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diddy4:
it is better to have a dad and know wh he is dan not having one at all.

if he comes back begging, we are humans, we make mistakes, i will simple ask; why did you leave me?

if he replies, no matter the reason and how flimsy it is, i will hug him and say welcome back dad. kapish.

That's straight bulls*hit.

I think you forgot "Glorified Paedophile"

Okay mamaput - what did that all have to do with this? i'm so confused.

All the people who said forgive don't know what the F*UCK they are talking about.

Oh Daddy! Forget the fact that you rejected me, left me, didn't account for me, didn't support me, didn't communicate and didn't love me because I forgive you!

Oh Daddy! You're back! never mind that it's been 15 years of pain and self hate, loneliness and lack of paternal love, I forgive you!

Oh Daddy! Mum had a s*hit time doing your job and we felt the hardship but now you've come back everything's okay, we forgive you!

Give me a muthaf*ucking break.

You know! Some parents just cause wahala for their children or get involved in every thing.
Waht makes me the most angry is when parents try to live vicariously through their children. it's just disgusting.

Exactly. Parent's make selfish decisions to; save face, satisfy their own needs, control everyone else's lives and many other reasons.

Sometimes I look at my parent's decisions (past and present) and it just makes me sick.

My child every time. They need me more than my spouse ever could.
I would love my child inconditionally and I couldn't love my spouse that much.

Yes. Parents can make the most selfish decisions going.
You have to experience it to understand.

They don't really talk to me so,

Considering the selfish decisions that my folks have made over the years and how it has affected me; I would act on my own volition. I think I'm beyond caring about what they think.

When making a life decision or just going about life in general, do you act according to what your parents would think of you? Or, do you value your opinion of yourself above theirs?

@damygirl
Aren't you too old for that?

@Rottweiler
Why are you ringing curses on people who do not agree fully with Christianity and or the Bible?

@Michy
Does that mean that you'll forever keep silent, those things you really think or feel?

Timmy was so right. Retro was on point too.
@Shawna-Great question

Personally; if the reason he left was a reason that I wouldn't tolerate then I wouldn't say anything. You lived without thinking of me so die that way. I know it may sound cruel but somehow I don't care. Life is hard without a father but if life with him would've been harder then I wouldn't start any relationship. You won't be at my graduation. You won't be at my wedding. You won't see my kids. I just dont want to know.

For all fans
Genny's on Myspace!!!!

crux:
2- believe the best about your spouse,

Does that include if they beat you; believing that they have the best intentions?

Anyhooo, I didn't learn a thing because I didn't go.

Dear Mary and All,

I cant tell you how amazing it was last night to sit rows away from greatness. The concert is truly an experience that I will always treasure. Mary's vocals are just superior (that's the most fitting word I can come up with.) Every note, every adlib, every word is true honesty that comes from her heart and sings it's way through everyone. I don't know what to say!!!!!!! I've never felt so inspired, so understood and so touched at once. Thank you Mary- you are a stellar soulful artist and and incredible woman. You can't knock Mary on any count. Please get out and see her!!!!! Mary, please come back and do more than one night- I will gladly come again and again and again. If you think you were a fan before- just wait till you see her.

My folks didn't tell me - I read about it myself.

Thinking about it; they didn't talk to me about anything.

Why am I addicted to drama?

@ deen
I'm not settling or less. Marriage is sacred and a chair needs ALL four legs to stand. If a man proposes and we only have three legs, I'll either wait or never say yes.

Ladies, aim high so you get the man you deserve.

Thanx

much love and respect to all the sistas.

Doing sexual acts outside of your relationship is CHEATING.

lol I would though.

Can someone please translate the choruses of Olufunmi and Imagine that by Styl Plus for me please?

I love them but I just don't understand.

There's another Yoruba (i think, if I'm wrong don't be offended) part of "Imagine That" aswell.

Please help a sista out.

Sometimes I think tat too, I haven't done anything to push them to the edge.
I think it's quite depressing that people would disown their kids for just being who they are esp. homosexual.

I believe in unconditional love that parents should have for their children- that's probably why I want to know why anyone would treat their children with such contempt.