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[quote author=IGBOGENE27 post=99869487][/quote]I don't think this idea will work well because I don't know any girl as a girlfriend in my town and I'm not so confident doing that because I live in Europe and you know the risk of bringing a girl you know nothing about to Europe, anything can happen. Some of the people who did that are regretting it. But then, will I marry her and leave her in Nigeria, that will also amount to being married single and I don't and won't subscribe to infidelity that's why I have decided to find one here.

McStoic:
There is definitely something you are not doing well. You are not supposed to just act the bad boy trait. You need to show a woman you can live without her. You need to make it a part of you. And get me right, being a bad boy doesn't mean you will be sociopath or always act against women. It centres of being confident and doing things on your own terms as well being in charge without being needy. It's a whole lot more than just acting.

Do you know that there are some brutally honest facts about every girl you are interested in? You can cut the chase short by confidently picking on that and hitting up and she will be all over you. I THINK YOU ARE TOO PREDICTABLE, THAT'S ONE THING THAT KILLS INTEREST BEFORE YOU EVEN GET STARTED...


THERE ARE SECRETS I CANNOT STATE HERE THOUGH, UNLESS I KNOW HOW PECULIAR YOUR CASE IS. Cheers

Thanks for your honest concern bro... feel free to email me.
markchibyke83@gmail.com

McStoic:
The ladies that have been turning you down, are they Africans or Whites? Are you too straightforward? Do you call often? Are you clingy? I don't know your circle, but i will advise you tinker it and try to be lively and fun to be with.

Above all, try to go out of the regular way most guys relate with women when they see them. BE CONFIDENT IN YOUR SKIN AND NEVER BEG FOR ATTENTION...Women are differentially wired from each other, but few women will resist a confident man who is fun to be with... If you are interested for more discussions/chats, hit me up on this email docslicky@gmail.com. Cheers!

I am not unaware of these traits or will I say qualities you stated but believe me, I've got the shock of my life even when I applied some of these tricks. One even accused me being arrogant and selfish because I withdrew myself a bit from her. Yes, most times I go straight to the point of what I want without beating about the bush and and I also show compassion on their 'plight' if I see any... always willing to help out and provide comfort to the best of my ability but in return what I get is a NO. I applied the 'Bad boy' trick to play out of normal but that's not really my nature and most times I got caught. One even told me that she knew that I was acting up that, that wasn't the character she saw in me so I should free myself and be the nice guy I've always been and I was embarrassed by that even though I appreciated her honesty, I felt like I was being advised by a girl I wanted to date. Mehn, the whole thing is weighing me down and am becoming more scared of the women folks.

[quote author=Ofemini post=99864164][/quote]Thanks bro.... I sincerely hope that things turn around for good for me. It's not easy watching yourself growing past your prime stage yet no reliable commitment on sights. I am the church and morally decent type of guy and I've hoped to meet a likeminded lady but all I get is rejections and unacceptance. Some will even accuse me of coming after them because of documents which is not true but even if that's the case, at least I deserved to be listened to and observed to know my true intents. I don't believe that I have not set my priorities right or do not know what I want. My greatest surprise was when I carried out some sort of experiment by going for the kind of girls I would naturally not be seen with but in other to find out if am being too selective or mindful of class and social status, but to my surprise, she turned me down. And the worst is that none of them will ever tell me what I did wrong or how bad I was. Instead they've always told me how great and nice I am, caring and loving but then... no one gives me a chance. One even told me that any woman that opens herself and gives me a chance for love will be in paradise while still living on earth. This particular girl, I've waited for her for two good years and she haven't said anything concrete to me. Rather what she always says was that she's not yet ready, I mean a lady of 32 or above. It was later I discovered that she was secretly going out with a guy in the same church we all attends before they had a problem and that broke me down then I gave up on her. Then I met one who's from delta and everything started on the good side and she asked so many questions both the naughty ones and decent ones and I tried and provided answers to them, she contacted her family and I did same to mine, spoke with her mum several times and everything was moving fine but she haven't said yes yet, all of a sudden she started acting up. Started talking as if I'll not be able to take care of her. I bought her a lot of gifts but she didn't show real appreciation or excitement. All these things went on for over eight months and i was still waiting for her YES so that our both families can proceed, her big brothers even quarrelled with her and accused her of playing with men's emotions and she went crazy and flared up and that was the end of the whole story and that's when her mum revealed to me that she's been playing with men's emotions and I was not the only one. We just ended the whole thing about two months ago before this one that's dealing with me now, afyer she returned from her country last month. Though I've known her since one year ago and we became friends.
Bros the matter is too big for me to handle alone... I wish I can put a stop to all these things and be free from this world and the stress. That's how I feel sometimes...

SmellySperm:
I no follow bros,I don pass that bombing level..


na as them block my us whatsap number i come fall back to hangout, just to dey update my woman

Make you dey careful oooh. Some ways are not really good ways.

SmellySperm:
I had but they just blocked it last week and i tried opening it again but to no avail...

so na hangout i dey now,no time
abi u go help me run am?

So na una dey for hangout dey send all those rubbish posts and porn links, dey use am dey do shit abi?

McStoic:
Did you make her know you are seeking for something more than sex? As in you are not after body but her inner personality?

Since you have laid all your cards on the table and she is still stonewalling, just withdraw and ignore her for as long as your strength can carry you; at least up to a month. If she doesn't come for you, then just let things slide and let time take care of everything. THOUGH THE FACT THAT SHE CARES TO KNOW AND MAKE FINDINGS ABOUT YOU MEANS SHE HAS SOME SHADES OF LIKENESS FOR YOU. In life you lose some and gain some.

In the future she could still come for you one day you never know. But for now, just do what I typed above..

The OP's story is similar to what I'm passing through right now and as I type this now, I have a feeling that she's with another man or she completely ignored me today. I have a plan to apply the advices given to OP here and here comes yours; .... "you gain some and lose some" .... in my whole life I've never gained any one who truly loved me. I have been heartbroken so many times and any time I picked myself up and moved on and possible run into another, same thing happens again. I have checked mys3lf in and out to see if am lagging behind in anyway and being rude or disrespectful, I've checked my physical appearance and dressing pattern (of which I got some good designers to lecture me about), I have a job and live alone with a guaranteed privacy and all that goes with it. So, in general I can say that an pretty cool and considerable but can't get a girl to stay. I watched my communication skills and home attitude and I can say that am not bad at that either but still do not know what is going with me. I am at the age where any woman that comes around me is a potential wife and I try as much as possible to make them understand that I am more interested in their personalities and not in sex or just fun. The whole thing is breaking me down bit by bit. Btw, I live in Europe.

God bless Nnamdi Kanu, IPOB ESN and all lovers of freedom, peace and justice.

Why am I having a feeling that this story is a perfect LIE just for clout chasing?

Anambra is lucky always unlike my dear IMO State that's been so unfortunate after Dee Sam Mbakwe, May His soul rest in peace. I hope Imo State will someday get it right with the kind of leadership we deserve but in all, I honestly want BIAFRA to come so soon to abolish all these separation and put Ndigbo in our right position in world affairs. God bless Nnamdi Kanu and IPOB and all lovers of freedom.

Damage control by all means to save face. Buhari is the biggest looter in the history of Nigeria and unfortunately, some dare devil zombies are hell bent on protecting and singing the praises of his non existent integrity.

"The group said it received a total of N14,855,788.28 and a total of N60,403,235.00 had been disbursed, leaving a total of N87,452,553.28"


Na this side I didn't understand at all. Can somebody pls help me explain this? How much they disbursed is greater than the the amount they received and yet have a balance that's greater than the the amount they received.

Godarz:
What Nigeria needs is a well funded police and legal system....not another tribal militia that would create more trobule.

We also need to get rid of the habit of taking the laws into our hand

And we need to fix our railways, and let them be profitably run so that we can have cows and other animals transported from ranches in the North by railways....not by roads.

Typical of a fulani terrorists and their myopic reasoning. Funding Nigeria police that's already in firm grip of the fulani terrorists as a tool of oppression against others? You must be joking. Nigeria needs total disintegration and deamalgamation so that every region can safeguard her own. Crimes are local so security must also be local. Fulanis can export their cows to us under a fair and mutual agreement to both and we'll buy and do business with them. Anything less than this, can never solve the problem.

Anigreat:





Long over due


Imo people are using marriage as poverty alleviation.


I still remember when elder bro wanted to marry from there, it was so shocking to see one G- wagon Mercedes benz for the father of the bride, and a range rover for the mother... naso we read list the laugh, my brother been drive 1999 model Toyota Camry, when we remember it, we even laugh more... we tried all we could but to no avail.. las las senior man yappa o.


Imo people think they're doing me, they don't know they're doing their daughters.

Just for the love of "comments, likes & shares" you have made a caricature and ridicule of yourself with this unreasonable and unbelievable comment of yours.

Every group leaders in a particular geographical location must be subject to the indigenous traditional leader in such location.

For those who cares to understand, for the umpteenth time am saying it again. Sunni Muslims are the real terrorists and problem of the world and Islam as a religious secret cult organisation is a disease to the whole world and must be eradicated by any means.

Gumi is a criminal jihadist and buhari and his northern co-criminals are their sponsors.

Yet, some useless zombies and paid propagandist are still supporting this corrupt regime.

From buhari to the least person in his family are all criminals and terrorists.

Juliearth:
This is the reason why it's good to listen to both sides of a story. Rest in peace, clergyman.

If na you dey for this your profile, you too fine joor.
And na only thread that talked about food dey your profile... e be like say you go sabi treat a man wella.
Can I have the honour to contact your email?

Buhari is dead and buried in a shallow grave in Saudi Arabia's desert but some urchins and political sycophants have refused to accept that. Now the priest is saying it and they want to pretend that the mannequin being use to deceive some gullible people have no single brain and idea of how to run a country as diversed as the shithole.

Spandau:
Nope. But it refers to something else apart from a geographical location. Something you may be familiar with.

Enlighten me if you don't mind

seunmsg:
Very funny combination. Malami that can't even win election in Kebbi state want to become president. He can't even come 10th if there are 11 aspirants contesting for the party's ticket. Fulani already have their turn, 2023 belongs to the south.

Since you refused to be objective and support your fellow countrymen rather chose to asslick tinubu for some crumbs, it will soon clear in your eyes when tinubu will be hunted down for his multiple crimes.

As for the useless AGF, he is going nowhere. Even his fellow desperate northern co-criminals will never allow him to succeed. He is too corrupt and a power drunk empty brain mofo.

All in all, Nigeria is not going beyond 2022 as a united country and that's what I pray for everyday.

Minister of banditry and terrorism affairs and Spokesman for Bandit Nigeria limited is denying his own statement made in every consciousness and thinks that we will swallow his lies now.
It is already clearer than halogen bulbs that these fulani terrorists have strong backing of buhari and his northern co-criminals.

Fighting of the two enemies who stole tge mandate of our duly elected governor of IMO STATE, Emeka Ihedioha. God will continue to disgrace both of you until you return what you stole and apologise to the good people of IMO STATE and my gov Emeka.

Igbo Amaka Nwannem!

Every sane person knows that the military authority sends Christian soldiers to the North and sabotage them to be slaughtered by the same terrorists but sends northern terrorists in uniform to the South and East to continue the other version of slaughtering Christian youths here in the South and East.

Spandau:
O wi ire!

You live in Spandau?

Childofthelord:
"Following the train from station to station" This cracked me up
Honestly Nigerian churches abroad is a topic for another day.

Dear na so... if you don't get creative on how to relieve your worries and mind, depression will just come in.

About the church, you know because of lock down here in Germany, most churches are closed but very few are allowed to operate on the condition of not exceeding certain number of people. So people must register online to before Saturday. Na so I want take register they tell me sey them don complete, make I register for second service or next week. Wetin enter my mind immediately was, abeg make una do am alone na... after all who want come see the faces of those "witches" � thst don't want to be useful to West Africa.....

79733139:
It is an ongoing thing, keep adjusting and improving both your approach and appearance... you don't need all the girls to say yes, to you you only need just a few yeses to be happy. You keep approaching (politely and respectfully) and learning... that's how it works.

Ok baba, thanks for the codes. I will work on myself and skills.

Randy91:
Una get time ooo

One thing to do once in Abroad is to KEEP AWAY from NAIJA BABES...most of other African babes like kenya, cameroon, Ghana, etc are COOL

I dey currently hope on one East African babe now but as the girl dey take play with my emotions and feelings no be small matter. They don learn all the bad babe things from our West African girls so they're doing more shakara now unlike before.

VanillaIyce:
Hahaha, you are looking for gist. Lol

I no wan heat sey you no jist me the update. In fact, PM me make I follow up the matter...

All these girls that are living in Festac knows how to do men ojoro.

79733139:
Do not approach in places where everybody is in a hurry to go somewhere. Put the effort, dress up and deliberately go to places where everybody is in a social mood and make your approaches example: parks, gardens, beaches, hotel lounges, upscale bars, theme restaurants, amusement parks, museums, art exhibitions, concerts etc.

You would make a lot of approaches and adjust till you start getting results.

My brother I dey try my best. Even this night as I was coming back from my waka waka, I jam one girl way be sey we dey live for the same area, began talk some kind things give the babe na so she snubbed me like sey I carry corona virus.