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DateMynd44:
When a girl says she's in a platonic friendship with you, what does she really mean?

Is it just Casual friends with no relationship attached or Closed and deep friends to confide in with no emotions or affections or love relationship that you both are dating but absence of sex?

well I got a friend I asked her to define our friendship and she said we are just in a platonic friendship that's all. Though I like it that way cos I don't want any distractions as I don dey near to finish school so I'm battling how I'll shoot from this boundary 2:1 to first class which seems to be a Herculean task so dating and engaging on all those stuff may dampen my goal now.


Okay straight to the point, so this girl that told me we are nothing but platonic friends has some financial issues as she hasn't paid her fees as her parents are financially drained (dad got sacked, mom's business isn't flowing) so she risked suspending her studies cos she couldn't register her courses and the school fees is 50k (Course registration inclusive) and she had to struggle and hustle during the holidays and earned 20k and now needs 30k to complete an pay her fees and register her courses.

I long paid mine and there's this work that entered for me an I had 50k gain and tho I don't have any pressing needs except to boost my wardrobe and save the cash or by my mumsy a present.... But my mind and conscience is irking me that I should send her the 30k and help her out but that money is too much to give out to a platonic friend that I'm not sure I'll marry, so I should just start taking care of someone's future wife Due to the issues she's passing thru she may not be able to pay back.
so guys what's your advice in this? what's the extent of help u can give a platonic friend?
Had it been u were in my shoes would you lease out such amount of money to a platonic friend without refund

cc ubunja truthsbitter luvyaself95 dairrykid

why do you think you have to help her...

DateMynd44:
seriously. that's why I pity guys who invest In a girl they're are yet to get married to

obviously those girls won't marry them.
I remember the girl i love much in my life that i wanted to invest on upon the job am doing at that time, you know love do someone but my mind was telling not to guess what it wasn't up to a month we broke up and if you see how this girl was abuse me when me lover boy was trying to settle things despite she is at fault later i man up..
went into relationship with my current ex whenever that one ask me for money i played dumb even her waec and other things i don't about them but gave her advice...
I can't imagine myself help someone and get blame or insult or lemme say know no thank you...

For you feeling this way i wonder you might not be Nigerian you help Nigeria girls they won't appreciate they are ingrate...

Loving you na scam

That guy no get chill he give her back to back on repeat...

This is love made in heaven...

I hate everything about soapy
both audio and video..

Blackivy27:
thanks alot,

Take care...

it like you collect first degree of mumu in school... church girls are most manipulative... slay queen play their game open but them they do it code... I can relate...

Blackivy27:
Yep

i felt same way once like that experience is best teacher you will catch up soon..

Blackivy27:
Thanks. Mine was like a week ago. No wonder i feel bad

that not long and i guess this your first time...

Blackivy27:
Aww. You're very right. How you doing too now when did you break up??

have been doing fantatics than before you know in this life eh if someone can't value you , You have to value yourself.. well it going to two months now we break up...

Blackivy27:
You just reminded me of him. If i told him not to cheat he say, "am i mad never."
i loved him. A part of me still does.

so yes he was mad. Seriously.

LOL you must be funny someone oh anyway It would be better you forget him true love doesn't cheat...
I have someone like that before i have to dump her ass...

Blackivy27:
Im talking about my situation. That long epistle is my story.

serious who be that guy that take you for granted is he mad...

OK Miss..

certified olosho...

Blackivy27:
I dont understand?

a girl that has the qualities you mentioned...

Blackivy27:
It is
the suns shining here. Cant sleep. Do you want to??

not really am about to get busy...

Blackivy27:
what??

it raining go and sleep you need it...

HBD

Blackivy27:
...

not again

obembet:
This is what of the things that lead to suicide..i put myself in the lady's shoes and i felt bad. How can a heartless guy date a lady for good 6years without any good result. I think dating Nigerian guy is a scam.

are Nigeria ladies worth to friend not talk of dating i can't blame the guy he has his reason not to accept her proposal and everything in this life is risk nothing is sure...

Hey attention seeker... now that you have gotten my attention what do you gain.. ode posting rubbish

I never even see the kind of girl you're talking of

When money is speaking Girls is the audience and Love things so all this tips are trash

When money is speaking Girls is the audience and Love things so all this tips are trash

budaatum:
I think the issue here is that your desire is to argue instead of reasoning. One involves banging unfounded statements against each other's while the other requires the careful consideration of each others view. And i agree, arguing with me will indeed lead nowhere. Can we try reasoning instead of arguing?

Why is it, in your opinion, not possible for men and women to have equal opportunities and treatment in societies? Why do you think equals cannot respect each other?

Incidentally, the program on telly at this very moment is titled Japan's Secret Shame. The story of Shiori Ito, the woman who shocked Japan with a public allegation of rape in a country where sex crimes are rarely discussed. In an society that sees women as equal to men this would not have been an issue.

This film tells the moving story of 29-year-old Japanese journalist Shiori Ito, who in May 2017 shocked Japan when she went public with allegations that she was raped by a well-known TV journalist.

Through Shiori's testimony, the film outlines her allegations against Noriyuki Yamaguchi, on the night the two met for a business dinner in Tokyo. Mr Yamaguchi, the biographer of Japan's prime minister, strenuously denies her claims. It recounts what led Shiori to take the unprecedented decision to go public with her allegations in a country where speaking about sex crimes remains strictly taboo. Following Shiori over the next year, the film tells the story of how criminal charges against Mr Yamaguchi were never brought, and her decision to pursue a civil case against him - a case which he is defending. It also portrays the consequences Shiori faced by speaking out in Japanese society. While the #MeToo movement saw women coming forward in solidarity across the globe, in Japan, Shiori was met with hate mail and public humiliation.

Interweaving in the wider social issues of gender and traditional attitudes in Japan, the film follows Shiori on her personal journey, as she visits the institutions she believes failed her, meets with other women who are too frightened to even report assaults, and fights to affect change in Japan.

The truth is i hate some men that assault women any criminal of it must be punish.
am done with all this talk am not it kind...

Martinez39:
No one knows about the origin of things. It's still a mystery but there is no evidence that a supreme god did it. Even if we say that a god did it, how do you know that god is your god?

God not god which kind of person with all these nonsense you're blabbing...

Blackivy27:
Generally means. If you're okay offline be so here too. Stop replying my post negatively. Or in that tone.

in that case try to be specific...

idalex:
...and everything in it...

Yea

budaatum:
No, I can't. A feminist is simply someone, male or female, who is trying to achieve change that helps women get equal opportunities and treatment.

Do note that some men are pigs whom a feminist will aim to be superior to. There's afterall no point aspiring to piggishness.

I said this before and i will say it again arguing with you would lead to nowhere...
make and female are two different people it can't be possible...
Argument No More..

budaatum:
When you have no more to say you'd just say no more!

A feminist is not after control of any man and it would be stupid for her not to like being controlled and then wish to control another, and it's not in anyway clear that she has to be led by a man. As for God, male and female were both created in the image of God, which sounds pretty equal to me unless you are one of those who believe the woman is your rib!

But if God did what you claim God did, then "God, I buda, challenge you!"

can you tell me three reasons feminist is better man...