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Rosaline5000:
I don't like attention, I am mostly in my room after work doing things that will improve my life.
I am a very good reader of people and I have noticed that some guys thinks if they ignore me I will throw myself at them lol they are always shock when it's get the opposite effect.
Ignore me I ignore you back, I dont have time for rubbish like that

Yinmu...

What's doing this one?

BIA..be kiaful

Divay22:
But i run away from it...
I hate anything that draws attention to me...


Give me all the money in this world, music, food and books i won't even remember i have a phone...
I leave some of my friends on read, some i even ghost (it's not a proud thing to do, but that's to tell you the level of how i love my solitude)

Divay!!!

Why u lying!!!!

Prettygirl200:
Guys am heart broken I am honestly i am. Have been in the relationship with this guy for six months now, I trusted him I gave him my heart. His ex squandered everything he had with him and left him when he was broke, she went back to the street as she is into hookups and all I entered his life and things started growing again, whenever he has she will come back once he is broke she will run away.
I have been faithful to him, just yesterday his friend called me secretly to tell me she came back for over one week they have been living together and he has been having sex with her, I couldn't control my tears as I found it hard to believe.This morning I decided to go there as early as 7am only for me to see my bf with his ex cuddling I felt a sharp pain in my heart and it felt as if I should just die ,this was a girl that humilated and abandoned him for another guy, Have been crying as i felt dejected I don't deserve this my ex who took my virginity cheated on me, now it's repeating itself?? Am too young for this kind of strong heartbreak somebody should come nd hold me pls am down!!!!

Is this for real?



Reach out to me ASAP

davien:
You're absolutely right, one of my exes was a coded hoe and when I found out she talk am say she was doing it so in case I cheat on her it won't pain her. Lol, senseless creature.

Nice excuse

dayleke:
Cool

You still dey area?
Should be stopping by soon?
Your digits still d same?

Yes bro...

I still dey area o
Will be expecting you
Digits still the same too

dayleke:
I fit?

I no fit joor.

I was off NL for a minute.
Back now.

Hope you good.

Lol

I dey jare my brother

dayleke:
Sup bro!!!!!
Where you been?

I dey naija o

Na you forget me bro

Lexkenny99:
She's even giving me a time frame to take her bck else she'll kill herself. I don't want somebody's daura to die because of me. H've been reminiscing abt this thing. She's been sending me voice notes of her crying bitterly. I'm just confused o. This one pass me. Men and shawty's, abeg make una chook mouth 4 dis matter. E wan choke me. I can't even tell my current babe. She's threatening to kill herself

Stop with the BS na!!!

Only one thing baffles me with these stories on NL!


They narrate their stories and still ask what they should do, when it's so clear for all to see.


I mean...WTF!!!

jesmond3945:
just try come first.

Lol...can I send a a pm?

humberjade:
Please do, and let me know once you are done sending it

Thanks bro..

I sent it just now

casualobserver:
I understand that which is why I said that while I won’t discourage anyone, I won’t also actively encourage anyone. I am just telling people as it is. For some people going abroad may seem or be their only option, I am only saying once many overcome these primordial necessities of food shelter etc abroad, the intangibles will then set in and it will never go away! The point is it is not a bed of roses and be prepared for what lies ahead. I understand that for many it is a question of which is the lesser of 2 evils. The point is neither is rosy, staying in Nigeria or going abroad, it’s just a different set of challenges!!!

I think I understand your point.

humberjade:
Help comes in so many ways my brother. If nah to show you the way to enter and establish yourself, why not. I follow in the footsteps of those who helped me settle down by helping others too in my own little ways. I prayed that God use me for people too, and He did recently with the people that migrated from Ukraine. I am not where I want to be, but I believe I am on the right track and I bless God for that.

So it depends on how you want me to help you, if it is something within my power, why not. If nah, Information, I fit share the one I get, and source for more, and if nah to help you settle down, God go do am. I have a lot of job connections, but housing is a very big problem here sha. I don accommodate two people for my bunk already, but we fit still arrange. But again, you still won't really have accommodation issue if you enter say through a student visa sha

You mind I send a mail...PM?

casualobserver:
Do you have legitimate papers? Are the people you are bringing to the Uk legitimate workers? I am a British citizen, I lived in the Uk for more than 10 years I know the system. The question was whether I would encourage someone to move abroad. I wouldn’t because it is trading one form of suffering for a life of certain perperpual slavery for most who will migrate!!! Particularly if they don’t have papers. Like I said, I was born in The Uk I have a British passport, I am well educated I came home. Yes I miss some of the basics but I don’t regret it. I will never live abroad!!! I will never actively encourage anyone either except your circumstances are so dire but I will also warn you that once you acquire the basics, you will be miserable…..it is not a bed of roses!!’

Damn...you scared the shiit outta me with this. I had to rush to the toilet to recover.

But in my opinion, at least, I should achieve those basics before I die suffering in Nigeria na. Even though I understand your point of view from experience.... Shiit is real tough down here bro

dayleke:
That's exactly what the argument is all about that the OP does not understand.

YOU

jesmond3945:
I am currenty helping 2 people to migrate. I gave 2 nigerian jobs in Uk. The job I am doing, a Nigerian linked me up. There are threads in travel section that literally helped people who want to migrate. Look at the indian community in abroad. 11 people live in one house. I told my wife to accomodate one family to split bills she refused. Nigerian community in abroad is the worst ever. Go to phrankleen youtube channel and read more.

Bro....lemme be on your next help list
Naija hard oooooo

megababajo:
The poster may have the wrong friends. I live in the diaspora and always encourage my friends to relocate if they ask me my thoughts. It’s always better to have options that to be stuck with a country without plans.

Can I be your new best friend?

Empiree:
why do you need anyone to give you link when you can easily get what you want on the internet?. And one of the many reasons they are reluctant is they don't want anyone to burden them which is true. You have no idea what people go through outside Nigeria. You don't know how they live. So please stop unnecessary nagging. You can get what you want on social media.

I have received visitors from nija in the past and some of them are bad experiences. Some of them came here and started preaching Jesus to me and my neighbors. I honestly don't blame anyone who refuses to welcome visitors and other thing is how visitors get you in trouble if care is not taken. As for jobs, I have no problem showing folks how to get job but I can never welcome visitors from Nigeria again.

So if you want to travel, have your own resources and get yourself well informed and stop nagging. No one is responsible for you and discourage you. Western world is another setting entirely especially if you never had experience with bill payments. So you wanna become burden on someone?. So I don't get why you need someone to give you link when you can easily get them on social media.

Oga,you will welcome me ooooo

humberjade:
Never for once have I experienced power failure, shey na better health care we wan mention, or as I walk freely anytime of the day without fear (leave home for work 3am fearlessly), no police harassment, no banditry or armed robbery. Although you can't rule out pockets of these crimes, but it has never happened to me. So in all ramifications, living abroad (better countries o) outweighs living in naija right now. But sha, there is no place like home, nah naija you fit truly flex your wealth wey you gather abroad.

Whenever you move, just make sure it is done legitimately. Bro, you don't want to end up as an illegal immigrant (i.e, over staying). I would suggest you move to whatever country you want to move to as a student; that's the easiest way to migrate these days, others are tedious and expensive. Except of course you are in the medical line. Just be sure to have some sellable skills, preferably IT related, or basic skills like manicure and pedicure, barbing and hair dressing (just that all my female friends dey rock low cut now ). Don't travel empty without a skill. And pray for divine favour too.

Now, those who are discouraging you have their different reasons for doing so. For example, on the streets of Berlin for example, I daily run into some of our African people on different stages of madness. While some are making it, some aren't so fortunate, and when one succumbs to the frustration, insanity sets in.

Whichever country you enter, make sure you are legit, pray that God directs your path to meet people that would direct your path (show you the way), don't get carried away, hustle when you still have strength in your bones, find time to blow off steam at interval, and with God on your side, it will be all smiles down the road.

I was fortunate to land in the hands of kind people, who despite what they went through before settling down, welcomed me with both arms and showed me the way. Without them, it would have been hell. And I also met people who didn't want to help, one even said he went through hell, as such, we too should follow the same process, imagine!

I wish you the very best in your quest to relocate abroad. Don't be discouraged.

Now it's your turn to help me. That's exactly what I heard from reading your post.

ednut1:
jealous of There are many countries not issuing visas to Nigerians. When last did you see anyone going to usa on visit visa when compared to like 4 years ago.If you think they are lying go to the embassy website and apply. Person fit dey suffer abroad and u expect them to tell you to come . Can a nigerian get work permit in dubai today No. Some countries in Europe have quota for Nigeria study visa these days. What if you friend went when there was no quota. No one owes you anything. Find your own way

I think I should make you my Japa mentor!!!

Offpoint1:
Take it or leave it as long as she's still conscious and the guy has no weapon, there's no issue.

You also have no idea what human is capable when faced with danger.

K

[quote author=Solosolojohquay post=114569583][/quote]Beaten or wounded are extreme cases.

A man can do neither and still rape a woman. He just needs to overpower her with his strength and tire her out in the process.


WTF is wrong with you people believing that lie that no single man can rape a woman? You are much stronger than you realise

Offpoint1:
Soft personality when rape is involved? You were built to repel or flee from attack..
That's number animal instincts.

VG is not located on forehead

You know nothing,Snow.

That guy told you the truth. But then,most men saying no single man can rape a woman are either weak physically or just plain capping.

A single slap or blow from a man can make a woman concur to anything he wants. You underestimate how strong a man can be when his senses are overruled with lust. Didn't you read the story of Ammon, the son of David, who raped his half-sister?

Rhozabeth:
Ok, I actually need more Mechanical Engrs wirh construction experience in the oil service industry!

Ok bro. My experience was a bit in the oil industry too. But wrong discipline for your needs!!!

Cheers!!!

Rhozabeth:
First, your discipline and ur level of experience?

Earth sciences/GIS..... More than 8 years

Rhozabeth:
You boys of these days don't learn! I am a trained engineer! I can engage u in more that 50 topics, from science to finance to politics and name it, thats where u guys are not wise! Hush pls!!!

I believe you boss.

Anyways, can I send my CV?

TheSourcerer:
Akinfemmy , luminouz , please ....

Lol...sure thing boss

Akinfemmy:
Lol. Ogbeni lo sun

Ok darling

Akinfemmy:
Who owns this rabid dog?

I can never be from your lineage.

Well, I always knew you are not from my loins.

You just proved it. We omoluabis don't insult our elders

richkal:
I couldn't fathom the reason Kante settle for that oldie of a woman. Abi shey Oyinbo don dey use juju ni. . All I can say is the most African players are easy prey for the whites ladies. With these medals and fat salaries, only for the white oldie to feed on almost everything at the end of the days.

It's called the long game mAh nigga!!!

She is scoping for that long money

Akinfemmy:
Who are you?

Your ancestor, mudafucker

You are disgracing me...why not just cut off your diick and I'll know you are not from our lineage ehn?

Akinfemmy:
Are you one yourself because your interest in these things is quite suspicious

Your ignorance is legendary. It just made me speechless