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prince2pac:
Sorry for any grammatical errors firstly..

Ok, I have this friend of mine who is trying to go abroad and study nursing, but the issue here is the country of choice TURKEY. From what I learnt He might not be going there with his kids.

The thing here is, He is confused wether to go ahead with TURKEY or find another good European country..

Please I need your help on deciding which country might be a good option or He should go ahead with the Turkish University for RN..

Please I need your opinions

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lalasticlala Dominique justwise

Does he have plans of using Education as a route to Immigrate out of Nigeria or he just wants to go there and study and come back?

lecturer50:
why are you want to go into yahoo yahoo?
I does not know what to say.
But i will advices you to be a patient till your time came to makes wealth.
Because if you are go into yahoo and you are catch by Efcc,your own have finishes.
But if you are wait for your times,you will be a succeed.
The patience dogs ate the fatter bones.
A bird at hand is worth twice is a bush.

Upon say your name na Lecturer omo you don MURDER ENGLISH MEEEEEEEN!!!! CHINEKEEEEEE MEEHHHH!!!

If it's a single mistake , it's understandable if it is 2 it's still understandable but this one you have mistakes on every line of your sentences except the last one guy you done kill me finish 0ooo

Godsonjolly:
your own is better. Mine spent 1.1m on iPhone , bought house in lekki, bought rx 350 for his mum, another lexus es350, his dad use Gla 350 , his own benz no be for naija, his jnr bro no be for naija, built another house in lag, now he's abroad . Yahoo pays very well but the Karma that comes with it, pass the wealth. I've been tempted to do but I don't have Strength. The Op knows what is right. Is like telling a child don't touch that fire, he knows the fire his bad oo not until he touches it, he won't learn. So let the young man do what he thinks is right. We've pass the era of begging and advising people jare. All man for himself.

I swear if you see as the Dem dey flex life ehn you go mental ooo lolsss but let's tell ourselves the truth... This thing we all shout Karma omo I no too dey reason am cos good things happen to both Good and bad people Fraud is wrong I swear very wrong but what of people wey no do fraud wey poverty won kill And also vice versa so baba Every Aboki with in kettle jawe.... I get person wey dey do Yahoo omo if not for Yahoo na Wretchedness for finish them I swear they were living in an uncompleted building to feed na die they wore wretched clothes to go to uni was a no no.....now with fraud both of them live in Lekki one bought a house the other one rent house get cars bought a Jeep for the mum rented a good house for the mum...I swear so if you want to them to stop what other options do you have to give them?? Na job of 50K per month The only downside of these Yahoo matter be say most of them no dey ever think of investment all they think of is to spend spend spend and spend nothing else...so when the money stops coming they go back to square one...... OMO IF YOU DEY HERE AND YOU DEY DO YAHOO YOUR WATCH WORD SHOULD INVESTMENT INVESTMENT INVESTMENT so you go secure your financial FUTURE!!!

Some people here are saying any investment with Yahoo money dey crash Oga na lie!! Cos even people wey dey invest with legit money for 9ja dey crash ...being the fact that the Nigerian business environment is harsh and tough....so for every business that's thriving , there are lots of them who failed ....take it from someone who has lived all his life growing and assisting my dad in business from Mushin to Oshodi to Ilasamaja to Idumota and now ABA

As for me the G money wey I don enter na SOFTWARE ENGINEERING and na dia I go chop my momey cos Software field would secure you for life I'm currently undergoing a training in SOFTWARE ENGINEERING i.e Full stack Software Engineer ( using MERN STACK ) it's not been easy but na baba God I dey look hopefully it will end well meeen.

So to any G guy reading this please try and live a low key life always think of investment and pease if you want to invest please invest wisely and you better give yourself sense and open a domiciliary account so that no matter how low the Naira falls your money is safe...and lastly try jakpa from this country to me that's the best way to secure your winnings so incase and just in case things go south you go kukuma find one factory job they do and earn In foreign currency and if you get sense use your money marry foreign babe so you can get foreign citizenship ABEG USE YOIR HEAD OOO

heendrix:
it's not that I'm relating the yahoo to his sickness but who knows cause he's been spending on it big time

This Diabetes no be small thing ooo...there's a big man in my village who's giving out foodstuff and medical treatment in my villa the man self dey treat in own diabetes Wella like he spends on it....the man money dey pure ...well good things happen to both bad and good people

heendrix:
Exactly I've also seen many of my guys that prosper thr it and bout 2 of them abroad now but they said they've stopped also but the truth is no one knows what they're suffering atm to

the one in Australia told me how he's been battling with diabetes for a while now

Lolss but even people wey no do Yahoo still dey suffer Diabetes na

omoluabiguy:
That feeling of optimism you get right after the completion of NYSC is second to none until you hit the Nigerian Labour market and be greeted with a whole new reality of hell on earth.
I was not part of the few privileged Nigerians who’s got uncles or friends at the helm of affairs that’ll get them a job thru a few phone calls.
The struggle was so real, I wondered what my life was turning into since my whole plans started shattering right in front of my own view.

All thanks to Nairaland back in 2016, I saw a thread of Etisalat recruitment and as a sharp guy, I quickly dust my pali and follow the thread oooo. Anywhere this thread dey go I must follow reach the bus stop. Kpakam, Na so I jam customer service job for etisalat ooo, I was initially feeling reluctant about the job since it’s nothing close to my course of study, but the remembrance of what I’ve been thru after NYSC is enough threat to settle for any job at this point.

Fast forward, we started Etisalat customer service job, but my spirit no dey the job, Na only my body dey there cuZ at all at all man must chop. I was still job hunting on the side and after 6 months with Etisalat, Na so I jam my first software development job with one small company for Lekki.....

I resigned from Etisalat and started my career as a software developer. December 2016. My first salary from this company made me feel like a human being after a very loooong time, but all thanks to the grind and hustle, my brain was totally over calculating and the fear of going back to those struggle became a motivation for me to keep working hard. My aspirations and desires started growing bigger than to settle for this Lekki job.

I started searching schools online to go for my masters degree because I just wanted to leave Nigeria by any means before I grow past my prime age. My salaries was being channeled towards applying to schools in USA and Australia for masters in my field (Software Engineering).
I wrote the GRE, wrote the TOEFL and boom I got admissions both in USA and Australia, but I settled to pursue the USA admission.

March 2017, I came to a new reality of how much money I’ll need to follow this plans up!..... Another struggle began! ......

I swear!!! Dope maam!!

omoluabiguy:
Soon

Still waiting ooooooo Biko oooooo

rukidanty:
funny you.. remember say many people na visiting visa them use enter USA and them nor come back again.. abi you nor know say new Zealand nor they repatriate person except you commit crime. they be almost like USA and Canada o

Hello good day bro please did you later successfully make it to New Zealand?

ZINIBANKS:
I can't remember his moniker again
It's an old thread hopefully the mods bring it back again in future

Ok baba...omo I dey feel you jawe... Anything wey I see ya write up or post ..I dey like read am omo ODUMEGWU ZINI ODOGWU BANKS carry on jaweeee

ZINIBANKS:
Yeah you're right sir
But ever since I read that your story and one other bro in newzealand to be honest am having a second thought about that abroad lol

Abeg send me the link to the NEWZEALAND story of the person in NEWZEALAND abeg

Korllami007:
This one don install metre for the pvssy. Anytime the girl don kpansh another guy, this guy go get notification for him phone.
Men de this world sha.

This one got me laughing like mad meeeen!!! I feel you bro!!! I swear I do!!! Omo me no dey worry myself or kill myself ontop girl matter ooo more or less girl wey I never marry...live is too short for worries bro

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

Bro you better no use your hand scatter your relationship ooo...that girl na Scarce commodity any time any day twice on Monday!!! Bro for a girl to tell you the truth ...baba it's rare oooo bro!!! It's just simple jealousy that's doing you which is normal ...if I were in your shoes me self go vex but one thing you should know is that no one is perfect!!! And we all make mistakes and as regards to the girl in question baba the mistake she made is not one that demands a break up...bro believe me, she didn't sleep with that guy!!! I'm saying this with every authority meeeeen!!! Because I am also in the same type of relationship as you are into....my girl is in Abia while I'm in Lagos...and I allow her to go out with certain guys but she knows her limits ....bro take your woman back!!! Because the next girl to come go show you shege!!! Forgive her and tell her not to do it again!!! Tell her if she does it again na Break up straight( make sure you mean it) I wish you well bro....you have a good girl to make a wife!!

kroger:
Dont give her out for adoption.. send me an email. Juniorsecond1@gmail.com.

Mizflo my boss Kroger doesn't joke...send him an Email now!!!

MulikaBongo:
Learn how to use Zoom man. This link here https://youtu.be/4AOAG3ioHqcis a good starting point.

I didn't say I don't know how to use Zoom.... Someone complained not being able to attend STUTERN cos he wasn't in Lagos physically and I said he would have registered cos we learn using and Online method via Zoom

Nickisindigo:
I also applied for the stutern course but I can't attend cuz I don't live in Lagos

Ah ah why na?? You can also attend online ...via zoom na

Peppysco:
By the time you're faced with real life's situations as this poor teenmother is facing, you'll be forced to think things through. Many believers have lost their faiths because things they dreaded the most eventually happened.

No mind the mumu! He thinks life na to just quote bible upandan

StDonE:
I hope this story is not a fiction. Anyway, I will like to know your location and contact. But in the meantime, please don't give up your daughter for adoption. You can visit the ministry of women affairs in your state for proper guidance on anything concerning adoption. Finally, please seek the face of God and it shall be well with you.

Mizflo

lordswill03:
You didn't say where you are from. Contact me on this 08038322116. Let me discuss with my wife about it

Mizflo another Good human being is here again!!! WOW God bless you sir!!!! .... Seeing some people offering to help her just gives me joy

chukwuibuipob:
Jesus! If u are in Lagos,pm me asap

Mizflo .....you will not end in tears meeeeen!!! Help is coming!!! Contact this person ooooo ....wow I'm so happy meeeen

Ajibam:
Hi, I want to send you a Pm,
Kindly let me know if that goes well with you.
Thanks

Mizflo help is coming here too.... Like I always say...don't give up!!!!

Carshopper:
What qualifications do you have? Will you work if given the opportunity n certain things provided ?

Mizflo contact this person too.....don't give up!!! Help is coming!!! WAOW!!! GOD BLESS NAIRALAND!!! I'm just so happy this evening!!!

farmbasketng:
Chat me up on 08033336643.
Let's walk through this and see what could be done.

Mizflo chat this person up!!! He might be of help!!!!

Please don't loose hope Mizflo help is coming

meetme01:
I know you're going through alot and your head is damn full of the way forward. Ma'am, take a breath thrice after thinking to calm your nerves and mind down. You need to calm down.

See, it's a stage, you will overcome if only you take the right step and believe everything will work fine. What is the right step you ask

Good. You don't know your babby daddy's whereabout but you know someone that knows someone that knows him. I believe you should.

The background is faulty and going back to your family may worsen the case because that's where the problem lies. Seems you inherit a family that is peculiar with this same problem.

Therefore, as someone pointed, if you stay in Lagos, Oyo or Ogun, I am ready to assist with competent social workers who would take the issue up. Locate the man and give him options, he rather accept the child and provide all needs or reject and face the wrath of the law where he would be subjected to undergo DNA and if confirmed to be 99% related, he would pay heavily and take responsibility of you and your baby. That's the first step.

You have thought deeply and those around are comforting you with adoption. In as much as its a good idea, the flaws in it I won't expose due to SW principles. If you go by the way of adoption, you might) regret later in future you took that step. I know it's really hard and there must be a way forward. Anxiety would not solve the problem, rather patience and consistent hope.

It is face in life which you must confront with lots of prayers, hope and patience. It wil definitely going to be fine if only you calm down and open up to a competent social worker around you.

If you don't reside around the axis mentioned, avail me your State and if possible, I would link you up with one.

I would rather advice you locate the man's family by all means. That's the way forward. Let people (family, friends, relatives, concubines etc) around him know about the situation. They will locate him for you. Use all social media handles, all means to get his contact.

The last resort would be adoption after all means to locate him has been exhausted. Let adoption be out for now,please.

Mizflo hook up with this moniker ASAP cos this is one of the best comments here so far!!!! Meetme01 God go bless you abeg!!!! You too much

unclemaths:
You are an embittered soul in serious need of help.

Whao, you needed help and you actually said the quoted?!

Maybe all those talks about you were true by the way.

Haven't you read about Biblical Job? Joseph? Hanna? Sarah?

Please, don't add blasphemy to your issues.

Nothing do your daughter..
You are the one in serious need of help.

See you shouldn't call her Embittered!!! Have you really gone through half of what she's been through It's easy for one to just say things we know nothing about!!! See if you have anyway to assist her do and please don't say that abeg!! I had a very bad experience in my life and for once I had to question the existence of God!!! See this life isn't fair to some people I swear.....I wish I was buoyant enough I would have assisted her

tolani91:
Reading this thread again is really interesting. Thank you all

Baba what's up with the cute babe?? How did it go? Did you later wife her??

Rtk5:
I really love her so much. both of us have made great sacrifices for each other.

I'm not married but with these...omo Oga boss she's a good wife....go and Bring her Home....this should be one of those things in marriages....if she didn't cheat on you , If she doesn't Steal your money , If she doesn't sleep around , if she doesn't smoke then Lok for a way to bring her home....

If I tell you wetin my uncle pass Tru ehn!!! As in my uncle who's still young married this girl and was doing well...he was based in Ghana and was taking care of the girls mum in Nigeria , this his wife was smoking weed , sleeping around and was stealing his money sometimes $3000 , sometimes $5000...my uncle go give am 250K naira to manage in a month omo within 2 weeks e don finish ...for her to take the kids to school na wahala....omo the story long ooo...my uncle took all year for 2yrs until he had enough .....he had to divorce her cos she go kill am!! So if she doesn't do all these things omo make it work oo with your wife ooo

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
The song Cancion Del Mariachi Morena De Mi Corazon
By Antonio banderas...Danny trejo...salma hayek....in that old movie tittled "desperado"

I know indomie generation can't recall.....gone are those days when men were boys... Antonio banderas be using guitar as gun
If you are a niggarrr and you can remember that movie then you must be a real niggarrr....I owe you enough bottles

Ogbeni...I don use the money drink beer, flex and smoke weed...I nor dey invest and save money for tomorrow way nor guarantee...if small thing enter my account i dey use am shaperly take flex.....nor worry if another one enter i go write you

Baba laugh don kill me for here ooo.....lwkmd I dey feel you I swear

decatalyst:
You are right!


But let me tell you something, what you will not accept when rich, nah from when you are poor you go dey reject am.

Maybe it's a bit late for him now, but while they were seeing each other before marriage, he should have seen it. The woman is just a being herself and to her, you are trying to change her.

There is a perfect person for everyone. Dirty people can meets and love each other's way of life!

I read your 1st comment and I just dey laugh!!! omo no worry when you enter marriage your eye go clear

BadInflunece:
Had a good time reading this comment. Your babe is a miracle. You know my girl would always jokingly say " My money is my money, but your money is our money." I always laugh over it, but now I know better. She does love me I know but it's hard just bending for her. Love is not everything. There is sacrifice

What is love without Sacrifice

SweetCuntess:
If all the op typed is true, then I see no reason why she cannot assist him in his down time. Being a woman does not equal being selfish or self centered. @Op you've already seen d red flag. Just know Oyo is your case when married to her and you get broke.

I swear if you be woman ...any man wey go marry you will Blossom

BadInflunece:
As much as I appreciate this comment, what are you trying to say? A girl that I foot her bills for over two years now? Her parents send her money but I still foot her bills. Did I mention the reason she came to me was cos she used her rent to buy human hair? What's 2500 compared to the things I do? I should feel comfortable my girl only prefers to borrow me money than give it willingly?

Let's be guided jhor

She use her rent buy Hair and you no discipline am instead you accept am Guy I suppose nack you better blow for ya eyes!!! Omo if na me my woman knows better ...na for under bridge she go go!!! Love alone isn't enough to sustain a relationship abeg...common sense plays a crucial role!!!

Bro you be real man by breaking up with her abeg

BadInflunece:
It's really hard when you love this girls oh. Especially those ones way feel say time plenty. Omoh, I don see something. Emotional inconsistency na terrible something

Na man you you be abeg!!