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HelenBee:
Oh God,please have mercy on us. We beg you...

Really?

0KNM:
Someone who’s been gone for almost a decade suddenly reappears from the sky and you want to jump back? Bro, check your head

You believed that click-bait yarn?

Domestic violence and crime!!

lefulefu:
what a sensible guy would do is break up with such a girl and re evaluate himself.check where u failing in life cos for ur own girlfriend to deny u publicly that means u must be a loser.break up with her and focus on how to upgrade urself .

Damn straight bro!

lefulefu:
the girl no even respect am
iyam surprised he still refer to such a girl as his girlfriend when she deny am

Yeah bro

mizhefeh:
Na wa, this Shit is getting serious

Wasn't it serious before?

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...���

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

Jesus...cant you see how you sound

You sound weak....

She doesn't respect you...your will is weak

Purifiedsoul:
Your mates are struggling out there to help find the cure of this pandemic, but you're here wasting your precious time on a girl that I am sure is not beautiful..

No wonder Buhari said YOU'RE LAZY.

With a moniker like yours,I expected something better but most frustrated Nigerians are always unable to see the humor in ANY situation. The OP was pranking his gf...why the bile you and your ilks are distributing everywhere?

The joke is on y'all. Somebody is happy while you're hating.

AmbitiousDrama7:
No problems. I had a similar experience with a girl from Ib but stays in ife but this time around she was astonished with my endowment and told me about her predicament with other guys before me

Which predicament?

UniqueIdentity:
Bros, it's like u got more experience in d game. Lemme yarn my own weda u go fit help my mata sef.

I'm a kind of guy dat, wen it komz 2 sex, I do go overboard, like not ejaculatin on time dat d lady wud av been tired nd show exhaustion, yet I wud be yet 2 cum(release), most cases, I do resolve 2 confidin on dem dat I don't know wat is wrong wif me, over 30min, no cummin dat I wud av 2 masturbate 2 satisfy myself as d ladies wud av gone dry in most cases, I just had 2 cum 2 avoid abdominal pain.

D one dat finally broke d horse back was dat of a lady whose afta a long time spent without me realisin, she had 2 ask me dis awkward question dat, 'Do I av a sperm at ol?'. Saying I felt embarrassed wud be an understatement, I wish d ground cud open nd just swallow me, I felt my ego been crunch in dat moment. I lost myself as a man eva since dat I went celibate till date as it appears tinz r goin out of hand wif my sexual life.

At a point I had 2 visit a Doc 2 complain nd narrate my ordeal 2 him, but he assured me I'm alright dat it's smtin normal, but inside me I felt d opposite, like I'm not sexually alright.

I've only been able 2 enjoy sex wif just a lady in my existence which I monitored d time we started nd wen we ended, it was an over 3hrs sexual escapade nd was only able 2 cum just 3times, dat d lady in question had 2 give up. So far so gud, she has been d only lady I av eva had a sexual encounter wif dat did lead 2 me cummin (ejaculating). I'm an introvert, I get easily exhausted in social gatherin dat I had 2 olwez resolve 2 komin back home 2 my lone time 2 regain my energy, so ol ladies I've had smtin sexually 2 do wif r countable nd I cud still remember ol my experiences wif dem. My sexual life has been limited nd awkward so far.

Will appreciate if u or any oda cud just help out, advise wise on wat I cud do.

Thanks in anticipation!

I dont think anything is wrong with you honestly speaking...the doctors already told you so too.

You just have delayed ejaculation and lemme tell you the truth, many women would love to have a man like you in their lives. Men that stay long enough like you are those women thirst for,because they get satisfied sexually.

But there is a dark side to it. Most women feel FULFILLED sexually when a man CUMS. its like a reward for them,they like to feel that their bodies/pussies are that desirable/sweet/special and as such a normal man should release his spermatozoa in ecstasy. So,when a man doesn't release during sex for 2-3 rounds, these women feel inadequate. They somehow start thinking its either the men find them unattractive,undesirable or defective. So most of them use emotional manipulation/reverse psychology to shame you as a man. Its analogous to using a small diick to bodyshame a man(not because the diick is that small but they are used to something way bigger and instead of admitting this,they turn it back on you to shame your own body). This way, such women hide their insecurities and get leverage to cheat on you. The girl that accused you 'do you have sperm at all' used this tactic to crush your psyche and I'm sorry about that. Never let anyone talk down on you on that level again. You are virile and normal.

Solution?

Stop masturbation.
Relax more around your gf...dont be anxious about the sex romp. Let her know you last really long and if she can't make u cum,she can suck you off or make u bleep her titties or several other ways, but trust me...you will cum eventually.
I believe the major problem is your psyche. Be more confident about yourself. Go out more. There exist several girls that will fuq you to exhaustion and you will cum your balls out.

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