₦airaland Forum

Lexusgs430:
When I wanted to get married, my mother kicked against my choice.......... I went ahead and married my choice (regardless).........

It's my wedding/marriage, my funds and my life.........

...and your gaddam happiness!

Blaze14k:
I would like to use this opportunity to seek guidance based on the issue I have on ground. I believe it's igbos especially elderly person who is in a better position to give me a reasonable explanation. I told my mum my girlfriend is from ohafia, abia state and she instantly told me I can't get married to her. Her reason is because people from ohafia, arochukwu, izombe, and few other places in abia state are regarded as OSU. I complained to other members of my family but they also rejected her.

I have made some research personally and found out people from other part of igboland marry from those places. Now my question is why are they strongly rejecting her cos it doesn't make sense to call everybody from different local government in abia state OSU.

I've made more research on the girls family and found out they are king makers and her father belongs to eze's cabinet.

Her father and mine are no longer alive. They both have a traditional title and belong to eze's cabinet too. Please I need your advice cos I really want marry this girl. I also know that people encounter alot of difficulties when they want to get married. So I need a clarification from someone who has extensive knowledge on igbo tradition. Thank you

This is 2023 for Pete's sake, what the hell is OSU? If you like don't marry the girl you love because of some archaic belief.

Lol

I thought man U was horrible.

Ever since Ferguson left, it's like every Manchester united loss comes with a record breaker!

Man U is not yet ready this season.

WTF, WTF WTF!

Shock kill all of them there!

Wainey:
Niger people told you they are happy with the coupist abi?
You didn't see the anti-junta forces that rose recently, are they not from that same Niger? You didn't see the media house that was closed down because they talked about the coupist, those media house are from Gabon abi?

Holding a democratic president and his family in captivity in this modern world and you want Ecowas to keep silent about it. Oloriburuku

You are either a baby in international politics or just a follow follow dunce. Either way, you know nothing about what's really going on in Niger, so I'm done with you. Go to war with Niger, whatever you find take it.

He married his kidnap victim

StudyBarn:
Hey halfwit not everything is about politics, I voted for a new Nigeria but You're not only being callous you are also an idiot, she suffered heartbreak and public collapse of her marriage. Now run along half man

Hope you are enjoying your new nigeria

pek:
I am sure you are writing this out of either hatred, misinformation or bias. If you know his story well, you won't have written this.

Hate for what abeg?

Wainey:
I shake my head for you.
It's obvious politicians treats us this way cos of people that reason like this.

Goodbye

Shake it for yourself.

Niger as a country are happy with the cupist, leave them to sorth thier issue by themselves why do you want to attack them and cause unrest in the entire region which Nigeria will bear the most of the problem.

War monger!

Wainey:
So they can hold the democratic president and his family captive but their own family shouldn't be in the country when the fight starts.

Just listen to your self.
it's obvious you are either an Agbodo-rian or Obidient.
Cos na these two group deh always reason this way

It's a coup nigga! Nigeria have experience it more than 3 time bloody and bloodless! My political affiliation has nothing to do with this. No where in history have any country been invaded by external forced because they carried out a coup! Ecomog if for peace keeping and not to start wars. The citizens of Niger are happy with the coupist, why are you drinking Panadol for thier headache?

If you are troubled that they are flying thier families out, go and target and kill them yourself since that is what you want.

I thought they have all kissed and made up?

Where is this one coming from?

Anyway I don't doubt any allegation of "men of god" preying on young ladies. 99% of them are guilty even when the sheepish society support them.

The other popular pastor in PH will be laughing in his mind right now. Chibuzor is his rival.

Christians indeed!

Wainey:
So their family doesn't deserve to die?
And just last week they were busy recruiting Niger citizens above 18yre to join and fight meanwhile their own families can't even stay in the country.

I cry

During election campaigns do your politicians leave their families in the country?
It's war and like I said their families will be thier enemies #1 target. Moreover they did not call for war.

Zee0007:
Sorry to say. The cream De la Creams have no respect for our laws.

The laws were not made for them

Carmall:
Cowards!
They didn't believe in their abilities.

Selfish individuals.
So, their family deserves better than other citizens...

Their families will be the enemy's target. It's all strategy of war, as long as they themselves remain to fight the war.

Quota system products. Idiot!

Joke of the Century!
I was not even forgiven before I posted this.

Lol, when Nigeria wanted you, you said you were from Togo and your Yoruba is not Nigeria's yoruba. What have now changed? Anyway you are welcome to identify with your roots but you are useless to us now.

Is Niger at war? Why invade it?

SonofGod231:
The word "masseur" Mr.man...Masseuse is for females....Just take correction and move on.

Yes sir

He who brings ant infested wood to his home................

Samantha124:
He was just doing his job and he was very professional.

Akuko

Chetas81:
Morally damage citizen with their ridiculous post, what can we learn from this

Go to encyclopedia if u wanna learn.
Nairaland is for everi, the good, bad, ugly, ridiculous inspiring and non inspiring. Every damn thing.

Samantha124:
The first time a man did a massage on me was kinda weird, but I calmed myself down and enjoyed it..

These people are just doing their job, nothing more.

So no happy ending?

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Not bad

But 85 percent of massage from male masseur always end up in passionate sex if the woman should be in her ovulation period

They call it happy ending.

I'm a good masseuse so she will be getting all massage from me.

Hoeism 101

It's reasons like this that ladies in their 40s are still not married,
Ladies snatching or sharing 'rich' men from their wives
Why prostitution aka hookup is on the increase
Why Yahoo plus and other vices are on the increase cos guys want to meet up.

Tiwa, I'm a fan and have a crush on you but this your advice no follow.
#disappointed

Versitee:
Good evening all.

Please my husband wants to covert some of the rooms in our hose to self con and rent it out.

We have just 1 tank of 3k litres. Bringing in tenants means we have to buy another tank but we don't have enough money for the renovations and the extra tank.

We either renovate, and rent out without connecting water. Tenants will have to fetch using the backyard tap. In that case rent will be 120.

Or we get a loan and buy a tank and connect. Then rent will be 180k.


What do we do?

N/B. my husband wants to collect the rent monthly and not yearly.

Why not connect the current tank to the new apartment, when the person pays, you change the tank?

At least he dint go there to mine for natural resources

Oga COAS how did that helicopter crash, was it due to rain true true?

money121:
Good news

Good lies

RALPHOW:
Tinubu is trying to protect our gas pipe line to Europe across Niger Republic.
Why will junta suspend our agreement and trashed
our hope of Trillion Naira expected from the deal.
Anyway , war is not the solution.
Asiwaju should use more diplomatic routes.

The gas pipeline is not really the issue, it's Uranium. America is blackmailing tinubu to do their bidding.
ECOWAS don't invade and have never invaded a sovereign nation, they only interven during war to bring peace. Niger is not at war with themselve or any nation, why then the treats of ECOWAS military invasion. That's American's style.