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KlNGPlN:
At exactly 12:00am tonight.. I will be giving the sum of five thousand naira (N5000) to the first 10 people to quote me with their aza.

It's my gift to you guys this new 2020 year.

Happy Celebrations everyone!!

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thank you and happy new year

TheRealBloody:
I will be doing a giveaway tomorrow to end this year for my brothers here,I will give out 20k to 20 lucky people.Goodnight guys

thanks in advance
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okirewaju:
Just keeping checking from time to time
Our desires will be met soon

thanks

wonukwuru:
I am adult married to a lady of 35years. We have been married since 2007. God has blessed us with 3 wonderful children( 2 boys and 1 girl). Before we got married, i agreed with my wife that i only want to have 2 kids ( I wouldnt mind if they just boys or girls. That means, Im not particular of the sex of the kids). My wife is a B.sc Accounting graduate, while myself, I am a Chartered Accountant, with a well paid job. My wife had a 3rd class degree. On several occassions, i have told her to go back to school for Post Graduate Diploma (PGD) in order to upgrade, but she plainly told me that she cannot go back to school again. When i asked her why, she told me that her brain cannot withstand any academic stree again. I also suggested to her, since you studied accounting in the university, why not enroll for ICAN program? When i said that to her, she told me that she could not go for PGD, is it ICAN that she can do? I have been thinking, what will i do for her to be like others.

Luckly, was transferred to Benin. I went with my family to Benin. We stayed over 4years in Benin. While we were in Benin, I told my wife to go and enroll for a 6months diploma programm in computer (because she is not computer literate). I paid over N110,000 for the 6months programme. My wife only went for the programme for 1month and stopped. She refused to complete the program. When I asked her, she told me that she will go back after she had "put to bed"( Then she was pregnant). Guys, its over two years now and the baby is even in pre-nursery school, yet my wife has not reminded me of going back to complete the programme.

Last year, she asked me to open a store for her, that she want to go into trading. When I asked her the nature of the business, she said, she wants to deal on selling rice, beans, yams, groundnut oil, etc. I now suggested that it will not be a problem, but she has to look for somebody who is already in the business so as to understudy the person for atleast 1month. She refused, saying that without her understudying anybody, that she can still make it. I told her that my reason of suggesting to her to understudy somebody was that, i wanted her to be selling in wholesale. My plan was to give like N1.5million. I told her, i cannot just release N1.5million to her for a business that she did not learn. I told her that N1.5million is not a small money. Brethren, that was why up til now, i have not opened the business for her.

My children's school fees is over N650,00 per term for the 3 kids. I provide for feeding. My wife does not want to do anything as to assist me in the family. I give her money for her hair, cream, bathing soap, panties and clothing. Im really getting tired. My salary does not carry the family again because of too much expenses.

Another problem now is, my wife's dressing is nothing to write home about. She dresses as if she is in her late 60s. I have complained to her on several occasion that i dont like the way she dresses, but each time i bring up the issue, she will get angry. People around, have meeting my sisters to tell them that my wife does not dress well as somebody that has gone to the university. Even in my house, my wife only tires wrapper. Nothing in her again attracts me to her. Infact, for the past 3 months, i have not slept with her. I sleep in the parlour while she sleeps in the bed room.

Else, i forget, my wife delibrately "took in" again since July last year. This is after we agreed that the 3 kids that we already have is enough. Her method is, each time i remind her of what to do as to be assisting me in the family, she will delibrately "take in".

My wife, went to the university but she cannot speak simple and correct english. She cannot write application letter. She cannot teach my kids who are in primary 2 and 5 respectively. I pay a lesson teacher N30,000 monthly for my kids but my wife is at home doing nothing. Since we got married, my wife has not sent me text message on her phone more than 3times. The ones that she sent, my brothers, there are lots of gramatical blunders. When i confronted her with the text message, she could not say anything. I was checking for some documents in my room last week, and i came across an application that my wife wrote to submit to a private school where she wants to teach. When i saw the letter, believe me, my brothers, one of my kids that is in primary 5 cannot write such rubbish.

What i thought she was before i married her, is not what she is. I cannot take her out for an occassion because she may embarrase me by her conduct in the public. I need a divorce but the problem now is, i did i court wedding with her. What should i do? Im confused.

"Mr" your wife need a serious help.....
if you fail to help her you will end up with a football team of kids
she will remain the dullard that is not capable of doing any profitable business....
too hugly or rough for your liking, you forget to mention that your house is dirty despite, she's not working
if you choose to divorce... ur kids will pay the price.
so the only (maybe) is to help her
how??
she need counseling (professional marriage counselor) for her to know that the highlighted problems are real and you will be the one to make this happen...
if her parents are supportive they could help talk sense to her....
if she is a religious type and you knew their religion leader is reliable, they also could be helpful...
if there is any friend of her that is reliable, fashionable and industrious, she also could be of assistance....
please if all this option is available use all because she is in an extremely bad situation....

it's worthy of note that your wife has developed a mind set that needed to be change...
she believed that she doesn't need to take care of her outlook anymore simply because she is a mother now forgetting, she was a lover before that and there are several girl with packaging demanding for her man's attention.
she also believed that it's your sole responsibility to take care of her and the kids with which you are capable... she will not listen to you if you try to pasuade her so let the aforementioned people do the work
divorce is not the answer.. acceptability is about 50% in a marriage it's something to hold onto when love,understanding tolerance fail. hold onto it now and help open her eye again
she only needs help, and if you help her you help your kids and save your life...

thanks

Happy new year to all nairalanders, anybody with job offers should pls tag me.
Thanks

Hello Nairanders
pls I need u guys assistance on my itel1500 that always notify me of insufficient memory and deny me access some app
,inability to read SMS....
ur sincere response will be appreciated
thanks anticipation...

Story for the Gods...................

Salute to the chelsea for their shameful exit........

Just like feb postponed election some of the delusional goons never saw it but the winner was predicted

U no no go no........ Dem be notice me............

lastmanstandn: Your great grand fathers are TERRORISTS.

Omo ale jati jati. Omo eru, aj'okuta ma mu'omi

una dey fight

Since after 2:00pm it's like night is taking over from day. The sun cannot shine here in osogbo the state of osun. It's O eclipse

Let be patience and prepared whether 2mao wed, it's always like this. Barakah lahu fihi

Thank i ll try it

My regard to everybody. Pls am having problem to read books that i saved on my phone when connected with laptop. Moreover, every saved pages are useless once it is not access through the same phone. Pls i need ur assistance. Thanks

This is madnesss, one of the major problem btw super powers is, they can't share intelligent. 4 GEJ he can pay foreigner to do this. I dey laugh ooooo

This is cruel, The problem is WHY UNENDING TERROR

By 2050

Black Pen15: Family section ke...Are they married yet?

Back to topic...I've been dating my girl for 7 years now. Planning to propose after Nigeria wins the world cup.

This is madness, minister&commissioner of education, civil society must take a drastic measure

I hope this ll promote good good governance, and end PDP over zealousmess, media governance

PapaBrowne: But which kind name be this na?? This people dont want to win eh??
All Progressive Congress. The name doesn't work abeg.
They should have found something better na.
If they cant give us a good name is it a good country they want to give us?

you don't waste ur time with name, but the structure,manifesto,constitution & logo. However, to me the name is good.

I wish u d best

A Welcome development, now the pdp fear of merger is their begining of wisdom... I pray this benefit Nigerians in terms of good governance

Tolexander: guy! The list no complete jor.
What about juju like okigbe(cutlass proof), aluwo(hit and fall), ayeta(bullet proof), tude, afeeri(disappearing charm), agbefuye(carry anything with ease), amudo(Bleep without the gurl saying no), olonde(cease death), ofe(disappear), ewon sanpana(small pox handcuff). And those weapons are just numerous and uncountable.

Ogun po!! It begs the question, why Insecurity?

Less talk much more action is what America is known for. Welcome to the next 4years Obama

otokx: They should increase the price if so

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otokx: They should increase the price if so

is that ur remedy while @Ada 1900 is 2much, it sucks when people are free talk

Congrat! Am looking forward to ur next match beautiful goal dedicated to Noah

Nice one baba, no matter what we must safeguard nigeria

Nice one ogbeni, the crusade for better nigeria ll start from little things like this

In nan lilahi waina ilaehi rojihunan............ [sub][/sub][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]

Baba_O: Always wanted to satisfy black man that is not proud of his colour, always wanted to satisfy islamic religion for cheap gains across the globe, always teleguiding USA and Nigeria like a robbot. infarct, Britain is the problem of this world.

Your are nothing but an animal,many nairalanders do make wrong comment but yours shows a comment from animal whom on human garb. You are senselesly commenting on thing that make peace elude this world. Allow your common sense to work

Terry need to be sanction if found guilty

In the next few years after the completion of the on going project, ipinleomoluabi ll become new haven

Common sense is not common to people,this paid ranting Abati should have made his write up meaningful if he jettison calling Nigerians criticising his boss and governance names "unintelligent" idle, distracted. Ask this retarded man what will he do as a jurnalist if he still guardian worker when governance is dull like this. GEJ should advice him to stop ranting like a dog. Criticism is the basis of a good governance,we've seen how American criticise Obama and series of Romney attacks. Why not in nigeria, clueless abati, in fact you are a curse to humanity