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XhosaNostra:
That's the old me I don't have time for that now, I'm a big girl

Lol, well i definitely want both. Old and new you

phazotron:
Mine

She turned cold and I had no choice than to dump her

Even overheard her telling her friend a guy sent her voice note while on a call With her

Something that she would have told me str8 up before

It was majorly my fault because I couldn't give her all the attention she wanted

But she really did love me

Second issue was that she had a tendency to over react to little things

Me trying to ask after her welfare would become a war of words

After several complaints about her new behavior and no change from her in sight

I blocked her in January one fateful Tuesday morning no hello no explanation

I felt guilty for the way I ended things

I called her today to let her know why I did what I did but she no pick

I'm laughing at her because she go dey believe say na me lose

Woman too Much for outside make I come dey waste my time with person wey no wan cooperate

I will try again to contact her but if she like make she no pick na her cup of tea b DAT

Person wey no get university degree

I need to level up and upgrade not downgrade

#i no need liability

Why call her back to EXPLAIN? Thats where u fuqed up. Made u look weak. Once I move on,I never look back.

XhosaNostra:
Lol, I'm used to the harrassment by now. It doesn't bother me one bit.

Lol, you can be gentle but then I know you can explode violently and light those niggas' ass

Christmasdon:
BUT ENGLAND DON'T JOKE WHEN IT COMES TO CHARITY, SO WHY DIDN'T ENGLAND TRACE AND FISH HIM OUT?

Fish him out on top of his own money?


Are u fuqin joking?

Now you're compelling him to give to charity? Whatever happened to free will...


Make your own money and stop the entitlement mentality

seunlayi:
you may break a home with this your name mentioning

You know how many Glori.as wey dey that particular set and from her state? Besides,she never fuqed him.

Chillax!!!

PrettyBunny:
I am still serving here until November..

This Mangu is dead

Sorry sis, just try and endure till then

15kpounds:
mrfourshirts i see you

PrettyBunny:
I like it like that ooooo

placeofallure:
Truth be told, I didn't stay well enough to discover whether the place could offer any fun or not. I kept traveling to Lagos. I was too attached to my bf. You won't believe it, in the entire year, I didn't spend up to 5 weekends in Ekiti. Before you say Jack! I'm gone.

That your guy eh na lucky guy oh... You didn't serve in ekiti abeg,u served in Lagos.

placeofallure:
I served in Ekiti State. I have no experience to share. I was very stingy with my thing. It was a resolve I made before I left home, Lag, that there wasn't going to be any nonsense escapade, if you like be Dangote or Will Smith, wetin concern me?

I went to camp with big novels to keep me busy. Many Corp members tried to date me. Without meaning to be immodest, I was good looking, still am. One of them was persistent, Lekan. Handsome and rich but I didn't give in. He later settled for ordinary friendship.

Just few days before I left for camp, I'd read in one of the dailies, the shameful sexcapades of CMs in camp either with their fellow CMs or NYSC staff or even soldiers. Stories of CDs littering the parade grounds, quickies in unholy places. .. and I said I'm never going to be part of that

And it did happen. In our camp, some CMs were punished and disgraced openly. Some for doing quickie and some for daring to sneak out to go clubbing.

How can you be new in a place and the next thing is sleeping around? Mtcheeeew for some people.

Lol,thats my state. How was the service year like? Fun or not?

PrettyBunny:
First of all, apart from my ppa, where I was posted to, I tried looking for another side work and in this whole city, no reasonable job opportunities..The one I saw expected me to work 7-6pm and pay me 6k..As per what??

It's unsafe too.. Unlike Lagos where I could easily walk back home by 11 pm and still have peace of mind ( I am not saying that I am planning to stay outside until 11pm tho but just giving example) but once it is 8 pm, your heart is about to jump out of your soul..

Language barrier too..My ppa too is expecting full dedication and not ready to pay you for all your good works and headaches after teaching.. Paying 2k and still complaining. They never provided anything required by Nysc and not like I depended on them tho but they are just greedy people that want to use you without being appreciative..

Nothing like recreational centres to relax on your free days. No malls, no gym, it's not safe to go for morning runs too, weather is too harsh for my skin and I am totally dark now ( I am naturally light skinned)..

The guys are mostly sex starved monkeys.They turn every conversation to sex..Their girls sef..I have nothing to save about them..

I have to be careful of what I eat too.. I was admitted in February because of food poisoning..

I actually have a lot to complain about but maybe because I am used to Lagos life..But even in Lagos, I rarely go out but when I want to go, I usually have a place to visit unlike here sef..

I am tired

Such a Lagos chicken

Been playing his songs all day.

Today na dagrin's for me.

You're afraid of her ex?


I no talk again!!

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Sin e his manhood has become food for the poorest of the poor, I will help him distribute it
Federal amu

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Wow! That's big enough to make food go round this hunger season.

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Now thats funny

There can't be men like u OP.


I REFUSE TO BELIEVE THERE EXISTS A MAN LIKE YOU

RonaldoVido:
They are pompous people.

I get them as neighbors. To spend money dey hard Anambra man, they will like to stay in your house for free. Very wicked tenants. They can resort to destroying your property.

Their women, once you mention marriage, she opens an ATM kiosk on your head. It happened to me.

Wow. The men and women are leeches and yet they are pompous? About what exactly? The chosen igbos or the pure blood Igbo's?

Chi59:
I have no clue. When my ex just started acting funny, he wanted a break, I didn't really think much of it. The break broke up what we had, but it never crossed my mind. Till one or two years after when I started hearing about anambra people. Different stories from different people. I matched it up with what I had noticed in him and what he told me about his family. I started seeing a probable reason why he must have acted the way he did.
Whatever their reasons are, are not tenable. Why carry on a relationship with someone when you know that your people will not allow you to marry a non indigent person? And I think this issue of not having a mind of their own is a major contributor to the problem.

Thanks for this. I was so confused as to the reason why they dont marry from their state. But since you're also Igbo,what's the big deal in discriminating against you na? If na Yoruba geh, I fit understand.

Chi59:
Anambra people hardly marry other ibo people, except enugu. They're very selective and no matter the love, they must first of all get their parents approval. I once loved an anambra man. The rest is history
Infact if i ever come across an anambra guy toasting me again, I jump and pass. Let them marry themselves.

I.still dont get...what makes them so haughty and selective?

Blackbishop:
From my experience, she left me with the excuse of her mum been a prayer warrior and she has seen it that we are not compatible.. just a week later the mum approved another guy with a car and a good job for her. Not up to a month the guy gave her belle. And denied her bcuz the guy don marry and has a family. Gbam she came back begging me that it was a mistake and I should forgive her and even give her money to abort it so we can go back to our relationship...
Bros I blocked her, it is more than two years now early this month she used another number to call and begged I should unblock her that she wants us to go back to dating. I said I have heard, wetin man go do dey mans heart
Those who live by the nana die by the nana..

Is she anambra too?
Besides,what's so special about their girls anyways that they dont marry outside?

On your story, you did well.

DominusPrime:
I'm happy you've braced up for insults. You are a really big fool not to know that you cannot train a lady through the university and she will end up with you. Only a minute number will. A whole medical student? This gullible? When in my school medical students are the most sought after you are here being fooled by a young girl.
Let me tell you what a girl told me just b4 she broke up with her bf cos of a doctor. Her mum told her that even though she's studying mls she must come back with a doctor as husband o. Cos the other girls who are marrying doctors don't have extra breast and yansh and she cannot understand why she will send her to medical school and she will say she married a radiographer...
To be honest that is the most wicked thing I've heard a mother tell her daughter about any man in the medical field irrespective of designation but that's to tell u how much doctors are sought after cos everyone knows they run out of the country once they are done. So for u to be played for a fool right from 200 level beats me. Now who is better off after you both count your losses? Of course she is cos that money you gave her could have been used to better yourself or just left in the bank to accumulate dust. Hope you've learnt your life lesson. We as men must fall mugu to get wisdom. All of us bashing you have been in this shoes but yours is by far the dumbest I've ever seen.

Wait, you even passed up an opportunity to travel out cos of her? Ah my brother whomever do you this thing no go die well...even the ladies here would laugh at your stupidity...

U finished him for me.
I grow more perplexed everyday to see that his kind of men still litter NL and the outside world. How in hell can a medical student be played like a mudafvcker?