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oviecardealer:
It was 2002 Model then I bought it for 650,000k....now is estimated about 1.1m total landing cost.

omo! that's a serious hike in price but it's expected though.man must survive!


how much can one budget for these vehicles?
1 Pontiac vibe
2 Mitsubishi space runner
3 Mitsubishi Outlander
4 Toyota picnic
5 Any maker of mini pick up van...


irrespective/the cheapest of their models. I suck at model years of vehicles anyway

oviecardealer:
No picture appeared below....please specify the model and year?

I meant Mazda premacy but don't remember the model year

adajoe555:
I can everyone got a past

yeske!
but we all should try to make our past beautiful or devoid of negative life changing actions

oviecardealer:
Ovie,cleared and Made delivery of this mazda.
the picture below show vehicle interior .

how much did you get this vehicle with the customs duty papers?

Coolgent:
Edo

oook sir!

Coolgent:
My salary as of today Tuesday 05-09-2017 is 35k
* am married with one kid
* we are living in two bedroom flat
* am driving 2005 accord
* am currently building 3 bedrooms flat
* am taking care of my elderly parents

All i can say is dont depend on your salary alone the poorest people are salary earners no one among the world Millionaires/Billionaires is salary earner.
Hustle, Hustle & Hustle legitimately.

na for which state/town u dey cool unkulu?

PrickGetSize:
Those things are what they tell you to make marriage look like treasure island, but they're all lies.

Marriage provides no immunity to STIs/STDs as I've seen and read married men and women dying of HIV.

Parenting has nothing to do with marriage. Take care of and make good provisions for your children and they'll grow like normal kids. Children need love and care, not papa and mama. Davido and Olamide are not married but their kids are not lacking.

Marriage is a scam!

I'm not married but marriage doesn't look like a treasure island, it is a treasure island but only when you have the right mindset, not this vague mindset you trying hard to defend,especially when you use spoilt/irresponsible boys like Davido and Olamide as reference points!

naifizzy:
You not being realistic at all. So a man should not marry because he earns 35k per month? Ridiculous.
See there is a class for everyone. What might be meagre to you may be tremendous to some few.
Thats why we have mansions and face me and face you.
Shoemakers, petty traders and others alike make less and yet they marry and have kids.

Dont judge life from your limited scope. Human beings are designed to adapt to situations no matter how terrible....

thank you!
I'm sure the guy passed through the four corners of the higher institution and I'm also sure he should be able to testify that some, whose parents earn around that figure either through biz/trading or even some office petty works attend that same sch,receive lectures in the same room with him.were they doing magic?
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The answer is NO as you can objectively testify!

mrphysics:
Lol. Savagery.

You need to learn to ignore most comments on nairaland. You don't respond to everything one said.

Back to the question,
I earn more than 200k monthly, and to tell you the truth, i haven't thought of marriage. My monthly salary is six digits, freelance income, six digits, but while getting to such level, I left love, emotions, relationship by the side. Now I have gotten to that point and felt lonely and realized a vacuum.

What is the point? It's not about money. It is about fulfillment, and understanding the purpose of life.

Abeg! yarn them ooo mk dem learn from realities

Dianeetdiana:
hmmmmmm i shake my head. my sincere answer isssssssss No. what if am making 35k too, that will be 70k in month from both of us. What kind of life will that be.

A moderate life
a life lived by cutting ur coat according to your cloth
a life lived with utmost focus and succinct planning
a life without a wayward lifestyle
a life with little or zero tolerance to irrelevant expenses
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This life I just described ofcourse can only be lived and enjoyed by parties with forward thinking!

PrickGetSize:
Why should you marry at all?

Can't you just pay a girl and fvck her for fun? What will you gain from marrying one girl and living with her for the rest of your life?

You gain respect, Dignity,focus,reduce spread of STIs/STDs and above all be a good role model to those innocent children looking up to you

Nedfed:
U try bro,
But na 8 full market.
Condition arise at times that makes one go with eight (konji)
Most of ladies on nairaland with no pix on dia profile are team8

Lol
but there is a long term solution to 8.I 'll rather disagree that na team 8 full market,na dem firm and slightly saggy team me dey see pass

chikk:
Apart front the fact that most ladies find it hard to communicate, consider the fact that most men aren't worth it.

Sometimes, she could be intentionally cold just as a signal to discharge you...Get the message
She could also not be in the right frame of mind. Get that too..
The guy could also be a boring person too. If you keep asking and never shares, I'll feel like you're drilling holes into my private life. You have to first of all, be what you want others to be. You can't be a guy that wants a lady that can hold a convo, then when she says hi, you take eternity to respond or you "brb" lasts for ever.

spot on points

Evaberry:
Most guys here will be boring to me.

Not if you're lively urself

Nedfed:
Cool night mendemende To the men/guys: Which type do you love? To the women/ladies: Which type you carry?

2,3,4 and 8 irritate me, 8 looks the frustrating kind.....













1 and 5 looks the real deal,the bomb!!!

gatelogic:
that's why I prefer to marry virgin

seconded!
The risk(s) attached to having a virgin partner is less compared to someone who has been subjected to the once or more heavy thrusting and honking of a 'baggy' rod

ThatIgboBoy:
Those your colleagues are yoruba muslims.

They cant do without speaking their ngbatiii ngbatiii in an office setting

see this dude, go work in a hausa-dominated office group and u cn relate ur experience later

dangotesmummy:
see this jester

You see wah I meant,can't pass a point without insulting.....kwantinu!

I'm referring to you and the likes of op who like to leave your own issues unattended to and now be pocknosing into other people's issues and be criticizing them based on their own marital status as if your life is all perfect and issue free[/quote]nah!
you're getting this misconstrued. the person the Op is referring to isnt just any person, she is his sister.
Nkan to ba kan oju ti kan imu na

dangotesmummy:
why is another person's matter paining you more than your own.awon agberu eleru sori,fatiwon dani.face your own front too because you have your own issues like every other person

....more than my own!
that phrase from your statement is laughable. You would have seen me dealing with my own topic rather than posting on someone else's,if there was any aorta of truth in what you've written up there.


if I had any issue to post on this platform, I'd appreciate if ur likes stay off it.
thank you!

dangotesmummy:
when you know she's not a robot and she's an adult, leave her to make her decision na.abi ewoni pepefuru

An adult dt doesn't knw when to act and react,give marital life a chance.....


is dt one even an Adult. mi o se pepefuru kankan-an ooo

Daeylar:
Still being foolish and still so arrogant in your foolishness

I hope you get help soon

Nah!
being foolish is when you resort to using insulting words before you can drive your point.



Lady! I'm still in the sweet Sallah mood pls and no one is gonna ruin that for me,not even you...
so, just swerve,face front and keep moving.

pele ooo!

Marxxx:
wow!!! Did you break up with her before she died? How did you cope all through? At a point did you see her more as a sister than a lover? Was she addicted to painkiller?....i need answers plssss

seems you're in a relationship with one right?

nickz:
Bro marriage is overhyped
work hard,make money,spoil your mother and sisters,travel enjoy nd be happy.

HAVE CHILDREN OR ADOPT-don't chain yourself to a tree especially a nigerian (ibo,hausa nd yoruba,they are all same)one that likes to use padlock for the chain...2 kobo

bros,na life you call that one

Daeylar:
What nonsense statement is this?

First of all Who says she is not happy? Did the op state whether she is happy or not?

Further more as for this statement you made "getting married to the right person at the right time is a right thing" it only applies to those who want to get married and it's only right them, for those who don't want to get married it doesn't apply to them and therefore is not right for them and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that too.

So because someone doesn't share your views to life the person is not right upstairs, What's really wrong with you? How will anyone's marriage or lack of it affect you? For you to make such a disgusting statement.

Just imagine the level of foolishness in this post

Why should it annoy you? Why should it even concern you in the first place?
So you sit down there in your foolishness and think you know what makes someone happy or not more than the person in question? And you say you are weak. Trash

You need help.
It's one thing to be foolish,
But it's another thing completely to be so foolish and yet be so arrogant in your foolishness

Nigerians and their problem of intolerance towards opinions and ways of life that defer from theirs but in no way affects them.

Please get serious help, so that you will know better than to repeat such nonsense in public next time.
Such a disgrace

I can see how you trying hard to make a point.it's people like you that find believe the world would be a better place if you just get impregnated by someone,have your baby and live the baby mama/daddy life.

Woman! that's what lower animals do and i expect something better from animals with well developed brain, which i should believe you are one.



But then,your comment makes me doubt that.

dangotesmummy:
that's your damn assumption. She has a brain to decide that for herself. She isn't a robot

And where is my statement did I say she is a robot?

Besides it's not everybody with brain that can use it to make good decisions,if you don't believe me,ask those that commit suicide

cococandy:
Hard to believe you're not pained. You sound like that

It will surely be hard because it's what you assumed.

hmmmm! how do you know who's pained?
That's simply because you are pained...and if u think I'm as pained as you are,you are on a long thing.

cococandy:
why are you pained about someone else's relationships status?

To this question,
I AM NOT PAINED!
I believe I've answered your question, and if you need some explanations, i owe you none!

Thank you!

dangotesmummy:
excuse you.happiness means different things to different people

Some people derive happiness by going to church and engage in church activities
Some derive happiness by consuming alcohol and sex.

That she's a woman and she's 29 doesn't mean you have a right to define or impose what should make her happy. No body owns a woman.can't that sink into you men's head

lol....I knew 'they' would come for me...
and who says she is happy being a single lady at 29?
Besides,getting married to the right person at the right time is a right thing,so,whoever doesn't feel happy doing the right is not 'right' upstairs.

ponziponzi:
You don't understand, many of these ladies are unmarried and are close to (or more than) 29. They are simply venting their anger on the poor guy. What else will they do?

seconded!
In other words,they are birds of the same feather that flock together.


And to think they ain't ready to even change that annoys the fvck outta me coz their bad situation is only going to get worst.

To cap it up,they stupidly support their fvckd sentences like.....
'is it a must one gets married'
'my happiness is my priority and I am,as a single'....

when indeed they ain't or they cn bcme happier being married.


Baba! in a nutshell, i just weak for their matter!

imagine people saying what's Op's biz with d lady? when it's been clearly stated they are blood-related. I give up on some NLanders sense of reasoning.

meanwhile, the problem is her attitude and it's already evident since u claimed her ex left her for that sole reason. so,unless she changes that,she might find herself to be among a group of folks I will call 'the old ladies',coz even if she marries, there is no guarantee it's gonna last.

Explorers:
Former world heavyweight champion Mike Tyson head to his seat before the fight.

Singer Demi Lovato was on hand at T-Mobile Arena for the national anthem performance

this demi is a beauty.
damnnnnnn! she dey whine my head.....



but wait,wetin she wear so?

obontami:
why did you think so about Lakeisha?

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Because....
1...I see the friendship ties btw her and tasha being severed
2...she might blow tinz up if her biz is been threatened more than it was.like sealing her shop for far too long if any bogus f.up rears its head up
3...Her relationship with Tommy which I feel would not last long. ....among other reasons!