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These two above me though!

*rolling my eyes*

Toks2008:
Honestly, i is a very tough one. It is always convenient for guys to talk about the need to go for good behaviour at the expense of sexual attraction but in reality, it is a difficult pill to swallow.

This reminds me of the story of the man with three girlfriends who tried to choose one to marry.

There was a man who had 3 girlfriends, but he did not know which one to marry. So he decided to give each 1 $5000 and see how each of them spent it.

The first 1 went out and got a total makeover with the money. She got new clothes, a new hairdo, manicure, pedicure, the works, and tells the man, "I spent the money so I could look pretty for you because I love you so much."

The 2nd one went out and bought new golf clubs, a Dvd player, a television, and a stereo and gave them to the man. She said, "I bought these gifts for you with the money because I love you so much."

The 3rd one takes the $5000 and invests it in the stock market, doubles her investment, returns the $5000 to the man and reinvests the rest. She says, "I am investing the rest of the money for our future because I love you so much."

The man thought hard about how each of the women spent the money. Finally, being a man he decided to marry the one with the biggest tits.

This is a pointer that men are always attracted to their sexual preference regardless.

You fuqin crazy!!!

Fountainofyouth:
I wonder what the high commissioner will do from here, their president yamaphorubbish is there in SA not doing anything, is it now the high nonsense here? Shop rite is near my house and my hand is itching me, my brothers,neighbours and I are waiting for it to be declared free for all abeg.

Yinmu...just say you have been eyeing some of those shoprite meats and icecream but been too broke to buy....

linearity:
Again, not true.

We are not all the same, you can’t use a single reactional or response-based yardstick to judge everyone and conclude that, those who don’t conform must shut up forever.

There is nothing like, the right or wrong time to response to a bully or someone that have done you wrong. Agreed, it might have some credibility if you react to their face immediately and that might stop them from continuing or doing it to others; but in certain situation that might not be the prudent step to take or you might not be in the right state of mind to do it them or are not empowered or have the courage to do it; making factors could be involved.

She felt that, she could not do it then and based on her video; she emphasized been a single mother and having a son to feed and afraid of losing roles...so, her fears are justified...if she lost roles if she had confronted her then, you wouldn’t come out and feed her and her kids...and not responding then is not a yardstick to disbelieve her or to state that, she must forever shut her mouth.

Serious child molesters are in jail the US today, because women who didn’t have a voice or couldn’t confront them 20 years ago, came out and spoke two decades after. Most times, these people speak out to get emotional relief, because the have been bottling and suppressing this emotion for years and they just want to let go, as in free themself.

Sorry,I don't agree with your points.
Oppression is oppression, its either you stand against it right there and then and gain your respect back or bow and scrape forever. The same mindset that is preventing youths from protesting against the leaders, the hopes of a better tomorrow, God go save us and nobody wants to die. But guess what,we still in the shiit hole as of now. So are you saying by confronting mercy johnson, she wouldn't get roles in Bollywood anymore?
Truth is,whatever reason she gives to justify her keeping mum,she lost the respect she should have had then. Now,no one cares. The first rule of fighting bullying is simple : Never back down from a bully.
Once you do,you're chicken,for life.

My last reply

linearity:
She was there to make a living, aka feed herself and family and base on her story; Mercy had or have great influence....she gave to take and suffer in silence.

Confronting Mercy then is like nailing her own coffin and kissing the industry she loved bye-bye....it is even more suicidal than confronting a Boss that is mistreating you, because you can quit and get another job or if you get fired, yuh can get another job.

Since she could stomach the bullshit then,she shouldn't complain now...
I have seen students who went against a promiscuous lecturer, despite the fact that she is certain to be marked afterwards. Its either you're tired and want a change,so you act asap or you stomach the shiit you're served and bow afterwards.

Choice is yours

Lmaoooo...

This is the new trend now?

Someone hurts you but you never had the balls to counter right there and then but voilà years later,you wake the fuq up to call him/her out, so you can complete your healing process And you put it on SM? Who dafuq u fooling?

SMH!!!

tsdarkside:
give them nathing...we have them at the balls....dont let go....

squeeze harder till they cry uncle....!!

Uncle or ancestor!

Jh0wsef:
For the first time in Big Brother Season, a Joint Head of House title was made.

It was an emotional and dramatic scene at the Head Of House game today as the two loverbirds Mercy and Iyke battled to a duel. and were later given a choice by Biggie after it got intense that they should pick between being a joint head of house or continue with the HOH challenge.

They came to a conclusion that they would rather be a joint Head of House. However, Mercy gave up the immunity for Iyke, how sweet!

These bloggers won't kill person...
Dafuq is 'they battled to a duel'

New English on NL everyday....

We go dey aiit....eventuarry

Damn!!!
Now that's the beauty of science!

Saving lives since 00AD

Thegamingorca:
Lol carry your craze go back the oza room thread

Wetin carry your craze come here before?

I wanna lighten up thread. Everyone is so serious and scared of VOs!

Eldeee:
Oya come na, no wahala. Who knows, maybe we might have a drink at the end of the day, Lol.

Lol,I don't drink...I wouldn't mind 3 plates of nkwobi and 2 plates of asun though with a crate of malt!

Not a hole in your pockets right?

Eldeee:
No be fight oga, na advice, so take it in good faith and do the needful.

No, i wont!!!
I will fight you!!
Needful ko...needles ni!

horsepower101:
You are far too gone with your hatred to be reasoned with. So slaughtering innocent civilians is the answer to a military coup.

I wonder why Nigeria didn’t do the same with other coups that happened after that.

*sighs*
You guys can't be reasoned with at all, I don't hate you or anyone,just recounting history. The coup led to the slaughter... Actions and consequences bro...

Fingerprinter:
Shut up, you foolish thing.

No Igbo took part in the coup. Just name one Igbo man that took part in the coup.

Kaduna Nzeogwu was from Delta state. We all know people from the Niger Delta or so called south south are not Igbos.

Easy tiger. I didn't write the history.

ayatt:
family breaker

Hmmmm...na their house u dey sleep abi?

Pardon75:
So yoruba man flow do the coup.go and read the history and tell yourself the truth.

Ok bros mi

Toscarel:
oga this is a Monday morning, I'm not going to debate with you I need to be productive, I have made my point, if you want to justify the envy then go on.

money ooo (in translation it means morning ooo)

Morning to you too

Deepfeel:
They touched us in 1953 in kano

The Kano riot of 1953 refers to the riot, which broke out in the ancient city of Kano,[1] located in Northern Nigeria, in May 1953. The nature of the riot were clashes between Northerners who were opposed to Nigeria's Independence and Southerners made up of mainly the Yorubas and the Igbos who supported immediate independence for Nigeria.


Besides that the 1966 coup wasn't carried out by only Igbo we had Yoruba involved too Adewale Ademoyega was amongst them

Lol, deepfeel
Have a nice Monday morning

Deepfeel:
This is the same reason they persecuted the Igbos in the North in 1966 killing 80,00 to 100,00 Igbos that eventually led to the civil war in 1967 when Ojukwu declared Biafra

Lol,you again?

Deepfeel:
It wasn't just about the coup , the pogrom hate of the northerners towards us was already there

Stop using that word 'progrom' upandan bro, you're not using it in context.

Ok..lemme assume you are right but they never touched your people till you started the coup...am I right? At least on this one?

Toscarel:
so people that were slaughtered deserved it and weren't victims, theres nothing emotional about it, the jealousy is so obvious among the youths and I wasn't referring to you but you believe you are amongst the envious youths that wouldn't face front and hustle rather display hate anytime an Igbo is mentioned then be my guest

You are still emotional. Otherwise,you would know that the coup d'etat led to the events of the civil war. If you never started it,no one would think of butchering women and children. Stop talking as if the northerners just woke up and started killing your people for no reason. Its the victims card you play on NL that disgust me the most. Why would anyone hate you if you hadn't done wrong?

Angelfrost:
Let me also help your ignorance... Was the said coup carried out by the thousands of innocent men, women, and children butchered by the Savages up North??!

You still don't get it!
Your actions declared a war and they retaliated,albeit on the innocent men,women and children up north. It was a cascade of repercussions from that singular event (the coup d'etat).
If you still don't get my point, I can't explain further

kingsleyds:
“When you killed their commanding officers and leader”. Brother are you okay? Is the entire ibo tribe responsible for the coup?

Lol, I'm done talking to you lots

Deepfeel:
Coup or whatever call it what you want, it was pure jealousy and pogrom hate

So when you killed their commanding officers and their leader,what were you spreading? Love?

You see why you should read your history now?
You don't care about your actions,yet cry like a lost puppy over their repercussions. Why are you so blind to your own faults??

Toscarel:
you are not even making sense, cos the jealousy and envy is still glaring since it has been passed down to the youths of today, please tell yourself the TRUTH[

No!!!
You're being emotional right now.
I just told you what led to the civil war and you think I'm jealous?
For real?

You need to tell yourself the truth!! Don't twist narratives and make yourselves look like victims!!!