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@Sunny_t, am in agreement with u that u ve not seen where 'less' is used that way,that is why I said most people mind on NL have been programmed to think one way.
What does a girl mean when she says she want a God fearing man?

Op pls close this thread,as far ur friend did not complain u ve no right to complain.

Abeg am in support of those that want to slap him.

It has started! Did d op mention money,he stated clearly that the lady got married becos she got pregnant.Little by little na so we go deh hear say Nigerian girls are materialistic.

ehnnnn *waka pass*

Oops am seeing this late.I said it,most people on NL have been programmed to think one way.So immediately u see less,it means settling for a rich guy.
Fine,money is an important ingredient but is relative as far basic necessities of life is met.
Now,at this stage due to alot of influence,people get marry for the sake of I want to get marry.When I wrote 'less' I mean settling for a guy that is abusive,a wife beater,irresponsible etc.A guy u know u wont settle for if not for the pressure.

Idowu,tuaale mama,I just like u that is why am bouncing out of this thread.

@Idowu tii be,ko gba enu e,don't go personal on me.If u wan argue,let's do it,don't be insultive.

@Alata u made a nice point,if u cannot afford BB don't go for it,the same analogy can also go for the Op.Babe weh ask u money after 2 weeks,if he know he can't afford it he should go for another babe.Why is he now shouting.
The issue I have with this kind of thread is the fallacy of generalising that is been thrown around.

Greedie u ve murder this thread.THREAD CLOSED.

Hi truckpusher,pls have have this *KISSES*.Guy ur head is there.

The issue I have with this thread is the advice Op is giving others.
Op u are the not the first to be cheated on and u are definitely not going to be the last.
My advice is to dust urself up and learn from it.Millions of women are been cheated on everyday and that didn't make them hate on all men.

Ijele,in my opinion this is the most sensible thread u ve ever opened.THANKS

Whoo! That is the spirit,Baibijay@yahoo I dey feel u die.

Beautiful!Op thanks.Baibijay@yahoo thanks also.In addition we are going to raise our boyz to appreciate,love and cherish women.

If u are above 30 and u still single pls don't settle for less.I know it is easier said than done but what is the use of getting married and u re unhappy.
Pls don't let society pressurize u into making a wrong choice.
'Why are there high rate of divorcee and single mothers' are threads that people should open on NL.

@ugbong560,my leisure time is very precious to me so if am going to sacrifice it,then is going to be with some1 or something that is very important to me likewise the same for him to.
Don't get it confuse,time is not the only thing but the most important thing u got to sacrifice for a relationship to work.

Op when u love some1 then you respect that person.As babe to babe,if ur hand is truely clean ur phone is not suppose to be switch off.Your guy has a reason to be suspicious of u.
If u really love him,clean up ur act,as u can see,he is not a fool.

Oga o,u re writing with sense until u got to point 5.YOU TRIED

There is no how u will be in a relationship and not sacrifice esp your time.I don't think any1 can escape sacrificing his or her time.

Op tell ur friend to have a little pride and alot of self-esteem.No one deserve to listen to that crap and still hope on God.

NL don suffer!

Forgotten

It depends on the point u re looking it from,from friendship point of view,u did betray him.
You handled it wrongly,u should have talked 1 on 1 before u ask the babe out since u know he has feeling for her.

LLNP.....Happy bday.