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Danielhouston:
To add, if you intend to study nursing in Germany and relocate to another country to work, say US or UK, you should know that you may have difficulty settling into the system of the other country. Example is the language barrier in your studies.
The medical terms you’ll learn in Germany will be in German language, which you may find difficult in an English speaking country. Also the medical laws are different. You’ll have your license to practice but you’ll need to re-learn many things. Except you want to open your own clinic and do it your way.

This is why German medical practitioners would rather relocate to an EU country like Switzerland to practice, than US. Except for the ones who also studied in US, for example or studied in English at some point.

This is also why it is hard to find an English speaking psychologist or therapist in Germany. Because they studied in German language and would rather work 100% in German even if they speak English. They don’t feel efficient in another language. This affects foreigners who need therapy.

Nice advice from an OG...jooor

tensazangetsu20:
Stop calling yourself a junior. Call yourself a front end developer.

I just commenced a 4 months Software Engineering course at STUTERN Sha! I'll be learning JavaScript ( MERN STACK ) and my main aim is to either relocate to Europe with my skill or to work for a foreign Company while I stay in Nigeria and earn in foreign currency!!....it's more like a 4yr plan for me cos I still don't know how possible it will be for a Software Engineer ( after I graduate ) who is fresh out of training to get a foreign/relocation job

Rules7:
Where the STURTEN dey boss where u apply.

Google am na

SocialJustice:
You made a mistake by dating a poor girl, maybe you enjoy how her family worships you. This might sound hard but the truth is you should endeavour to date only girls that are in same income bracket with you. You don't get to see a lot of shit unlike when you're dating a low/no income girl. Don't let her big yansh or breast fool you. There are also high earning big yansh and breast.

The only draw back with educated, high earning girls in most cases is they see themselves as your equal.

It's not true...it's 50 50 ....cos even some girls without primary School cert still sees themselves as equals God help us my brother

Xj2020:
Yes. In my own case she deliberately got pregnant for me and I had no choice than to marry her thinking it was right thing to do. See my story below https://www.nairaland.com/5922955/how-cope-ill-mannered-housewife

If you are good you are good, and if you are bad you are bad. You might hide your bad side for a while. However, it is only a matter of time before everything would come out to the open. The Big Brother Show is a perfect example.
My story is that of a young chap that fell in love and got married to the women of his supposedly dream with kids. From day one till date, my beloved wife has been anything but a good housewife. She doesn't give me peace of mind. Always looking for ways to provoke me.
My wife isn't submissive. She is abusive and unappreciative of all I have done and have been doing for her and the children. This is even though the financial burden of the house has been mine 100% from the beginning to date. This is a woman that does not want to do any kind of work if it is not a government job. I have provided her with everything she asked for and even those things she didn't ask for. This woman has never lacked anything in my house to date
My beloved wife insults me in the presence of our kids. Mind you, I don't smoke, drink, and womanize. Neither have I laid my hands on her or intend on laying my hands on her. This is a woman I help with house chores like sweeping, washing the bathroom and toilets, and mobbing the house at my leisure time.
This woman has taken sides against in the time past when I had a misunderstanding with some persons outside. This woman isn't scared to insult my parents every time we have a misunderstanding. My mother-in-law isn't helping matter as she has continued to instigate her daughter against me.
I have finally decided to move out of the house for the now and see how things play out. If things don't improve, then I would have no choice than to seek divorce. Notwithstanding, the children would continue to be my responsibility.
Mature advice would be highly appreciated.

Any matured advice would be highly appreciated from the house.

It would interest the house to know that I am under 40 years old and a PhD. D holder in XXXXX in one of the foremost and most prestigious Federal University in Nigeria where I lectures. I have a First honours in XXXXXX in the same university. I was among the top three best graduating student in my Department and was adjudged best student in WASCE during my secondary school days; Best graduating student in my Department at the OND level before seeking and gaining direct entry admission into a Federal University; Won an award for best student at the 300 level in my Department that year. I was a committed member of Deeper Life despite coming from a Muslim. I still remember how my brother and I used to sneak out the house just for rehearsal that year. I was a member of the youth choir that year and I can still remember playing an active role in evangelizing and teaching search the scripture that year. I still remember going to music class that year and playing an active role in my school fellowship. Everything I am experiencing today is 100% my fault. How could I have fallen in love so blindly and got married to a member of a sect called "Grail Message: In the Light of the truth" without a comprehensive background check. Yes, she got pregnant for me outside wedlock which I take 100% responsibility for but still I shouldn't have allowed her cajoled and pushed me into marrying her talk less of having a court wedding. Do you know that this woman is holding on to the fact that she has children for me and that we did court wedding to do whatever she liked with full support from the mum. Do you know that this woman is very good at reporting everything that happens in my home to her mother? She wants a government job and nothing else. I tried my possible best to get her into my institution without success and she knows this. A woman that has never lack anything since we got married but has never been grateful for once in her life for all I have done to keep the home running. A woman that sees the family problem as solely my problem. I have been a member of Nairaland for years but decided to open this account to keep my identity private. I know for sure that if she happens to stumble on this thread she would definitely put 2+2 together to arrive at the conclusion that I am behind this thread. However, I do not care what she thinks or do anymore. I have already told her yesterday that I am through with her and I mean it. I still believe however that it isn't too late to change the narrative of my life. For all the guys’ out there forming 'I am in love' please and please open your eyes before you take that step to settle down with the woman of your dream as that lady could either make or mar you for life.

Good day sir as much as I wanna speak as regards to the almost similar experience my dad has with my step mum I don't think I'm qualified because number one I'm not married and number 2 I'm still young ( 28 ) I guess the best thing is for you to speak with my DAD cos he will advice you based on his experience that's if you don't mind!!! .....and on leaving the house I would not recommend that!!! Cos my dad left the house on 4 occasions ...and he still came back she was even saying " No be today you don dey comot for house ...when you're tired you'll come back " please sir I would advice you speak to my dad....I'm sure you won't regret it...... You can send me a mail and I'll give my dad's contact to you....hmmmm God help me in his thing called marriage

Midex88:
Baba, is it possible for a commercial student. Economics to do programming course

Even someone who has never seen the 4 walls of a secondary school can go into Programmimg

Julius209:
I took my time to read from page one to the end and all I can say is that youths, particularly graduates are going through hell in this country.
My own story is a little bit long but I will try as much as possible to summarize it .
i was born and brought up by my Grandma in a remote village in Oyo state .My parent parted ways since when i was 2years old owed to the fact that my mum was a muslim while dad was a christian .My dad is a drunkard who doesn't care about children. I Struggled to finished my secondary school at the age of 19 year-old but because of passion i have for academic and the fact that there is no a single graduate in my family I decided to further my education so I took the bold step and left the village unceremoniously for Lagos at least to gather some money before I gain admission since there's no sponsorer .When I got to Lagos I didn't think twice before I started riding okada since i already knew how to ride okada(motorcycle ) right from the village .Somebody may ask me how do you cope with the accommodation in Lagos? (anyway, I was sleeping inside a shop with my fellow okada boys then) thou we paid the shop owner every week as we all know, there is no free things in lagos.fast forward to 2016 I wrote jamb , scored 192 and I was admitted to a state polytechnic in ibadan .I struggled to finish my OND in 2018. did my one-year IT in one insurance company in Lagos last year so during the course of the IT I took another jamb and I was admitted to University of Lagos so now I am 24years old in 100l. It was not an easy journey but I vehemently believe that I am going somewhere in life as someday said I am also a work in progress presently now, I am putting my eyes on programming and graphics designing .

Bro you're 24yrs of age and you're young and getting it...the future is bright ...and there's nothing stopping you!!.... It's so amazing how you can sit , chill , relax and look around your family and decide to make a change going against all odds!!! You are brave , bold , reasonable and unique! In a country where we have people who go into drugs all in the excuse say them no get person to advice them here you are doing the opposite!!! You too much baba.....don't relent ooo cos you have no choice than to forge ahead ahead!! Ahead!!!.... I heard you say Programmimg!!! Bro you see why I so love your type!!! You seek for information on how to better yourself life!!! And I'm so proud of you!!! Bro make sure you go into Programmimg with all your heart...guy you go chop money tire!!! And if it's Graphics you wanna go into I did advice you choose UI/UX DESIGN..... Bro I'm 28yrs of age just finished NYSC last year and I ain't looking back!! I studied Computer Engineering( mad a 2:2 ) in school but you know the educational sector is I just enrolled into A Software Engineering Program( JavaScript to be a full stack Engineer) at STUTERN....after the training which would last for4 to 6 months ... I Know I would be able to get a junior Developer role at least for a start of maybe 150 to 180K....THE beauty isn't the beginning the joy is in the progress cos tye more time goes the more your worth increases ...and in 4yrs you are being seen as a senior level Software Engineering or Developer OR Senior UI/UX Designer/Product Designer....that time na like 400K you go dey collect....cos with just 2yrs experience your pay should be like 200K that's in a tech startup but if it's a big organization baba e will be more....Baba you go begin apply for foreign jobs and they would sponsor you over to come abroad!!! Or if you like you can stay here and work for foreign companies and earn Forex!!! People go think say you dey do blood money which is the truth cos IT is the new blood money!! Don't relent bro!!! Everything is working fine for you BABA!!! TUALEEEEEE!!!!!

UrFears:
Thanks for the head up

You're welcome bro

Akiliogidi:
Thanks for ur detailed explanation. Since there's job in the waiting(which is my main target), i might consider ur option, that's the most realistic for me .

Yeah bro!! Cos with the way Nigeria is currently and with the way it will be...it takes does with in demand skills to stay relevant...just looks at the way people lost their jobs but those in the CORE IT sector where not affected!!! ....but I have to also tell you after the course you wouldn't just fold your hand and wait for STUTERN to get you a job oooo you can also send out applications by yourself cos so many IT job vacancies are out everyday on the internet here in Nigeria ....so in as much as STUTERN would link you up with jobs you still have to send out your won CV....it's a venture I know I won't regret

BelieverDE:
Are you sure an individual would be able to learn these in four months?

Ah ah B4 nko! Well some schools teach it for 12 months ( Semicolon ) some for 6 months ( Decagon ) I also know Code360 is for 4 months too.....well STUTERN is cool cos I've seen how their 1st set of students are now working in respectable firms.....and STUTERN is the cheapest in all of them now see

Semicolon charges 1.3M or so as tuition fees for 12 months or so but if you cannot afford the tuition fees you can be trained then when you get a job the total amount you will pay monthly from your job everything is sums up to 2.3 million naira


Decagon charges 2Milliin naira for tuiuon fees but if he cannot afford the fees you have to apply then if they find you interesting they will invite you to their boot camp which last for I think either one week or two weeks.... Getting into their boot camp doesn't guarantee that you will make it into their training but if you make it into their training after the boot camp you will be trained for six months in the course of the six months training you will be given a brand new laptop a free accommodation for six months with constant light and a stipend of 40000 Naira per month for 6 months then after the training when you get a job what you will be paying to decagon in three years is the total of 3 million naira


Code360 this one seems to be sheep their tuition fees 350000 naira for 4 months but if you cannot afford the fees and you get into the training once you get a job after the training the total amount of money you will be paying back is 1 million naira

At STUTERN in which I'm currently enrolled in their tuition fees 430000 naira but if you cannot pay the fees at once you have three options see the training is for 4 months the second option is to either pay #110000 per month for the next four months while the third option of which I am making use of is that you once you get admitted into the program you pay an enrollment fee of 73520... Then once you get a job he will be paying 15% of your salary for 24 months you can see it very affordable that's why I chose them

UrFears:
is UI/UX design profitable?

You can make your research bro!!! Money isn't everything but it's something Sha ....any field you choose to go into requires a thorough research cos it will likely be a career for you....and by the way all the fields I mentioned there are all lucrative weda you are in 9ja or abroad.... IT is so sweet in the sense that for instance in Software even if you travel out of 9ja you don't need to write any qualification exam he will just be employed and start working instantly..... that's the beauty ...and by the way I just started the training this month Sha!!! And I must confess it's been interesting and challenging

Akiliogidi:
Bro how far? Pls , i want to know how much it will cost to enroll for d software engineering course? & do they really offer employment after the course?

The cost is 430K and it's for 4 months ...but they have 3 modes of payment either you pay 430K which is the full tuition fee or you pay 73 500 as enrollment fee after you get admission then after the training and you get a job you pay 15% of your salary for 24 months... You can check them online it's called STUTERN'S they are good abeg!!! Here are the courses they offer UI/UX DESIGN , FRONT END DEVELOPMENT , ANDROID DEVELOPMENT , DATA SCIENCE/MACHINE LEARNING , SOFTWARE ENGINEERING

Danielhouston:
Seems like a great plan. Take your time and go for it. Germany is always open whenever you’re ready. With the recent protests against racism, things are definitely shifting in the right direction and things will get better in Germany. That includes visa regulations for black countries. A lot of these laws they have, are a product of systemic racism and we’re trying to fight it.

Germany had the largest crowd in the world for the #Blacklivesmatter protest, after the US. Lots of discussions are being held in the senate to combat discrimination and systemic racism. I can tell you that from next year, things will get better for those who plan on coming to Germany.
In our recent meeting, I brought up the fact that Africans have to pay 3 million in a blocked account before they’re allowed to study in Germany, but international students from white populated countries are exempt. We will keep fighting the system.

Also try to learn German language, while you’re in Nigeria. Even if it’s just level A1. It would definitely give you a better chance of visa/permit when you want to settle in Germany, through whatever means you decide. Just get the certificate. It does not expire and you won’t lose anything. Good luck my friend.

Thanks so much Bro!! God bless!! Once in a while I'll hit you up .ame my Germany Dream dey alive jareeee!!! Lols

Danielhouston:
Thanks. I just get a notification that someone is trying to send me an email and I have to reply to them.

Btw, Lordally, I read your comment and it was really beautiful. I hope you make it to Germany or anywhere else and I pray God keeps blessing your uncle. I need that pot of egusi soup

Hahhahahahaahahahhaha my boss thanks for acknowledging my reply it feels so good to get such I appreciate this so much!!! I've always preferred Europe and GERMANY to be precise and it has been like this for a couple of years now....I just enrolled into a software engineering course here in Lagos which will run for 4 months after that I'll get a job as a software engineer here in Lagos....with that I'm giving myself 3yrs or maybe less then I'll start shooting my shot at GERMANY!!! I might even take the Visit Visa route ....I'll just sit down and research more...as for the Pot of Egussi Soup omo no worry yourself , it's a promise I will fulfill thanks so much your thread on NAIRALAND has given me so much insights and has given me a game plan....na make i just work then save up money and start shooting my shot!!

Danielhouston:
Pls can someone tell me how to view messages on Nairaland, sent via email? I just get notifications but I don’t see the messages

You would just have to check your email inbox cos any message sent to you on NAIRALAND via email goes directly into your email inbox

KROGER
I SWEAR THIS GUY IS A GOOD MAN!!! IF HE HAD HIS WAY HE WOULD HAVE BROUGHT ME TO THE US BY HIMSELF ...THIS KROGER EVEN INTRODUCED ME TO HIS CANADIAN FRIEND TO SEE IF HE COULD HELP BUT THAT ONE NO EVEN FOLLOW AT ALL!!!!!

KROGER IS THE MAN ANYTIME ANY DAY

Danielhouston:
Guys I think I’ll drop the hat here. The information I’ve shared will remain here and you can see them any time you want. I hope I have been helpful in some way.
It
I know how vile the internet can be and I try to stay away from negative energy and protect my peace at all cost. I refuse to let the internet be the reason I’m having a bad day in real life. I’d rather focus my energy on something else.

I hope other people can continue from where I stopped and this knowledge we have all gained, will not be in vain. Thank you for participating, thank you for reading, thank you for showing love. Never stop learning, never stop believing and always know that you are enough. If everyone else fails, you can succeed.

To the bullies and attackers, you have not won. The knowledge here is beyond your control. You cannot suppress it and you cannot discredit it. Those who find it relevant will learn from it and dreams will be achieved. Whether you like it or not.

Thank you all,

Daniel

Bro You've just given people that one KEY they need to OPEN MULTIPLE DOORS of breakthrough which is INFORMATION!!! I swear!!!! I would never forget you!!!! .....USA denied me last year December and I planned applying again this September but the pandemic has affected everything....I just got into a Software Engineering training program here in Lagos of which I should be rounding up in 4 months ....with that skill I'll be looking towards Germany .....bro!!! To you this whole thread might mean nothing ...but you have given some people a direction in life!!! Some you have renewed the hope in them...GOD BLESS YOU BABA AND MAKE YOU BIGGER!!! YOU WILL NEVER FALL BUT YOU'LL CONTINUE TO CALL THE SHOTS WHEREVER YOU ARE!!! .....MY uncle Got asylum in US and he has affected my life positively...this software engineering course I'm doing was paid by him....my laptop he sent me money for it...even my TP for the training he has promised to sponsor me ...all these I wouldn't have gotten if he wasn't granted asylum in the US..... DANIELHOUSTON my head to my chest I say once again!!! God bless you!!! If I happen to be in GERMANY in the Future I owe you a pot of Egussi soup!!! I promise!!!! One love bro!!!! cos it takes just ONE GOOD MAN TO MAKE A BREAKTHROUGH and he will make ways for others ..... YOU'RE A GOOD MAN!

Dreyton36:
Email me

I've done that

Dreyton36:
I've been thinking about how this whole covid-19 stuff has been one of the world's biggest disaster with no cure till date and people keep dying like flies everyday
We read about it in the news but most of us don't believe it , we only know about it when a man I a long black coat knocks on our doors , and you're his next victim, we're living in a crazy world with crazy people ..
As for me thank God I've fulfilled my main purpose as a hustler by travelling abroad

What I'm gonna do next after this whole pandemic is over is to get married and have kids, whether the capital is much or not by a man will surely buckle up his shoes as the bill rises

Let's see your own ideas guys , abusive words all also allowed , we're in a crazy world after all , but those with wisdom will know that ideas rule the world cuz two or more heads are better than one
Inbox me for ur visa processings too , very guaranteed

Me going to the USA last year December for a visit to a relative wasn't successful..cos I was denied ....so I had a second plan which is to go for a Software Engineering course in a tech trai Training firm called STUTERN...I applied , took the Test/Task and was given Admission I've paid the enrollment fee.... But the pandemic is kind of delaying them from commencing....so once the Pandemic is over , I should be commencing the course then after that get a good job as a Software Engineer( FULL STACK ) ......IN OTHER WORDS I STILL HAVE THE UTMOST DESIRE TO TRAVEL OUT OF THE COUNTRY ....cos my plan was to apply again this September.......by the way DREY which country are you talking about a Guaranteed visa processing ?

kroger:
Akata wahala sef fit give person high bp

My BOSS Kroger!!!

monfizzy:
I did through marriage. Married in Abuja at AMAC registry Gariki and moved to the U.K. 2months later where I’ve since naturalised. Can still recall how the guys majority northerners where stunned looking at I and my young Caucasian bride all through the day, begging we give them money with the assumption she was rich when she was still a student at the time.

Omo God don butter your bred ooo

HeavenlyCherub:
I was foolish and in love. It breaks my heart too when men call women Gold diggers because they want a man who is financially stable. It’s unfortunate some men were hurt by bad women and now they frown upon women concerning money. Women just want to be provided for, loved, even if you have enough it doesn’t mean it’s time to have side chics.

A large percentage of men too if you pick them up and support them to become what you want them to be. They will leave you for an upgrade or start having side chics. At least if you meet him there you already know his personality as it pertains to money.

I pray God may help us dear. All I want out of life is just to meet a man who not only loves God but fears God. A man who loves me not as I am but as a child of a God. Love is simple but we humans complicate things . When you sow into a woman assure her, provide and strive to you will have a happy home. Nothing is perfect but if God is in the center you can pull through challenges.

You'll meet that Lucky man someday!!! No worry yourself jawe!!! I fit even be the man self ...you no know ooo hahahahha

Oblitz:
I hacked everything. Received her mails, Facebook messages and WhatsApp chats. What I saw enhhhhh! Till today I cannot look at some messages.

Devil dey learn from some naija girls

Which app you use abeg

BISIXCLUSIVE:
Sorry for replying late. Yes I saw the potentials.
1. He is a footballer at Kano pillars.
2. Very cool, calm and a devoted Muslim.
3. He listen to advise and doesn't lie, I so much appreciate that In him.
4. Every churches I go, they told me he is my husband,that I should support him now, things will be roasy soon.
5. He doesn't drink nor smoke, the only thing is women,i understand the fact that no one is perfect, we fight towards that and u knw what? he always tell the truth. He started avoiding women the day I told him a story abt how ladies can destroy once career especially a star.

My sister you don blow abeg!!

Bhorbymills1990:
Belgium Embassy process Estonia Visa here in Nigeria bro ...

Do you know anyone who has gone Tru this route to school!!! Not visit but to school??

Cos I belong to a WhatsApp group...and none used Belgium

Bhorbymills1990:
IF I tell you Fire is Burning on the water just ask me to bring the ashes bro

Apologies bro!!! I should have asked .....oya bring the ashes , the fire , the water and any other necessary thing!!! I'm all ears abeg

Bhorbymills1990:
Yes Estonia don't have embassy in Nigeria but you can still apply for there visa from Nigeria

No you can't ooo you have to go to Neighbouring countries in which they have their embassy in other to apply for a visa eg Egypt , Russia , India etc

BISIXCLUSIVE:
God bless you , exactly my point, it was even roasy and greener according to what i heard,the baba was a boss at Mikano then,she wrecked him after he retired,that was how she left for her state ( Edo). I was suppose to be enjoying my relationship but I was not, I was busy acting like a mother, he was 25 then, I encourage him to go to sch, to stop wearing some certain cloth, to change how he speaks, etc now one mother from no where wants to dominate our life now that we have a good job to cater for ourselves.

Her plan no go work!!! but nawa ooo so you influenced the way he speaks and how he dresses hmm so girls would have said " this one is not my type and then move on to find another never existing Mr perfect "

is it that you saw the potential in him

BISIXCLUSIVE:
Thank you my brother, i pray God grant you a God fearing lady, that will stand by you, you know my presentation earlier could make ppl think I am bad, hmmm, as Yorubas will say , eni ti sango batojue wole koni bawon b'oba koso, I have pass tru alot in my entire 28 years, I will rather fight for what will give me peace of mind, my mum became a single mother of 4 because she was unable to fight and stand on her ground as a first wife, and that will never happen with God by size, I will block anything blockable, reject anything rejectable , the future of my kids is what dictate my nite. I stand to be corrected anytime.

Hahahaha action lady!!