₦airaland Forum

chazon:
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals.
Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever.
When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations).
She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public.
I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her.
I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays.
She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences.
We do not yet have a child together.

Did I overreact??
How do I deal with this situation
Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people

It's a good thing you don't have a child yet. Dump her arrogant azs ASAP!

6ixVille:
Planning to get an apartment close to my work and im planning to use to my 3months salary for rent. Is this advisable and economical?

If your 3 months salary can't pay your rent, you are living in the wrong house.

I wonder why the mods are dragging feet to push this to the front page?

As long as it creates employment, fine.

But this drink is not what Nigerians need now.

So una know say una been dey marginalize south east all these while?

Na their useless leaders I blame sha.

Please release MNK!

NANS dey busy dey fight for who Dem go include for Dubai largesse.

This country is finished!

Adebayofficial:
Fellow Nairalanders,

I am writing this article with great pain in my heart. The unethical and abusive culture of the management of the school where I teach is second to none.

After a successful interview and negotiation with verbal promises of benefits on the job, I started this teaching job at a school located at Makoko Area, Yaba in March, 2023 but since then, no benefit has come forth rather the school owner, Mr. ***** negotiate the payment for extra school lesson with parents and paid me a meagre #5000/month.

This is a school where class teachers are not allowed to communicate with parents because of the school owners' dubious nature.

Sometimes in August, I approached the school to complain about the unfavourable work environment, and workload because I was teaching Mathematics and Further Mathematics for seniors, IGCSE Mathematics for seniors and Geography for seniors too but a meeting was scheduled immediately and I was harassed by the school owner who said it openly that "If dem born anybody well, make dem complain" and the school principal even issued a death threat to me saying that "He can slaughter anyone who wants to destroy his works" the anyone referring to me.

The paltry sum of #7,000 was later added to my salary. This is the same school where I spend an average of #1,200 on tfare daily and the school owner was aware of this from the beginning.

Need I say that he pays salary to any staff he likes at any time in the next month. He looks for every little mistake to deduct from the salary and the height of it is that today is the 5th of December, this man paid my colleagues for November, yesterday evening but left me out. I went to the principal's office to find out why this happened and the next thing the director and the principal did was to start investigating the exact colleague who told me about the November payment. Sometimes, it's as bad as trekking all the way from Mushin to Makoko area, Yaba in the morning and after work.

The Director has sacked more than 15 teachers in the past 2 years for no reason at all, even more than 20 teaching and non-teaching staff members had left the job due to his manipulative, greedy and harassing attitude.

I have a full report, ready to be submitted to all relevant authorities concerning the maltreatment of labour going on here.

Please advice me on what to do and kindly help me to get this to every concerned authorities.

Resign and move on! Reporting him won't make any difference, he will bribe his way out of it. We live in a rotten country.

guobe:
As I went to buy paracetamol at the chemist which cost two hundred naira,my attention was caught by the price of condom and I could not hesitate but snap it.

Condoms are now being sold at 2500, 5000 and 7000 naira a pack.

I was like alot of guys will go raw if they are not able to afford it.

Having sex in Nigeria is now very expensive especially for promisquos men.
The breakdown of expenses include condom 3,000,hotel 20,000,olosho fee 50,000,food and drinks 10,000 naira.Total 93,000 naira .
Promisquos men will learn and they will learn the hard way.

Kiss, love and gold circle is still 200 naira. Na you want flex with durex

99% of Nigerian police are criminals

The 50k is for agbado urchins.

Obidients and atikulates make una commot mind from that money, shishi una no go see.

Na normal nah!

Many of my set in OAU that were rusticated for not meeting 1.00 cgpa that travelled abroad for their studies all gradated with flying colors.

Buhari is so happy now

guobe:
Happy belated birthday to Julius Aghahowa as he turns 41 years old.

Lol, if Julius is 41 then I'm 12.

Make all of us dey craze

Johnbullirabor7:
Good things happen to those that believe in the name of Jesus.its possible

Sorry but you are a fool if you actually think this is real.

Foolishness!

Jesus Christ is ashamed right now.

Lol

codedgalaxy:
I know what you are driving at but, this thread is mainly for those who delibrately avoid sitting at front row in any gathering whatsoever, even if they arrive early enough.

Their choice, just as some people jostle for front seat, and others middle seats.

codedgalaxy:
Are there any hidden benefit's for sitting behind at a gathering, especially in a church.
Its quite baffling to see people who on a daily basis make prophetic declarations like, 'i am the head and not the tail",
" i shall be a leader in my generation" but, when they get to church they run away from the front row seats lol. How do you lead from the back?
.
Which begs the question,
" why do people like sitting behind ?

Why is there back seat in church?

Let him fix benue/enugu, Enugu vawka, ph/aba roads and see igbos sing his praises.

yinkus6750:
Till the project comes to reality.
Let it not be audio project
And hope it will actually be for the masses ?

Since the time of amechi, rivers people don't know what audio is

Urge universities that you are underfunding?

Clueless idiots!

This is why I see red flag whenever anyone introduces himself as a pastor to me. That titled has been bastardized

philipobiz:
If you like change the name. It's like a goat in a sheep's skin.
It's legalised now. It's no news
Do you know that the owner and their children/close relatives don't get involved? That should tell you something about the business.

Most pharmacists don't take some of the drugs they make too.
Top hard drug dealers don't take what they sell

Thanks to buhari and tinubu

iammo:




Netayahun is a coward like Boko Haram

Bombing soft targets, women and children


Idris Derby (RIP) led his Army to war as a President


.

Go and show him where the hard targets are so that he will leave the soft targets alone.

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, Fvck Isreal

You can't be a born again Christian and be using the F word, Saheed! Haba!

Mantul:
Can you make chocolate from the pods? If yes do drop step by step recipe

Google is your friend

Artiiclebeast:
Buses to ply decrepit roads.

A so-called priest who can't distinguish himself from a poorly-rated Ortom in performance and securing the lives and properties of his citizens is a failure in my opinion.

Cluelessness at it's best.

That state is not ready yet.

ryloy:
Is Mark Zuckerberg Promoting Secret Affairs with this New Features on WhatsApp ?

Is this good for safety and security?

Yes!

Llyodsjids:
I do know the current exchange rate is terrible and so the prices of everything especially gadgets have increased significantly
But I'll need recommendations for a smartphone of 250k
I'm a power user so I want a decent battery life, a fast processor, 5G and a decent camera

Redmi products

Omoawoke:
Some people made it look like the igbos owned the entire Lagos

I have said it again and again, quote me anywhere. The entire properties owned by igbos in Lagos no reach 5%. All na noise and empty chest beating

See as una don change color again. When the demolition was going on, agbadorians and urchins were wankíng themselves off with happiness, taunting igbos. Now that this report is out , see switching. SMH.

GRACEGLORY:
After all, most of the Ghanaians don go.



The ugly history of Africa’s most famous bag


President Shehu Shagari issued an executive order in January 1983 compelling illegal aliens to leave the nation or risk being arrested. Shagari's decree resulted in the deportation of almost two million migrants, one million of whom were citizens of Ghana.

And the cheapest bags they could find to hurry out were the sacks, hence, the name, “Ghana must Go”

Was it shagari or buhari?