₦airaland Forum

jaxxy:
I didn't support either but the option best for her future based on who is responsible for her is necessary.

That is why I said the young man should have gotten the mother's solid approval b4 talking about or using pregnancy as an excuse to marry her daughter.

I'm not really against abortions unconditionally. But in this case, I don't think abortion is the only good decision or better decision.

Kwinity:
Op say the truth that u never planned to marry the girl. Anyways, i support the mama cos ur delay is suspicious. Who knows if she's the breadwinner of the family? Its not easy for mothers oh! I have no negative thoughts about the woman, na u Bleep up!

If this is the case, then that means her mother is using her for her own selfish interest.
Mama's decision but daughter's cross to carry for the rest of her life if something should go wrong with the abortion. Can you ladies even see beyond your nose?

jaxxy:
Nahh bro I don't support pregnancy outside wedlock or abortion. I condemn both

And when both happen to a lady of 22 years old, is abortion the best decision for her parents to take?

jaxxy:
u can u u are starting to go in circles. My 1st comment was clearly against both premarital sex and abortion but u wanted to justify the immoral act by every scandalous means possible. I refused to accept that.

I remember clearly saying the guy should have won over the favor and approval of the mother b4 mentioning his almost abominable act of impregnating the poor girl but it was good enough for u cretins of immoral behavior.

So u don't want me to justify abortion bt want me to justify impregnating a girl outside marriage or approval of her parents?

That will not be possible omode yi. lo joko

This is what is paining u lot.

What's abominable about a lady of 22 years old getting pregnant for his bf/fiance when a girl of 17 from Nigeria to USA to UK is getting pregnant and giving birth? Hehe!

goodnessme1:
Which means you justified killing of innocent youths in East but here care for your Nigeria security lives.

Hypocrites

Innocent Igbos live don't matter to you haters of East.

Igbos lives matter but those criminal youth are not innocent. They're murderers, kidnappers, thieves and cannibals.

magoo10:
do you know you cant be caught in one of the crossfires?

You meant you, right? What's my business with IPOB infested region?

government must first be responsible

And allowed criminals to have free reigns?

HarunaWest:
Probably in your culture or religion, its obtainable there. But mine it's not. So it's not normal out here.

So, you would rather put your daughter's life at risk? The potential cost of avoiding "shame" is even greater than the "shame" itself. So many things could go wrong with abortion if not handled properly

magoo10:
so how far

I would say bad for security agents but worse for IPOB. As more police wives are becoming widows, more parents are equally losing their sons

Saidfx:
If Akeredelou's wife need 10million cash, she go get am. "Western democracy is not good for Africa" - Obasanjo

You're quoting a former dictator who wanted to alter our constitution to make himself our eternal civilian president.

MasterTeeUSA:
Why would anyone want to withdraw and carry cash.? This is how we spread terrorism. .do transfers if your transactions are legit ...geeshh...it's even dangerous. See how Ogun Accountant was killed and cash stolen

Before you can ask this kind of question, we need to talk about how much because there's no society where people don't carry cash in their pockets

magoo10:
When there is injustice in the land and the police service which should ensure justice or remain neutral finds themselves entangled in the web of dirty politics such is bound to happen.
The root cause should be addressed in all fairness .

the same southeast was peaceful years back until unarmed protesters exercising the rights were shot in cold blood making their families live in grief and dejection. the same rights recognised all over the world

If rolling out armoured tanks and forcely shutting people out was the solution we will not be where we are today and until the government start becoming responsible these things will continue, lets stop deceiving ourselves.

They were becoming uncontrollable, rolling armour tanks out was unavoidable unless you enjoy telling lies to yourself.

nedekid:
Question I have for you, based on that, I will respond.
Do you have a daughter, and how old?

I have a daughter. And if she's over 20 and someone impregnate her, whether he's responsible or not, whether he's ready to take responsibility or not, abortion wouldn't be the first thing on my mind. This issue is not that difficult now.

HarunaWest:
You didn't get married to her properly before impregnating her, you pregnated her and brought shame upon their family and you are here claiming right. If it were your own daughter, will you wish such predicament upon her?
Ask yourself this question.

Shame? Really? They're committing crime because of "shame"? Hehe! Nothing we no go see for nairaland! Do you know how many weddings were preceeded by pregnancy? Dey dia

djon78:
Una go just dey throw this Love word around like you understand what it means

That's how one guy did introduction of one of my relatives very responsible girl and then got her pregnant

But was messing up the young girls Life

But her God saved her
She had miscarriage at 6 months

Later we found out he wanted to tie the girl down with the pregnancy
But God saved her

She saw the guy was not straight forward
Returned home and was heart broken

We consoled her
A year later
A US based pharmacist married same girl
She told the guy everything that happened even the pregnancy

The pharmacist no send
Married her and relocated her to the US


That's how the guy would have messed the responsible girls Life up
If not for the miscarriage that saved her from future pains and regrets

The mother was saving that girl

The mother could be ruining her while she believes that she's saving her.
And about your responsible relative girl, the guy even did introduction before pregnancy. That's a failed marriage and it has nothing similar to this case at all.
Let me tell you that of my niece. She was impregnated by a man, she was with us until she delivered the baby. We didn't abort it but we didn't let her pack into the man's house. And the girl wasn't even 22 like this one, she was in SS2 (like 17 years old) at the time. In about three years after that, we gave in to their demand to be living together as husband and wife. They're still together today. And that first pregnancy has finished his secondary school education.
In a situation like this, wisdom and patience is needed. The girl is 22, not underage. Why taking a rash decision of destruction? The guy is ready to take full responsibility, so why being negative about the outcome? What is the mother's plan for her daughter after the abortion? I'm sure she has none

Brokendad:
The girl just called me. They have been injecting drugs on her but the baby isn't coming out.

She keeps having cramps. She said the doctor told the mother that something isn't opening. I don't know what that is.

But this girl runs a risk of having complicated abortion.

Right now, the baby has been damaged with all the injections, so keeping the baby is no longer an option.

The girl is Rhesus 'D' Negative. I am positive, meaning that our blood don't match. I hope the baby's blood don't mix with hers while they are doing all these. I just pity the girl because the mother will destroy her future for her.

And if that happens, and she still manages to have her womb, ovaries and f. tube intact, she runs the risk of constant miscarriages in future unless she has access to proper medical care.

Jeon:
Sorry, she didn't want her daughter to be a single mother.

Willing to marry her doesn't count @ all.

The mother sense that it will be miserable life for the girl to be lockdown in marriage that happened in a mistake or likely abandoned to become a single mother, which sounds like a threat according to your gender.

I don't understand @bolded .How is the child theirs? thought man is said to own a child cuz the woman is a stranger?.

I just hope that the abortion goes well and it is not done by quack. Otherwise, the consequences she will face years to come won't have remedy. I know many women like that, abortions of unwanted pregnancies carried out by quack doctors turned their wombs into barren land

immortalcrown:
My pain is the murder of the innocent baby.

As for you, your girlfriend and her mother, you people are morally bankrupt. Talking to you is like flogging a dead horse because you won't take any preaching of mortality. You will only change when you personally decides to do so.

Only silly people get married because of pregnancy. You never wanted to marry her. The pregnancy is what put marriage in your mind. This means you will easily divorce because of any little issue. You indulge in premarital sex to an extent of impregnating a girl. You even waited for the pregnancy to be 4 months old before you made a move for marriage.

Don't be deceived. Many marriages were preceeded by pre marital sex and pregnancy and they didn't fail

coputa:
what is wrong with it, everyone wants and wishes for
the best and goes for it at the slightest opportunity.

From their perspective, nothing is wrong

Dickcap:
I have been curious about this thought for some weeks now. It happened that two of my guys reached out to me last week about their girlfriend initiating a breakup. I'm now wondering why is that it now ladies initiating breaks instead.

Better alternatives found. It could be men with more money or they just want to be free to exploit more

Uptheante:
She actually fuelled all the suspicions concerning the paternity of that child by her reluctance to accept DNA test & even vilifying those demanding for it. Even her leaked chats with Mohbad before his death added more fuel to the suspicions about her adultery & paternity fraud.
If she had willfully heeded to the first appeal for DNA test & the test actually proved her innocence, I don't think she'll be in this position right now.
If for instance a man enters your shop & made some suspicious moves & while going out, pple suspect him of stealing, what will come to your mind if pple want to check him & he refuses even though he's claiming to be innocent? 🤔
Will you just accept his narrative at face value without checking him to verify his innocence?
Remember that in the case of Mohbad's wife, a man even offered to sponsor the DNA test & even pay her 10 million if the child is proven to be Mohbad's, yet she declined.
Does that not ring a bell in your mind that something is wrong somewhere & she could be hiding something? 🤔
After all, nobody is asking her to contribute anything for the test & it won't cause any physical injury to her or the child, yet she has been reluctant all this while. Isn't that strange to you & a source of concern.
We the 'mob' as you referred to us, are only interested in knowing the true paternity of that kid so that we'll be sure that Mohbad's toil & sweat & the donations made in his name doesn't go to a child that's not his.
We have conscience & we can't stand aloof to see a man's sweat going to a bastard, we have to be sure his sweat is going to his biological kid.
Your rant about a grieving woman or widow being oppressed or dragged simply because pple of good conscience demanded for DNA test; is just an exercise in futility.
We cannot be emotionally manipulated, the DNA test must be done & if she's found innocent of paternity fraud, all the best to her.
But if she's found guilty, she must face the consequences

Consequences! What consequences?
You rant a lot. Too much noise on top nonsense.

Jonathan:
Oga dey use your SENSE.
The test is very very necessary and important.
MohBad is dead and the dead has nothing to lose.

Dead sometimes has something to lose. The calls for paternity is unnecessary as there's no justification for it.

The importance of the test is part of justice for MohBad, to know who was responsible for his death DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY.

So, once the test reveals that Mohbad is not the father, the woman will be automatically found guilty? Too much sense no go kill you.

IT'S ALSO TO TEACH THAT OLOSHO A LESSON THAN ONE CAN'T ALWAYS GET AWAY WITH THEIR DEEDS

I don't understand why you're just shouting Olosho Olosho up and down as if you had something against the woman. Is this part of your love for Mohbad?

Farki:
I gave up asking because they all belong to the same demonic party PARTIES with demonic supporters who won't admit they've been scammed. Supporters who are just waiting for their turn to "chop" from their leftovers.

Did you see Otti of LP quarterly report? Sanwo of APC quarterly report? And Ademola of PDP too? Did you see any difference in their reckless spending on frivolous things? It is not a party thing but Nigerians thing

MadamVanessa:



Not funny to me, we should rather pity the dog. Oh Poor dog!!!

The guy looks hungry.

Madam, that guy doesn't look hungry at all. He might be playing local league but he doesn't look hungry.

Obviously, he has been starving. Now these fools gave him dog. Where on earth do they expect him to see food and feed this dog?

May be you have eye problem sha. Playing local league means he's starving, right? I get it.

A man that can't feed himself, will have food to feed a dog.

Does that mean you have been the one feeding him?

Why are Nigerians this stupid and irrational?

Nigerians are stupid and irrational? Not even some Nigerians but Nigerians! Okay

Jonathan:
Useless olosho fool
Girls always think they can get away with their games.
That toto wey dey scratch her to misbehave since, her eye never clear now?
She's no longer free and I'm sure that she's regretting some of her actions by now.
THE DNA TEST IS A MUST WHETHER SHE LIKES IT OR NOT.
HER STORY WILL TEACH SOME OF THESE WAYWARD OLOSHOS BIG LESSON.

IF SHE HAD BEEN A GOOD AND LOYAL GIRL, NO ONE WOULD BE ASKING FOR ANY DNA TEST NOW.

Oga, calm down.
Let's assume that the tests reveals that Mohbad is not the father of the baby. Who will be the loser now? Mohbad of course.
To me, the test is unnecessary. Why? Mohbad didn't contest the paternity of the baby when he was alive, he accepted the pregnancy and assumed the role of a daddy. When he died, the wife didn't come out to say that Mohbad was not the father of her kid. And Mohbad himself didn't leave mountain of wealth behind, so what is so important in trying to prove that the kid is not his?
And what lesson is she going to learn after the test? They will take her kid away from her? She won't be able to inherit Mohbad's millions of naira?

Odewaleadesoye:
Fellow members of Nairaland Forum 'what is one thing you regret doing this year?'

Mine:


Kindly share yours with us please.

Super regret here

Sermwell:
I support any evil Tinubu is dishing out to the public! We have a bunch of useless youths that will sing his praise no matter what!! They were even here to insult Obasanjo yesterday for stating an obvious fact!!

The good news for me is that 2023 is one of my best year just like the years of Buhari. I just checked profit made this year from my business in the last 6 moths. Even during Buhari, I didn't make close to 65 million naira in 6 months. And the year still has about 4 weeks to go.

As long as there's a corrupt system on ground, I will always beat the system to it!!
Na so e reach

Mumu is your name. Obasanjo was a former dictator! What did you do expect? The same man tried to manipulate the constitution as a civilian president to allow him to rule indefinitely. You guys need to put on your thinking caps at all times. So much from someone making 65m naira in 6 months

Farki:
Just like we warned them. Tinubu is working though.

Tinubu may not be doing the job as we expected but he's just one of the many we elected to control our resources. Have you ever paused to ask yourself what is your state governor doing with your resources? The same thing goes for the local government chairmen in your state.

reiddecuti:
Welcome to the renewed Shege

Not surprised. States are following the footstep of their grand master.

Grab it, take it and run with it, that's exactly what they're doing; grabbing it, taking it and running with it their own share.

Nigerians better braze up cos nothing tangible is coming out of this government. It is still business as usual and even worse.

Lol. You made it looks like this is new or your govs were not breed by the same system that breed their "grand master".

All of them are only spending hugely for their own meals, vehicles, allowances and entitlements. From Otti/LP to Sanwo/APC to Ademola/PDP.

talktalk4u:
Full illiterate ... Go and read my post again I asked them to come clarify their claims for the sales figure and also the once they are using for promotion . Why will they use lies to promote sales? saying they have taken over Samsung ? and made +372 growth sales when the platform they are claiming they got the figures from didn't post such rate ...... PS I was a XIAOMI fan before I left them and reason is because and FYI i still have their product in wardrope

Laughing at your ignorance. They didn't have to get that information from any website, it is from their own sales record. Your problem is that you didn't understand what that 372% means.
It means there was an increase of "times 4.72" in their sales when compared to their sales within the same period last year. Chai!

zombieHUNTER:
He's been there
done that


He has seen looting
supervised it
under your precious democracy

Baba is old
Remorseful
And is telling you out of experience..
These current politicians aren't doing any differently.. yet here you are encouraging those looting away your future..

shameful.

You should be the one who is ashamed of himself. Agreeing with with a former DICTATOR who was lucky enough to come back as civilian president, enjoyed two terms. Still not done, tried to alter constitution for his own selfish reason but failed.

Jennyclay:
Watch how these broke and lazy men would come here and start saying “it’s true” with their broke mouth.

Just to take good care of your wife/girlfriend so that they won’t look outside… is what the world is designed to kill men .

Look outside as much as you want. When you find whatever the thing you are looking for, you will return home. I just hope you don't find something that will be bigger than you