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heartofcity12:
Sad a lot of them are just like this. We men just need to keep setting standards like these hoes do too.

Damn straight!!!

Imagine a 33 year old lady telling me I'm being misogynistic for telling her point blank I don't have interest in 'above 30' babes. She wants a tall, dark handsome, rich mudafucker-- and he must have 6 packs too. I threw back my head in laughter. And I told her 'you ain't getting shiit with your tummy looking like pregnant sow' Guess her reply?

"The man will find me and love me for me"

I just shook my head and walked away. I'm not interested in women delusions

heartofcity12:
No doubt. He actually sees her as the prize.

Wrong mentality.

heartofcity12:
Yup. That’s exactly how they are. Toyin too isn’t any different like you already said, she settled because she’s damaged. She was equally hupergamous, she dated the iphone thief Seun Egbegbe(who probably was finding her lifestyle with theft funds), she must have dated several other rich dudes that eventually dumped her, she got introduced to drugs and started using heavily, she got married to a fine Yoruba actor but ended up divorced, she was growing old and had to settle. That’s why she ended up with that guy.

@ your last line...
I bet the dude counts himself lucky to have her as a wife or so society and feminism wants him to admit

MJBOLT:

we understand

The girl is smiling and putting her hands on her head thinking

"I am pitying this nigga in advance"

heartofcity12:
That’s a nice test you put them through. I’ve had my fair share. I went totally broke some time ago and I asked my girl then(who I once accommodated, drove around and fed for months when she had nothing) to help with just 5k, she couldn’t come up with it all through, she was with her parents then and all she kept saying was that she was broke, she couldn’t even help with 2k, then she started ghosting me all of a sudden, girl that used to act like she loved me so much started to ignore me except I call her, that really opened my eye a lot more. Most of them are just like this. AWALT.

Yet society and these women want me to somehow be grateful that they agree to date/marry me and have my kids?

Nope nigga!!! I have had it to my teeth with women like that. These two just lost Lumi (or whatever version of me they liked) because they are permanently on blocked mode. Let them find a husband material somewhere else.

Algebrah:
Imagine!
So the only thing she can offer is sex

That's all some can ever offer.

Haven't you heard of the 'your money is our money but my money is my money' talk from women?..

You're all alone Crusader!!! That's the truth. Yet society wants me to believe I'm not complete till I'm yolked with a woman for life?

Damn niggar...it ain't aiit at all

Hello Men!!!

Today was another test and reiterated what I already knew. Women are there only to enjoy your sweat, just at the finishing line to kiss the winners and discard the losers. The only one you have is yourself and you must train yourself to be damn strong and self-reliant. No woman has got your back except you.

I tested two women today who according to them are good women and would do anything to help me out. I carry out these tests or vettings to gauge the emotional and mental capacities of women by forcing them into 'action', not words. The test was simple. Told them I am stranded and need 1k to sort myself out. These two work and obviously have money. Guess their replies? One who is a foreigner told me she lost her ATM (despite working in a bank). The other heard my request and switched off her phone. Turned it on just now to tell me that network was bad, so she couldn't reach out to me(She works with MTN).

In the same vein, I tested 5 of my guy dudes(all redpillers) and all of them came through with 5k each. Sent their money back with 'Thank yous'. I sent screenshots of my guys' alert to the two women with the caption ' Test failed'. These two women are looking for husbands and swore to me that they will take care of me. Like I said, it's what a woman does that counts, not what she says.
The foreigner has promised to make it up to me by spending the weekend to 'fuq my brains out'. Apparently, my life is worth just some rounds of Doggystyle. I have blocked her line.


Redpill tells you the cold hard truth. It's left for you to swallow and imbibe it. If I were kidnapped today, none of these 'i love you Lumi' babes would give a damn if my neck was slit,if they won't send 1k to my captors.

#youareallyougotmudafvvker#

chikasnight:
With women nothing is really a guarantee of smooth sailing, even marrying a virgin at 18yrs is not a guaranteed to a happy relationship all the tips and ideas we get here does not really eliminate the risk but to reduce it...it is what it is already

I keep wondering what Mike did to her that the husband didn't do or failed to do. It's just a marriage of two years and she is tired already.

I surmise that she prolly married him for the money or stuff like that but fell in love with Mike. For her to invite him over for her birthday and introduce him to her own husband took a ton of guts. That kind of woman would gladly kill her husband to marry Mike, if he so wishes it.

Marriage isn't really made for men. God help me but I get bored easily staying with any woman for 3 days. I wonder how those married for 30years cope.

fyneboi79:
why is no one crucifying Tiwa or Jane who are erring adult/ parent? Instead everyone is calling for the death of a twerking child.

No one called for her death and if you are really an internet user, you will see tons of negative comments on the Jane/Tiwa saga. You still haven't answered my question.

Rydermaverick:
Blanked out..that's a very dumb one there...

K

Rydermaverick:
Am I supposed to reply you?..
Don't be a silly billy..
How was today's service or you didn't attend church?

K

fyneboi79:
I am with you all the way! I don't see nothing wrong in her act because it was borne out of naivety to win the prize. She's just a kid.

So your own sister will twerk like that and your parents will buy her a Benz, because she is a kid?


C'mon, let's call a spade a spade biko

Rydermaverick:
Thanks man.. seriously I am pained right now cos am not really happy about what the parent did..
Been through this shit man and most people don't know what depression is..it kills man it eats down inside you..that feeling when no one wanna accept you for who you are..
And anyone who wanna quote me with insults will really regret it..pls enjoy yourself man I really appreciate you..

Ogbeni shut up.what nonsense are you spouting? It's people like you that support nonsense in this country.

Her parents sent her to school to read not to shame them by twerking with her butt cheeks open for all to see,for some financial rewards. Is that not shameful to the parents who sent her to school? That act was what the parents disciplined her for. It's a cultural and moral issue and the family felt it was a pain in the ass. So what's your own?

If your sister went live like that, your parents will buy her a Benz? I quoted you nigga so come do your worst.

Nonsense and Ryder olodo

Anyone watched the eternals movie yet?


Undercover shiiit!!

Necrophilia is real.

Lightway:
And so fuking what?

Red is the pill we preach here bro....take the blackpill somewhere else. Blackpill is full of rage and pain. No human can survive long in that state. Flooding your bloodstream with hate endorphins affects your BP, your synapses and soon enough your longevity.


Hate burns very bright but burns shortest.

JESHAL:
Get her addicted to you by being very harsh, narcissistic but in the process don't soften yourself because you can see feminine fluffy display from her and also her exhibiting histrionic, your aim is to be extremely toxic but yet emotionally detached that she can't do without you,aim above morality, objectify her, reduce her to worthlessness and make her feel insecure about herself, tear her down emotionally, break her spirit, when she's in your presence she will let go of her ego and sense of entitlement, toil with her emotion badly, be unavailable, be distant emotionally, when she's with you, neg her as a way of life, look down on her, be subtle and sometimes be open about it, demonstrate softness to exploit her , your presence start to intoxicate her like alcohol, you give her that drama and attention that the feminine psyche Innately crave, you induce dopamine chemical reactions in her by giving her excitement and challenge, I won't go in full details to the more sadistic dark traids aspect to fully own her like a fearful slave who is bound to the will of her master by her own accord due to some extreme manipulation from you as these is a public thread with people of varying morality and religious beliefs, it will be very sensitive to discuss , anyways remember that throughout the process never fall in love, catch feelings, develop bond or emotional attachment, same way female sexual strategy sees you as a disposable utility to monkey branch to a more suitable suitor due to Hypergamy, see her as a source of sexual pleasure only, satisfying your carnal cravings, always have an harem of women, keep on sourcing to add, your sense of contentment and happiness must come from your accomplishments, only develop bonds with your trusted colleagues or useful relatives

This is no more redpill but blackpill.

Lightway:
If a girl shows you green light and you meet her take her number, invite her to your home the next day and knack the hell out of her... That's how it's done.. chasing is for losers

Take it easy bro....

hardbite:
If you need a civil engineer to build it for you still, I'm your guy

So you can 'bite hard' on his finances?

Dliquidmetal:
although the moniker you quoted is doesn't have a gender indicated but I tell you,she's an attention seeking hoe too Boss.

Wow... thanks...

I didn't know before...


Done.

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Akinbahm:
At KiNg0G I understood the angle you are coming from, truly the real deal is out there and out there is totally fvcked up and to correct it you gat dey alright.

I’m not siding lumino.us, I wish you can witness the way these fraudsters looked down on people well, in all honesty non has done nasty stuff towards me cause am always on my lane.

Average Yahoo boys believed once you approached them you want to beg for money or request for a ride that’s crazy mentality.

It's even not a point bro. I won't go inside a huge ass thermocool showroom to beg for money, when I clearly came to buy stuff and dude saw me ask for a new TV guard. Like you said, they already have a preconceived notion about men who approached them

And so it begins...

The end of the human culture as we know it.

Martinez39s:
This is no laughing matter even though I am smouldering with laughter. Simping and the blue pill state will make a lot of men reap premium tears.

Carry yams and plantain from Ado-Ekiti to Owo Poly for the girl and her roommates? JESU!

I'm very serious bro. This happened close to me. He went mad for days when he saw the IV. He had to be sedated for some time. One night I was with him and it was on a full moon. He went outside naked and in the light of that full moon cursed her. Last time I checked, the girl hadnt given birth since she married. She came to beg him multiple times when she didn't give birth but he wouldn't listen or forgive. Dude was too hurt and broken to ever trust any woman again.

MJBOLT:

men with money are very difficult to advice.
me no dey advice anybody, anyhow you wan spend your money,spend am.

I guess you have a point. I wanted to give him the link to this thread so he could just go through and maybe his eyes will open but he already thought I was there to beg for money. Why would any sane human come inside a thermocool showroom to beg for money?

SkyFlint:
Luminouz, you must be a very kind-hearted person.

Guys like that don't need your advice or pity. They are just for amusement. Watch them and laugh. Plus, there's no way he would have taken your advice. You're just a stranger trying to put a wedge between him and his own personal angel.

He was never going to listen.

Don't advise anyone on relationship. Everyone already thinks they are EXPERTS at it.

Even if they are heading for hell, let the flames of hell script its indelible lessons on their skin.

Lol...I can be cold blooded as fuq bro but anytime I see such men on the path of destruction,I try to at least say something to help them. Because as men, people don't really know what we go through to survive or make it in life and most times, we do that shiit on our own. It's so hard to find a man who will help you out unlike a woman who can cry and use feminine wiles to curry favour. So when I see struggling men make mistakes, especially with women, I feel bad and wanna help. Because after struggling so hard to make money only to fall into the hands of a jezebel is a Fate worse than death.

You haven't seen how cold blooded a woman can be when using a man or cutting him off for good. They never show mercy and I have seen men go crazy after being treated that way. I shared a story on nairaland about how my childhood friend cursed his ex-gf who left him during NYSC year,after he trained her through ND and HND days while being a plumber and farmer. She met a doctor during service and sent him her IV through Whatsapp. It's the most cold-blooded thing I have ever seen. He went off the rails for days and even till now, I'm not so sure he is still totally normal. I was younger then but I told him to stop and at least send himself to OND too but he believed the girl loved him and after marrying her, he can do part-time courses and graduate too. Dude will carry yams and plantain from Ado-Ekiti to Owo Poly for this girl and her roommates. He used six years of his life to serve her and she broke up with him on the eve of her engagement.

Kings develop yourselves I beg of you. I have seen cruelty and misery enough and I'm telling you men are bearing the huge brunt of it.

Few times I tried to talk to men either after seeing or overhearing how they suffer in the hands of women have met with fewer success. They don't usually seem to understand what I am saying or maybe they are not capable of understanding my shiit.

A week ago, it was another dude who bought an Iphone 13 for his babe. Special order typa shiit. This dude has parents still owing landlord rent. The girl in question is just a student whose parents are low level civil servants and definitely not the type to buy an iPhone 13 for their daughter. Yet my nigga hit some dough and she started wailing to be gifted an iPhone so her life would be complete.

We met at my barber's. And he was just crooning about his achievements and how he carried 'toothpick' casket (whatever that means) for 500k. Yet this dude didn't even have his own personal clipper and was surprised I came to the salon with mine. I told him to at least get some plots of land, buy shares or start any business to at least tie down some of that money for his future. Dude looked at me like I was crazy. He said and I quote ' if this money finish, i go get another, money is to be spent'. I said ok but at least build a house for your parents. By the vacant look in his eyes,I knew I was talking to air. The barber kept winking at me to stop advising him all the while till I finally listened.
His gf came into the salon after a while and when they left, the barber and some other guys were snickering. That same girl has been serviced by some neighborhood niggas on recharge card, noodles and ' lemme come and charge in your house' format. Yet mudafucker already rented a room for her with the promise to make her birthday bash the tightest ever. Yet, as the dude ranted on that day, he looked sallow with dull skin and a few eczema dancing kerewa on his neck and cheeks? Why dafuq couldn't he take care of himself first for fuq sakes?

Why will a young man make such money and just throws it on a woman, after all the suffering he has gone through. Weren't these sufferings enough to make him wise? Didn't he gain anything all those years of drinking gaari and kulikuli, no light, house rent, poor standard of living periods? If experience was the best teacaher , shouldn't he be wiser? These thoughts flew through my mind when as I was going home that day

A part of me is sad that such a young dude is losing it so early but the barber said he doesn't give a fuq. Apparently,I'm the only one who even tried to help.

#itsacoldcoldworld

I want to thank you all for ignoring trolls. Especially quoting f monikers. We don't hate women but we don't want their distractions here.
This message is for the newbies who are wondering why we don't ever quote female monikers.

Just this evening I was in a thermocool showroom(where I went to replace my burnt TV guard), I saw a couple, the typical yahoo nigga gangster wannabe with tinted dreadlocked hair and his woman buying a host of electrical stuffs. The girl moved around,followed by the guy who kept looking at her with adoring eyes. She picked a curved smart TV, sound systems and a huge thermocool freezer. At the counter, when it was time to pay, he said her names should be on the receipt. The manager jokingly told him 'now that you have bought for your gf, oya coman buy your own too ooo'. Dude said no need for that, since his gf already have the whole shiit and what's hers is also his. All the while, the gf behaved as if she was doing that nigga a favour by breathing the same air with him. The attitude almost spiked my BP. I kept wondering how in hell did this nigga become so blind he can't see just that the babe doesn't love him or gave a fuq. Once the stuff is paid for, the girl just strutted to the door and waited for the dude and the attendants to pack those stuffs to his car, outside.

I took six steps towards him and said 'Bro, I need to tell you something real quick'. He looked at me and said 'sorry bro, I don't have money to give you. Everybody dey hustle o'. Whatever pity I had for him died when he said that. I just smiled and said goodbye. I bought my TV guard and left.

I can't save everyone.

Akinbahm:
The bolded is damn sad, it always reminds me of one of my guys who will comfortably buy any lady fried rice & chicken(2500) but will find it hard to buy white rice and spoil the rice with plaintain, meat, egg, fish and step it down with a cool malt (1000) only to result to garri in the hostel.

I remember another sad experience, he borrowed some cash to camp a lady in one of our friends room and came back later to other apartment to battle with bread.

Is there any secret book that says you must spend to impress women at your own detriment which have not come across house cause the thing is damn annoying aswear.

It's the oneitis syndrome.

A mudafucking itch that starts from your spinal cord and makes you feel like you should suffer so your babe can smile...and love you in return. It makes you feel you must provide or be termed incompetent,uselsss and dickless. This itch is so bad, you can even pay her school fees, house rent, birthday fees,while you collect only boxers and Doggystyle as rewards, just because she is your sun and stars, despite the glaring fact that the so-called love is one sided. You think doing all that will make her love you more and when upgrading her status you refuse to update yours and soon enough mudafucker, she will look down on you and despise the man you have become.

Let me tell you one secret, no woman,my mother included thinks a man who pays her school fees/house rent/birthday present with his life savings is cool. Inwardly,they sneer at you cuz you weak as fuq. Who but a fool would neglect his own development while upgrading hers? They will never reject your money or help but trust me, they will never respect your ass, because you don't respect yourself enough to develop your own life.


Never develop any woman at the expense of yours. They don't respect that shiit. I'm not at the redpill level that I want to be yet but I will never buy rice and chicken for any babe while sipping only satchet water and smiling mumu-ishly that "it's ok, I am full already, I ate well two days ago"

DieRich5:
e still beta pass army of the dead

You think?


I got bored halfway into the movie...

Especially the Brad Cage love gone mad triangle.