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blowjohn:
someone Christ like.

tee59:
One man's food is another man's poison. Stop generalizing. That may be your spec but not mine.

Guyman02:
You think killing Evans will end kidnapping? You know his name because of the area he comes from.
The kidnappers are Fulani, their names will not be released by Garba Shehu because it's not Chukwudi or Obinna

blowjohn:
Christ already did.

folake4u:
Luminouz in your heart of heart, are you sure you're responsible?

TommyAnthem:
But our legal system is making Evan to becoming bold as the
days goes by, don't be surprised one day one funny judge will just clear him of all charges and ask the authorities to pay him damages for illegal detention and defamation of character.

Mustsucceed:
That's is the lie they always state and funny enough shortly after the truth ALWAYS emerges .

MissJoy29:
Ok DEAR...lol

cassyrooy:
Oga Luminouz D: Abeg o o.

folake4u:
My father would feel the same way too

khiaa:
1. Rape
2. Not rape
3.Accidental death (Manslaughter)
4.Accidental death(Manslaughter)
5.5 secs. is a long time for a kiss. Manslaughter again. None of these deaths were intentional.

MissJoy29:
A resounding AMEN!!!

Thanks dear.

specter:
Law of the universe. He who beds the wife of another pays with a life. What I am yet to fully understand, is, whose life?

Proverbs says " he pays with his life" . King David paid with the life of his first child with Bathsheba. 2Sam 12.

Proverbs is more explicit on this.

It's a no go area whether she is of the other side or not.

Even the scrolls of acient times did consider it worse of sins that began the fall of empires.

Holyman7635:
Number 1

specter:
If you had fallen for that strange woman, you would have paid with your life.

kings59:
suit yourself bro, just know, it's not all about girls,/sex, many other things are involved.


Luminouz

kings59:
It's still the self control we are talking about.

I am just giving an example, not only about women, Money, materials, etc..

Stop reasoning in one direction.

lefulefu:
onyeka haff given my friend decimal 10:10 to chop
buhari whyy?

kings59:
That's for you and not for me.

Practice makes perfect.

Back then when I was in 400L, there was this girl that came for Jamb. Her friend that she was supposed to sleep in her room didn't come home that day, even her number was switched off. I saw this beautiful damsel outside at 8:40, I asked her why she is outside and doesn't she have a home?
She replied that her friend was no where to be reached and tomorrow was exam.

I had to let her in, she was confortable in my room, I made tea for her and got her food because outside really stressed her.

She even wore my top and slept that Night cus she can't wear same yesterday's cloth.

At 2:15 a.m, I woke up to urinate, after I was done, I had to switch on the bulb to see if she was ok.
Behold, she was sleeping naked, my top was didn't cover her to her kneels, so it was balanced at her waist. Seeing her panties and the unclothedness, I didn't feel anything, I had to open my box and brought out a new rapper.

I used it to cover her, after I was done, I went to sleep back.

She woke me up by 6 a.m for prayer, I prayed with her and after that,i told her where my towel was and how to turn on the gas incase if she feels cold.


At 7:00 a.m, she was done. I had to put on my shirt and escorted her to where she would get a bike that wld take her to her center.

After the exam, she came back, good I prepared rice and chicken, good she came just in time when the food was done.

She ate, felt relaxed and slept till the next day, she went back home.

I was glad I did good and treated her like my own sister.



Three days later, her friend came back and was thanking me for the help I gave her friend. She even told me that her friend said she was naked and I covered her with a new wrapper, that she woke up to see a new wrapper.
I just told her it's good to be good. I didn't bother collecting her contact, cus I told her not to worry about that.



So my brother, practice well, then when the real temptation comes, you will just overcome it as easy as..

ok.

nwanyiugbo122:
let's turn the table around, if poster's wife did exactly what he did,seeing what is coming from the onset and couldn't avoid it. how would he handle that, he will call it a mere kissing, wave it off? why would he flow with the kissing, is sweeting him na,you want us to congratulate him for what na?

DedeNkem:
You problaly read it but didn't comprehend much. Did you read where he stated, "At first I felt lost and was flowing with the kiss.."?

It doesn't matter who initiated the kiss. He went along with it and was actually enjoying it until suddenly he remembered his wife and stopped. He cheated.

If he really didn't want the kiss, he could have dodged it or pushed her away. He knew this woman wanted something and he didn't do much to resist her.

nwanyiugbo122:
there is justification for this act bro,there no way you will blend it that it will fine,unless the OP was drugged, but but seeing the kissing coming, and you didn't act fast to stop it,menh,cheating is in op's blood. As for the woman, she will meet her Waterloo.

sassysure:
U make no sense.
That guy has already cheated with this lady in his mind.
That was why he followed her like sheep to her hotel.
Why did he ran away?
So he can now think properly?
He only thought with his head for only few minutes and that was when he decided to leave the hotel.
The rest was him thinking with his dick.
It's as simple as that.

That the lady seduced him isn't any of our concern but he was too weak to act except when it has gone far after leading the lady.
He is lucky. Next time he might even lose his head for following a random lady to her hotel

Lisaflex:
I didn't say he was emotionally invested /interested in her... I was just telling you other stuff that could be classified as cheating to let you know that flowing with /enjoying kissing someone who isn't your significant other for a moment no matter how little isn't as harmless as some of you are trying to make it look.

I'm not trying to make the op look bad,that's far from it... Actually, I commend him for not going all the way. It's just that he isn't a saint in all of this(which most guys here have refused to admit) , and I wouldn't have even pointed that out if you guys weren't attacking the person of Lois (instead of jejely countering her opinion ) from all angles as if she didn't have a point. She may have taken it too personal at some point,but I don't blame her cos most of you (males on NL) would have done the same(concentrated on that small moment of weakness) if op were to be a female.

nwanyiugbo122:
you said at a point you were flowing with the kiss,only God knows how long the kiss lasted, the saliva exchange from a total stranger. Guy,you cheated.