₦airaland Forum

Mira200:
You are so soft.

Dogalmighty17:
I have dated this girl for three years. We fixed a date for the wedding for late this year. However, events seemingly out of my control necessitated that I shift the wedding to February next year. Initially, she was against the shift but I pleaded with her.

Sometime in August this year, we had a disagreement because I noticed she was being disrespectful towards me. She is hardworking, cooks well and is very business oriented. But her sense of independence makes her struggle with submission to her man. I told her how uncomfortable I was with it and she's promised to make amends. She has but from time to time, her old self comes out.

I was at a loss on what to do that I had to voice out the issue to her family. When they asked her, she told them that since I requested for a shift in wedding date, she became uncomfortable with the relationship. Her family then told her to call off the relationship. I got to know about this decision and I called her and she said she was going to obey the wishes of her family. Her mom also told me that since I keep complaining about her daughters lack of respect, I should leave her daughter alone. It took serious pleading from me before the family accepted the continuing of the relationship. They asked me that since the date I initially agreed for the wedding wasn't going to be convenient for me, when then do I think will be convenient? Since I didn't want to loose my woman, I mentioned February. The desperation on my path was much.

My mom on the other hand wants a wedding in April. She has said February is not convenient for her. All my pleas have fell on deaf ears. She has threatened not to bless the union and has even gone as far as threatening to curse me with her breasts if I wed in February.

My girl has refused to even entertain the thought of shifting the date again. She maintains that it is better that we outrightly call off the wedding, than shift it again. I understand her fears. She feels that I may just be wasting her time. I am not

This is my dilemma. Should I go with my woman who has spent three years of her life with me or do I go with my mom?

I must also mention that my mom was informed of the initial date of the wedding over a year ago. But she foot dragged in her support for months until much later in the year that I now had to take issues into my own hands.

Minjim:
Racism must end!

Buy black toys for your kids this christmas.
Free order available in Lagos.

Buy Nig to grow,Nig

zainmaxwell:
if she catch u eh she go nyash wound u fa

zainmaxwell:
but the ass try get shape even though e no reach twoclans own na

zainmaxwell:
Lemme me call the elders op don't have respect u can give honor to whom it is due ba


Cc lefulefu

Luminouz

Martin0
Oya food don done

Nwodosis:
Believe this and you'll believe anything.... - James Hardly Chase

deepwater:
Would the government say they never noticed a pressure drop in their ATLAS, MOSIMI, ORE whereever stations?


I have not heard any one mention the word militant

Some people think militant must always be from the Delta of Nigeria

When it happens in your area you look for a nice name, it happens elsewhere u give it the worst of names.

Destroying pipelines is a criminal offense. Arrest the yoruba people involve and prosecute them

I have not even seen the reaction from law enforcement agencies.

If na we area na, helicopta and amot car for don show, they kpuff we men dem any ha

LWFashion:
We are honestly living with some deadly creatures. That's why sometimes when I'm the country, I really can't mix freely coz who knows, you may be in a club dancing to your own peril. And now this? Jeez! Can't deal.

willyo:
'M doing great. can I chat u?

Radiant1020:
Lol
Na only you don dey old o

Radiant1020:
African queen that year

Zanxx:
Did you get my reply?

Radiant1020:
Eyaah! Christmas that is just one day.
Let's be contended

Zanxx:
hahahhahahaha ass paaa

dingbang:
you may not know, she may be on my whatsapp list too...

dingbang:
all the girls wey u dey toast for nairaland dey tell me say u be ashawo

dingbang:
ashawo

Zanxx:
was blinded by love then

Zanxx:
lol i dey come

dingbang:
no. Officially I am single , I just broke up with my girlfriend.

TanyLoe:
once had a guy who broke up with me
And come back pleading, I forgave
And he did it again
Is this called gaslighting