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Ladycewhy:
Edo

Etsako from Auchi I guess...
It is well. You'll be fine and even get a better man. I wish U all d best

Ladycewhy:
Mine was even engagement ,he finally yielded to his parents wish of not marrying my tribe.

What tribe,if I may ask?

iamariwa:
Nothing to catch in ur drift, u re not jus making sense atall

You no nice gaskiya! local man go dey feel like say E don yarn dust na


But the nigga sef dey disappoint. How guy man go dey compare United and Blues squad depth and experience like that,if no be by sentiments?
I tire mehnnnn

Saintsquare:
yes

Kai...
Tate dey lucky say the guy no be like ghost,e go don mama am big time.

I can't wait to see the drama that'll unfold btw Ghost and Tate.

Mark23:
Kanan will always be my best character. I still miss him. Nobody played the game like Kanan did

Mehnnnnnn! I do too.
I mean,the way the guy yabs and ''drop'' rival gangsters or whoever crosses his path,could only make one love his character.

Mark23:
Kanan will always be my best character. I still miss him. Nobody played the game like Kanan did

Mehnnnnnn! I do too.
I mean,the way the guy yabs and ''drop'' rival gangsters or whoever crosses his path,could only make one love his character.

Kaycee7:
I'll give it to the writers. The way they get us to empathize with these characters, even though they're technically scum, is amazing. We all know Tommy's a murderous psycho but seeing the look on his face when he came home to propose to his bae only to meet her corpse instead drew sympathy I didn't even know I still had for him. Sh1t is only going to get crazier from here on out.

Meanwhile, I'm happy that the Tate-fucking-person-wife angle later came full circle. I spoke too soon after it seemed the whole issue was resolved amicably. Like I said previously, Jamie issa savage. He destroyed the nigga and may probably still kill him.

Was the guy the hubby to the woman Tate was having a sexual affair with?

Those that got married due to #accidental discharge or #outright firing of shots will not put that in their testimonies oooo...ok na

Selfkontrol:
thanks for your observations. Using the f word for her it’s nothing. She has said worse things than that but i try not to take those things serious because I know people say a lot of things day don’t mean when angry. If my mom could tel me she regret paying my fees becos she had a bad dream about me and told me to go to church and fast and I refused lol. I know she never meant that but people say things when angry.

And for meeting new person better or not. I really don’t know. I just hate starting things afresh. This is like a girl that knows everything about me same with her. We have been together for 6 years. The love is there. Sometimes she’s just obsessed about me and when I don’t play to her beats she nags and say things. I’m really going to miss her to be honest if we break up because i know it’s hard getting a girl like that. But the same time how long can I cope with such behavior. I always feel she would change with time but how wrong or right can I be

The first bolded statement shows she's controlling you or on the verge of being successful in doing so.

The second bolded is the reason why you've stayed this long,but nothing has changed. If she hasn't changed for the past 6years of trying,what assurance do you have that she will in a life contract? What assurance do U have that you won't also lose your sanity in the long run of trying to change her or in the event that she gets worst?

I can't make the decision for you but U gotta make one between a potential marital life of frustration and a hopeful chance of getting a better lady,but then,you gotta allay your fears.


PS: The fact dt she doesn't have a confidant aside you, i feel is solely responsible for her toxicity and hence a slim chance of changing. Unless you can fix that aspect of her life,the unthinkable might happen.

GreenArrow1:
30k per month for Pampers? Na toilet d woman born?

Akpabana

antagonist:
don't be deceived by all these unscrupulous dealers that always tamper mileage and don't pay correct duty, cheap cars are either clean with high mileage or damaged cars with low mileage

if you see a car that is cheap and the mileage is low and the car seem clean my brother run away because something is wrong

Abeg, can u please explain this mileage if a thing in details? Which us better and why; kow mileage or high mileage

arantess:
Ghost na sure boy, always at the top of his game
Tommy deserves whatever is coming to him
Tariq, Tariq, I dunno for this boy oo

Naso
@Tariq,d boy matter sef tire me+the look on Vincent's face when he saw Benny was outta this World. Bad guy doesn't want war with the newest sherrif in town,which I feel is gonna be Benny

I dunno what this episode's title is,but it gotta be close to being "THE POWER OF NETWORKING".
A week feels like a year again

No matter what,Ghost has always been a step ahead of Tommy

As for the next episode,it seems Keisha has bitten more than she can chew

Richnerd69:
yeah... That guy deserves an Oscar for his facial expressions

"Eminem looking Flop" ... so much resemblance.


I'm just finding out that Dre is actually a Nigerian and a yoruba demon too

Yeske,he also got this Igbo kwenu blood,courtesy if his mum

GrabHisBalls:
You sound immature though, and certainly not even ready for a serious relationship. Note, maturity is not in age.

How on earth would you expect your mum and dad to just let you go off with some random guy called a boyfriend? The introduction sef is disrespectful and if you were my child, let me reserve my comment.

You're a lady and men will only respect you when you respect yourself. Those guys who run don't run 'cause your parents are holding you down, they do so 'cause every of their moves will be accounted for since they already know your parents/would be meeting them.

You crave so much for disappearing for a long time with a guy and it's not a good thing. I am older than you by a few years, was once monitored 24/7, all movements must be accounted for and I can tell you that in my house, you don't sleep out without anyone knowing your whereabout. Of course, you can't tell my mum or oldest brother you want to go spend a night/more in a guy's house. They don't even want to hear you have a boyfriend, but they somehow knew I did when I was seeing someone. All my life, the only telling I did was when I was formerly proposed to, though, it later didn't work out. The few occasions I've had to disappear was from school for 3days even as an adult, they must not hear of it. Like 2yrs ago, my eldest bro wanted to know whom I was dating, but I refused and ignored his enquiries with smiles, telling him to leave me alone 'cause I hate disappointments. I have a self-con to myself, I have independence and I have one or two places to go to for sleepovers, but I don't bug. You can never see me outsider my house by 8 for security reasons. I don't expect you to be me, but I think you're complaining about irrelevance for now. Lastly, the only man you should introduce to your parents is the one ready to marry you.

Look no further op,whatever advice you need is in this comment.

@Grabhisballs,you must be some kinda intelligent and funky kinda lady. Your submission reeks of wisdom.

Ifemide123:
Thank you
I know my mum. Even if the guy has come to introduce himself to her, she wouldn't still allow for weekends visitations not to talk of a one week or few days visit

Lol...
Your mum simply doesn't want you to be having premarital sex,all in the name of a relationship,but she isn't gonna spell it out.

My advice is,just like someone suggested,you two could meet at an eatery or any open/public place. Avoid Home visitation.

PS: when u have the freedom you seek,dont abuse it,on the excuse of u being old enough to take care of yourself. Do not disappoint your mum,and most importantly,yourself.

internationalman:
Unless you are a reverend father/Sister or an aspiring one, keeping yourself above 30 is weird.

Unless one is prolly a love peddler,having sex in any courtship/while dating equates to being a runs girl/harlot/gigolo.

masterfactor:
What do you expect. Tariq is a true son of his father, a lion cannot give birth to a cat.

It seems the cub is now giving the Lion more headache than he would want to have, not at the turn of these recent events at least.

With this latest episode,niw a week feels like a whole fucking year

pickatyou:
Now Alisa Marie have got proctor secret on that SD card he gave her

I think he got evidence against Tommy instead,smartass move.

masterfactor:
Episode 5 is the best out of all episodes shown. Tommy is a real Gee, loose ends are not allowed. Loose end can get you into an orange clothe. Rip proctor, you enjoyed the ride while it last.....

@1st sentence,i concur 100℅. I can't just wait to see the next episode. Meanwhile,that Vincent and Jason will definitely get a bullet each and Tommy's gotta reason what Ghost earlier suggested to achieve that that,if not,Tommy will be in the freshest trouble.


PS: No sane man alive will pray to have a son as half stubborn and irrational as Tariq right now...

I will miss that Proctor so much.... RIP MAN

With this latest episode,niw a week feels like a whole fucking year

pickatyou:
Now Alisa Marie have got proctor secret on that SD card he gave her

I think he got evidence against Tommy instead,smartass move.

With this latest episode,niw a week feels like a whole fucking year

skywalker240:
When there is money, nothing is impossible.

i don sha de follow you, you go hear scores

I don follow back... keep me posted.





Laslas,na one Naija sharp babe go enjoy the money with you

greggng:
Pls when you want to compare always remove Toyota from the group....Toyota is on the world of its own ....and cannot be compare with all this yamayama you grouped almighty Toyota with

Yamayama got me laffing hard
Those other Auto manufacturers are trying too,atleast,theyve reduced Toyota Auto market share

victorVIC1:
Won't mind releasing my Yaris 2007 for 1.2M Lol.

Got it recently from a fellow nairalander who just left the country. You may have to work on or replace the bumper. The mileage is about 84,000KM

Noted... thanks for your submission bro

greggng:
Pls when you want to compare always remove Toyota from the group....Toyota is on the world of its own ....and cannot be compare with all this yamayama you grouped almighty Toyota with

Yamayama got me laffing hard
Those other Auto manufacturers are trying too,atleast,theyve reduced Toyota Auto market share

skywalker240:
taaaar

its a dream, you cant kill a dream

I fear who say make i no fear.

Lol..
I'm sure you'll remember this day and my words. Sadly,you won't have the time to give me feedback.

Any tribe or states,whose women show the below signs/traits is a NO for me;

-Tendencies of being hostile and aggressive/Violent
-Signs of being promiscuous
-Lack respect
-Being fetish
-Being Alcoholic or a smoker

skywalker240:
How i wish i cant marry a Nigerian woman

Sorry bro,but it's gonna remain a wish. The reality is you will and you will enjoy making that decision. Fear not!!!

Good morning!
Please house,i need opinions or suggestions on the better choice amongst the below hatchback vehicles;
NISSAN VERSA
TOYOTA YARIS
PEUGEOT 307
RENAULT MEGANÈ
MAZDA 323

...I prioritize durability, fuel economy, mileage and maybe a bit of fancy.
Thanks in anticipation.

majorbravo:
POINT ONE
OP answer these questions and I will tell you what is truly happening.

How old is She? Is she very young? OR mature (above 25)?

Is she good looking? As in totally hot with you-know them really attractive body augmentations? OR just the average plank type?

How does she dress? very fashion conscious? hair on fleek? and revealing or tight outfits? OR just shirt and trouser looking like a guy sometimes?

How does she sound when she is talking to the guys? Flirty, eye contacts, touching tenderly? OR joking, laughing out loud, serious?

Answer these sincerely and I think you have your answer.
She is either a runs babe OR just a playful girl.

There are females that are very friendly and that I am friendly with but would never consider smashing. There are others I can't even look at without my mind making suggestions. It's all a matter of attraction, if she is the kinky type, there is no way she can be just friends with so many guys cos the guys themselves would make friendship impossible with their constant disturbance and tricks to try get her into bed. So you must know what kind of girl you are dating. If she is hot cake and she has these many guys as casual friends, then dude wake up.

POINT TWO:
After you have settled the questions in point one consider these: Your financial situation might be a problem, this behavior is common in girls who are dating men that aren't doing very well financially. She might be keeping her options open for other suitors who are better off. Girls are wiser now, giving her a ring doesn't mean she is in love with you, she may just be keeping you as a last resort in case she can't find a better man who is genuinely interested in her.

POINT THREE
If she is immature, there is a tendency she doesn't understand what marriage is about and this is the time for you to ensure she is properly educated on this. There is no 'me' in marriage but 'us'. If anyone is to remain friends with her, he has to become a family friend (friend of us), that means she has to know she is no longer single nor available, if there are guys she knows, they must become your friends too if they want to keep their friendship. If they want her number, she should give them yours as well, If they visit, they visit both of you, if they want to take her out, they take both of you out, lol' Gottem?

MODIFIED: OP did you say you just met her in final year and you guys are serving together? So you are both on the same level? Wow sorry bro, How do you expect to marry a girl you are on the same level with? Do you even know her history? She may have known those guys longer than she has known you and may have a crush on some of them, even slept with a number of them before she met you, she may only be with you because they haven't asked her out yet. Moreover what differentiates you in quality, from her other friends? But here you are wanting to trap her with marriage.

She isn't in love with you yet bro. She is trying to be smart with you, you are her insurance incase no one else gives her assurance. Go and ask people who got married to their campus lover, they were dating at least 3 years in school before the proposal came, you don't even know her school friends or her lifestyle in school, you just started dating not even up to one year and you already want to tie her down with marriage.

If you are still job hunting, I'm sorry, but you aren't ready to settle, she wont hesitate to move on to another man in Lagos who is up to the task. Infact you are the one spoiling her moves to meet capable suitors. She has only one year in Lagos to find an Island Big boy and you're sweating her with your jealousy because of ring. Ring is not enough, is it corper allowee she would use to buy pampers for her baby? Bro go make money and come back when you are ready.

One last question for you OP.
When the guy in camp held her hand and led her away, did she introduce you to him as her fiance? If she didn't, bro you are not only single but a Maga! This kind of relationship is called Romance Scam' You wont be the first nor last. Welcome to the real world.

Reading this submission was not only refreshing,it was more. As a matter of fact,i didn't only read,i swallowed every word,pushed with water and digested it...you really analysed the situation well , without mincing words.
Bravo!

Good evening to you all.
I would like to know how much it's gonna cost to ship a car from:
1. UK
2. Belgium
3. Canada


Is shipping cost part of the fee for clearing?
I need answers pls. Thanks in anticipation

Aystarz:
LOL I will wait till midnight.

Seems like I'm gonna target that time too

ZiggyMr:
No b only u, u na 10x abi I don check more than that