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OP, ask your brother if Τђε name on his national Id Äπϑ voters card is same as what is on his driver's license. For them to insist on Τђε drivers license, it's possible Τђε 3 Id's have different names Äπϑ Τђε WU was sent with Τђε name on Τђε drivers license.
It's also possible that Τђε money was collected to help him make another license (since it's Τђε fastest Id to produce for 5k) Äπϑ Τђε balance Is Τђε bribe.

Evil genius featuring bob manuel and francis duru

Mama sunday featuring francis duru

Suicide ke? In naija? Since when na? Naija wey like life die. The situation must have been very serious for him to have done this (I.e if he wasn't pushed by someone)

simdam500: An indian movie titled 3 IDIOTS. It just a trash

How can you say 3 idiots is thrash?

@sienna, you originally had a best man who was male and the female who rescued you was a friend's wife. The poster's choice is his best friend who is female so the two scenarios are technically different.

[quote author=uj_sizzle]The tourist....u kidding right?? It was completely full of suspense![/quote]Really? Didn't see any suspense o. Dry, overhyped movie imho.

Safe
Safe house
The tourist
Black swan

hackney:
@poster

My friend if you are a student dont stress yourself because if someone refuses to understand that,
then they dont deserve a penny from you.

In imo state ,things are not that expensive. if you need to take friends out in owerri just take them
to Dan Anyiam. It's bustling and they have series of nice out-door spots there.
The food and drinks are affordable and nobody will really notice you unless you start showing yourself.

Im travelling @ xmas  to imo too but im not a student  so N200,000 wont cut it for me sha
(When you change car tyre service am you no go see that one  )

the moment he opens his mouth, he'll be noticed,  believe me.

there must have been a problem with the relationship for her to be confused enough to cheat with her ex. she should talk things out with her fiance. the fundamental problem here is lack of communication. something must have driven her to do what she did.

to avoid a repeat episode, they should try sort our their problems.

i have some questions of my own.
1) would it have been better if the guy she cheated with was not her ex?
2) would it have been better if she didn't say anything and contend with her conscience?
3) woiuld it have been better if she had confessed after the marriage or years after during the marriage?
4) would reactions be different if she hadn't cheated with her ex?


I just feel the lady could not deal with her conscience anymore and decided to spill the beans. for her to have said it, it means she's really sorry and is ready to make amends. it took a lot of courage for her to do that and it doesn't necessarily mean she'll do it when they're married. i feel the guy should forgive her and go ahead with the marriage but i know he'll never forget. she made a big mistake and is obviously regretting it. its not easy to dump her and move on like what most people are saying. how are you sure the next person will not do the same and not even tell you?

he really has to think this over because for him to have stayed with the lady for this long, it means he really loves her. have you watched the film "best man"? the bride slept with his best friend and he found out on the wedding day but he still married her. so, pls lets think things over properly to avoid hasty decisions we'll later regret.

as the saying goes "what you don't know will not kill you". maybe she should have just shut up.

@OP, wetin you smoke?

no. a man should not be 100% responsible for the family bills. the woman should help out. as the woman is helping the man with his responsibilities, the man should help the woman too in her responsibilities. scratch my back, i scratch your back.

@ poster, are you looking for money for the marriage or money for the marital life? if it's the former, then, it shouldn't be a problem cos you won't be required to do it all alone. everyone chips in - you, your fiance, your family, your in-laws. if it's the latter, then, you should really think about it because this is one of the reasons why majority of marriages don't last. Finance is a very important thing to consider before marriage.

getting married and postponing childbirth is easier said than done. it's like you want your folks and your church to do retreat for you abi? besides, how old are you guys? when you say the income is not stable, are you guys contractors? like analytical said, we need more info so as to advice you appropriately.

you might be able to take care of yourselves after the marriage but what about the children when they start coming? you'll have to consider pampers, clothes, school fees, more food etc. please, think about this carefully before you proceed. i pray God grants you the wisdom to do the right thing.

Love is not the most important in a relationship. Understanding, compromise, not taking your partner for granted, respect, sexual compatibility and friendship are very important in a relationship. Based on these, the love will blossom.

posakosa:
Nothing is personal on NL. The man only wanted her for greencard so to me its a SHAM marriage. Do I make myself clear ?

loud and clear!!! e don do. haba! ok. it is a legally sham marriage but that doesn't change the fact that it is legal and she has to go through the divorce process.

you have every reason to be pissed off. just talk it over with him and like what lostgirl said, you can talk it over with his sister. you don already marry am so try to work it out. kpele.

Re: I Need Tips To Re-gain Her Soul.

bros, you be vampire?

erico2k2:
lol lol yes oh, you can, all you have to do is hire a baby sitter then you are good to go, is there a problem there?

are you going to pay for the baby sitter? when she should be worrying about only herself, she'll be saddled with two other people. where's the fun and sense in that?

help me ask him o. all these men sef. they just have their own ideas of how a lady should behave. they don't even care if she should have a life. i tire for all these men. society just has a warped idea of what and how a woman should live her life as if she doesn't have a say in the matter.

Gamine:
i thought i was, i thought i wanted to
Now, not so much.
so @topic, No

same here.

Deep Soul:
Am I looking forward to getting married? Erm erm. . .

I am looking forward to getting married in the next couple of years. Do I have a choice?  

you do but at the same time, you don't. your mama go chop you raw. same shoes.

Pharoh:
I am not taking anything just implying that a woman should get married early and not wait until she is 30 something when she won't have the strenght or she won't be health wise to give birth to as many children needed by both party. I included both party before you eat up alive  


You included "both parties" so that you won't come across as a chauvinist. What gives you the impression that a 30 something year old lady does not have the strength to give birth to as many as she wants? na wah for you o. You think like a typical african man.


[quote author=erico2k2 link=topic=342448.msg4801905#msg4801905 date=1256559875]"pharoh
 lol  No need, you wont win,erm  but have you noticed thats its the ladies abroad who have these ideas?[/b]Try tell you Mum you aint looking to get married in 9ja  and see if she no give U slap,dont get me wrong ladies,I do agree with some of your terms of being indipendent,but going to the xtreem to adopt western values is a total ball game,ie saying something like"I wanna go see the wrld B4 I get married"  lol,[b]I dont think gettting married would stop anyone from see the world abi brother,Your pocket will dictate if you could or not.Girls una take am easy B4 una eat me raw oh,Pharoh, U got my back?  

Its not only ladies abroad who have these ideas. those in nigeria do too so don't even go there. getting married will stop you from doing a lot of things you would have ordinarily done if you were single. so, yes it can.[/quote]

Oluschenco:
Some said it is jobless, but can't it be used for fingering.

too short

chidexy:
It's not always on the left finger. In Europe, Catholics wear their wedding rings on the 4th finger of the right hand, while Evangelicals wear on the left

agathamari:
what? like where? never seen or heard this

i really don't know about the catholic and evangelicals thing, but i have heard and read that in some parts of Europe, the wedding ring is worn on the 4th finger of right hand. I guess it's tradition. Just get married and enjoy your life and forget about where the ring is supposed to be.

Witi:
Lust

no be small lust, my brother!!

very possible. sometimes i just prefer my pockets

the seeker, a guy gets complimented by a girl and she suddenly becomes a gold digger? give me a break!!!!

the guy was phenomenal!!! he used the 1st lifeline at N5million. handsome, single and intelligent, what else could a girl ask for? the question was "Munthai Lombali won the Nobel Prize for what?"

becoomrich, pls don't deviate from the issue at hand 1111

or go to http://www.firstcitygroup.com/newfcmb/about/careers/process.aspx.
then, click apply now. good luck

the website is going. just dropped my cv. you can try www.firstcitygrouponline.com first. when it opens, type /xportal and click go.