₦airaland Forum

1Sharon:
She didn't have no wedding. If she was married, she would flaunt the ring along with the baby bump

She wedded!!!

Sorry I didn't invite you

Calibrator:
Las Las all roads lead back to TRP.
Seems like I talk, act and look like one, I might as well be one.



Let me break my hiatus and silence.

You see these girls, don't run from their billing this festive season.
Let them state their preferences and state a higher one, after all, it is a season of giving and receiving gifts

Dolt can't string together a grammatically correct sentence but because of big brezz, she thinks she deserves 20k in this buhari weather.

When are you give me naaaa?

What the you want oooo?



Kai....yet she wants 20k?

I would have sent her a softcopy of 'Brighter Grammar'

Emmynator:
See ba, marriage is a very big risk, even if you vet more than anything, what's to say she won't change over time? If you have a solid frame to help mitigate some of her excesses, what's to say your frame wont shift?
Many times we laugh at married men who bring their problems to nairaland, we call them simps or whatever, but most of them only crime was getting married, nothing more, nothing less.
I'll share a story of what happened to my church member, he has been married for over 12 years, had 5 kids, marriage was going on fairly well, until last year, his wife changed totally.
She stopped giving him sex, stopped cooking, started being disrespectful, he tried solving it by himself, but he failed woefully and it kept getting worse, when she started dressing up every morning, without telling her husband where she was going, he had his fill and started calling for external intervention.
This woman rubbished every single person who came to intervene, she respected no one, elderly men and women, pastors, family members, respected neighbors, none was effective. The only reason she gave for her behavior was that she regrets getting married and she should have pursued her career. After 12 years, really?
Mid July, this year, the man went to work, came back to find an empty house, his wife and children gone. All efforts to get her to come back proved abortive.
The man has become slim with all the stress, interacting with him, i feel that sad energy, a broken spirit.
What did he do wrong? He got married, that's it.
He got married to a woman who 12 years back was more than happy to become a mrs. But 12 years down the line, she feels she should have pursued her career instead. That was his crime.

If at all you decide to get married, be ready for the worst.

Lemme give you possible scenarios

1. The man became weak and predictable and women hate that.

2. She saw her ex who she rejected to marry her husband and the ex is now a millionaire, very happy and she regrets ever leaving him. Maybe he is pressuring her to come back too

3. She met a new flame who has been whispering some sweet nonsense in her ears.

4. She had new friends/met new friends who influenced her decisions and made her feel like she needed a new start

5. She took the kids. Red flag. She wasn't about her career or else the kids would be a major hindrance and she would have left them with the husband. So her husband was the issue,not her kids.

NOTE: Two or more of the points above can be in motion. But the major issue is she now hates the husband, her career talk is premium horseshiit.

Jessepaid:
Hehehe....

Women are stingy with their resources know this and know peace..

I've picked this girl's call severally and the first thing I hear is the operator telling me that I will be the one paying for the call...

I just cut the call immediately...


If there give you their resources, there is something greater they are taking from you..

Watch it..

Check on you by flashing you? Was she expecting the call not to enter?

Akagum dey learn work wia this your geh dey o.

jaxxy:
Read what I said very well. So who is giving her attention during her admission processing in skol? Well nothing is impossible bt that is very unlikely.

There is a bigger chance of paranoia by the guy who thinks he’s doing more than Superman has done and needs attention when ever he wants because he paid some bills for her.

I want to see where she committed a crime or cheated 1st.

K

jaxxy:
When people are processing admissions they are really busy and this should be understood especially during the day bt at night if not completely tired there should be Chance to catch up. If he wanted to see her was it at her skol or at his place? What was her reason for refusing to see him?

Besides the limited calls and availability issues during her important and time consuming admission processing, what’s her crime or bad attitude?

After settling down did things get back to normal or ur brothers paranoia has spoilt things already?

The fact ur dating Sm1 and helping them financially doesn’t mean u should demand heaven and earth from them or not give them space to do things at the space humanly convenient for them.

I want to know what the poor gals crime is. If she is cheating while processing her admission pls also let us know.

The poor geh's crime?
You defending her already? So you think because she dey process admission, she now got so busy for simple phone calls from the guy who paid part of the admission processing fees and such? You no know nothing,Snow.
She already has someone giving her attention. Did you read where she said the 30k is even too small for him to be disturbing her on?

Y'all don't know women

SurvivorM:
I am not condoning anything, just stating facts

That ain't facts.

He should collect his money. It was a loan

Depressed101:
forget the money, it is the best revenge

How is that a revenge?

He should collect his money. Stop making women feel entitled to your sweat and money. It is annoying.

If na me, I go use police go collect that money

SurvivorM:
Ok your brother should forget the money, I don't think she will pay, after sometime she will start thinking of every she has done for your brother.
He should forget the money and move on

In other news somebody should bless me this Christmas (yes that's my new signing off like slowmirr and the other guy that kick people with his boots)

So you condoned her bullshiit while begging for scraps here?
Nawa for una o

That island now has fertile soils for at least 50 years.

Those lavas are a rich trove of minerals.

MJBOLT:

that's true but we can't tell because na only the babe get the video

True sha. But if his face is in that video, he has crucified himself. People get mind sha. Sending a pic of my junior Lumi to some random online chick, to coerce her for a fuq, na something my ancestors will slap dafuq out of me for.

Men dey try o....

How can you send dick pix to someone you don't even know that well, not dating and definitely who didn't even give a fuq about you.

I have seen this behaviour in some men and I wonder what they gain in sending dick pictures. Is the dick supposed to make you more manly or seduce the geh to sleep with you or what?

I don't just get!!!

MJBOLT:

defence for work if him no send video recording of him penis

Yes but how do we know it's his,without his face attached in the pix?

MJBOLT:

this one don go disgrace him ancestors

His defence is simple.

"His account was hacked"

MJBOLT:

don't be a fool

Damn this doctor has been on some red pills since his ordeal in London with that naija girl.

Mariangeles:
Have you considered the fact that your wife might be going or might've gone through postpartum depression, which might've led to that behaviour?

Were she and your mum having problems before your wife got pregnant and had a baby?

N.B. Postpartum depression is not an excuse for bad behaviour, it is real.

Postpartum that didn't affect her own mum but only his mum?

Seems selective amnesia

Postpartum depression is real though

Magnoliaa:
Why my mata go dey tire you? How many people I dey crush on? You berra dun goan haff stress o. And who said I don't crush on the guys in my streets? Mukaila the welder that I am crushing on, nko? You know am? Abi, Rabiu the bus conductor that I gave my number to the other day, him tell you say I no dey give am face?

Liar

BigBashiru:
for men that get married, still have your plenty outside chicks and never promise your wife monogamy. she got married because her smv is declining and u hv money. but ur smv is still high as a man so keep the wife and hv ur outside girls!

don't sacrifice your additional mating opportunities for any woman.

WTF is this?

Take it easy o

Mkelv0106:
We guys are the ones empowering dem females.
Most of this young hoes are richer than us, but we kip forming big boiz just to impress dem females..
Recently a friend of mine, went to Abj with some other guys of his, telling how dey went to Obi Cubana club in Abj, met a bunch of hoes, who bid dem 100k each for a night. I was like Dafuk bro, 100k to smash a pu*sy that's for everyone, and his defense was, bitch was high class. I was pissed, this's d same dude that can't give a brother 5k for kips.
Got some of this youngies in my area who just came up on some small paper, and all dey do is transfer to every 18 year old upcoming hoe that ask dem for money.
I've seen so many simp, it's gon be hard to redeem dem.
Got a nigga of mine, that can travel to anywhere in Nigeria to hook up with a piece of pussy. I cut him off, after discovering what an irredeemable simp he is.
Dem simps are the ones we need to culture and groom, not dem hoes

Lmaooooo.

I wonder what makes a girl high class? Her looks, skin tone? Big ass? Expensive wears or Iphones?
All those things are packaging bro and I guess opportunities. I have never considered any girl high class because of all these things. The so called high class girls your friends paid 100k for, are being fvcked by men with lesser Kobo but stronger frames. Putting a premium price on pussy is as bad as kissing a goat: you will never be appreciated for it.

When a young nigga hustled so hard to make it,only to start burning his cash on the same girls who won't even look at him when he was broke,is nothing short of modern juju or voodoo.

Which girl would reject such free meals?

tayewomi:
hello readpillers i need advice on these issue.
i just recently gained admission to a Nigeria premier University,UI precisely.
So there's this girlfriend of mine she came to work in my brother place so from there i collected her Contact and we start dating.So since then at least i do see money then so i used to give her things and buys things for her,its a serious relnshp.First red flag during my b-day this girl only wish me even if it's a hanker Chief she can't give me just to appreciate & celebrate me,i overlook it and i later tells her attitude isn't good that gone,let me summarize things here.her parents we're not well to do,her dad is having like 3-wives so things were not rosy on their side bt thank God they doing fine.so this girl travelled to a neighborin town to learn some skills and i taught we can do LDR,so i do snd her money attimes,so one time we had a disagreement and we both called it quit,so many months she called me and we reconnected,bt things weren't the same as at wen we start dating,so she came to see me in my base and she didn't even allow me to hug her or anything,i was even asking abt her skill &shcl all what this girl was replying was how to buy gown,sandal and even requesting to collect my phone suggestin i get another one later.I was puzzled coz she's not like that wen we together,but before i gained admission wen i asked her to let's us continue our relns she tells me that weren't compatible that i haven't achieve since we start dating,so i back down.she partially agreed to us dating,So recently she do upload diff guys on her status,she upload one guy calling him her crown and happiness and love,i overlook all that and i ask we continue dating she partially agreed,av seen her diff post on FB askin anyone who can buy her a sandal and she's not like that wen we still together,Lastly she recently asked me for a favor of 2k and i told her i will borrow and not give her,she agreed and i gave her,so days later she requested data and i sent her,so days later i called her to call me wen she's less busy till 3-days after she didn't call me,so i mssg her on FB wy she didn't call me she just shout at me and reply me in a rude manner and i just jejely tells her to let's us break finally that i can't cope again,i suspect she's dating the guy she uploaded on FB they both snapped a pix together wearing the same clothes and she's still claiming they not dating so av told her before wen she called abt the 2k that av given her but i just called back a day after she rudely replied me on FB that i needed the 2k i gave her it really shock her.I have collected the money and i have finally moved on after i told her not to chat or call me again.i can't be her back-up at least i will see better girls in school one of the reason i discard her and dt she's stingy,guys hope i did the right thing..
Use ur resources on yourselves...

You are asking if you did the right thing and yet you dey advice us to use our resources on ourselves? *Rolling eyes*

On a serious note:
You did the right thing but you should have done it sooner, especially when she started asking for material stuffs after she came back from her skills station. Seems she learnt a different set of skills over there bro. And yes!! She is dating that FB nigga and prolly other niggas as well. She is young and like most girls her age or status(uni/sec school), they live for the moment and try to maximize that time of their lives, before the pressure of marriage and other life realities hit them like a pile of bricks.

Leaving her after collecting the 2k loan gladens my heart. You are in UI bro. Girls are as numerous as the sand on the seashore there. Coming from a UI alumnus, girls are the last thing you should worry about in UI. You will get as many as you desire, just maintain your redpill frame

Men ain't what they used to be...

This is very coarse biko

See erotic whatsApp texts and a married woman dey enjoy such?

I once dumped a gf who sent her puccy pix to another guy that she never slept with. No amount of explanation was enough to get me to forgive her. Imagine my lawful wedded wife dey talk this rubbish on WhatsApp with another man? I go just do DNA for my kids and ease outta her life,so she can hoe in peace.

I really pity these guys getting married these days. I keep reading such horrible things about marriage that it baffles me why people still do owanbe every Saturday

Hotspotbro:
Hope that gender equality bill ain't becoming a law.

Not until 2/3rd of the Senate are women and the Senate president is a woman.

Those alhajis up north would definitely lose their powers in marriage

Ronnnie:
I don't use the Tag "Real man" to try to critize him or his actions....people use that as a manipulative tactics which am well aware of....
I just gave some solutions with less risk attached to it like giving her a Stern warning at first,then if she continues reporting her to the appropriate authority or even giving her a Slap....but Touching her back is way riskier Kos if she reports to the police,even with the CCTV evidence available,he will still be charged and asked to pay bail....you know how this system works....
Look at Johny Depp who was accused of physically assaulting his wife...even when CCTV clearly showed otherwise...he had already lost some big deals even his role as Jack sparrow in pirates of the Caribbean while she lost nothing and still gets movie roles till today.
The system is rigged against men...understand my point

I get your point. But unlike Johnny Depp, this is still Nigeria, not the UK. Women without proofs don't get men sent to jail. Besides, the same CCTV that caught him on her breast, also caught her on his ass or groin or wherever she touched. It's a two-way thing. The only situation that could have made OP guilty was if he started it first without provocation. However gynocentric his work place is, a woman who grabbed a man's balls without provocation,shouldn't complain when he grabs her ass too. Men are not recipients of BS,at least not the redpillers who know their worth. But like I said I get your point, unlike the CR guy who was dripping of emotions

CR777:
OH please shut up, if you joke with your job, not everyone jokes with theirs. I wouldn't have seen anything wrong with what he did if it was in a mall or social environment.

Why exactly are you supporting a man who behaved like a child in a business environment?
Does cctv change the fact he fondled a girl's beast severally while at work? All for what? Trying to appear tough?
If the case is taken to management, how do you think they are gonna see or view his personality?

Sometimes it's best to use your brain in some certain situations.

K

Ronnnie:
Read my reply well....am not judging his action but the society we live in will only take action on his Response....you know that's a fact

Nothing would have happened in his case. Because there are CCTV and witnesses. Even without those, he still won't go to prison because she has no proof. Rape accusations and the likes have not been prdestalised like in western societies. I don't care if I lose that job,but no woman would molest me like that and I would walk out like a REAL MAN. THERE IS NOTHING LIKE A REAL MAN, YOU ARE EITHER A MAN OR YOU ARE A NOT

CR777:
This guy sef, what's your wahala? Sensible guys are trying to talk some senses into that stupid and daft head of yours.

You dey here dey brag about squeezing a girl's boobs at work, shame on you. Your childish brain hasn't deciphered that women are given preferential treatment almost everywhere. Let them take the case to management and see how it's gonna play out or who's gonna lose. Of all places to show how childish you are, you chose the office;your source of income in this buhari regime lol.
What happened to walking out like a real man? Sometimes I weak when I see the sort of things you redpill wannabes update here.

At this rate, management go soon reason your matter, u don't know you are in Nigeria abi? A country that's gonna condemn u once a woman mentions the word 'rape'. At this rate, I see you becoming jobless very soon if you don't start reasoning like a man and not a child, All hail Capslocked, the forceful office Boobs squeezer.

I stopped reading when you claimed 'he should have walked out like a REAL MAN'.
So a real man allows himself to be molested publicly and condones it? WTF have we been teaching all this while?

Didn't you read CCTV and public witnesses?

Wow. These dudes are more emotional than logical, same as 95% of Nigerians.

Ronnnie:
Even if you are Redpilled,you still live in a Bluepill society which is bent on pleasing the female gender...I support your stands but it's wise we don't go to the extreme...
When I served in a school,a male teacher was sacked and even almost arrested bkos he flogged some female students in their buttocks even if some male students were also flogged,but emphasis was on why a male will flog a female in her buttocks..some parents wanted to get him arrested but the school pleaded.....
Most laws are usually bluepilled,ask any lawyer what our constitution defines Rape as or research it yourself and you will see how biased the system is....The law only regards Rapes as when a MAN takes sexual advantage of a WOMAN...it doesn't believe reverse could be the case...
As for you saying she has no evidence,All she needs is to report you and be in tears while doing so and you will understand what am saying...
Don't tolerate such act from women but revenge should be your last action...Rather give her a Stern warning and ignore her till she apologises rather than groping her breast back...Other women and simps will come for your head if she makes the case public and you might be dismissed from work...
Remember the saying "when in Rome,act like a ........." You know the rest

I support capslocked on this.

Besides, he clearly said CCTV was on,so what was the problem? Didn't anyone read that? Seems no matter how the redpill teaches you to be selfish, some guys would still be emotional. THERE IS A FUCKIN CCTV CAMERA TOGETHER WITH WITNESSES. can we all move on now?

In as much as we all claim to be redpillers, I can now see that some men will still believe some women are NAWALTs. Every guy saying he should have walked away was wrong. He was molested right at work and gave back as good as he got. Why are these guys still trying to defend the woman? It doesn't matter whether it's a gynocentric work place or not, a woman who molests me,gets her full refund from me.

Redpill is indeed sweet on paper,till it's time to apply it in the real ass world. That's where and when you separate the men from the boys. In reality, redpill is harsh and hard, that's why you need doses to maintain frame

WTF!!!

Ronnnie:
Some redpill facts of modern Women you must learn to accept
(1)A beautiful face never means a beautiful heart
(2)You can never be the only guy she flirts with,but you can be the guy she wants to be with
(3)Women are like shadows,the more you chase her the more she runs,the more you run away the more she chases you
(4)When her chats or calls is getting shorter with you,it's getting longer with another guy
(5)Women don't know what they want,but they know who they don't want....and it could be you
(6)Women don't love you,They only love how you make them feel
(7)Women don't apologise when they cheat,They only apologise when they are caught cheating..
(The only true tears of a woman is the one she sheds in private,any other one is just for manipulation or to gain symphathy
(9)The more body count a woman has,the more difficulty she has to bond with a man.
(10)A woman will rather Die with a lie than confess she cheated on you

Truth

Magnoliaa:
Awwwwwnnnnnn. My love and my crush. I'm SO happy for you! I pray you'll both be great partners to each other be best of friends 'til the end in a beautiful marriage.

Happy Married Life in advance.

I taya for you. You no dey ever crush on Jamiu wey dey your street?

Smartb0y:
Probably a scammer tbh

Na scammer.

Single mom scammer