₦airaland Forum

Deepfeel:
Back in the 60s the igbos invested heavily in the North, the northerners got jealous and started persecuting the igbos, in 1966 they attacked and killed about 80,000 to100, 000 igbos especially in Kano , that was the beginning of the civil war that officially happened in 1967 when ojukwu declared biafra,

Igbos are the economic driving force in Nigeria, we igbos are responsible for the development in Lagos, Nigeria need us more than we need them

otipoju:
To each is own. I will respect more a man that can cry than one cant. Crying has nothing to do with strength of character nor courage. If you have ever been on a real battlefield and lost your dear fellow soldiers...you will cry and cry badly.

otipoju:
Why do you assume he is crying for sex. She is his companion and he feels sad at her pain. Simple.

People even cry for joy. Its called being real with yourself. All emotions are valid.

otipoju:
Having the precense of mind to respond in times of disaster has nothing to do with crying. You can cry and still be in control. Men who cry are definetely not pussies as they are in sync with their core and xan draw immeasurable strength from being at one with the universe.

Ive seen soldiers cry and if you cant cry then you are weak.

GrabHisBalls:
Before he'll come and disorganize my suitor. Datemynd44, we need clarity here.

GrabHisBalls:
Indeed, you guys are not serious in your department. Na course advisor dey put a whole department on hold 'cause he had to travel?

No one dares that in my department. My time table isn't fixed too, but lectures are on.

You miss me? I no come understand that part. What's there to miss about me?

GrabHisBalls:
Obviously, some thing must make someone to be cold. For me, I realized each time I show I care, it's taken for granted. I am a lover and I know how far I would go to prove that, but once they know you're that kind of a person, it's time to play with you. The lies are endless, the attitude is nothing to write home about and this is supposed to be someone who was at a point confessing undying love. Once I sense all that, I walk away like we never met. For anyone I walk away from, I have a 1000 reasons to do so and not have regrets.

What I am trying to do differently is not to threat others badly 'cause someone hurt me, but that defence mechanism has always been there. I can pose to be difficult on first meetings, but that doesn't mean I don't like the person. If you come Waka commot too, I care less. Who you epp?

GrabHisBalls:
There was a day one of my roommates felt she should hear from us what we felt about her. One told her she was too playful. She wasn't satisfied and demanded for my opinion, I rephrased it to she doesn't take things seriously. Including her life. This girl was mad at me for a week. On that day, they made it turns and when it got to my turn, they all chorused that I am cold, but a nice person. I had to ask them why they think I am cold, and they said I am not expressive of emotions. How on earth am I supposed to be expressive of emotions when I am not dating any of them?

Being soft is not a part of me I like, neither do I like being cold.

uzorify:
Was never prepared for the interview as at then but 150% now

GrabHisBalls:
You're not the first person telling me that. I even hear things like "You're stoned-hearted, you're cold", but it's just a facàde. Being tough is a defence mechanism to me and not my true nature. There are times I had cried for no reason, just because I felt offended, only to realize I was not really offended per say, but I had already cried.

You have to get close to me to know I am very soft on the inside.

GrabHisBalls:
LOL. We are all vulnerable to that. I cry too, you know.

GrabHisBalls:
Cry baby! He's crying 'cause he was hoping to bleep her. Biggie just remove meat for him mouth.

Thegamingorca:
Golden tipped dreadlock dreadful black woman

Deutschland here we come

uzorify:
I concor with you...her questions are so direct & easy to answer....she interviewed me last year but got a rejection.... all was my fault shaa ( I knew it was)

Akwaekee:
Middle-aged slim lady. With an accent, I believe is British.

Thegamingorca:
Lol I just tire...since the previous threads she's the most dreaded with dreads lol...

Why she only has dreads on is also something to be worried about

akinade28:
Though we are all ladies, we prefer or want different things in a man, so it is relative. Most of our choices are dependent on age or maturity, background, environment sometimes religion.
Some ladies prefer good guys others want bad guys.
Some ladies wants a guy that will be all over them, some prefer a guy that wont be too attached to them or choke them.
Some want a man that is totally faithful to them, while some don't mind sharing a man with other ladies or becoming second or third wives
Some want a man that can help with domestic activities, some see it as a form of weaknesses because they have never seen their father do such.
A lot of our preference changes as we grow older.

GrabHisBalls:
Alright. Let me know when you're here.

GrabHisBalls:
Oh! I remember now. You're still in Benin?

GrabHisBalls:
LOL. I never knew I was to inform you of my resumption. Oya, sorry.

GrabHisBalls:
Good morning. What happened?

GrabHisBalls:
They're even unmasked. Maybe they were just trying the FBI.

sassy92:
If you were born before December 1992, NPC birth certificate will not be accepted from you even if you have it. You must submit Declaration of Age done at the court.
See ehn, don't pour sand sand inside your garri. If you don't have the original of the age of declaration, simply go and do another one. It's not an expensive or tedious thing to do. Going for interview without original may get you bounced by Paulinus.

sassy92:
Yeah go ahead and ask

sassy92:
When did you book? if you book before the change, then no worries, just go for your interview and explain to the VO. If you booked after the change, na gobe be that o