:
You are the one who is ignorant here, sabbath day was observed b4 the death of christ and he rose up on Sunday , after been crucified on Friday, quote author=lomprico post=85312646]so many ignorant people in Africa. Why does MFM not hold their service on saturday (sabath) that is the day God tested. just like Christmas, Sundays are days set aside for pagan worship.

lol, see mumu, who rose it up?

go and research on the history of the church. the roman catholic church made sunday the official day of worship so as to counter the sun worshippers for doing their worship on that day. go an do research ignoramus.

so many ignorant people in Africa. Why does MFM not hold their service on saturday (sabath) that is the day God tested. just like Christmas, Sundays are days set aside for pagan worship.

ok, we'll just resume in 2020.

why is he in abuja?

alimaa:
Please I need a piece of advice on how to handle this situation.

I have a very close friend and his wife has asked for financial assistance severally and I obliged. The problem I have here is what will my friend think if he should be seeing a bank alert from me on his wife's phone?

The woman has been calling my line since the beginning of this month which I have continued to ignore. She would later send text asking for financial help and this kind of situation is very confusing because you might report to her husband and they will both turn the whole thing against you.

Please what should I do?

tell your friend. you should have even told him before sending the first one you did.

GamalNasser:
Whether we like it or there is a Jihad currently going on in Nigeria and the FG is aware

And buhari is funding it.

Mike4S:
No, I just packed in there

Na your landlord or caretaker!

Change all the locks.

olril17:
Those who proudly supported, justified & rationalize the
unlawful incarceration of the duo: Omoyele Sowore & Dasuki
Are now celebrating & commending the FG for their release.
May we never be unstable, stupid and senseless like the
Buharists.

as innnnnnn

eyaaa

sick Bleep

WIZGUY69:
8 years 26 millie $
Oluwa! Wetin de happen?

you are in a wrong continent. that's what's wrong.

Lordswazz:
How do single guys get women they date and marry? How do people find lovers? are they all prostitutes?

Being married doesn't make you repulsive to to girls. Lots of men have had lovers, since time immemorial, that are very much in love with them and not just for money. People that even call them often just to "hear their voice because they miss them". Na them dey restrict the girl sef from constant communication. Sex can be gotten by any man if he really desires at the cost of mainly his affection.

Girls don't mind putting in some work to gain the affection of an industrious man. Na when nothing dey you go do 100% of the toasting and chasing.

will the said lover allow him.have sex for free? yes or no?

mechanics:
It's even unscriptural for someone to impregnate a woman before marriage, his parents are right, attending the wedding means you are supporting illegality.

but u listen to wizkid, davido, tuface, etc. when born scatter everywhere without marriage.
abeg fuckoff.

mikezuruki:
Is It Proper For Me As A Friend Attend This Engagement?

I will make this short as possible.

I will be attending a friend of mine engagement party today who happened to have impregnated the girl before marriage plan. That wasn't his plan. His parents didn't give their blessings hence they are not showing up for the engagement party.

Is it right for me as a friend to show up for something like this that was not blessed nor consented by the parents of the groom to be?

What do you think? mature ones please

and you called yourself a friend?

good for him, that goes to.all parents that their kids dont have home training.

marvel2011:
Mine does the same thing but I give God the glory because I now occupy my heart with things that makes me serve God the more. I am not a slave to sex!

eyaaa

Lordswazz:
Just as women won't tolerate a broke man, a well-to-do man should not tolerate being sex-starved by his wife. The average comfortable man is a woman magnet. If you can't use it to get as much sex as you want from willing and younger girls, and rather wait for anytime heaven touches your wife to bless your luck, you go die for konji. I am tired of men with ample means complaining of being sex-starved and having blue balls.

No wonder unmarried lovers have more sex on average than married people. Go out and get your fill my brother. The world is at the feet of any man who has means and knows how to use it. Just stay away from prostitutes sha.

so where will he get his fill from if not prostitutes?

officialfestus:
Update: no fire services from Benin till now(Benin only have 1 working fire service truck that is normally parked at ring road round about and whenever you Call them for emergency it is always they don't have water that you should be patient they'll try and go to ikpoba river for water) and the whole of the market is finished,the only fire service that came was from warri and they were told to go back and the fire has entered the EDPA building,soldiers are around to control the crowd

go back keh?

when they have finish converting this village, Pentecostal poachers will target them and also call it evangelism.

perfect bait!

go to SARS, they will chop your money but will track it for u.