₦airaland Forum

lovediehatelive:
So I decided to spend the weekend at my uncle's place because it has been many years I went there.


In the midnight, around 1am, I heard the television was on and I thought he forget to put it off.


So I went to the living room only to see his son of about 4-5 years old watching cartoon. I was shocked and asked him to go and sleep, which he grudgingly agreed.


Now, early morning around 5am or so, same thing happened. I want to the living room and saw him there.


This time he refused to go to bed.


I later found out that's how he does. I wonder if he ever sleeps at night.

The parents are not even bothered, but I'm worried. When we were growing up, who are you to stay awake past 9pm watching TV? Not to talk about waking up at night. Even in the day time you better not be caught idling away on front of the TV when others are busy.

This one just comes to the living room anytime he likes and puts on the TV.

Is this how kids of nowadays behave?

It's how the parents are raising them.

Pesin whey don fail finish

YelloweWest:
Did she take money from him? Did she ever ask him for money?

She's a hoe. Your mother's a hòé, you said it yourself. Since any woman who asks her man for money is one.

Lol, you are changing the narrative!
My mama dint ask pops for transport when he invited her over.


I dont know why you are upset over your hoeism. If you don't like being called one, then stop hoeing! It's that simple.

YelloweWest:
By your analogy:

If your mother ever took money from your father, she a hoe.

If your father never gave money to your mother his a completely useless infidel. A complete waste!

So it's either you are utterly stupïď (assuming the above in not true about your parents), or you can from a hoe and an infidel.

Which one is it?

My mom didn't ask for transport fare when my dad asked her to visit. Kapish!

Patientiskeyy:
RIP to him

Her

YelloweWest:
You don't f**k the company tho

And if you get a job, the company pays you a salary!

Besides, do you know how much hair, nice dress and perfume costs? It take money to look good for your man. The least he could do is pay for tp...

Any man you can't pay tp and a meal should stay single till he can bring something to the table.

Why not find a job instead of Hoeing?
Since the only reason a guy will invite you over is for sex.

Tayorshd87:
From a friend though


Am the last born in my family and there are too many ups and downs and wahala in my family because it was a polygamous home and my father was one of the man I mistakenly ever met on earth and unlucky for me he is my father 😭😢
So how I wish I should start my life with my own fresh lineage from my wife and children. Like I don't want to be part of the father tree again.

I gave birth 3days ago and I don't want my son to bear my surname 🤔 I want my own name to be his surname so my father lineage will be cut off
☹️

Please is there any future implications in this decision?
Or rather something bad behind this decision??

Thanks 😌

None at all. Go ahead and do as you wish.

Na banks dey enjoy tinubu FX flexibility so Dem suppose settle thier staff. Zenith has increased thier staff salaries

Moving nuclear bombs!

Who advises this people sef?

Candidlady:
Same way your mum won't stop defending her market ba ?

Exactly!

tonytony208:
If you have to wait on the person you are dating for transport fare, then you are a broke wretched bitch.

If the only thing men think about when they invite you is sex, then it means that's all you are good for.

It isn't my fault that sex is the only thing that makes you relevant.

TKO! Ouch! This is gonna hurt.

Candidlady:
Hmmmm




While broke men are the problem of this world... Rubbish

A hoe will always defend here trade

saphiere:
Any man who invites a lady to his house and does not provide transportation fare is more useless than the lady who asks for transportation money. Why would you initiate a visit if you are not ready to take the responsibility?

Does a Company that invites you for interview give you transport fare before coming?

Revolution2022:
US soldiers wont be killed this way.Before they will invade the fulani bandits location they will use binocular to view their location from afar and use sniper rifle to take down the key targets one by one before they will move into the community.I am not sure that nigerian military have this tactics not to talk of the weapon.

Lol, you watch too much movies

JagabanBorgu:
Compare house rent in the USA to that in Nigeria, compare the various taxes u pay to that in Nigeria, compare medical bills, compare tuition fees for children too.
When u compare like that, you won't be screaming anyhow.
There are many many ways to demand improvement from the government not being hypôcrîtical

Why not do the comparison and show us, otipoju has done his do your own or shutdafuckup!

NeckingNgulping:
Nah, money borrowed from the bank accumulates an exorbitant 18.75 interest rate.. So, if you borrow 100k for example, you're going to pay 18,750 as interest.

E no reach wetin loan sharks dey charged na! 35%

godwon01:
Those borrowings money from the bank will pay high interest on the money. It is not a good news for business people and those borrowings money to buy house.

Chai! Tifnubu wants to recover what he spent b4 he is kicked out

Ayam not undastanding !

Izit dat money deposited accumulates 18.75% interest rate or I dunno

Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?

Give her belle!

A typical depiction of what Nigeria is today. Shame!

Everybody wan collect!

Oyindamolah:
From DM

I be engineer, I can't advice you, do as your spirit leads

ManirBK:
Davido why you fuccckup

Na David sing the song?

FreeStuffsNG:
They will resume this morning to find their shops sealed. This is state power at work; after God na govt according to Portable. Check my signature for free stuffs!

Why can't the government flush out the terrorists, why punish the terrorized instead of the terrorists?
You think the shop owners closed their shops out of solidarity? They closed shops out of fear of what the terrorists will do to them. Instead of the government to do the needful, they are punishing the bussiness owners.

You leave the mosquito whey dey cause malaria dey punish the pikin whey cover himself with net.

Useless government.

ipobarecriminals:
laudable but it can't work.

He just wants to collect his share, every new IG says this. Its renewal of subscription for the VIPs. Once they withdraw yours, you go and pay to get them back simple.

Shithole country!

Bvlgari:
Pls nairalanders, what is the important of this hole pls?

For balance and rigidity

Christistruth03:
Even Peter Obi knows that he lost the Election and that he is not even Challenging Atiku at all

Better atiku than the drug lord on that seat.

Christistruth03:
This is the Truth

This same US faulted the election, una dey cry foul.

Confused oaf.

Highest na PH city Dem go terrorise

LewisHamilton15:
Late last year, the company I worked with decided to reduce workers as a result of the high inflation. I happened to be one of the victims of the mass reduction.

I decided to use my little savings to buy a tricycle so I can be using it to do town service but my fiancee outrightly rejected such idea stressing that my societal standing is above that. After intense argument I went ahead and bought the tricycle. Since that day she has not picked my calls, call me or come to visit me.

I have moved on.

Move on! You dodged a bullet.

No matter the salary you earn, with the decline of the country's economy, people will still adapt. People will complain, wail, protest, even riot at the instance things gets worst but if the government is insensitive, wicked and greedy like the one we have, they people will fall back and adapt to the changes.

As long as Nigerians keep adapting to wicked policies by the government, things will continue to get worst.

@the question, even if you are earning 5million each month you are no longer as rich as you were last year. E touch everybody!