Creamish:

Babe . . relationship is not slave trade . . its either your in or your out . . its your decision and not dat of NLanders. If u think u can manage it forever, stay with him and replace dat fault wit all d good qualities he has. .

otherwise, bail!

i wish to but without hurting him!

I dey kamkpe!!!

NLer nobody has given me ans to this, everybody is busy saying this or that.

pls help me

andromida:

I think one of the major problems you are having is that you have always played the goodguy.I can understand your hurting and wanting to react for sometime but why would you let some gals who have no value for you destroy your whole personality if you were ever truly a good guy?From what i've seen on nairaland most of the men have poor opinion of women why ask such biased people for advise?My dear poster life is too such to allow some bad experience color the rest of your life i'm rooting for you that you will keep on being the good guy you are nobody but you deserves it.

you didn't get it, the guy is a suck guy playing good

brutal:

on a second thought,u should have been patient. .abi u want tell me say small manliness no go fit satisfy u.

Small can but vegetables can not

190:

poster

we the guyz on nairaland are behind you all the way!!

can u pls tell us precisely what happened

Pls ignore the girls thats the way they are~

you want details? u go get ehm

Many gift to give depend on how much u budgeted

kenan619:

I fit paste the facebook name if una want am

sorry no need NEXT!!!

seun0622:

A lot of times in the past when arguement about getting the good guys ensured, I have always queried some people's comments on why it is so difficult getting the good guys these days.
i have always been a good guy all along in my relationships but sincerely speaking , I now realise it s not the best way to go anymore when dealing with most ladies especially in this country. They will simply take you for granted and as a weakling irrespective of the type of girl she is.
I need not bother anybody with my experiences but I have made up my mind to change gear and wouldnt mind turning into a really badddddd guy.

Guys on NL, What do you think ?

No you have always played the good guy.

their is a diffrence in being good and playing good

good for you!!

lallafati:

Have you gone/lived to all these places and know 100% that it's the generally accepted way of doing things: Considering a girl as being mature and ready for marriage after procreation at home? I do agree that some african societies are maybe "more liberated" which in my vocabulary is not a good thing, but the bolded part is certainly not true. Some of the places u have cited are actually even more conservative.

Yes!!! a brother of mine in Angola tells me that almost all the girls have child athome cos nobody will consider you ok if you don't.

segzi cres:

eyahr sorry ehen!!!!!. try the tall guys they never disappoint with the third leg issue.

No they are not!!! my ex was tall but not huge,

But dos sacking her make any sense becos the girl will still meet her at their meeting point

MRbrownJAY:

you now care about this"modafocka's" feelings while you came on NL and opened a thread bashing the poor lad?!

well i guess you can just pretend that nothing is wrong and live happily ever after since honesty is not your best attribute. lol!

what i needed was how to tell him off. never meant any harm.

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
end that man's misery by telling him exactly what you think about his "vegetable manhood"and how life together wont be possible. there is NO NEED to sugar coat shiiiiiit because if you do, this guy might still go around and walk with his chest out thinking that he's got it going on while he aint (not in that dept at least).

still dont understand why you havent told him to bugger off yet?!

Sorry i cnt just say it that way, this guy has got feelings for me and dnt want to hurt him.

Yes he is aware of his incapability and wants me to accept him that way. But i can't!!!

Pls how do i tell him off? that's my priority now cos i dnt want him to feel embarrassed.

gosh!!! to long for me. BACK TO WORK

Missy B:

I posted on the thread before I saw this post. I'll go back and say sum'n' serz, now.

Thanks for you contribution

Missy B:

I Love this babe Jare.

I love you joo

Missy B:

Rotfl!!!
Werrin You go do na? Wouldn't You choose Love over a D[i]i[/i]ck?
Shebi NLanders say ''Love covers everything'' . . . . . Cover fire!!!

SORRY!!! not in my bible

Odunnu:

Could you hook me up with ths man?I need to see this live!!!

it seems you like it tiny? but sorry cos i dnt want him embarrassed.

Missy B:

Do You like him enough to help him seek help? If Yes, ask him to see a doctor. Many things could have cause his premature ejac[i]u[/i]lation - Too much mastu[i]r[/i]bation, overexcitment. etc
If No . . . .Use the door.


How important is sex in Your relationships? Very important? Assist him in seeking help [if You like him enough to] or get the next man with a better carrot and skill.

Not important? Stick with him and enjoy the fact that ''he's in Love you''.

E pain me o . . . . No be You this thing 4 happen to, sha.

Very important!!! infact, I love ehm BIG, Strong and active.

sorry! is Aloy+Emaka man or woman?

mutter:

In "Family" you opeaned a thread about how your husband dumped you and fled abroad. Now your bofriends friend despoiled you.
I think you need help or you have a vivid fantasy

Why are pple misunderstanding this guy. that post is from the punch news and not from him.

What dos this have to do with romance

SA Goddess:

It is the carrot I feel for seeing that all is normal with the owner. I am curious to know the age of the carrot carrier, at least he should be able to get it up if he is a young man maybe he gets anxious exposing himself like that, shame man!

about 37/38 years.

Spiritual j:

U left Nigerian 5 yrs ago,u coming bac home is 2 cee your elder brother married 2 your ex who has aborted twice 4 u.wat wil u do?

you just called her your ex, so wat's your headache? why dnt you move on or better still go back to where you came from

Missy B:

Yez!

Missy B honey read my post (Help i met a vegetable man) and give me a reply pls i need you to say something

HEY!!! Them don chop you MUGU.

1st i know you sent her money for that journey? Well forget it your money don go

Again dnt send her any more money( for health) because that one na ojoro

NLer's

I met this guy several months ago in a friends party, we exchanged contacts and have been communicating, he asked me many times to be his babe but i was just taking my time, after some months i decided to give him a try. last weekend was i first nite together, I went from mouth to chest and then to his 3rd leg (d1ck) only for me to discover what is smaller than my last finger and it could not stand erect. Gosh!!! the most irritating part is that when i tried touching it, boomm!!! he cum with lots of vibrations. the motherf.uc.ker could not look me in the eyes. I was not myslf for sometime because of the shock, he said he is in love with me and will want me to be his wife. I left without saying a word about that. Since then he calls me every 10mins and oh my God!!!

PLS how do i handle this? Somebody HELP!!!

But WAIT! what is she doing with the guy to the extent of r*a*pe?

Have been seducing this guy?
what were you wearing on that faithful day?

The way you carry urslf matters