₦airaland Forum

SarutobiEky:
what would happen to you?

That girl has gone loôney. I ticked her off so bad, she sees me everywhere now and has been littering my name on every thread.

Guess what...I still starved her of that attention she is seeking. 🤣🤣🤣

EreluRoz:
You are cheap

Says a broke ass nigga!!!🤣🤣🤣

themanderon:
Very materialistic and crazy Bitch. You can miss his funeral but can't miss the will reading for the entire world. I wonder what the man must have gone through living with such a witch.

Men only have themselves to blame for tolerating such

EreluRoz:
You that's anti marriage. How much is your groom price as per redpillers don't pay bride price but accept groom's price.

1M naira.

You can afford it.

Juoflife1:
Money cannot get me laid. Every Nigerian woman is not like the women in your family. Stop putting our women down..

So ..ermmm what gets you laid ma'am?

2mch:
This one don de get mental illness from all the blow dem de blow him head. Big fool. It’s better to keep quiet and be respected than to open your mouth and remove all doubt that you are a dumb and lousy idiot.

Why won’t you be seeing ashawo when that is what you are looking for. To come and insult am the women in the state shows you are mad and it’s animal that brought you up. Your mama follow for the ashawo.

E pain this one sha
No cry oh

EreluRoz:
Luminouz go and marry first before we talk about trust issues

Coman marry me na🙄

EreluRoz:
Food for redpillers 😂

That's why we don't trust y'all asses!!

Magnoliaa:
You and Luminouz must think everyone is as unintelligent and as wicked as y'all are.


E say the way women dey think. How do YOU think? You that you've found the most unimaginable, asinine angles to justify rape on this forum. The day I made a sarcastic post, flipping things that men normally say and apply it to them, you were the one crying the most.

You know deep in your heart that you're the one with a comma in your thinking. There is no story about men/women on this forum that you will not find a way to blame the woman while exonerating the man. Always. So why would you not think everyone is as narrow-minded as you are? Why would you not think everyone thinks in black/white, only in defense of their own gender?


And of course, you will not recognise what being a devil's advocate mean even if it was punching you right in the face.

If it was a woman who came to share this story about her man eating her food and lying about it in her house, would you have expressly blamed the boyfriend? Would you have called him an hungry boyfriend? Would you not have called her all sort of names? Called her desperate in a thousand languages?

Nonsense.

Damn, I must have ticked you off really badly.

Take it easy aunty!!!

Magnoliaa:
Yeah, right. Even luminouz would swear he's not a two-faced, and contentious person.

I am not, I swear🤣🤣🤣

Magnoliaa:
Just as much as I hate Luminouz.

That means I'm doing well!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

Magnoliaa:
Obviously.


Because have could you have gone on functioning like a normal human being without making sure to register with me first the sadomasochistic pleasure you get from seeing my comments?

K

Tightpussy2024:
Seems the next thing to do when money or fame enters a black man hand is to shame black women

Obviously when he travelled to Lagos,he tried hooking up with one who turned him down or fled with his money without giving him sex..but he doesn't want to admit he was on the wrong side of a deal with a hooker.

Or maybe one lagosian didn't believe in his dream or potential and left him in the past.

Yet they say trauma makes men and destroys women. Let us not pretend that most of the redpillers or manosphere or male relationship coaches are speaking from pain. Pain of being rejected for a richer guy, for being short or for being bland. Yet they will accuse single mothers of being bitter whereas they are their male equivalent.

See his face like sour puss,imagine what he will have looked like before fame. Who wouldn't reject him?even him will reject himself then

🤣🤣🤣🤣

E pained this one oooohhhhh.....

See mûmû analysis! I am neither short, broke or ugly...so what's my excuse for being a redpiller...that I lack pussy? Pussy is cheap as hell where I am.

So zip it!!

Juoflife1:
Dude cannot deal with rejection .
The way some Nigerian men talk bad about their women is alarming. Is there any city free from runs? The only group of black men that trash talk their women. Loud and uncouth. It's pathetic.
Y'all should get a life and get some self esteem.

Lmaoooo...another pained soul

Fiscus105:
Beautiful nonsense! The long epistle you wrote to win mindset of myopic individuals here, is it applicable to red, yellow or black gathering alone or everybody in general?

Did u you need to belong to any school of taught, before your weak argument up thr happens to you?

Even in business world, if you have proved to be reliable business partner for a person who doesn't want to do business with you initially, if he goes out and fail, won't he come and be running after you? Oral B & Close up as example.

Everything that normal and rational human beings would do, you guys would come here and be labelling it on female gender alone, just because you want to fill fulfilled as a way of revenge because of numerous girls that have refused to open holes for you.


[i]Meanwhile, think of it,.....if every girl, that every guy desires to have sex with starts open legs for them, how would society be? Jungle? Sodom and gomarra? Dumped site? [/i]

Bros calm down. He made points. You don't have to agree with him but keep it civil.

DrFunmisticGlow:
The stuff you whine about. Single mothers do both. They go out to work and still come home to see their children.

But if you want to continue to manufacture excuses, just keep staying Single with your bastards.

K

EreluRoz:
And she didn't arrest him? Ordinary shout sef I don run leave you. Some women can tolerate rubbish sha.

If you smell any traces of abuse in a man, run away and never look back. It's not hard to do hian

But no one wants you, fishlips!!!

Holluwhakemmy:
You know what I mean, not your own interpretation

Go away pervert!!!
I cover myself with the blood of Jesus!!!

Holluwhakemmy:
Your tears my happiness 😊. Continue wailing my small baby

Your baby?

Ewwwwww... cringe!!!

@ Holluwhakemmy
Yes..now I will expose you. Kemi that is entertaining other men while engaged.

Will you gerarahia?

DrFunmisticGlow:
It is mostly men who don't treat their wives and children well or take time to know and interact with them and invest emotionally in their lives that will die unloved. That is secret to why more men die alone.

My grandpa is almost 100 years, blind with dementia. Yet my aunt comes every year from America to celebrate his birthday which was last week tuesday. Yes all his children are middle aged adults with their lives and families. All he needs to do though is call and cry on the phone that no one has visited him and everyone will come, despite the fact that he was visited two wTuesday and has probably forgotten. He also has two caretakers. Yes there is loneliness in old age. But he has not been abandoned. Though he is a stubborn and strict disciplinarian. He never stopped being there for his children and grandchildren and didn't have illegitimate children.

Compare that with other men who have done all manner of atrocities,men who are wife-beaters, who cheat, who illegitimate children, who are deadbeats that don't contribute to the family. Those are the ones who will die alone and miserable.

Now you are giving me a fûcking excuse for why some men are abandoned.
Most men are busy providing for their socalled legitimate kids and the wife and all the extended fuckin family issues that they don't have quality time with their kids. It's the women/wives who have all the time in the world for bonding. My own dad is an example but I never for once forgot his presence nor will I ever. If fathers don't provide, y'all will come with the irresponsible dad routine and drive him insane. Men must hustle and take care of shiit and get must still find enough time to bond with kids enough to leave an impression on them? Kuku kill them as per dem be donkeys na.No where in your narrative is anyone taking care of HIM or giving a fûck about what he wants . It's always about what others want, not him. Shey he came into the world to be a donkey abi? So don't
come at me with that talk. That's a bloody excuse after all the marriage talk. At least if he is not married, he will be alone and fend for himself.

So what's the use of legitimacy then if you still think if men don't do bla bla bla...they get abandoned in old age. Isn't it obvious from your grandpa story that y'all don't give two shiits about him? If y'all did, one of you will permanently be at his neck and call till he dies. Now that's a man's experience for you. I imagine if grandma is still alive, she would be living in y'all houses and getting all the love. I have seen men who never abandoned their fûcking families and was always providing and they were left for dead by mumu kids hamstrung by their mothers. Should I start telling you about many of them I listen to and counsel? Or the ones who died of broken heart as their kids went off with their mum or fight over mumu properties while their fathers were still alive? You don't know anything about being a father or even as a man, so don't lecture me on your grandpa's story alone. I have proofs of more than 50 men who were good and were left to rot. Only heavens know how many more are dying silently with no one to talk to. So fûck no!!! Marriage is no guarantee of a happily ever after, not in this universe.

You buttressed all my points. Marriage favours no man. I have both my grandpas dead long before their wives died. Why? Pressures of always attending to everyone but themselves because that's the old way of proving you are a man. My grandma lives with my mum and I help take care of her. I wish my grandads were alive so I could spoil them rotten with love and listen to their wisdom but they all died 30 fûcking years before their wives. I have sworn to make sure my dad gets all the love in the world not because he married my mum or had me inside wedlock nonsense. If I were born outside wedlock, i would do the same because I know just how hard it is to be a man in this mudafûcked up world

There are no guarantees your so-called legitimate kids will give a fûck about you when you grown old or they will take care of you. Thinking marriage will help you navigate old age better as a man is an illusion for men. It doesn't ever work. Now men are planning their own retirement and making sure they die with dignity, not shiiting on themselves and all that shiit with no one taking care of them.

Holluwhakemmy:
You need common sense to enable your brain 🧠 function well

I don catch you...

Shiooorrrr

Love800:
I disagree. One option must be available(either wife or children). But that is not my issue. My main concern is, ur wife will always be the one to do the care-giver duties in your old age. The children might be sending money but ur wife will do the house chores.
So if you have only children and disregard your wife, its not advisable because your children will always go their separate ways.

Are you being serious? Read what I wrote again. I can count how many households that don't have wives or their wives abandoned the dad and just stay with the
kids. The old man is left alone to fend for himself with cooking and cleaning. Most just give up and die of loneliness and heartache but being men, they never show it or make it public. I'm telling you what I have seen.

Thinking you can bank on your wife or kids to take care of you in old age as a recipe for bearing kids or marrying is as fake as the P in Psychology. It's a no FUCKING guarantee

DrFunmisticGlow:
I will prefer to be my father's legitimate child instead

Lmaooo.... Legitimacy dey pepper you sha.

Only God knows what men endure in such legitimacy and they die uncared, unloved and used up. Yet, you still want other men to be hooked into such slavery and when they say no, you bring up legitimacy and responsibilities as hoooks to bait them. Men are waking up, trust me

Holluwhakemmy:
Till then

See your life. You are engaged and still looking at someone else's penis...

Shioor

Love800:
When you are old, who will take care of you. Your children or your wife?

No one!! The notion that your kids will take care of you when you're old is bull crap. They are all adults and away from you. Your spouse might be dead or worse. You need to learn to take care of yourself and get a helper/maid or support group. If you rely on your kids or wife, you will die sorrowfully and painfully.

Fryx:
Marriage is actually useful for passing your legacy to your offspring so that you won’t be forgotten after your demise.

If you have a legacy, focus on it, your children are your future. That’s why a reasonable man don’t just choose a woman because she knows how to fvck or she get big ynash. A man with a future chooses a woman to build it with.

So having a kid outside wedlock is no legacy abi? See reasoning oh

Veste:
I'm still regretting why I am married . 90% of Nigerian women these days are not worthy to be called wives. Stay single if you can, or better get a child out of wedlock.

Tell us your experience na

AishaDant:
SMH! Clearly the type of woman who needs a man to feel validated in life.

Can never be me!

But then no one wants you!!!

1Sharon:
Leave them. Alot of nigerian women are paying bills alongside their husbands. But these men here come online and be disingenuous. Fact is about only 4 out of 10 Nigerian men are providers

Here we go again, pulling statistics out of her ass without any proof. Damn!!!

chidiokay:
dont know why you parade your assumptions as fact, did you carry out a survey or you have a stat [b][/b],
Talking of support, my neighbour drives his pregnant wife to work everyday n return home, is that not love, is that not support, he got her the job which i know about
couples like that is also why divorce rate is low ..

if modern marriages is filled with conditional love, then their is nothing odd about having a "Reason" to stay in marriage

maybe it my accent, I don't think divorce sounds better than "stigma" .. divorces breaks a home and stigma breaks a person ... tbh i dont know why you have a preference

Leave that one alone. She'd rather die than admit she is wrong