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Hizzojay:
First of all, you ain’t married to this lady in question. I bet she was your side chick or something. Then, you got her arrested for going for an abortion. That’s sheer wickedness.

If you had a sister and someone did this to her, how would you react? I bet you won’t even been able to type the nonsense you wrote above.

You want her to cut short her own destiny for you? I spit! I wonder the woman who would/marry you. I don’t blame anyone here that’ll call you a simpleton cos you’re even worse than the word.

Just pray nothing happens to her in that cell cos you won’t even have opportunity to return to nairaland!

Another moral guy!!!

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Put yourself in your man's shoes

If his mum did that to you, would you love her? Obviously, no

What you should do is find a way to pacify him; If your mum apoligizes to him, definitely he will forget and move on.

If you feel you need to stand by your mum, please end the relationship and let him move on[/color]

Good advice

MadamVanessa:



That sex part got me wet o. For you to cry and pour out your emotions during sex shows that man was just too good with his weapon of mass destruction.

Must you sha behave crazy!!!

OlatunjiJohn:
My first ex who left me in year 2018 to date another guy came back last year and gbam I started dating her without questioning her history that much but before we broke up I knew she has character issues, like how she talk, she lack feminine trait that a man can enjoy from a woman. As soon as the relationship started my entire life crumbled into pieces. The worst and my most toxic relationship ever. I broke up with her March this year. Two weeks later another ex I left before I dated her showed up and the mumu started dating again not knowing that she came for financial help. She did all her best to milk me but all failed that prompt her to start disrespecting me badly to the extent where we brokeup with fight and cursing eachother. A day after we broke up I got a job as software developer. I a fine now and I am happy how the previous relationship ended. Time to focus on the future

Wow...deep.

Glad you are doing much better now!!!

lasisi69:
simp

K

I don't understand these females on this thread at all.

If it was the man who forced the woman to abort, y'all would lambast his life and call him a deadbeat, useless mofo.

Now, a lady got pregnant on agreement, the dude promised to take care of the baby, the girl went ahead to abort it, the man got angry and suddenly, he is a mad man to y'all

Now, he wants to take her to court and females and many men think he is mad? Why the double standard

If the roles were reversed, I'm sure every female on the thread would be happy she sued his ass.

I just taya.

MikeofKd:
I’m

Well sir to be very honest age really as nothing to do with success , only you can motivate yourself sir ,change is hard but all you have to do is picture yourself, it’s more like fantasies but this time very realistic , it ain’t too late sir to become what you truly desire .

At your age the kind of women you need are the likes of Alakija ,Alison Madueke etc
Just work hard and motivate yourself.

Lol... I tested your mindset and you passed. Nice one.

The story I gave you ain't true at all. You and other men on this thread gave me some hope for Nigerian men.

MadamVanessa:



Lovely

Assuming I was her, I will be dragging all those dead men on their rotten dicks.

Damn

You are a special kind of crazy

MikeofKd:
Attracting these high league babes isn’t really that stressful as some of you portray here ,all you’ve gat to do is be highly educated ,get a degree ,at least two masters degree as well, get fit ,b confident , socialize very well , become attractive ,prob work in diaspora ,make a lot of money and you start attracting them outta the blues.

Truth is these high league babes would only come for guys above their leagues tbh , so work on yourself , imagine driving a RR wraith at age 29 and owning a mad crib at Banana island even President daughter go Dey disturb you .

Bro, please what about my case?

I'm 53, just managing and without two masters degrees, just an OND. I haven't eaten well for two good days. I have two torn shirts and two faded trousers! Sometimes, I feel like just killing myself!! Is it still possible to get these high class girls you talk of?

Is there still hope for me?

OlatunjiJohn:
True. I suffered twice trying this bullshit. I view never to date any girl I broke up with

Care to tell me the full gist?

Ceroluvsyou:
Just average but it was 'tiny' compared to what I was formerly used to.. before that I've heard rumors about indian guys dick so I was disappointed he easily confirmed my fears and curiosity.

Lol...average and your dude's dick is at least 4 times larger?

Even if the dude na 4 inch...your dude's is like 16 inches?

Stop the cap.

N.B: do white girls love big diick too, you being a swedish woman and all?

Ceroluvsyou:
Lol why?

Can imagine your face while trying not to cry, at seeing that dude's diick!!!!

Was it really that small?

Even her lovely smile can't soften her rock hard face.

I fear for my diick biko

I think OP has an issue, not medical.

How can you keep creating rubbish topics like these?


Are you mãd? 116 topics in a year and half?

Smells of chronic loneliness!!!

virginprincess:
Op, all this long epistle because of a nigeria man,well i wasn't able read to read everything but my advise to you is to stay away from nigeria men since you are not even a nigerian,they are not what the stress,most of them are very violent and abusive,we nigeria girls are only managing them because we don't have a choice,op pls you deserve better,save yourself the stress and heartbreak they are not worth it, i just read your last part,you better leave that guy alone if you want to live long so he won't kill you,there is no love in an abusive relationship.

What's doing this one?

Better coman marry me and enjoy life.

Ceroluvsyou:
While I was in college I tried dating again...it was a complete disaster... like everything just blew up... The problem I had was trying to see if I could find any traces of my boyfriend's behavior in this guys ... and there was none. It felt as if these guys were trying to love me too 'carefully' like I was being given the 'egg treatment' and I didn't want that...I figured I missed being rough handled, sleepless nights et all... I missed the thrill..I missed being fvcked up and passionately being apologized to.


My second major problem was the second stage of any relationship...I couldn't get down with these guys... it was my like that part of my body just shut tight permanently... whenever they tried touching me I felt disgusted...it felt like a homeless guy from New York was touching me...the first guy I tried dating an Indian who grew up in europe...becos our relationship surpassed two months I felt maybe it was time to do what needed to be done....my first attempt was giving him a blŌw job...so when I saw his dick I honestly felt like crying... like literally my ears teared up a little...so when he noticed and asked why my eyes are like that...in order not to make him feel bad I lied that I've never seen a dick as big as his....but literally my ex's dick was literally 4times the size of this dude's dick...I couldn't do it I immediately ended my eye trauma session. The next day I canceled everything between us like there was no way I could be such a guy... but I felt bad he was extremely nice and cute deserved who loves him...but not me jesus no!......

Lmaoooo .. this tore my lungs up...

You are a clown

Ceroluvsyou:
Definitely this will be the first and last nigerian guy ever I'll date. The rest are scumbags.

See this werey!!!!

Scumbag kee u

Kudducini:
Well said but I really didn’t let her kno guess about my reaction sabi covered up am not too dumb to know what to do I was just shocked and I played along after the expression. So I deceived to play along and she was just telling me her hidden fantasies until she told me she once had an abortion and In my mind I was like WTF?

Am still playing along tho cos I think I haven’t heard the realest sh*t

Lol. You haven't!!!

ProphetJeroboam:
What happens when you wife a hoe that still has unfinished business with the streets. If you think marriage is binding to the average woman then you’re as naive as they come. A woman’s hypergamy simply does not care. It’s how they’ve survived for years since the early cave men. I will always advise keeping your level of investment below hers, it helps to steady the power structure in your favor. Let her be the one to say “After all I have done for you” not you. Do not settle for a woman that still has her best life to live. Michael B Jordan’s story with Lori Harvey comes to mind, Michael completely ignored the fact that Lori got down with a father and son.

A woman’s behavior with a man is inversely proportional to how he sees her, give her the whole world and she will ask for space, treat her like a queen and she will treat you like her subject, treat her like a celebrity and she will treat you like a fan, wife up a hoe and thou shall watch her blow 7 niggas in a row.

"Wife up a hoe and watch her blow 7 niggas in a row"

Very very Fuqin classic. I love it

begoniaa:
LMAOOOOO. See this one. Like this whole thread is not antithetical to the redpill movement?

K

Been long I came across a thread filled with constructive, logical and healthy discussions.


That there are men not willing to settle for less, gladens my heart too.

One love

bigpicture001:
Thannks climbing above average is really very tough... And time is not on my side anymore.. am mid 30...

I am a 300k earner.. and hope to mk that leap by end of. Year to 500k monthly.... But there is still a problem...

I do non formal huzle.. dou legit, but non formal... Wen it's time for ur marriage , den u will see wahalaa... All average ladies with good age wouldn't marry u, if u huzle.. they prefer white collar guyz...

I am a graduate oi.. once taught in a politechnic but left for better huzle and pay... But these class of. Ladies are hell Bent on smooth looking guyz to match thier average income.....for example...I met a federal government teacher lady who is average for a lady..we flowed well, ND don't get me wrong I look very good..but we. Details will be laid on what u do..ND I told her..sh hesitated and stylishly pulled away ...


No b small wahala.. na the thing I dey face now b dat.. well, will get a car a small cheap to maintain car this year to help my cause... My ex has turned out the richest female in my community... It really pains me we huzles together.... Now one zenith smooth dresser guy has taken over her.....another is a non teaching staff lady at a university...we clicked good..but once a guy who is a. Pharmacist came calling sh stylishly slide out.....u see for the. First lady..I earn x2 of the zenith guy,but sh prefers him cuz he will help her fulfill the teenage girls fairy tale dream of me nice guy in suite husband..........for the other one..the title pharmacist blowed her mind........ honestly I want an average class lady..cuz can't keep any down

Only fools trust women!

You still sound a bit bitter about your experiences. You need to fix that.

Then, are you a redpiller? If not, alaye, join quick. A woman's words are not what you check, her actions are.

LoveUdie:
Sometimes we all need assistance in order to meet a need. That need could be employment, school fees, house rent, capital for new investments, clothes, food, shelter, etc. I have been there!
As a man, please understand that sometimes ladies could come to you for financial assistance and it's not out of place. However, what is out of place is you demanding sex in return.
Nobody is ever under any obligation to assist another person. If you can't help without demanding sex, please forget about it. There are many guys who have had sex with ladies they assisted. What a shame!

On many occasions, I have encountered ladies who needed assistance from me. Many years ago, a lady needed just an "ordinary N200" and she entered my little apartment then dressed in a way that suggested that if her words can't get it from me, her sexy body will. But she was mistaken as I assisted her without demanding anything in return. That's the way of gentlemen.

Gentlemen don't demand sex in return when ladies approach them for financial assistance. Aside from being a child of God, another thing that helped me as a single man then was my conscience. I was always putting my sisters in the shoes of those needy ladies. I was always asking myself: "What if this was my sister asking for assistance from a man?". I couldn't just imagine my own sisters being taken advantage of by some randy men. Sex should be a consensual thing, not coercion. Remember, pre-marital sex is SIN.

Men who take advantage of ladies in need are cowards, selfish and insensitive. Instead of taking advantage of that lady why can't you let her go? If you don't assist you are not committing any crime. But when you take advantage of a needy lady sexually, you have no conscience and God won't be happy with you.

Just yesterday, after I had made my previous post on this very conversation, a young beautiful lady approached me financially. I couldn't help her and I informed her. She understood the reasons I cited and she thanked me and left. Needy ladies are most times at their most vulnerable times. Sometimes even without a man demanding sex, they're willing to offer it because of desperation. But please gentlemen, resist the temptation and decline that immoral offer. The lady I narrated in my post yesterday took off her top. She had a sexy body that was very tempting but I decided not to do it. Before she left, her respect for me increased. There are many guys out there who would assist ladies without demanding sex in return. Please be one of such men!
I hope you have heard me very clearly!

What is all this nonsense bayi?

Are you mæd?
You made it seem as if the men forced them into sex or something? You clearly had no issue with the girls offering sex for favours but had issues with the men taking such offers? That's not cool.

If the life of a woman is difficult, do you know how very difficult that of a man is? Who even cares if a man works or eats or dies or whatever? So if a man says I can't help you but the woman offers her body and the man accepts, then the man is bad? You forget, no one is entitled to give you anything for free. People both men and women can help you freely and others won't, so it's left to you to either accept or reject their offer.

Yes, you put these needy women in the places of your sister and wanted to help. You declined their sexual offers and helped them anyways and kudos to you. I have had experiences like yours. But these women offered sex in the first place and while I or you, might not be cool with it, other men have no issues accepting such offers in return for money or help, as long as these women are not forced or raped. And they haven't done anything to go to jail for.

So get off your high moral horse and smell the coffee.

Kudducini:
Very true, things these girls do when alpha calls them are mind blowing. My girlfriend once told me unknowingly about her alpha ex boy who called her to have sex but she was on period.

What she did before the kpanshing shocked me she had to get ice block and hid it in her pr*vte part for some minutes to stop the blood from coming out nigga did what he wanted and she left.


I was shocked she wasn’t cautious about her words until she saw my facial expression and I was like WTF never heard of such a thing in my entire life. Am going back to my normal life as MGTOW.


Very disgusting thing I’ve heard in my lifetime

That's what you call disgusting?

You clearly havent seen what's disgusting bro. You revealed your card too early. That girl was on a roll, she would have told you more hidden shiit if you kept your moral face deadpanned. If she can do the ice-block-flow stopper move, she has done much worse than that but you will never know because your face judged her and that made her know she fuqed up. I love deadpanning my face to hear a woman's true nature


What that girl did gave me an idea already and I love it

In addition to my story,


Both my grandfathers ironically sent away two/three women from their sons' lives because they were proved to be cheats with other men's sons. They used arcane means(herbalist) and palmistry to decide whether their sons' wives gave birth to their real grandchildren. Those they proved to be false, they campaigned till these women were chased out. My paternal grandfather used palmistry. It was said that apart from looks or features, he used palmistry to identify his grandchildren. When I was born, he came that same day, checked my palm and feet, then smiled and congratulated my father. Mom said although she was sure but she was still scared because grandpa other two sons' former wives were chased off for being cheats. He even did this to all his daughters too. All my siblings were similarly checked that way too.

My maternal grandfather used leaves and herbalists whatever to check his own. If you no conform, na to dey go your house. Three of his sons' former wives were chased off this way. He seemed to trust his daughters though.

In retrospect, I think these men were ruthless about rooting out such issues in their lineage from continuing. I just wonder how many of us on this thread are actually sons of our so-called fathers or our real dads are somewhere now, not even knowing they had redpill sons. I can't use any arcane means but I will make sure I build that DNA centre before my time is up here on earth

Second story!!!


My maternal grandfather!!!

I saw him three times before he died. The fourth was the day he died(I shared this story on religious section supernatural thread before). He was a very handsome man. One of the tall, straight, slim and naturally fair dudes type. I could remember my grandmother saying she kept stealing looks at him when he came for her hand in marriage. He was also wealthy too being a cocoa and kolanut farmer with hundreds of acres of land at his disposal.

But did all those qualities make him immune to women manipulations? Hell to the Fuq No!!! He already married two wives, with my grandmother being the second. He had control of his wives and children and everyone was happy. He was one of these natural redpillers of old. Gave orders and watched them obeyed by his wives and kids without question. All that, went to shiit when he set eyes on his third wife. My grandmother would always tell us she never knew why he chose that particular woman. The third wife was short, fat and dark but with a heavy as fuq booty(forgive me but I inherited his loving-me-some-heavy-booty genes too). Ass was heavy as hell and big black, lusty eyes completed that picture. He was warned that the woman had issues and was already involved with a particular riffraff who had no future but my grandpa didn't give a fuq. He married his first two wives as virgins but when he eventually married the third, she was wide like a mudafucking canyon(according to my grandmother).

Not only that shiit, she was also codedly pregnant for the riffraff. Because after 6.5 months, cries of 'nwaaaaaaaa, nwaaaaaaa' echoed in their compound and everyone knew there was no way in hell that lusty, healthy babe with the booming cries, ever belonged to my grandfather. The baby was fair and looked healthy but that was where the resemblance ended. A long, slobbish mouth, a big stomach and spindly, spidery legs, completed the miniature version of that boy's real father: the riffraff. When my grandfather refused to send her away after that truth, was when this first two wives knew he had grown old and sloppy. The last wife who cheated wasn't remorseful afterwards or even remotely gave a fuq. She further disrespected him, did whatever she wanted and basically got a queen's treatment for her whòredom.

If you think it was painful seeing your wife slam another man's son on you, wait till you see him grow up, being fed with your food and looking less like you, rather more like a photocopy of another guy who wasn't fit to tie your fuqin shoes. The son grew up to be an exact copy of his real father, with the telltale big tummy, spindly legs and big head...and finally the rascally nature. That dude respected no one, always claiming what doesn't belong to him and fighting over grandfather's properties. When he was called a bastard by his elder brothers he laughed, and dared them all to say it to his mother. No one dared, after all he bears my grandfather's surname.

Grandpa died and the battle for inheritance started and guess who was the champion? Yes right, the bastard. He took control, sold off some lands and entered into a cold, voodoo-fueled war against his half-siblings. The more the male half-siblings started getting old and dying, the more power he has and right now, he controls more than 90% of that lucrative cocoa plantations and other lands. Most of the female half-siblings have no interest in warring since they have husbands, who have no interest in joining those voodoo-fueled wars. Everyone has left the bastard to reap where he didn't show


My story on both sides have similarities. Both grandfathers were redpilled at first, going for youth and virginity and they controlled their homes. Both grandfathers married virgins as wives, were successful and had good kids but as they got a bit older, they married other women who were not only virgins but irreparably damaged. These women Had since lost their pair bond abilities and so had no issues fuqing outside and giving the products of these clandestine fuqs to their 'dear beloved husbands', who for some reason lost their wills to send these cheating wives out. They knew the wife had cheated but accepted that the children are blameless and using that analogy let their mothers stay. These bastard kids turned out to be thorns and never responsible, even till today. I was told that my paternal grandfather hated that wife till he died but to me, why still stay with someone so despise because of a daughter that may not even be yours? If only there were DNA tests then, maybe these men would have had done the needful...just maybe

Three lessons:
1. Redpill is a lifelong journey

2. Damaged women can't be saved.

3. Never ever ever forgive a cheating woman, even if she gives birth to Thanos, Thor, Odin and Wonder woman combined. Boot her ass out.

One love

Now, in the spirit of sharing real stuffs...I will share the paternity issue in my own family. Funny thing is, it happened on both sides(my dad and mum) to my grandfather's.

My paternal grandfather already had two sons from his first wife. As usual in those days, he decided to marry another one. This one was beautiful and younger than the first wife but after three years, gave birth to just a daughter, no sons. The fourth year had her carrying a swollen tummy around and everyone was pleasantly surprised when she gave birth to a bouncing baby boy. Have you guys ever seen a child who would totally resemble it's father on the day of its birth, that no matter what you say, everyone already knows who dafuq gave birth to that little mudafucker? That was the case here.

The big shock is the son resembles my grandfather's half brother. How come? In her desperation to have a son, the second wife was seduced by the half brother, got fuqed and knocked up. It was said that my grandfather took one look at the little child, took out his hunting knife( I come from a family of warriors) and went after his half-brother, who fortunately, had been tipped off and who ran away. He would have been killed because to my grandfather, that was the ultimate betrayal. The half-brother stayed away for two years before he dared step foot in our town again. The gist was, they were even an item before my grandfather married her but the first daughter looked like the mum, so no one suspected any shiit.

But what of the whòre-wife you might ask? Elders and chiefs of the land gathered to beg my grandfather, to forgive the wife, as a child is a thing of joy and all that balderdash. He forgave her and gave her more babies as a reward. That bastard son turned out to be a thorn in his flesh though. He would sell off or collect rents from properties without ever remitting them to the old man. Not only did he look like his real father facially, he also inherited that one's greed,avarice and cunning. Always trying to outwit, outsmart and swindle his half-siblings and even his own. It got to a point that my grandfather brought out an idol to curse this dude and his mother had to ferry him away to heavens know what, till the matter died down.

When grandpa died, it was said his body wasn't still cold when this same dude was busy selling off the same house his dead body resided and it took the combined efforts of the whole family to outsmart this dude.
Legend or rumour has it, that from time to time, his real father would still come around and I saw him at a point. The resemblance was uncanny. Like two peas in a pod. He openly started calling my uncle 'his son' after my grandfather died. Now inheritance issues are coming up and the dude has already said no one can contend with whatever portion of inheritance he has claimed. They are still fighting themselves on this same issue

My first story.

ProphetJeroboam:
Honest question, why does the issue of paternity scare women so much? Why isn’t there a big focus on this? Nigeria was ranked amongst top 3 countries with most paternity fraud and I thought it was biased ratings but the surest way to get dragged by women on twitter is to make tweets encouraging paternity testing, women will not fail to drag you.

Just wait bro.

I have sworn here on this thread that if posterity permits me, I'd be one of the first to build an exclusive DNA facility in the Southwest.

I still stand by that promise. There has to be something done to that epidemic. It's nauseating. Men cheat, yes but they don't bring back babies and lie that the wives are the biological mothers.
This issue is touchy to Nigerian women because they know they are guilty of it. I'm coming to share some fuqed up stories about paternity fraud to y'all .

Dropping tonight

odinson1:
You ain't seen nothing yet

Damn!!

WTF!!!!

XshegzzyeeiX:
You are on point.

You see this girl I talked about, my intention from day one of our sex life together is to make her go wild.

She's always begging for the next sex appointment. I don take fvck and kinks destroy her brain.

She's at my mercy bro.
When I tell her to jump, all she ask me is "HOW HIGH".

When I'm done making her boobs sag, with dilapidated buttocks from constant fierce spanking during doggy and widening her t0t0, I may be tempted to throw her out to the streets to be the bitch she was destined to be.

Alaye rest na.
Now you dey post lewd pictures on the thread?
Stick to the pilled messages biko.

Lol...the kids were not kidnapped. Where dafuq did these news outlets get that?

This issue happened very close to my house sef.