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heryourdayji:
I am in this relationship, and I and my boyfriend have had quite a rocky relationship. We often quarrel and argue and just recently, I found out that he had joined a dating website. This surprised me as I don’t know why he would do that while we were together. I confronted him and he apologized, claiming that he only did it because we were having a lot of problems and thought that we were done at the time. I was extremely hurt and angry so I broke up with him and told him that i never wanted to see him again.


The day after that, I was hanging out with one of my male friends, we got into a serious talk and ended up having sex.

I had sex with my friend, hoping it was going to make me feel better but i ended up feeling a lot worse after. I have never done things like this, but when I decided to sleep with my friend I don’t think that my boyfriend and I would ever get back together.



After a few days, he called me (my ex) we were talking and we got all emotional and we decided to give things another go. I love him so much and really want to be with him but I was sad because it took me having sex with my friend to realize how much I wanted my boyfriend back. Having sex with my friend also made me realize how easily mistakes are made so i am willing to forgive my boyfriend for joining the dating site.


We are back together now but I have not told him that I slept with someone else during our short break up and I really don’t want to tell him because i am afraid he will not forgive me and that I will lose him forever this time. I feel like I am being dishonest, which I so hate the feeling but I definitely hate the thought of having to tell him more. So my question is, if you sleep with someone else during a short break up do you need to tell your partner that u slept with someone else? Or is it none of their business when you have broken up?


Please I need good advice from mature romanceland esp guys

Haven read a lot of comments, I felt like dropping my own golden coin.

It is better to have a spoilt roof than a faulty foundation, when a doctor forgets a piece of equipment in someone during operation the fellow can never have peace until its removed,truth told is problem averted and truth hidden is problem postponed.

Many families today are in crises because of an hidden issue before marriage. OP don't build your life on a faulty foundation. The first evil that men do finds them.

Please tell him,the worse he will do is to quit the relationship but at least you are sure you are not building on a faulty foundation.

let me remind you that their is no way you can escape from the judge of your soul (Conscience) that constantly and continuously judges. Why do you want to remain a slave of your soul while you are still living.

Do you know that even when you are married and you see that your friend with your husband you suddenly grow worries.

More importantly,your post shows you love your boyfriend and you afraid lossing him but have you thought of Jesus whose heart you have broken?have you thought of the relationship between you and the saviour Jesus that has been broken? You fear the consequences of men but can you escape the consequences of sinning against your maker by communing formication. I can not blame you because Jesus has not condemned you,all you need is repent of your sin and confess to your boyfriend if you must continue with the relationship.

Our generation has been spiritually degenerated that youth like me sees nothing wrong in formication. Lord have mercy on our generation!

For the sake of next time,it is better to seek advice from old and experienced ones than Young's ones who has just seen Little bit of life.

God bless you!

Haven read a lot of comments, I felt like dropping my own golden coin.

It is better to have a spoilt roof than a faulty foundation, when a doctor forgets a piece of equipment in someone during operation the fellow can never have peace until its removed,truth told is problem averted and truth hidden is problem postponed.

Many families today are in crises because of an hidden issue before marriage. OP don't build your life on a faulty foundation. The first evil that men do finds them.

Please tell him,the worse he will do is to quit the relationship but at least you are sure you are not building on a faulty foundation.

let me remind you that their is no way you can escape from the judge of your soul (Conscience) that constantly and continuously judges. Why do you want to remain a slave of your soul while you are still living.

Do you know that even when you are married and you see that your friend with your husband you suddenly grow worries.

More importantly,your post shows you love your boyfriend and you afraid lossing him but have you thought of Jesus whose heart you have broken?have you thought of the relationship between you and the saviour Jesus that has been broken? You fear the consequences of men but can you escape the consequences of sinning against your maker by communing formication. I can not blame you because Jesus has not condemned you,all you need is repent of your sin and confess to your boyfriend if you must continue with the relationship.

Our generation has been spiritually degenerated that youth like me sees nothing wrong in formication. Lord have mercy on our generation!

For the sake of next time,it is better to seek advice from old and experienced ones than Young's ones who has just seen Little bit of life.

God bless you!

The National Assembly has denied rumours
making rounds that the 2016 budget has
disappeared from its premises.

News had gone viral on Tuesday, January 12,
2016 that the document presented to the
Assembly last year had gone missing , a
reason the Senate could not continue with its
plenary session.

Reports say the documents are intact.
The meeting between the Senate president,
Bukola Saraki and President Muhammadu
Buhari after the widespread news also
triggered the initial speculation, while the
former Kwara state governor refused to make
any comment on the reason for the about 30-
minute discussion at the Presidential Villa.
But the National Assembly has now assured
that both chambers are planning to making
copies of the money Bill available for the 109
senators and 360 members of the House,
adding that they are determined to pass the
bill as soon as possible.

According to Leadership, the chairman of the
Senate committee on media and publicity,
Senator Abdullahi Sabi, laughed off the
speculations that the budget was missing,
while noting emphatically that the contents
of the 2016 budget were carefully drafted to
enhance and drive the change agenda of the
present administration.

READ ALSO: We Did Not Withdraw The
‘Missing Budget’ -Femi Adesina
“There is no such thing; it is laughable for
anybody to insinuate that the 2016 budget is
missing; it is the figment of the imagination of
those carrying such rumour.
“We, as a Senate, are presently concentrating
on making copies of the budget available to
every senator. We are getting ready to
commence deliberations on the budget and we
are enthusiastic and looking forward to a quick
passage so that the president would commence
implementation in such a way that the
electorate would begin to reap the dividends
and benefits of democracy.
“So it is not true that the budget is missing; it
is a rumour. We deal with facts here and the
fact is that no budget is missing,” he was
quoted to have said.

The leadership of the lower chamber of the
Assembly also denied story of 2016 budget
theft from the National Assembly, saying that
original copy of the Appropriation Bill as
presented to NASS was intact and with the
management of the Assembly.
Abdulrazak Namdas, who spoke on behalf of
the House, told Leadership through his
deputy, Jonathan Gaza Gbefwi, that the
rumour of budget theft or missing was
unthinkable.

He said: “The budget is intact and, in fact, they
even plan to begin to distribute copies to
members tomorrow (today) to begin to analyse;
so wherever that (rumour) is coming from, I
don’t know. So, it’s all a lie.”

SOURCE: https://www.naij.com/694114-nass-insists-2016-budget-not-missing-happened.html

repogirl:
Okay.... Since you want to settle with her eventually and you only want sex after marriage, then just marry her na!

you are very funny is that how to marry? marry because of sex? some one in NYSC (#19,000)after 1month continuous sex the same girl will file for divorce on the ground of not been financially capable.

Sex is not a reason to marry,its one of the benefits of marriage please get it right. If marriage is all about sex then some family shouldn't have separated.

When you are married then you understand the real meaning of Love.

God bless you.

Good morning Mr. Austin, I want to tell everyone that the company is real I have been there for an interview so please apply appropriately.

Going by subsidy removal which I support anyway because the rich are getting richer all in the name of helping the poor through subsidy.

Notwithstanding, if the masses will have to sacrifice much for the economy,we must make sure our discussion rights are protected.

We shall not watch and see money hungry senators to change their vehicles with our money,it shall no longer be bussines as usual, I call on everyone no matter your geopolitical zone,either SE,SS,NE,SW,e.t.c. to stand up and defend our Right.

We shall make this government governable and well meaning to Nigerians if we take to the street with boldness to defend our taxes.

I call on any bold,brave,and visionary youths,let us have an association not to beg dirty politicians, not hail them for few naira whereby jeopardizing our future. I Find it hard to believe it when we youth will gather to honor a politician who made us Jobless and still make us feel like a lesser citizens by giving him an award.

Enough of this bold social comments,where are the real youth that wana standup to claim our rights and save our generation.

Why should we vote under terrible sun to have a relief from pains but still continue under the pain after voting.

I believe in the national anthem "Arise oh Compatriot" but we will cease to be compatriots to fraud and broad day devaluation of young Nigerians.

like the leper said "Why Sit we here till we die", let it not be a prophesy of fella coming to pass(Suffering and smiling). Nigerian youth,we can make a change under the confine of the law, can we have youths in each local government throughout the federation that will form an association in order to force government to work.I am not talking of the existing association whose patron is one celebrated thief and looter.

I belong to Nigeria,I want to see hi glory return,our father told us of how they eat free food in the university, how they had cleaners to wash their cloth, how coffee was around corridors of lecture theatre, how they were offered immediate employment with official car,how education was interesting. Such stories looks like a fantasy compared to what is obtainable now.

We finish NYSC at age 25 above they tell us we are not employable because of age as if it was not their greed and frivolities that delay us in tertiary institutions through endless Stokes.

Enough is enough, because of our joblessness we come to blogs to defend thieves, we celebrate them when they buy things with our money, we let them use us as a tribal and religious bigot.

I want youths like me that will say not again!

#NIGERIANYOUTHSHALLRISE

Going by subsidy removal with which I support anyway because the rich are getting richer all in the name of helping the poor through subsidy.

Notwithstanding, if the masses will have to sacrifice much for the economy,we must make sure our discussion rights are protected.

We shall not watch and see money hungry senators to change their vehicles with our money,it shall no longer be bussines as usual, I call on everyone no matter your geopolitical zone,either SE,SS,NE,SW,e.t.c. to stand up and defend our Right.

We shall make this government governable and well meaning to Nigerians if we take to the street with boldness to defend our taxes.

I call on any bold,brave,and visionary youths,let us have an association not to beg dirty politicians, not hail them for few naira whereby jeopardizing our future. I Find it hard to believe it when we youth will gather to honor a politician who made us Jobless and still make us feel like a lesser citizens by giving him an award.

Enough of this bold social comments,where are the real youth that wana standup to claim our rights and save our generation.

Why should we vote under terrible sun to have a relief from pains but still continue under the pain after voting.

I believe in the national anthem "Arise oh Compatriot" but we will cease to be compatriots to fraud and broad day devaluation of young Nigerians.

like the leper said "Why Sit we here till we die", let it not be a prophesy of fella coming to pass(Suffering and smiling). Nigerian youth,we can make a change under the confine of the law, can we have youths in each local government throughout the federation that will form an association in order to force government to work.I am not talking of the existing association whose patron is one celebrated thief and looter.

I belong to Nigeria,I want to see hi glory return,our father told us of how they eat free food in the university, how they had cleaners to wash their cloth, how coffee was around corridors of lecture theatre, how they were offered immediate employment with official car,how education was interesting. Such stories looks like a fantasy compared to what is obtainable now.

We finish NYSC at age 25 above they tell us we are not employable because of age as if it was not their greed and frivolities that delay us in tertiary institutions through endless Stokes.

Enough is enough, because of our joblessness we come to blogs to defend thieves, we celebrate them when they buy things with our money, we let them use us as a tribal and religious bigot.

I want youths like me that will say not again!

#NIGERIANYOUTHSHALLRISE

Going by subsidy removal which I support anyway because the rich are getting richer all in the name of helping the poor through subsidy.

Notwithstanding, if the masses will have to sacrifice much for the economy,we must make sure our discussion rights are protected.

We shall not watch and see money hungry senators to change their vehicles with our money,it shall no longer be bussines as usual, I call on everyone no matter your geopolitical zone,either SE,SS,NE,SW,e.t.c. to stand up and defend our Right.

We shall make this government governable and well meaning to Nigerians if we take to the street with boldness to defend our taxes.

I call on any bold,brave,and visionary youths,let us have an association not to beg dirty politicians, not hail themfeel for few naira whereby jeopardizing our future. I Find it hard to believe it when we youth will gather to honor a politician who made us Jobless and still make us feel like a lesser citizens by giving him an award.

Enough of this bold social comments,where are the real youth that wana standup to claim our rights and save our generation.

Why should we vote under terrible sun to have a relief from pains but still continue under the pain after voting.

I believe in the national anthem "Arise oh Compatriot" but we will cease to be compatriots to fraud and broad day devaluation of young Nigerians.

like the leper said "Why Sit we here till we die", let it not be a prophesy of fella coming to pass(Suffering and smiling). Nigerian youth,we can make a change under the confine of the law, can we have youths in each local government throughout the federation that will form an association in order to force government to work.I am not talking of the existing association whose patron is one celebrated thief and looter.

I belong to Nigeria,I want to see hi glory return,our father told us of how they eat free food in the university, how they had cleaners to wash their cloth, how coffee was around corridors of lecture theatre, how they were offered immediate employment with official car,how education was interesting. Such stories looks like a fantasy compared to what is obtainable now.

We finish NYSC at age 25 above they tell us we are not employable because of age as if it was not their greed and frivolities that delay us in tertiary institutions through endless Stokes.

Enough is enough, because of our joblessness we come to blogs to defend thieves, we celebrate them when they buy things with our money, we let them use us as a tribal and religious bigot.

I want youths like me that will say not again!

#NIGERIANYOUTHSHALLRISE

Going by subsidy removal which I support anyway because the rich are getting richer all in the name of helping the poor through subsidy.

Notwithstanding, if the masses will have to sacrifice much for the economy,we must make sure our discussion rights are protected.

We shall not watch and see money hungry senators to change their vehicles with our money,it shall no longer be bussines as usual, I call on everyone no matter your geopolitical zone,either SE,SS,NE,SW,e.t.c. to stand up and defend our Right.

We shall make this government governable and well meaning to Nigerians if we take to the street with boldness to defend our taxes.

I call on any bold,brave,and visionary youths,let us have an association not to beg dirty politicians, not hail them for few naira whereby jeopardizing our future. I Find it hard to believe it when we youth will gather to honor a politician who made us Jobless and still make us feel like a lesser citizens by giving him an award.

Enough of this bold social comments,where are the real youth that wana standup to claim our rights and save our generation.

Why should we vote under terrible sun to have a relief from pains but still continue under the pain after voting.

I believe in the national anthem "Arise oh Compatriot" but we will cease to be compatriots to fraud and broad day devaluation of young Nigerians.

like the leper said "Why Sit we here till we die", let it not be a prophesy of fella coming to pass(Suffering and smiling). Nigerian youth,we can make a change under the confine of the law, can we have youths in each local government throughout the federation that will form an association in order to force government to work.I am not talking of the existing association whose patron is one celebrated thief and looter.

I belong to Nigeria,I want to see her glory return,our father told us of how they eat free food in the university, how they had cleaners to wash their cloth, how coffee was around corridors of lecture theatre, how they were offered immediate employment with official car,how education was interesting. Such stories looks like a fantasy compared to what is obtainable now.

We finish NYSC at age 25 above they tell us we are not employable because of age as if it was not their greed and frivolities that delay us in tertiary institutions through endless Stokes.

Enough is enough, because of our joblessness we come to blogs to defend thieves, we celebrate them when they buy things with our money, we let them use us as a tribal and religious bigot.

I want youths like me that will say not again!

#NIGERIANYOUTHSHALLRISE

Going by subsidy removal with which I support anyway because the rich are getting richer all in the name of helping the poor through subsidy.

Notwithstanding, if the masses will have to sacrifice much for the economy,we must make sure our discussion rights are protected.

We shall not watch and see money hungry senators to change their vehicles with our money,it shall no longer be bussines as usual, I call on everyone no matter your geopolitical zone,either SE,SS,NE,SW,e.t.c. to stand up and defend our Right.

We shall make this government governable and well meaning to Nigerians if we take to the street with boldness to defend our taxes.

I call on any bold,brave,and visionary youths,let us have an association not to beg dirty politicians, not hail them for few naira whereby jeopardizing our future. I Find it hard to believe it when we youth will gather to honor a politician who made us Jobless and still make us feel like a lesser citizens by giving him an award.

Enough of this bold social comments,where are the real youth that wana standup to claim our rights and save our generation.

Why should we vote under terrible sun to have a relief from pains but still continue under the pain after voting.

I believe in the national anthem "Arise oh Compatriot" but we will cease to be compatriots to fraud and broad day devaluation of young Nigerians.

like the leper said "Why Sit we here till we die", let it not be a prophesy of fella coming to pass(Suffering and smiling). Nigerian youth,we can make a change under the confine of the law, can we have youths in each local government throughout the federation that will form an association in order to force government to work.I am not talking of the existing association whose patron is one celebrated thief and looter.

I belong to Nigeria,I want to see hi glory return,our father told us of how they eat free food in the university, how they had cleaners to wash their cloth, how coffee was around corridors of lecture theatre, how they were offered immediate employment with official car,how education was interesting. Such stories looks like a fantasy compared to what is obtainable now.

We finish NYSC at age 25 above they tell us we are not employable because of age as if it was not their greed and frivolities that delay us in tertiary institutions through endless Stokes.

Enough is enough, because of our joblessness we come to blogs to defend thieves, we celebrate them when they buy things with our money, we let them use us as a tribal and religious bigot.

I want youths like me that will say not again!

#NIGERIANYOUTHSHALLRISE

A former deputy national chairman of the
Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) Chief
Olabode George has expressed confidence
that the party will sack the ruling All
Progressives Congress (APC) in the 2019
general elections.
Chief Bode George has expressed confidence
that the PDP will bounce back in 2019.
In order to achieve this, Chief Olabode George
implored his party members to close ranks,
and stop trading blames over the party’s loss
in the 2015 presidential election and prepare
for what lies ahead.
In a no-holds-barred interview with Saturday
Sun, the PDP chieftain said he cannot forgive
former president Olusegun Obasanjo, as well
as Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu for his prison
ordeals.
He however noted that he remains optimistic
that the party will bounce back in 2019,
adding also that Lagos is one of the states
the PDP hopes to win in coming election.
Reminiscing on the past, he lamented that
the party was on the verge of winning Lagos
state during the 2015 general elections but
for the activities of some dubious party
members who deceived Jonathan and
messed up, leading to the defeat of the
party’s gubernatorial aspirant, Jimmy Agbaje.
He said: “ One joker in Lagos State told
Jonathan that he has Lagos State under his
armpit and that he would single-handedly deliver
Lagos State to PDP. Unfortunately, Jonathan lis­
tened to these liars and manipulators.
“These elements took advantage of Jonathan’s
good nature. He trusted them, but these
congenital liars betrayed Jonathan. If our party
leaders had listened to us, things would not
have turned out that way.”
He reiterated the confidence that the party
will perform well in the Kogi elections, adding
that party members are going to work
together as a family to achieve this.
He pleaded with disgruntled PDP members
who left the party to come back home
stating that PDP will bounce back.


source:
https://www.naij.com/664931-cannot-forgive-obj-tinubu-pdp-will-kick-buhari-2019-bode-george.html

I don't know the intention of the OP,but its wrong to relate every piece of information on nairaland to Trib@lism.

#TEAMONENIGERIA

I don't know the the intention of the OP but its wrong to relate every piece of information to tribalism.

The earlier we get that as Nigerians the United we will be.
#TEAMONENIGERIA

If the allegations against him are true,...... then I wish him Goodluck at the gate of heaven,but you know angels no be Nigerians wey go collect bribe.

Don't die without having Jesus its a bad idea that can't be corrected.

Kai!they should not occupy the whole prison room with terrorists o,their sponsors are still coming.

nairalanders help me beg them to please leave some rooms Vacant

Kai!they should not occupy the whole prison room with terrorists o,their sponsors are still coming.

nairalanders help me beg them to please leave some rooms Vancant

drss:
...and d media trial continue. Make dem continue. dasuki, dopkesi will soon be released n aquitted by d court for lack of evidence. I don talk my own.
Even if dem show video of GEJ robbing CBN, he still remains my greatest hero!!!!!!!!!

bro,u need to learn how to think concretely,I thinks its wrong to say if someone is shown in video stealing he will still be your hero.

I love Jonathan for his person but I can't because of that sacrifice the future of my children's children.

I belong to no party but #My Conscience!

stephenduru:
More

please I have a question!Which one is PDPRabit in that pix oh sorry PDP Rebirth?

It's the hypertension of the eye that makes a man celebrated by less than 50 Jobless and initiativeless youth to feel on top of the world when millions are spitting at his glance.

I belong to no party but #myconscience

Last Chapter of the book of Lamentation(my copy);

"Alas Nigeria!why are the masses degenerated to the level compared to a prey celebrating its captor."

Allegations might not be always true but the fact that there is a smoke of corruption should have deter people from this protest.

The first deliverance the Nigerian masses need is the deliverance from slave-mentality until everyone learn to stand for the truth irrespective of our present economic situation,we will keep harbouring criminals at the helm of Affairs.

delishpot:
Who will adopt me for real I miss having parents. Mehn I need mature people in my life.

I like your comment bro,but we don't need to be adopted before we experience elderly cousel,they are always around us but insensitivity makes us overlook learning many times

it is of better advantage to humanity if his action is sincere and not a reaction of Court order. In order words,respect is cultural and human. Wish him Goodluck if God wills and if Benue people wishes.