₦airaland Forum

Xscape1993:
The evil party call APC is a big curse to humanity. APC has become a serious thong on the flesh of Nigerians.

What do you guys enjoy in using all big negative adjectives to describe things? You should have said that "APC the evil party is a curse to your family", it would have been better that way.

Calabar1stSon:
More insecurities; More Almajiri, bandits & terrorists about to be born.

Some of the kids will be sent down South to constitute nuisance.

Even if they don't send them down south, your people have been going up north to steal their kids for trafficking. Besides, you too operate numerous baby factories down south

Sirmwill:
So

A Government is now seeing mass weddings as an achievement.

800million naira for Mass weddings, dowry payment inclusive, and even capital for the couples

If properly spent, it worth it. Prevention of Oloshos on the streets as well as giving them skills and capital to take off

So funny

Tinubuagbado:
Tinubus age is a fraud.
Name, fraud.
Parents: Fraud.
Primary school: Fraud.
Secondary school: Faud.
University; Fraud.


Who is Sangodele?

Shameless fools supporting their fellow Fraud and Mandate thief .

Obi's mandate if I guess correctly?

creativehubb:
It's like going to America to tell the FBI what to do as access control... dumb talk .

Not dumb talk, you have a faulty analogy up there. Well all know why they asked people to do that, criminals in uniforms. Why would they risk people recording their exploitative activities?

essentialone:
I no get problem with people wey dey Nigeria wey dey plan to relocate abroad.

I only get problem with people wey dey abroad wey dey plan to relocate back to Nigeria.

Dem be real ozuo.

You would be surprised if you're to know the percentage of Nigerians living and working abroad but still having it in mind to relocate back to Nigeria in the future. In fact, the percentage is very high.

Laple0541:
Maybe the guy was too dull to keep the lady’s company. Normally if he engages her in a real conversation he will get her full attention. Though I admit some ladies are naturally mannerless .

Talking forth and back. Talking from both sides of the mouth

naptu2:
Look at what she wrote on the first picture, then you'll understand.

But they usually use the word "wife", not husband.

Fountainofyouth:
It's the daftness for me, in your mind, you think you have made sense

So caring for the kids is a woman's job, later you below par boys will be yapping spittle about complaining that there are countless mothers day in a year, asking why children prefer their mothers, when the results of your negligence becomes glaring, you'd go on and conclude that women manipulate kids against fathers, your comment just proves the senselessness and thoughtlessness of most of you, no logic at all.

You think it is easy for a man who leaves home in the morning everyday in search of money to take care of the kids and wife and comes back in the evening to now start competing for the kids' affection

ChybuzzDD:
You're still a kid.

Some of us can afford to buy over 100pcs of it at once, but we won't do it because we don't see any need for it

What do you need iphone for that other cheaper phones and laptops can't do

I just read it now that the thing even overheat.

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HellAnus:
See what the stupid party APC you are supporting did all in the name of politics.

They orchestrated Dapchi and Chibok school saga

It will most likely not be well with APC and their evil supporters here and hereafter

So, it was the fault of APC when PDP was the party in control of security apparatus? Which party should we blame now as it is happening under APC too? Perhaps, LP and PDP

Jewessgratitud3:
Is there any man who's not adulterous in nature? E dey all of una body. Forget!

mariahAngel:
When couples don't put each other first, and take each other's side first, situations like that are bound to happen.
Also, wives should stop acting like they have more rights to the children than their husbands.
Couples should put each other first, and raise their children as a team. (Let the children see and know it because children can be manipulative)
Couples should also be selfish once in a while, and create time for each (just themselves) as often as possible.
Their lives shouldn't just revolve around the children.

I do remind my wife of this anytime I noticed such behaviour. In fact, I do remind her of many things and it is really helping.

smasher1:
It's both spouse and not a country issue. The love is now shared somewhat with the kids. And so the love seems divided because the kids have taken their own share. [/b] But both spouse should still work on their love life. [/b]

Yep. Most especially men, they need to remind their wives when the neglect starts instead of changing too.

Eriokanmi:
This question should be directed at the wives because 99% of the time, they focus their attention more on their kids once they start having children and their husbands are less cared for, as if the only thing women need in marriage is the children. Its not as if the man doesn't care for the family as he still shoulders his responsibilities. He feels less cared for, in spite of all these .

You see that bond coming back from the wife the moment children are growing up and starting their own lives. This time, you see women always complaining of loneliness, that the husband doesn't love again, he doesn't give her attention again, etc. Whereas, the man has adjusted to his lonely life since the days wife began to have children, and to now adjust becomes something else and the women always complain the most.

Once the children begin building a family , the wife travels again to meet them and abandons the husband . By the time grand children begin growing, she comes back and begins to complain of loneliness once again. God created us men to withstand and endure any situation...Good, bad or ugly. Its women who always complain.

You have solid point there, though it is not the only factor responsible for it. I only wish wives can notice this singular factor and stop letting their love and attention for the kids affect their love and attention for their husbands.
And men too should be calling the attention of their wives to this instead of just accepting the development and building walls around themselves. I noticed this and I'm addressing it constantly

Authoreety:
Lol

Una too dey rush... Wait till u get married, then you will understand better..

Do you even know that women are highest subscribers of denying their husbands their coochies... Single girls have sex with their boyfriends far more than married women and their husbands... Guess you all know what this could cause... Imagine denying ur husband sex on a steady basis..

Oh... U don't even know...

Who no go no know

Don't mind them. They're not married, yet they all have opinions, lol. Some are even saying that it is because they didn't marry each other because of love. Causes of cheating in marriages vary and sometimes, there is no reason at all

Nazgul:
Exactly!

Most people in this category the op is referring to get married because they feel they're of age and therefore should be married, and not because they have found true love.

A vast number of them have zero romantic connection with their spouses. The marriage is just for having sex breeding kids. This is why they cheat without any form of conscience cos they see their marriage as a prison, and want some breathing space.

I'll say this and say it again and again. No spouse would get fed up and cheat on a partner he/she geninuely loves and respects.

Circumstances surrounding cheating in marriages are diverse, sometimes "genuine love" is not enough to prevent it.

bukatyne:
The fundamental question is 'was there love before the kids came'? 'Why did they get married in the first place?' etc.

Then you would have your answer.

Lol. You think the answer is that simple.

Fountainofyouth:
What stops men from caring for the kids as much as their wives so that they will not feel left out or less loved?

And the love they once had for each other still becomes NIL. Both of them now end up transferring their love to the kids. Still not good.
I have seen this in a TV series titled "the good doctor". Their marriage ended up in divorce despite both of them admitting to love their son. It has become a loveless marriage

Ndubuisipaul1:
Some one like me will find it difficult to sleep well in that house for 1 month.

If snake was really wicked . It would have been biting people while sleeping.

Snake will live in same room with a man minding his business . It will not strike the man while sleeping. But any day the man see it he most die

The problem is when you are not aware of it being in the house and you mistakenly step on it or cross its path and startle it, be sure to get one or more bites.

Pentagon007:
OP you are so lucky. Judging by the triangular shape of the head, the snake is venomous and from my deduction, it is a Cobra. A cobra has very poisonous venom and it has the ability to deliver several bites within a second.
CAUTION : Pls when You kill a snake, ensure to cut off the head. Cobras are very tough. Long after you think you have killed it, With one last breath, it can launch its fangs at anyone close by and you see it is a long snake.
Congrats!

Not just poisonous but I think it is the most deadly snake in the world!

nairanaira12:
If tinubu has nothing to hide, why is he prevailing on authorities to not release his records?

We are watching

Squirrel1:
it's called osteomalacia in adults and it can be corrected via braces n operation. But I'm too broke to afford such.

I fell pain on my knee, back and waist when I walk long distance..

The funny part is I never had it when I as a kid, it came from knw where n I'm the only child with it in my house.

That's strange

Bluezy13:
Why are you pained

Because you're off

ashawopikin:
That is not a disadvantage na

Of course, it is. You don't know if her partner(s) might have complained about it severally

Karleb:
You fit tell me your whole life story make I respond with "yeah".

This pisses people around me off. It is not even a joke.

Squirrel1:
I'm suffering from rickets, that's why no gurl has ever considered dating me. It's been a long ass while now.

Sorry. I know that this could be correct in children but for an adult, I'm not sure

abobote:
I'm stingy, and I cheat a lot

Stingy and a cheat? I don't think the two go along well together at all.

Jewessgratitud3:
You won't have the privilege of touching me before marriage.

If you're the outgoing type, relationship with me might not favor you because I'll always want you to be by my side after work.

You'll have to put up my going for church activities and programmes at least twice or three times in a week. Anyways this shouldn't be a problem because I will never court someone who's not of the same faith with me.

You will do yourself good by marrying a pastor.