₦airaland Forum

nedekid:
Haba, how??
Was I his wife or sibling, no be friend I be? I sent him what I could afford, abi you no know say me sef get responsibilities and dependants to take care of? Infact if you look at my profile you will see a post I wrote but later deleted in 2023 titled "my recent health challenge". Me sef been get issues that took heavy money to overcome.
You know how it is when someone ask you for owo, you send, next week his ask again you send, few days later his ask, no be run you go run even if you be odogwu like Obi Cubana? You go think say them don turn you to mugu.
I later learnt after his death the state he was in during hospitalisation was not matter of 10,50,100k na heavy money him need.

I get you boss. I believed you helped him as much as you could. It just made me sad to see a man die alone without any support like that.

descarado:
You can cry as much as you want, Nigerian women learnt from their men.

Rubbish talk!!

Fishface

descarado:
Wonder why the noise.
I know like6 Nigerian men that have partners with kids abroad without the knowledge of their wives.
Some abandoned their wives and their families were in cohort

And I know thrice that in the UK that left their husbands.

Let's compare stats huh

Tightpussy2024:
Except a man married a bad wife from the start,women that their husbands treat them well treat their husbands well because they know a good man is hard to find.

The last pilgrimage I went to,see women with pictures of their husbands praying for God to open doors for him

Pilgrimage what?

You lying black ass

Tightpussy2024:
As if the reverse has not being happening.

When narrating tales(assuming it not fictious) you will never tell us who the man was to the wife before the Japa. But if it's a man leaving a woman,you will start saying "he went where he found peace"


Are women allergic to peace too?

What if the man was a wife beater and chronic cheat and she found peace with this new man?

Na that peace go kee you.

Justifying rubbish upandan.

nedekid:
Big mistake, but atleast he is alive and life goes on. As for my guy, when naija started getting tough for him, he sold his shop he owned in a complex, sold his suv, took the money to apply for visavisa for his family. This was ending of Obama period when US was issuing visa to anyone that applied as family ohh. The guy got the visa. Note also his rent had expired tay tay, but he decided to use the money to fund the japa planing they will leave the country.
Anyway all the money went in funding the visa at Abuja embassy all the way from Lagos.
Long and short the money remaining was for ticket. Na there my guy made mistake. Since money no reach madam convinced to allow her go first and that after working she will send money for him and the kids to come. Na so she japa. Fresh fine yellow woman. After some time I no longer saw the kids, on asking my guy said his wife came and flew with the kids say when she raises more money she will get him ticket to come. Omo, that was how the years started going. I don't know what he said happened ohh, but he said he got a call from the embassy that his visa was cancelled but I think it expired. Na so this guy stayed, no house, was patching with friends, staying in church etc, a guy that had money before. That was how health challenges started, diabetic complications, high blood pressure, swollen feet etc, no one to care for him. He will call me, I will send him money. The last one he called that he was sick, I sent, few days later he called I sent, he called shortly again that he was in the hostital and if I saw him I will not recognise him. I felt he was taking advantage of me and ignored his calls and WhatsApp messages, that was my big regret because I got a call he was dead!
His wife and kids did not show up(likely because of cost or no documents). Infact I heard she had filled for divorce long before his death as she had moved on with her life in the US along with his kids and that put a lot of stress on him.
Man J (1969-2023), continue to rest in peace.
In summary, japa separately works for some peoole, but it is advisable for the family to go at once or worst, you the man should go and then bring your family. Some will argue that family should stay in naija while the man hustles abroad.

Damn ... You let that dude die!!!

BloomingDale:
Lol, deal with what exactly? Giving the same energy back? Don’t worry, keep antagonizing women, very soon you guys will be isolated.

Liar liar ...

IITA3:
I have all. Baltasar Ebang Engonga complete 400 videos, his wife scandals too and several similar 5€x scandals gathered within 9ja are plenty with me. Get and cool yourself with them. They are shocking and honey stuff
Chat me now

No one wants your stewpid ass videos. Just shût dafuq UP!!!

SAMBARRY:
yinmu. Have you checked whether the anus is closed or open

You think say na only vagina them dey fvck?

Mr iyawo faarjin shey your wife get good character because faarjinity without good cha equals to zero

Shût dafuq up punk!!!

We4all:
That is because you promised to buy me a plate of rice and chicken, but ended up giving me indomie and eggs. That's not fair, love.

Hey...get dafuq away from me with that mûmû love crap. You are nuts!!!

We4all:
Some people don't have sense. What is there to celebrate?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You lost yours to indomie and 2.5 local eggs. We know that's why you are pained.


Fishface

DyshApp:
A Nigerian man has taken to social media to share his heartbreaking experience after discovering that his fiancée had been intimate with 32 men while they were together.

His statement reads:

“Good afternoon, Agba. I appreciate all you do for the men in this house. Let me get straight to my experience with women.”

“I had a fiancée, and we had been dating for about three years. She lived close to me, and I often moved between my place, work, and sometimes her mother’s house.”

“One day, she ran out of data and asked me to share my hotspot. I turned it on, and since she needed the password, she handed me her phone while she stepped into the kitchen to get food.”

“As soon as I entered the password, WhatsApp messages started flooding in like a jet.”

“One particular message caught my attention. It read:”

“Her: “Do you remember I told you about my boyfriend? I saw him today, even though he told me he was traveling. I will show him pepper; I’ll poison his food tonight.”

“Agba, since that day, I haven’t eaten at her place! I was in shock and kept wondering, *What did I do to deserve this?”

“I had traveled for business since I work in real estate. Out of curiosity, I decided to go through her WhatsApp chats. What I saw nearly drove me mad—over 32 men sleeping with my fiancée!”

“The craziest part was that she left my house for work around 8 a.m., but instead of going to work, she checked into a hotel near my place, Room 110. In one chat, she told a man, “I need sex badly,” and the guy responded, “But we had sex this morning?” She replied, “I know, but I just want more before I go home.” She even planned to buy condoms on her way to another man’s house after work, which she usually closed around 9 p.m.”

“Agba, I nearly lost my mind.”

“The final straw was when she told me she was at her brother’s house. Unknown to her, I was actually at her brother’s house that night. I called her on video, showing her brother on the screen. The moment she saw it, she ended the call and switched off her phone until the next morning. She later claimed, “Oh, my phone went off.”

“Three weeks later, she told me she was pregnant. Agba, since that night I caught her, I hadn’t touched her! I just laughed and told myself, I’m done.”

“That was how the relationship ended. Now, I just want to stay single and maybe have a baby mama—nothing more.”



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This is not new.... except to simps.

Take the redpill or DIE!!!
YOUR CHOICE

dominique:
Is he not the same person whose babymama called him out for being a deadbeat? He can buy houses but he can't pay child support? I pity anybody that takes these celebrities fake life seriously

Pay child support for what? Can't she take care of the child herself or na force to born?

ajog1:
You are sounding hypothetical right now!
Your take on BP is true; but societal reality will shift you off your ideal views.

Which mumu societal reality?


That I will pay bride price on a pussy bleeped by you and other niggas? That I reward her wayward ways by paying millions for someone yawed, yakked and whammed by other men for less?

Do you really think I need to do that to get a woman in this SOCIETY?? or to get kids?


Hell No

Gerrard59:
Just to add to this based on the Sophia and Burna Boy's saga. I think one of the reasons we Nigerian men are so lustful about sex is because we have been deterred about it from a very young age. Religion has made us view sex as evil and dangerous at least for much older men (30+) rather than Gen-Zs who grew up in a much sexually liberal world. The sexual attitudes in the Caribbean, from studies I have read and maybe from Southern Africa (yet to read about this), are way much liberal than ours. In summary, I strongly believe that if we promote safe sex from a young age, maybe the lads won't grow up to be so swayed by the inner linings of women's legs. Reading David Hundeyin's tweet that startup founders give away stock options to escort is maddening. We pay too much for sex. I strongly doubt the average Jamaican or Bahamaian man would do the same.

For once in your life, I agree with you absolutely.

That's exactly what it is. Repressed testosterone is a biitch

Tightpussy2024:
Luminouz return those items.
It's quite unfair.

Is once not enough?
Haba

Werey leave me alone...

Or am I the one chasing you in your dream?

BloomingDale:
Nature is doing the work for us women.

This Y chromosome thing dey boil your brain sha. Do you know that it's not the only branch in existence? Studies done in rats showed that the male rats evolved another variant of the Y-Chromosome when the maim ome died off.

Men will evolve another one. Imagine a world with only women. How will y'all survive or breed?

Eniolohunda:
Op my advice, if you have the strength and capacity support your wife to get the visa and it will be to the betterment of your family. I read the first three advice on the first page, they are off point. Eni ti tie tijona, koni kona mo tiwa. if you get to Canada, you will see a whole lot of Nigerian family living together in happiness that came thesame route you are about to start.

Thrash comment

kevinexit:
You better get up to 50m
Canada don hard.

We wen dey inside know wetin we don see.

Gist me. What's the latest

43Ronin:
Use that 17m to apply for visit visa, look for any newspaper official working in nigeria and get him to publish some stories about threat to your life, etc then file for asylum once you enter canada. Going to Canada on study visa is a waste of time and resources. There are no jobs and the govt is not renewing post graduate work visa. So if you don't meet up with Express entry draws before your PGWV expires is back to Nigeria oooo

And asylum is the way? 😳😳

You are wicked or maybe uninformed. Did you not see on NL front page the despicable plight of asylum seekers in Canada? Their cases are even worse than students. The best option is still student visa, pronto.

Helpout12345:
This man wants to sponsor his wife to go school abroad. Okay. I pray he will not add to the bad statistics of men that have done this in the past and regretted it.

One of such women i know is being seriously f.ucked by another man in Houston as at today.

Nah the normal thing be that na...all the styles the hubby never do...the Houston nigga go dey do am.

Things I have seen ehn

BloomingDale:
See the advice all these married men are giving this man. Looks like they all do not trust their wives. Very immature husbands here on Nairaland.

Will you keep quiet?

Fishface

Tightpussy2024:
The money used to print the paper(200) will have compensated for the tigernut.why film him?

You guys that have money @gerrard59, monkey face and co should donate and help the struggling ones like luminouz(this one sent dm to a wealthy female nairalander casanlinda),chidiokay and unclejj so that they don't resort to stealing and being embarrassed.

Mtchewww...fishface

Curtis03360:
I’m not taking her abroad, she’s going there while I’m staying behind…..I don’t fancy leaving my comfort zone like she does

Is it UK?
Lol..I hope you know UK is cold....and many wolves are there looking.

Why must she travel abroad for school though? What's the driving force? Since you are not the one leaving, she must have been the one pressuring you to sponsor her and she will later bring y'all over? Tall tales🙂

I have seen this happen a gazillion times. I hope yours will be different but I won't be surprised if it doesn't.

duduade:
You this low budget rapper with ọpọlọ eyes
When will you stop acting immatured

When your English has proper grammar and punctuation marks 🤣🤣🤣

1Sharon:
Why did she get pregnant? 😒

Because you FŪCKED her!!!

🙄

CaveAdullam:
Happy New month.

Hey Cave!!!

Good to see you here!!!

Tonnyray:
This explains everything.
Like everything.

So because he never had sex, he had no redpill knowledge?

Yet you are in the medical field? Nawa o

Tonnyray:
This explains everything.
Like everything.

Will you keep kwayet??

Yen yen yen yen

JESHAL007:
My nigga
Happy Sunday

same boss

JESHAL007:
TALKING ABOUT "HER PAST".

WHEN WOMEN FEAR ABOUT TALKING ABOUT THEIR PASTS OR GET VERY UNCOMFORTABLE WHEN THE PAST IS BEING MENTIONED, YOU HAVE TO BE VERY SCARED FOR YOUR LIFE.

SHE TELLS YOU TO FORGET ABOUT THE PAST BECAUSE "WE ALL HAVE A PAST, AND NOBODY'S A SAINT. NOBODY'S PERFECT".

BUT WHAT ARE IN THE PAST?

YOUR PAST: BET9JA. XVIDEOS. STREET FOOTBALL. PS2. HIGHNESS. LEARN TOASTING SKILLS TO USE ON GIRLS AND STILL FAIL.
HER PAST: PROSTITUTION. ONLINE NUDITY FOR LIKES. 12 ABORTIONS BEFORE AGE 20. SUGAR DADDY HUNTING. ONLY HANGOUT WITH FRAUDSTERS BECAUSE "BROKE BOYS DESERVE NO PUSSY".

TODAY SHE WANTS YOU TO ACCEPT HER AS SHE IS BECAUSE EVEN YOU TOO HAVE A PAST. KNOW THIS. YOUR PAST IS NOT HER PAST. NOBODY'S PERFECT, BUT YOU DON'T DESERVE A DAMAGED HUMAN BEING. THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE DESERVING OF YOUR GRACE YOU JUST HAVE TO FIND YOUR MATCH. THEY EXIST. DON'T EVER SETTLE FOR RUBBISH

My own is that I'm not paying bride price on a woman I didn't deflower. I'm dead serious about that. That's the greatest simping there is. After all her trysts and hard fûcks, she still gets me to pay money on some bride price bullshiit? If she is even from the igbo or Calabar/Akwa ibom side, the BP can be millions.

What exactly am I paying for? BP in old days is about chastity and virginity. She has none and I still reward her folks for her life choices? Tell me why such a woman would ever respect a husband like that. They feel they can eat their cake and one mumu will still reward her for it.

Not me...not luminouz!!!! I WILL NEVER PAY THAT SHIIT

ukaface:
Yeah thought as much YOUR FACE

Yen yen