₦airaland Forum

Alpharey:
In a saner clime, the military heads will resign from their posts. What type of stupid error is this. These people are not telling us the type of kalo kalo they are playing with people's mind

Streetdoctor:
U KNOW WHY DIS ISSUE IS NOT MAKING WAVE IS BCS APC HV REALLY BASTARDIZED D COUNTRY IF NOT, HEADS HAS TO ROLL BCS OF SUCH A STUPID ACT
IMAGINE KILLING PEoPLE BCS OF CARELESSNESS

And I heard that CAN is already pleading on behalf of military chiefs

Odin13:
Yoruba people will wish army bomb out ipob wives and children from existence .. simply because they’re igbos.. and same Yoruba will celebrate it and tell the world they deserve it.

Hope Yoruba they hear the view of an extreme fantic Yoruba do dance to please.

They wish Nigerians hate igbos.. not knowing the hate is on them already..

People sef

Not Yoruba Muslims this time around?

Countersam:
Why bring this oyinbo questionnaire here. What do you want to hear from us in the form of advice. Their lifestyle is different from ours in Africa. Which one is open marriage , have you heard of that in Africa talk less of Nigeria? Who will marry and both couples would still be bleeping outside but still together because you have a kid together..that's living in bondage because one person must eventually get reorientation that will bring issues in the initial agreement

ableguy:
Every day una go just dey introduce one evil after another as if we haven't had enough, open kee una there.
And maybe very soon this nonsense go creep into Africa, make una continue. Ndi ara

You sure say there are no open marriages in Nigeria or Africa already? I wouldn't bet it with all those rich couples with boring marriages

achimendy:
What do you mean by open marriage??

Marriage where husband and wife are free to have affairs outside, even to the knowledge of the other partner

cococandy:
This open marriage thing always sounds good to the men who suggest it at first. Probably because they’ve grown to believe the lie that women are undesirable after marriage and child birth. For their mind they’d really be roaming about town with various different women and their wives would be pining away at home because no one wants her.

Reddit is full of stories of regretful husbands whose wives are living it up in their open marriages meanwhile the men can’t even get a date. Any girl who even wants to look at them must insist they pay up. But the women are getting free dates and are even being spoiled financially on top of it all. It’s almost as if them married dudes are the ones who are actually undesirable unless they have money to buy a little affection.

Little do they know how many men would actually jump in and take their place when they slip.

Keep suggesting open marriages when you know you can’t take what you dished.

Husbands with sense would only do "shakara" with their wives in their homes but never act on it. Men would always go after anything "woman" as long as they are just setting eyes on her for the first time.

Jeon:
Open Marriage is very good.
It is better than cheating and expecting faithfulness from your partner..

Mr man ,you have lost. Just divorce her .

The grass ain't always greener on the other side.

😉

Lol. See dem dem. If it were to be other way round, they would be pleading with the man to reconsider. Hypocrites

mariahAngel:
She's cheating and she had the mind to call YOUR dad? Something does not add up.

Also, why would you think (there's even a chance) your dad will believe her words over yours,

Did he imply that? No. You're thinking ahead of Op

if you're so sure she cheated? (As you stated "I have no idea what she's told them" )

It is just a statement, nothing more than that. You would have loved to spin this but you yourself knows that this is hard to spin in her favour

Atolu01:
Still not hurt. Men are very big scum, yourself included. Work on yourself and stop projecting. Mention one man that isn't a source of pain, distress and lack of peace, intentionally or not, to others. Jokers.

Really? This is more serious than I imagined

Kobojunkie:
Whatever occasion it may be, where is the rule written abeg?.

Every home makes their own rules as they deemed it fit or should we go and check constitution

Karlifate:
Your wife can cheat on you under the same roof, and you won't suspect a thing.

So, rest.

Yes, that's very simple and it is easier but some things are to be frown upon. This is one of them

Kobojunkie:
Is there a rule written in stone somewhere that a grown up woman cannot attend the wedding of even her old school mate, whether she is jobless or not?

Not the wedding of her old school mate.

cococandy:
How does one command a wife. Do you say “Verily, verily, I command you”?

Is this real life? People exist who think they can command their spouses?

Best and ideal case scenario is that you express your feelings about whatever misgivings you have considering the decision your wife or husband is about to make and most likely they’ll consider it and halt their actions.

The feeling of possibly offending you or creating unnecessary tension in the relationship is often a good deterrent (At least to a loving and respectful husband/wife). I honestly think most people wouldn’t do something if their spouse is expressing that they are not on board.

But to command? As in the very grammatical expression of „I own you and I get to decide for you“?

Okay then I’m going. Ihukwa

No one owns anyone. It is simple, "you can't go".
And if she's ready to face whatever the consequences might be, she should go. It is all about what's important to her: the wedding of a long lost colleague's sister or her home/marriage

Kobojunkie:
Op, I noticed how you carefully refused to answer many of the concerns expressed on the other thread. But it seems here that at the core of all of this is a lack of trust on your part for your wife. Is there a particular reason this? Op, why do you not trust your wife enough to accept, even when she offered to go with your brother, that she may just be wanting to attend an event?

Must she attend the wedding of younger sister of her old school mate? Joblessness and idleness. Simple as ABC

You mention culture, and I must say that I have never read of any Kenyan culture that required women to spill entire details or their movements and dealings in marriage. Most cultures simply expect that couples would do so out of courtesy but no culture mandates it. This makes me wonder what it is you wish to hide behind the culture card.

You didn't post this. Seriously?

Vinnie2000:
Some APC Fo0lish supporters are still calling Emefiele's name.

Some senseless LP supporters started mentioning Emefiele as if he was blameless in all what happened and still happening. They saw opportunity to portray him as a Saint when it is clear that we're still dealing with fall out of all the cash he destroyed.

Usmanovic95:
You can't blame emefiele and leave out buhari, leave hypocrisy.

Why would a CBN governor sell that kind of dumb policy to the clueless president? Imagine a third world country like Nigeria trying to make up to 90% of the cash disappear from the circulation! Never done anywhere in the world

Houseontherock1:
I hope they are not forcing her to marry against her wish

pendragonbladgo:
No ohhh, those parents now have devise a new means, they will frustrate the girl child making her to bow to any option.

No be my mouth you go hear the full list!!!!

At least, they looked for her and reported at police station and they involved the media.
In your region, many girls like that are simply forgotten. In fact, many of them are pushed out of the house tagging them witches. They are at your countless baby factories disguising as orphanages, suffering and wishing that they were never born.

masterfactor:
This kind of Pekin, when she come house, na to give her VIP treatment, then for night, give her the beating of her life, next time if she has a misunderstanding with the family, running away will not be an option. As the bible says "spare the rod and spoil the child"

Violence against kids is a wrong and bad parenting. That's abuse. There are other better ways to correct kids than beating beating beating.
Many kids have been mistakenly killed through such disciplines because many parents/guardians/bosses don't know when to stop once the beating starts

Qatar2022:
If na Yoruba land it happened by now her head and body parts will be in different places

Thank God you are indirectly praising Hausa this time around.

Atolu01:
Waste. I am not hurt. It's not even true. Men are scum. Deal with your uselessness, and never jump on my mention again. Generally mannerless, untrained animals that should be shot at sight.

Why would you be hurt when your inpulse to generalise stemmed from the fact that your father is a scum and useless. It was what you grew up observing about him.

DonroxyII:
Bro, Battles-Wars is one of the Tools of Achieving Peace ...... Fighting is one of the Tool of Sustaining Peace if not ... righteous one would be pulled back & the evil ones would have been field day ....

Trust me, Playing it Save is the reason why the world has gone to the dogs ....

The righteous must learn the way of the hooligans & take care of Street in the street ...

In some other climes, The Dude doing the harassment just "Dead" ... No time !

Well, some guys gave only one punch to the bullies/harassers and they regretted ever doing that. You don't know the state of health of many people, a lot of people are suffering from hypertension and they themselves don't even know

guobe:
As I went to buy paracetamol at the chemist which cost two hundred naira,my attention was caught by the price of condom and I could not hesitate but snap it.

Condoms are now being sold at 2500, 5000 and 7000 naira a pack.

I was like alot of guys will go raw if they are not able to afford it.

Having sex in Nigeria is now very expensive especially for promisquos men.
The breakdown of expenses include condom 3,000,hotel 20,000,olosho fee 50,000,food and drinks 10,000 naira.Total 93,000 naira .
Promisquos men will learn and they will learn the hard way .

Not really the hard way because, they know what they are getting into and what it is going to cost. It is pre op, not post op

Eriggs:
These tribalistic idiots are getting out of hands on this forum o.
See dem now turning Emefiele to a Saint despite the atrocities he committed in this country just few months ago. Sending thousands of Niger to early Graves cos of politics.
Ndi ara

Can you imagine those erats turning Emefiele into an innocent man when it is clear that we're still dealing with the problem he created with the destruction of 90% of our cash!

Ogene001:
The left Buhari to blame Emefiele before , let's see what they will do now

Ogene001:
The left Buhari to blame Emefiele before, let's see what they will do now

He destroyed most of our cash. He took advantage of Buhari's cluelessness. Or, may be he was clueless himself

Igbodicool:
They will blame Emefiele, IPOB, Nnamdi Kanu, Peter Obi, Igbo or Simon Ekpa.

Nigeria is not ready for development.
Make dey no try this nonsense in Igboland again.

These people you mentioned are not innocent people (with the exception of general name in the list), they have their own Guilty Department too.

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They will blame Emefiele, IPOB, Nnamdi Kanu, Peter Obi, Igbo or Simon Ekpa.

Nigeria is not ready for development.
Make dey no try this nonsense in Igboland again.

These people you mentioned are not innocent people (with the exception of general name in the list), they have their own Guilty Department too.

Mrfixiit:
This imp is a double faced man.

Hehe! Many Nigerians like this one are just confused. They don't even know who to attack and who not to attack.

Zeebuy:
Court injunction to prevent people from providing evidence that he looted government funds? I guess you just want to talk.


In all my findings, I've never seen anywhere it's a crime in the Nigerian constitution to open an account in another country. If there's one, please point me to it.

People can choose to put their funds in any country of their choosing. Panama or anywhere else. People like Panamanian accounts because it's kept tax free.

Do you now see you've ended up saying nothing?

Oya on same Pandora papers, Tinubu was mentioned to be using Alpha beta as a conduit for syphoning government funds, or you didn't read up to this extent?

Yes, he would do that because he went to court to obtain injunction that stopped authority from inviting him to state what he knew about the youths killings

MrPOTUS:
Everybody against your Tinubu is Igbo, how dumb you're.

You made this about Tinubu when clearly, it wasn't about him

LawyerLomo:
When I come across comments like this, it further authenticate the gloomy future of Nigerians.

Sorry bro. It is what it is. If we make you our president today, I'm sure there won't be such provisions for you . Everything na emotions with Nigerians instead of common sense

When we tell una that not everything one can get away with, una go dey brag that it is "freedom of speech" and your rights.

Bieh, however, called his boss, the owner of the hotel, who quickly alerted a Divisional Police Officer (DPO).

The DPO pretended to be the victim’s father, leading to the arrest of the suspects.

And CP is already looking for a way to bury the case. He wants the complaint even when his DPO was involved in the arrest of the suspects.

If I don’t get complaints from members of the public on this, I will believe everything is okay.

Zeebuy:
Amaechi, Obasanjo aren't my business.

I remember Obi said on national TV that he'll quit the presidential race if anyone can bring a single shred of evidence that he stole government money.
I'm sure you heard it too. Knowing how much apc and the ronu cartel hated the man, one would think evidence go full everywhere. They searched and searched but found absolutely nothing.

Which politician in Nigeria can ever say this? Is it Tinubu? Is it Atiku?

All this una talk of Pandora is bullshit. Last time I checked it's not a crime to keep your funds in an offshore account. I don't even keep a bulk of my funds in my Nigerian bank accounts and I would advise same for any sane person. Even Tinubu was mentioned in the Pandora records but people tend to conveniently leave his part out.

Abeg talk another thing

And yet, the first thing he would do was to go to court to obtain injunction. You are naive if at this point and age, you are still believing any Nigerian politician. Is this not the same man who used his children's names to open secret accounts in Panama? Remember, Pandora box wasn't news that originated from Nigeria. People with clean money don't hide their wealth in criminals safe haven, only dubious people do