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Ayoolajumoke:
I said what I said bro, free me.

definitely no one hold you so don't say free me...
anyway you're beautiful i have to say it...
the word is beyond keeping...

Blackivy27:
it was a mistake. Auto correct.

what are you trying to say then...

Blackivy27:
i didnt know you were referring to programming.

not about programming..

Blackivy27:
No. Why??

sometime sometime life change...

Blackivy27:
Simon.

what happened with him...

Blackivy27:
Pride??

Yea you heard me right i just hope not about you

Blackivy27:
Okay.
you: some amazing things na
me: if you teach me

where is that convo going. Not programming.

Well if you wish to tell me the story if no is all good..

Blackivy27:
I wont

don't tell me you're the type of girls that pride a lot.
but i guess doing that is nothing bad..

See something amazing i feel like holding it now

no sensible will marry them just my opinion...

Blackivy27:
No. Assuming your mind had went there at first it would have been easier.

what of now huh

Blackivy27:
Just feel so.

never say never

Blackivy27:
a friend. I would feel guilty explaining.

guilty i mean what bad about it ? does that mean you're not going to say it

Blackivy27:
what if there isnt any mountain.

what make you think there isn't...

Blackivy27:
lol. Go and find him??

yea if the mountain doesn't come to Muhammed, Muhammed should go to the mountain...

Blackivy27:
Aww. You just reminded me of some one. That wasnt what i meant though.

who is that and how do you meant..

Blackivy27:
Aww... Thanks.

Alright go find him...

Blackivy27:
if you can teach me?

am also into programming but currently am without laptop i can't teach you anything..

marriage is not an achievement...

Blackivy27:
He cheated

someone is somewhere waiting for you to make you happy don't worry...

Jeux:
@luvyaself95, I left my former environment and to start a new life so I can do away with the low self esteem thing and it has worked magic, I can approach a girl but the content of our convo is the problem, what do i say,what do we discus, that's the problem. thanks anyways

haha mogbe talk sweet into her head and tell her how you feel about her...
i think you're afraid of being reject...

Once had ex like that if not am a sharp guy she would wreck me like some guys...

Blackivy27:
You want to be programmed?? Why??

those amazing things na

One guy wan disvirgin me oh what all these na

You chat like this and you think you have low self esteem how biko

booksrite001:
That's nice.

pcguru1 has spoken well, Java is good but I do c# and Blackivy27 needs a personal coaching to kick off.


Sure.

that would be nice but am talking to blackivy.

MariaLavina:
Sex!

Did all a Lady can do for a man but not sex, he went back to his ex for it. (which I discovered wasn't even an ex).Lol Dude basically saw a cool churchy girl he thinks he can keep for a wife while he can bang his other chick. Sadly I don't do my things that way, I ended it all.

Sometimes I wonder what is it with men and sex

What are you putting on the table for them...

She was pretending as lover girl at the same time she is very cunning trying to twist my brain but i am smart than her so i dump her stupid ass...

Bae Can You Program Me ?

DateMynd44:
When a girl says she's in a platonic friendship with you, what does she really mean?

Is it just Casual friends with no relationship attached or Closed and deep friends to confide in with no emotions or affections or love relationship that you both are dating but absence of sex?

well I got a friend I asked her to define our friendship and she said we are just in a platonic friendship that's all. Though I like it that way cos I don't want any distractions as I don dey near to finish school so I'm battling how I'll shoot from this boundary 2:1 to first class which seems to be a Herculean task so dating and engaging on all those stuff may dampen my goal now.


Okay straight to the point, so this girl that told me we are nothing but platonic friends has some financial issues as she hasn't paid her fees as her parents are financially drained (dad got sacked, mom's business isn't flowing) so she risked suspending her studies cos she couldn't register her courses and the school fees is 50k (Course registration inclusive) and she had to struggle and hustle during the holidays and earned 20k and now needs 30k to complete an pay her fees and register her courses.

I long paid mine and there's this work that entered for me an I had 50k gain and tho I don't have any pressing needs except to boost my wardrobe and save the cash or by my mumsy a present.... But my mind and conscience is irking me that I should send her the 30k and help her out but that money is too much to give out to a platonic friend that I'm not sure I'll marry, so I should just start taking care of someone's future wife Due to the issues she's passing thru she may not be able to pay back.
so guys what's your advice in this? what's the extent of help u can give a platonic friend?
Had it been u were in my shoes would you lease out such amount of money to a platonic friend without refund

cc ubunja truthsbitter luvyaself95 dairrykid

why do you think you have to help her...

DateMynd44:
seriously. that's why I pity guys who invest In a girl they're are yet to get married to

obviously those girls won't marry them.
I remember the girl i love much in my life that i wanted to invest on upon the job am doing at that time, you know love do someone but my mind was telling not to guess what it wasn't up to a month we broke up and if you see how this girl was abuse me when me lover boy was trying to settle things despite she is at fault later i man up..
went into relationship with my current ex whenever that one ask me for money i played dumb even her waec and other things i don't about them but gave her advice...
I can't imagine myself help someone and get blame or insult or lemme say know no thank you...

For you feeling this way i wonder you might not be Nigerian you help Nigeria girls they won't appreciate they are ingrate...