₦airaland Forum

Eriokanmi:
Read the last line of my first paragraph and check if I defended women, in summary of your post.

On the emboldened, did they also carry out a DNA on their kids and the result showed they're not their fathers? Please shed more light

You defended women bro and blamed men for why their wives cheat behind their backs.

Oh...the second part...some did...others didn't because they kids look exactly like them. Oh you think I should do a DNA test on a son who looks exactly like me...and his younger brother too...and my cousin's kids?

DrAda:
An intelligent conversation. He balanced the negatives with the positives brilliantly. He has a healthy mindset and I am not at all surprised that he is the current head of his field. Well done

Lol...you seem to like very intelligent people. Are you nerdy or do you ever have fun outside work?

Eriokanmi:
Not again. All these DNA brouhaha should stop. I understand how we men feel after finding out we're not the biological father of our children. But sincerely, would you now send away all those children you've been fathering with such great bonds? Don't hurt those innocent children, send the woman packing instead. Accept them and continue to play your fatherly roles. What if you're the main problem here but the woman was only trying to cover you up, even though her decision or approach was very wrong?

Several men in Nigeria today are impotent, according to a recent shocking revelation by my friend whos a gynaecologist. Men drink all manner of nonsense and lived very dirty lifestyle before getting married. By the time they begin shouldering their responsibility, they'd try and try and nothing would happen. The woman is okay but the man's sexual life is in ruins. Nobody was there when you were taking kolos, energy drinks and weird stuffs to enhance your performance. Some guys can sleep with several women in a week. The more you do this, the more you are at risk of infections that could end up ruining you.

If men are OK, their women won't go outside to have kids as most women prefer their husbands father their children. I know of 2 ladies who have been married for years. One of them is my close friend. We never had anything together, just friends. She confided in me that her husband is impotent but the guy always differs. She had to force him to the hospital one day and kasala com burst after seeing the result. If I wanted to get her pregnant, I'd have achieved that with ease, long before they visited hospital cos I'm her confidant and she had jokingly pushed the idea to me once, which I jokingly rejected too. She has everything, beauty, stature, shape and character. But what's bad doesn't have 2 names. She's still without a child as I speak.

I had an uncle who's impotent too. He had hepatitis. The wife had seduced me stripping her cover clothes when sleeping on a sitting room couch one night, my uncle I was staying with travelled. On getting to the sitting room after waking up to pee, I saw her, she pretended as if she was fast asleep, she was even supposd to be in her room. I deliberately hit my leg on one of the stools, thinking the sound would wake her up, na lie. God is my witness to this, if I'm lying. My thing was stroke hard. She turned her backside towards my way. I paused a minute and God's message visited me and I walked back into the room they gave me. I was single then, just started a job after my nysc. She later got pregnant for a man outside. They were fighting one day and the woman said, see you, can you even father a child? The man brought out a knife and the woman ran away. They later split. My uncle remarried twice, same issue

So as a man, what if you're the cause and you resort to adopt those children? I'd suggest while you think of running a DNA on those innocent children, go to the hospital first and check yourself out.

This is a poor excuse writeup for a married woman cheating and bringing the bastards home. If the man is impotent, why not agree as a family to do something about it instead of making the man take care and love kids that are not his.

Many men are impotent? Talk about your friends and associates that drink mumu concoctions to satisfy women. People around me are fertile as fûck. So again, stop generalizing impotence as an excuse for this level of deceit carried out by the women.

DrAda:
I'll try my best

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DrAda:
Hello luminouz, we both know how our conversations go. I will sit this one out. Hope you are good

I'm good Ada!!! You?
Don't leave naija oh..let's save the country together!!!

Kobojunkie:
You have seen it happen millions of times yet the same una dey always admit say na the SIMPs — nice men — dey always get the girls?

K

bukatyne:
@bold:

Why do you think your wife weaponized sex?

Why would she weaponize sex if she enjoys it and looks forward to making love to you?

Isn't it blatantly obvious?

Women don't appreciate nice men or anything they already have dominion over. Once she knows she is your weakness, she will weaponize that...it's in their nature. But pretend you don't give a fûck or even have female admirers and watch how she will go extra lengths to give you 20 orgasms in 3 mins.

I have seen this a million times and I'm sure you have...even if you play naive

DrAda:
Much ado about sex. There are many more important things to worry about like physical abuse, emotional abuse and financial abuse.

Lol..
Ada...can you have all those other factors absent but no sex and you will stay?

I say you won't!!! Women who ask if sex is food are the freakiest beings in the universe!

And I bet she ain't a virgin!!!

I pity men who pay bride price otherwise.

It's for virgins

nairalanda1:
Let us look at this thing from another angle.

Women marry men who can guarantee that her children from him won't go hungry and end up in hospital with severe marasmus and kwashiorkor.

Yes, go to any Nigerian hospital...there are children who suffer from severe malnutrition in the wards. And you see their mothers and they do not look happy at all...until the child is about to be discharged having gained some weight.

This society looks down on women...so any woman getting a job won't be paid as well as a man. Man has better chance of job compared to woman.

So, at the end, women compete for the man who can guarantee that any future kids they have won't starve.

That's why she would dump her boyfriend if he becomes broke.



Note that I still think the girl is a materailistic person. The boy would be glad to be rid of her. But my point still stands.

This is premium horseshit

TechBaron:
Typical fish brain Internet-era dumbo.

Always quick to get emotional and start forming victim.

What has 2-month postpartum emergency C-section got to do with the inappropriate dress you wore to the event?
You see this thing called the Internet... Kinda makes some people dumber than the absence of it.
We weren't this stupid in 1996.

Rubbish!

You nailed it

Mariangeles:
What is left to be delivered?
Then again, there is nothing GOD cannot do.

Will you quit? She is a princess and it's her body and her choice,

Aproko long mouth!

Ishilove:
Seriously. This girl is under a very deep demonic manipulation. I pray God's mercy locates her.

I don't think so and how dare you dictate what choice a woman has on her body? She is a princess and can do whatever she wants. Her body, her choice.


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Juliearth:
I think your girlfriend is worried that all her wait may be in vain as you may settle with a foreigner. Alot of Nigerians do that.


If you truly love her, you can have a small-scale wedding. Get her wedding list and she should make sure that it is hugely subsidised. Opt for a parlour traditional ceremony to save cost. Tie to knot in a court instead of a white wedding. You can delay making babies until you both are ready.


When you carrying out these marriage rites, it would be easier for her to relocate to your country. If both of you are hustling over there, the chances of succeeding would be higher.

Mtchewww. How is this an advice for God's sake?

AImiron:
Source:ESPN

Almiron, the perpetual Ronaldo wailer!!!

Tueh!😡

DrAda:
I do but I have other goals which I am hoping will work out. Unfortunately, my colleagues do not have the same faith and I don't blame them.

Truth

nedekid:
Starting salary 5m monthly.
It may not be anything compared to those abroad, but atleast those over here can live a reasonably decent lifestyle.

See this one.....

5m starting? 🤣🤣🤣

DrAda:
Like I said earlier, it is only going to get worse but by all means let's ignore this ongoing crisis and focus on developing primary health care plus other activities that make zero sense.

The fact still remains that no health care provider wishes to remain in this country because wages are terribly poor with absolutely no room for professional growth.

So why are you still here Ada? You don't like to earn in dollars?😝

Kipaji:
Bro, you just summarized what I have been trying to convey in this forum for the last few months.

When I first came into this platform, I was very Red pill. Then, I went 5 months and a half on semen retention. When I came back I no more believed in "game" or the red pill. I have made several posts highlighting the pointlessness of applying "game" to get women to like you.
Here are three of them:

1. https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/2349#134677939
2. https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/2326#134059875
3. https://www.nairaland.com/8267409/female-answers-only-what-turns#132883555
4. https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/2268#132585118
5. https://www.nairaland.com/7916223/enough-enough-men-rise#127062115


The brutal reality is that there is virtually nothing you can do to make a woman attracted to you. If a woman categorized you as a sexually unattractive man after meeting you, no amount of game, Redpill sense, or masculine frame is going to change it. The best thing to do is to forget about her and keep it moving. Trying to win her over with "dating drills" and Redpill game is a waste of time, or worse, a self-inflicted humiliation.

Smells like half-watery bullshiit!

My favorite topic

All that history lesson when you can just divorce?


Waste of time

Celestialsword:
2face,from his youthful days uptill now has been embroiled with women issues,I think he had all his children from different mothers.

He is becoming of age, yet he still take delight in frolicking with women.
Is a man's life all about women,maybe that's what makes him happy,but society largely frowns at it.

What example is he setting for his children and fans

Women being what they are, Natasha, despite her wealthy background and knowing who 2face is, still sticks her neck into a relationship with a chronic womanizer.

Maybe Natasha is his kind, they say birds of a feather flocks together.

Mtchewww!!! Better face your life

Abloh:
animal rest

One lying floozie caught!!!

Kelvin247Gold:
This story is personal to me and want others to learn from it.
I met my first love during my 3rd year as an undergraduate in 2006. We dated for 5 years. Between the five years, I went for my youth service in the far-North. I came back in January , 2010 after my nysc. My relationship with this lady waxed stronger until one day in 2011, my Pastor told me I will not marry this lady. Pls note that this lady is my first love and I'm also her first love. I was told to inform this lady that my Pastor will not permit me to marry her. Afterwards, I informed her and she thought it was a prank. It wasn't easy for me. I have to move on. This lady waited for me for eight good years, not married that I will come back for her. After sometimes, all the men this lady met, she didn't like them except me. In the long run, her parents and family members started abusing her and she left her family house for Lagos. She met a single father, far older than her because she's almost clocking 40 years as of that time. She got pregnant for him, thinking the man will go and pay her dowry and marry her. The lady gave birth and the man abandoned her with her child. In 2023, we reconnected back and she didn't tell me until I persuaded her. Now, she's a single mother, staying with her parents. I felt so bad that I wished I never met her before. If I didn't have any relationship with her, she should be happily married now cos I waisted the most important years of her life. I informed her to let me pay her dowry, and get her back into my life. This is how some ladies got into single motherhood. That's why I blame some and I don't blame some. The story is too sketchy. I will continue another day.

No one gives a fûck about your lame ass story being sketchy. Since you can't decide as a man who to marry and rely on a pastor to tell you what to do, just cut off your balls too and give the pastor as dowry.

Religion has colonized your cerebellum.😡

Just look at these punkass liars up there.

Just a bunch of lying men who try so hard to be different yet y'all will still chase women up and down this Easter period.

Lying floozies!!!

Beremx:
shut up you nitwit. I hope you're enjoying the likes you got from your fellow chauvinistic idiots. Oloriburuku always blaming women for everything

Will you just shût it?

He hasn't said anything to trigger you this much.

meobizy:
Drink cold water as e pain you. Use ice block cool the burned area. No wonder your type quiet for real world debates. ROFLMAO.

Real world debates?

Is this one mád ni? I can see why peace dey bore you because you came to the world to debate.

Mûmû