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Daniel7543:
If to say she mind her business nw, she for no enter wahala
I don quickly understand say with the way Nigeria dey now anybody can faint in ur front at any moment… so if u jst faint for my front na bye bye I go tell u ooo

And what if you were the one to fall in front of strangers? Should that be bye bye to you too?

Jandminded:
Nigeria failed her people

Alexlalax1:
A qualified lawyer turned a caregiver in a working society to give her little child a good future which her country couldn't assure them. Nne, rest on Your country truly failed you

She wasn't feeling well but instead of going to hospital, she went to work. Simple tests/diagnostic would have led to the avoidance of her death

Acidosis:
Add wetin you wan add, boss.

Like I mentioned: "if that conversation ever....," meaning there are instances where you advise (not ban) her to stay back or postpone her visit due to 1, 2...3 reasons.

Am I married? Yes.

Ever had this situation in my home? Oh, yes. Even my personal travel plan, we've had to cancel it together at some point because I don't have money for ransom. It's a non-issue, where there is peace and understanding.

I don't want to ignore you despite that you're married.
We're talking about travelling abroad here! With the way Nigeria economy is! There is too much at stake for the man if he agree to wife's travelling abroad. I don't want to say much.

purples25:
You even said she is not fine at all.

It is better for that girl to go with a man that sees her as a prize and not what he settled for. You, by your own words, don't rate her much. Yes. You will always look at her as if you did her a favor by marrying her. She cannot do 'shakara' around you because you rate her lowly. In fact, she won't have any pride in the marriage. It is better she goes with a man that will truly appreciate her.

Old women rating young ladies. Always. They always, ALWAYS forget their own wrinkles and such and go around rating young women to be beautiful or ugly.

Even the way people go around rating by looks. It's so disgusting. As if they don't have brains. I don't have respect for people again, I know all it takes to win them over is a pretty face and a charismatic character. Just like putting cheese in a rat trap.

This world is so heartless. So because the lady is not fine, she is not worth it? Not fine, according to older grandma, who is not even humble with all her old hair and age. Disappointment! Big disappointment! So the young lady should go and kill herself?

Honestly, a woman's beauty is considered to be her value by men, just like how a man's wealth and success determines his pull of women. That's the transactional world we live in, even if I don't like it.

Bolded part is a prize, the rest na history lesson.

Sweetvie:
The girlfriend's appearance should not be a factor in whether or not she is suitable for you. There's more to marriage than beautiful face.
Na now wey the girl don reach 30 una wan come break up? Nah you must marry her

Says by who? You? Laughing. Have you ever toasted or dated an ugly lady in your dating experience?
She doesn't have to be qualified as beautiful but she must not qualify as ugly too. Think of the looks of your children and how the society will be treating or reacting to their appearances (starting from the bullying at school). Be warned!!

Double0h7:
Trigger warning ⚠️ unpopular opinion ‼️

Have you thought about your children and how they will look? If you’re not attractive then you’re setting your children up for future rejection. People have always looked for good genes to pass along to their offspring. Your mother definitely means well for you.

If you are very attractive then you could offset her lack but if you’re not then you are setting your children up for bullying and rejection of their own.

Another thing, it makes sense that she is peaceful because imagine if she was unattractive inside and out.

Thank you.

CountinBlessins:
Grow up and stop bringing your problems to social media it shows you are a weakling and not fit to be called an adult!! Handle your issues in privacy. Weakling

Handle yours the way you like and let him handle his the way he wants. Una just like giving advice people no solicit for!

sammymax:
I seriously need advice as I really don't know what the right or best thing to do at this time. Please elders in the house be kind enough to suggest what I could do.

I did not think something like this can still happen in this era but this is what I have to deal with. So my mum flat out told me she does not like the girl I took home because she is not fine. About 3years ago when we went home together she told me this but I just disregarded it like when I'm ready she won't have a choice but to accept her as she is. To be honest she is not fine at all but she gives me peace of mind which I feel is the ultimate.

She was involved in an accident with my dad last year and we lost my dad in the process. During the burial I went home with my babe again and my mum still made her displeasure with the girl show.

The thing now is that I went home again to see how she is doing and she called to speak me again after stating that I had disobeyed her by not breaking up with the girl she said is still not having her and if I insist she is the one I should count her out of the marriage. She can never come visiting or even call her. She will not attend the wedding. Now I am 32 and she is 30

How do I navigate this situation. I plead for good advice. Have you been in a similar situation how did you handle it.

So, fine girls no dey town again that made you went after an ugly lady? You want to be giving births to ugly offsprings? . Find beautiful girl to take back to your moma and make her smile for seeing better babe in law.
I guess you have problem talking to girls. Because, that's the one of the reasons why you would decide to settle for less

FreeStuffsNG:
Beyond the allegation that the late wife is on the legal board of Access bank that should have raised the conflict of interest, I don't see why Craneburg as an independent entity should be vilified.

If the law mandates the Governor to always obtain loan approval from the State Assembly yet he failed to do so then he must go and rectify it before the loan is disbursed.

It's just unfortunate that those who know the right thing to do fail to do until things go bad. At this point I will not be surprised if Abia state has already started paying the interest on the controversial loan and this is why EFCC must immediately move in to investigate this report.
Anyone found guilty must be prosecuted.

God bless Nigeria for ever!Check my signature for free stuffs!

And that's not an issue to you. Because if it is, you wouldn't go further by typing gibberish

TINTINABULATION:
There is nothing so special here until we are privy to the Memorandum of Understanding between Abia State Government & Cranburg Construction. That is the document that will list all the roads to be constructed with the money. There is no law forbidding a private organization, such as Cranburg to approach its bankers for facility to execute a contract. If Access Bank finds her customer, Cranburg Construction credit worthy, then public opinion holds no sway

Lol. Except that the borrower was also a board member of the bank and there wouldn't be any collateral security of any form. Na like this way we used to destroy Nigeria

bigpriik:
she shouldnt worry yoruba language will soon go into extinction in less than 200 years.

Lol. Only if you know how many Yorubas that don't finish ordinary primary school. And there's no second language (like pidgin English) in Yoruba land except for Lagos state.
Even many that still manage to finish secondary schools can't speak English language or pidgin English, na Yoruba language pulaa! . Extinction my ass

Acidosis:
It's simple. Do not collect bride price from a man you're not ready to submit to.

You can't eat from the devil and escape repercussions. No sensible man would restrain you from meeting your family. If that conversation ever comes up, then his reasons are probably valid.

Are you married? If yes, I have nothing to add. If no, I will say you should come back when you are married

atiku4President:
Long over due. Such a terrible deputy. This one is South South version. His counterpart in South West succeeded in taking over the kingdom after celebrating the death of his Boss.

You guys just enjoy lying to get sympathy

Sheuns:
Not a single activist known so far is doing it for a genuine and selfless purpose. Majority are in for the money.

Once in a lifetime opportunity! What did you expect? Majority of them were struggling financially, they cashed out big time

Joeyjones:
All I see is a bunch of yapping. Nothing here even links directly to Peter Obi.

No, it not about Obi himself. But are these people not ones who would still be jostling for appointments under him as a reward for their contribution?
Even Obi himself bribed LP officials to hijack the LP ticket that he didn't deserve

GboyegaD:
When I see post like this, I just shake my head because it is a case of a kettle calling the pot black. It is obvious his pains/ exposure of whatever it is he is exposing isn't coming from a pain of sincerity.

He's a typical Nigerian lamenting about bad leadership only because s/he isn't able to benefit from the rot. Hopefully, we are re-oriented to be more sincere towards our common goal and country.

I'm compelled to let you know that you should have kept quiet instead of making foolishness out of yourself with this incoherent comment of yours

Vinnie2000:
I Just knew it will be a Catholic Church, immediately I saw the thread!

The Catholic Church in Igboland has embraced this Practice of accommodating our AFRICAN Traditional religion.

Though Many Christians might Frown at this Practice
but we can't just Abandon our African Religion totally.

He said culture and it makes sense that way. Because, What could you be looking for in a church if you already embraced another religion and not ready to dump it?

bettycanice:
Suicide is not the last resort. As a woman starting a little business of 2000. Can change her life and the life of her children.
She will go and faced God for taking her life.

She indeed a bad mother. She didn’t even think about her children before committing suicide.

You might want to read piece I quoted below. I don't think she's going to face any God or gods though.

Clazzone:
The mother sacrificed herself, she knew it would be hard to find help from people, she chose sacrificing her life to gain public sympathy. Mothers!!

Vinnie2000:
Not at all. I don't do that.

Many Yorubas did NOT vote APC/tinibu in the last presidential election.

They knew that Tinubu was DISASTER in waiting!

Hear this mumu with his warped logical reason he doesn't do that! Because many Yorubas didn't vote Tinubu. Laughing. Did Tinubu promise to make Nigeria better or worse? If I remember correctly, he was the only one spoke against the naira confiscation policy of Buhari and Emefiele that killed many Nigerians. Obi and Atiku lauded the policy! Either of them as our current president could have equally been a disaster just like this. Or, are they failed or disaster proof?

ozoneboy:
Yes when evil person is on seat,everyone suffers, they just choose not deceive there selves by protesting, as they know,efulefus like you will use it against them.is this too hard for your brain to comprehend?

And "they" couldn't equally choose not to be running their wide mouths against Yorubas, mocking SW people at every opportunity they have?

marlow1962:
Foolish housewife

This comment of yours shows that you will never understand in a million years what depression is and what tribulations and hopelessness can make people do. Ignorance is a curse

Stop distributing food that can't go round everyone and can not last more than two days. Start empowering people to earn their own living wage. Make food affordable, curb the hyperinflation of food prices

confydoedowaye:
80% of Yorubas still support Tinubu. They prefer to suffer under their daddy

How many Yorubas did you talk to? You talked to 100 Yorubas and discovered that 80 of them still support him? Or, you just comot that figure from your ass?

meum:
Nigerians have turned to truck raiders in search for food.

Election has consequences .

Says the first timer because voters rejected his preferred candidate.

Amayanabo01:
Pitobi must learn a bitter lesson

Nobody taught Obi any lesson. It was about Lagos state governorship election where an Igbo man contested under LP. Why the confusion?

Pablodreay890:
Something isn’t right with this blu bla…. Cuz nothing is working right now…

He just need to make three major policies reversals, even if it will cause their monthly allocations to decrease to the level it was used to be under Buhari (around 600 billion naira, instead of 1.2 trillion naira they are sharing now)
One. At least, further bring down the price of petrol, even if diesel and kerosene are not involved.
Two. Naira has to be fixed again, may be 600 naira to a dollar at official exch rate. No country floats her currency and leave it at the mercy of currency manipulators.
Three. Opening of land borders to at least, food importation (rice, beans, oil, chicken, milk, etc) because we're not meeting our demands from what we produce locally.

Streetdoctor:
Una dun tire to blame Obi? No more state sponsored?
Mudafuckers that teaching us lesson, idiots that can't survive on their own are comparing themselves wit men wey dun fight war and still survived

They taught you lesson in Lagos state during its governorship election that you wan hijacked from the Yorubas. What has that got to do with Obi losing presidential election and Tinubu winning it? Seems like many of you are confused

wisestman:

The seller probably got a better offer while the buyer was away. He just wants the buyer to either pay or ask for a refund if the new price is not okay with him. I don't see any wrong doing. Buyer should ask for a refund if not happy

You be Olodo

skj1377:
Going round in circles. Emefele had same issue and blocked them only for Tinubu and his economic team to think they know better and unblock them only to block 9months down the line

Experience is the best teacher.
Look at the policy of Naira floating too, it backfired big time. Banning of the importation of food through land borders was another policy that is inflicting inflation on us because people still refused to embrace farming after 8 years due to various reasons

Dwightventures:
Nigeria's problem is not economics or politics or colonialism. Nigeria's problem is morality. The heart of the Nigerian is evil and the only thing worse than that is he doesn't even know it. Evil is his default state

I'm tired of Nigerians, walahi! We're too wicked to ourselves. Imagine sellers calling the shops (Lagos and Ibadan) where they bought their goods every hour to know the latest price before they can sell the ones they already have in stores to you, their customers! Sometimes, you would be looking at the goods in their shops but they would refuse to sell to you, claiming that they don't have the price yet! We're as wicked as our leaders

seanwilliam:
And people will start chasing the scarce dollars on other exchanges.
Consequently shooting up the price again .
Bro Tinubu , why are you this dull?

Well, for now, using Binance or whatever the name you called it to speculate naira has been stopped. Let's see how it goes from here

yang:
Olodo government

So to float FX they ban the trading venue not under government control

Tell me how price discovery occurs

You print NGN 30 Trillion out of think air and act surprised when people point out that naira should be trading at NGN7000 per USD on a money supply/ trade weighted basis

How can a porfolio investor trust to bring capital to such a country who insists on monopolizing FX supply

You can see the likes of Nestle, Dangote, BUA, MTN declaring massive FX losses

The next step is the massive retrenchments that usually follow such cost of finance losses, the Human resources are always used to pay for finance losses

when will this zoo government ever learn

With a big thief as President i'm not surprised

I am moving up my price target on NGN to 7000 in the next 18 months

Check my post i called USD/NGN at 2000 back when it was at 460

More like you're crying because govt is identifying the sources of naira daily crashing and doing something about it, crying and wailing because it affects you. More wailing