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Haryoureendey4:
try Germany

I have that I mind!!! I have a plan

Haryoureendey4:
try Germany

I have that I mind!!! I have a plan

BISIXCLUSIVE:
I can never hurt my hubby, he is everything I want in a man, the mother wants unnecessary attention that she doesn't deserve, I will rather care for my father in-law that take of them.

Chai!!! Chinekeeeeee!!!! see better wife!!!

BISIXCLUSIVE:
I am not the type, I dated for 7 years before taking me to alter, for that year, if he will walk away he would have done that for long, his mother made me realize she is wicked, though she hasn't been showing that after our wedding, I know it's because we keep a long distance, she doesn't deserve any accommodation in my house, except the father who single handedly raise his son's, the mother came from no where to think she can dominate my home, no, even my husband is trying to avoid her, because the closeness is not there.

Wait o!! she thinks because she gave birth to him automatically she's entitled to motherly rights!! lols she's funny!!! someone who lost that privilege and rights the day she left her children!!!

assuming it was greener on the other side, she wouldn't have come back I mean never ...and she would have been giving testimony that God delivered her from her husband and her So called children!!!

BISIXCLUSIVE:
With everything I have achieved in my live, God knows I am not a bad girl, but I got realize my mother in-law wanted to reap where she didn't sow, she dumped my hubby and his brother for their father when they where teen,all because the baba has nothing again,their father being an Hausa man forgive and forget the scene just because his son wanted to get married, his life is improving, my hubby impregnated a lady in sec sch all because he lacks mother care, he couldn't further after sec sch, later when we met, I plead and help for admission so that he can further, even if it is Nd, all this scenario was behind this mother, why is she coming now to overthrown, all because baba was a quiet man, she was telling me to take oath.. that means she is scared of me not wrecking her son just like she did for grandpa.

Anybody saying trash about you doesn't really know what life is all about!!! your mother In-law isn't a good person at all I'm sorry to say this!! and I would like you to just play cool and try as much as possible to be neutral in your dealings with her....cos she's not a good person!!! her type will want to be dictating how you run your home!!! thank God you have a lovely and smart husband so " KOLEWERK " ...she's very irresponsible and has nothing to offer!!! please as for your father in-law do take care of him!!! cos he is a good man!!! you will enjoy him all the days of his life!!! ...by the way for you to make sure your husband goes back to school really means and shows you're a strong woman ...who Everyman needs!!! woman wey go stand put her leg for ground to make sure things work out for her husband herself and una children!!! ... madam your husband Bet9ja ticket don enter jaweee!!! cos you be better jackpot!!! you would push your husband to go places!!!

I'm not married ...but I constantly and daily discuss about marriage with my dad for the past 7yrs now!! and I've learnt a lot!!! I'm 28yrs of age , just finished Nyscast year October ...I'm hoping to get married in 3yrs

Pcstradamus:
I decided to see my father in-law to declare my intention. I wanted to go with my friend or a family member but considering the fact that there were no chairs in their sitting room, i opted to go alone. You may ask me why. My wife had told me that the father was not too comfortable to receive visitors because of how his sitting room was looking like. I was to attend a colleagues wedding that same day, so i was neatly dressed and then i had a bag with me. When i got to their house, my wife came to welcome me, she then went inside to inform her dad. I waited for some minutes and then the dad came out. I stood up to greet him and he looked at me for some seconds and he said fine boy. I felt i had won his heart but no, there was more to come.
He asked his son to get me something to drink. Before the drink came, i brought out a wine from my bag and walked up to him and offered him the wine. He took it from me and kept it on the table.
I began my speech by telling him how and where i met the daughter and what i feel for her. I told him straight up that i wanted to settle down with the daughter. He asked me how old i was, i told him i was 32 yrs old and he said you look very young. He started interrogating me by asking where i work, the nature of my job, my parents etc. When i was done, he was just starring at me, shaking his legs. he will make some sound like hmmm, huh etc. Men and brethren, we stayed like that for more than 10 mins without talking to ourselves. I felt the ground should open and swallow me. At intervals my wife would come out to talk to the dad and then she will go inside. She was doing that to observe what was going on. Finally, my father in-law said to me ''son you are welcome".
Do you know that even after he welcomed me, he still had reservations. He said he didn't believe he was going to give out his daughter to an igbo guy. That will be story for another day.

ABEG ABEG ABEG IN THE NAME OF GOD COME AND COMPLETE THE STORY OOOOO BIKO!!!
THIS STORY REALLY GOT ME TENSED UP!!!! ABEG COMPLETE AM OOOOO

SO WHY DID HE NOT BELIEVE HE WILL BE GIVING OUT HIS DAUGHTER TK AN IBO MAN?

WUdec:
Hungary, Estonia, Slovenia, Bulgaria, Romania etc

Thanks Boss for your quote!!! I really appreciate!! omo those countries no make sense na!!! and Estonia doesn't have an embassy here in Nigeria!!! well I've made plans to do a four months course in Software Engineering I'm venturing into Full stack Engineering....then I plan to work here in Nigeria and gather like 3yrs experience then I'll start applying for foreign jobs in Europe

Spanishmilf:
That the best way to migrate legally

Any idea on how much Sweden and South Korea would cost??

2ndly , can one work and school in South Korea at the same time?

3rdly after schooling in South Korea, can you stay permanently?

Spanishmilf:
No

Making sense! what route? student Route?

Spanishmilf:
canada, Sweden south Korea make sense
Leave USA for now
Assuming I know u earlier I would have tell u about USA student visa program usually done at the embassy

Well it's late now Sha!!! sweden and south Korea go cost ABI?

izibili44:
How you dey brother.Now thing don change for Nigeria.you get good bank account?You fit arrange all the document yourself and go submit for the embassy.But u say u get good agent.You fit ask am to do am for you.if u get good bank account Europe visa no hard.

My Chairman no be me talk say I get Good agent ooo...by the way I just finished service last year!!! and I have an uncle in US who sponsored my Visa application last year and was also ready to pay for my flight ...but unfortunately, I was denied US visa.... so do you have any European country that wouldn't cost much for me to go to

majormofor:
Y use USA when u can use canada

Anyway... do you have any other ideas about Canada and how I can get in Legally I would be very much willing to listen

majormofor:
Y use USA when u can use canada

Anyway... do you have any other ideas about Canada I would be very much willing to listen

majormofor:
Y use USA when u can use canada

Thanks for your reply bro! I really appreciate.....Canada go make sense too but it's expensive I guess....well when I said Finance isn't my problem...omo no be for student visa oooo....I meant I can afford the Visa fees , Flight fee, BTA and other associated cost of traveling...but for school fee I no fit afford that one o

izibili44:
My friend because thing his not working for you right now in the state dose not mean it will be so for others.look guy if you have a link as u said to get a student visa to America move on.I be pure Edo man,it is people like this that discourage me to stay back since i was making good money back then.When my president was in power. my president Good luck Jonathan.Guy during say baba all my investment scatter.I have to stop my workers because no salary.Brother today i am in Europe with a secure job and also i have a business in Nigeria with over 25 people working for me now. Opportunity is out Here brother.Move on. EDO NO DEY CARRY LAST.

Bro how you take enter Europe abeg!!! US denied me last year ....so I dey reason another sensible country...

Delapaapa1:
I have some few tips on how to become a citizen in few countries.. feel free to ask me questions.

Nice thread Baba...

majormofor:
Y use USA when u can use canada

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Dandas:
Hmmmm, interesting topic... kindly ignore typo error...
I was opportuned to work for a very nice one man company. But naija corruption didn't let this white man company grow... just to give u guys idea, the company was into petro-consulting, drilling and wired line. We did a lot project with Nestoil, TY Danjuma's company Britannia U, Agip etc.
We have our own Drilling Rig, u can imagine....corruption why why...the kabals made sure the rig was seized, executed contracts not paid....
Our lawyers at St nicholas hmmm, i no know whether them too joined hammer the man with naija polithiefcians.....
I was able to move to out of naija, seek asylum but didnot go through, have a work permit which put food on my table and that of my family back home....right now I'm working on spousal sposorship which is in progress and processing....
There is no much regret apart from not knowing how things are been done here....i for prepare my lies wella.....

Last Last you go dey alright ....

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Skyfornia:
Not at all, I regretted coming back. Thought I could come back and sorth some things out before going back to Sweden...but things didn't go as planned.

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Skyfornia:
Mine was out of frustration. I was working back then in a private company owned by one man, I worked diligently and contributed to the progress of the company, but when some money under my custody was stolen, the company mandated me to pay it back, it wasn't easy cause they were deducting 80% of my salary as a means to recover back the money, so I gathered money and paid the rest, resigned from the company and out of annoyance, I decided to travel to Sweden....but I still come back to this shithole after one year. The worst decision ever!

sorry I wanna know more about your experience so I can learn from you .....are you saying you regret traveling to Sweden?

justwise:
My only regret is not leaving earlier.

This Justwise No go kill person ooo hahahhhahahahah

Temple1288:
You didn't say anything after the HOT MATCH!
SEE AS DEM HUMBLE UNA

My Man!! the day when them go beat you ...no call me oooo!! hahahaha

DNSPro:
90% of them will not even smell that dream.

By this time next year, after I have completed the works God blessed me with same month a girl mocked me, I will share my story for nairaland to read it will teach them a lesson. ...

Bro I would love to hear your story jaweee!!!! make me self tap into the BLESSINGS!!! abeg

proclinician:
So a man should have 5m cash then a house and a car before marriage while you just have nothing? I tell you what. I achieved same before my induction except the house and ever since, fate has been throwin across girls like you and i do really well crushing them big time. One picked a job as a sales girl pay is 50k big nonsense. I told her i can't marry a woman with nothing less than 1m cash and her own apartment and earning not less than 150 a month, tough, she's going to lose i don't feel sorry, i dont love, she doesnt mind. She just wrote NDLEA exam and is praying things work out. I wish all men can be like me cold, blunt, and a maestro of their game.

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shogsman:
As expected the first people to enter the room was a girl she just shoved me angrily and began to shout on me,so her voice attracted other neighbours(my landlord included) knowing me my landlord said I couldn't have possibly did what she accused me off because we're close and I do normally tell him about the girl,so while they were saying shouting on me and calling me names my landlord stood by me and told them to let me explain myself, come and see how I was pressing the phone gently so that I won't mistakenly delete the recordings.
I played the recordings and that vindicated me,students around even wanted to beat the girl and drag her to the security unit na me come even dey help am beg say make dem just free am.
This news event made our skull blog sef back then, fear who no fear women bros.

Baba that part where you said " Comman see how I was pressing the phone Gently " really got me laughing oooo ....hahahahahh ....baba God saved you bro!!! you self na Sharp guy!!! well In all there are still Good girls Sha!!

shogsman:
I remember back in my undergraduate days, there was this hoe I was dating,I loved this girl cos I caught her young, but as time passed by she began moving With bad gangs,she'll use drugs,meet sugar daddies and still come back to fvck me,I found out about this shit and I broke up With her one particular evening like that, the next thing this fool said was she was gonna report me to the school authority drugging and raping her,the next thing I heard was this girl headbutting the wall and shouting for help,the only thing that saved my life was that I started recording her the moment she entered cos I was going to send it to a friend of mine as proof of ending the relationship.
To cut the long story short people barged in and started asking what happened, she said I was abusing and about to rape her, I just jejely played the tape and sigh.
Imagine I didn't have evidence, women are scum,most of them anyways.

JESUS CHRIST!!! that girl is a DEVIL!!! she would have put you in real Big Trouble ...cos people for just Lynch you!!! by the way what were the people's reaction when they 1st entered your room

OlakunmiSMELTD:
What of millions of jobless graduate in your country,
What of graduate earning 40k monthly
What graduate working as factory workers earning 50k 6am to 7pm non stop
( You mean if someone is doing this same work in Europe , he will still be earning 50k?)
Bros no let me vex for you.
Please if you get your better job in Nigeria, allow people wey no get go.
All I will say is , if you want to go abroad, make surely you go legally, through study or other means.

Useless country
China and Lebanese still treat us as slave in every factory
No security
Education fail
Getting job is connection. You must have 5years working experience, with msc and must be 23years of age.But they have already recruited people they want.
Nonsense

Bro you misunderstood what the guy was saying!!! Try read the person he was quoting then read his reply then you'll understand what he is saying!!!

Cos he was trying to tell someone that even though Nigerian Graduates in the UK might not get a good job in their field of study , they make do with Odd jobs just to make sure they have money in their pockets then they go for professional short courses in fields that are of high demand ...them over they are done with the course Better work begin they come!!! That's what he meant!!

MiamiePizza:
Goethe institute Lagos

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damzy88:
I learnt a lot from this. Thanks

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Vickiechuks:
What if I learn it on my own as a self taught developer?

Ok getting to learn it on your own will be cheap for you and it's also good but one thing about being self thought is that it takes a long time oooo!!! Because he would only get to learn when you are less busy so something he would learn when you are in a training school it take you 4 months also when you go through the self-taught route I may take you 8 months or maybe more.....