₦airaland Forum

Hashabiah:
Bros you have to understand that a woman is like a cat with a low-sense of gratitude , and secondly ,you should have invested more in yourself rather than your wife's narcissistic marriage . But it's not too late to do the right thing , in fact , start by getting a job and keep some savings aside for the unexpected.

And lastly, don't let anyone make you feel bad about you depending on your wife. Because the burden of marriage is suppose to be handled by two people, not one person.

As long as I'm concerned, taking care of one's family is not in a any way a favour to the wife rather a responsibility. I see no reason why this man should come here to lament. The truth is if his wife keeps quiet the man will just relax and get used to free meal. Let him find something doing and quit all thi6 complain because he must take of his family.

benuejosh:
Congratulations on your well display of stupidity.

You just proved him right

BigSarah:
Umahi 2023 Insha Allah



Someone is doing the right thing and you're fighting him, you people keep acting like you don't know how Nigeria works..
Ouk you condemn am
Rochas you condemn am
Umahi you condemn am
Onu you condemn am
Nnamani you condemn am

Who na remain?

Tell them o my sister

KanoFirstSon:
This is the kind of content I luv to read on Nairaland from the Easterners. Call out your politicians. They say charity begins at home not from Lagos or Kano. Call out your politicians that have further degraded your region and which in turn birthed the monstrous and terrorist IPOB.

Call out your politicians while you pamper yours. Hypocrites everywhere.

Hhuh! I almost called you a paedo....6 months old girlfriend... Lol

adem30:
Picture 1: I read Senator Ike Ekweremadu built an Ultra-Modern Church (All Saints' Church, Mpu, Enugu State) and handed over to his people.

Picture 2,3,4,5: While Senator Ahmed Lawan built a hospital for his people.

Someone should please, help me confirm this story, before I say something �

You're just looking for what to say. Go to the entirety of Nenwe in Enugu and see if there's any rural road network comparable to it in Enugu State that's not built by the State government, courtesy of Ekweremmadu.

Sonnobax15:

Na so cha..

Imagine common ordinary Liverpool of yesterday wey no get any big name player producing fine players like these..... Meanwhile,Manure united carry heavy ghana-must-go of money go buy that big for nothing ram wey be Maguire

Produce? Well he came with a tag of 75m pounds.

Irritating things

She should just swallow her pride and be happy for the Nanny. Imagine a 33 year old woman that luck shined on and you want to deprive her of this opportunity. You better sit up before you leave in her stead.

paulolee:
city vs united na Saturday....enjoy ur time while it lasts bcoz i no wan hear ole out after dt city game oo

E be like say English too hard to understand this days.

hush15:
That's if the roads are safe for travels sef

Exactly. Security challenges here and there

[quote author= post=107211468]That's a good one.

Lagos State : A country within a country.

The State of many Firsts.

God bless Lagos State.

God bless Nigeria.

We Rise. [/quote]What's good about it

SmellySperm:
Seems she celebrates her birthday twice a yr.
She has a sweet voice. Happy birthday Angel

You should rather ask the bloggers. Happy birthday or survival Which ever one, to her.

OldNairalander:
I have been hearing of this group before IPOB.
It's just a ragtag group that could easily be bought over.
On a serious note, IPOB may have some misfits among them but they're the most highly sophisticated freedom fighting group Africa have seen in recent times.
I have taken time to study their mode of operation yet I can't fully figure it out and I must say the fg should be careful in dealing with them. Infact they have gone beyond the level of game the fg is playing seriously.

Akuko

olabrinks:
So somebody else has agreed to be his wife under his conditions, and you have moved on, so why are you opening a thread about this? At the end of the day If you’re having sex with a guy before marriage, what is the difference if the guy asks you to get pregnant before he marries you? Let’s not be hypocritical here. A lot of us like to act like we are above certain things, when in reality you are just deceiving yourself. Let’s not act like women dont date 5 men at once before they settle down with one. Move on with your life, you’re not better than the girl he impregnated, you’re both the same, just that there’s proof of fornication in her stomach. Ah beg jare.

This thing wey you talk sweet me well well. Lol

Ten Haag it is for me if only they can convince him.

Rogers is only good at building and nothing more.
Zidane is a no no..... he's another Ole.

Conte is not for united.

They do might as well go to Germany. They are fine managers there.

Myhusband:
the only hardworking is the flyover built in Ebonyi that's if they need them, that's how fayose built unneeded flyover in ado, it was only there for beautification, it had nothing to Ekiti GDP



we celebrate rubbish in this part of the world, how many industries has this dunce established? how many innoson, ibeto is he trying to influence to Ebonyi state? not this flyovers and building complex up and down will makes him a presidential material

Tomorrow the same you will come here and start praising Tokyo or even Lagos that it's a beautiful city.

hibeebeeking:
Even this time we are still agitating for Biafra nation,you are still building inside Naija. Let's Bleep everything down ma.

What's this one saying.

temitope27:
But he said he is an Hollywood actor, so y is he living in yaba b4

Is that all he said.

toujurs:
it's no right, you are not entitled to be born to any wealthy family, wizkid wasn't born into a wealthy family same as funke akindele even flavour and timaya, but look at them, they are made millionaires.

Guy stop quoting me if you lack basic understanding.

toujurs:
You sound like a kid, please grow up. Every family in this world cannot be wealthy

Did I say that? Well this shows your level of understanding. I wonder who is a kid between us if you can't understand a simple statement.

Ushman333:
Go be a terrorist, your head will be cut off. the life of terrorists do not count, all terrorist and bandits will be killed and their heads cut off. You father is a fool for giving birth to a terrorist.

Fool. You offspring of terrorism and everything evil you will soon diminish like a smoke.

PureNuel:
Ifeanyi just dey lucky....real definition of being born with a silver spoon

How can you say a child is lucky to be born into his own family what if the parents tried and the child did not come? It is every child's right to be born into wealth. Infact it is cruelty to bring a child into poverty.

Ushman333:
te author=mabea post=106987993]You mean Nigeria soldiers killed people and chopped off their heads like that? Hmmm....
You jobless idiots ask for pictures of killed terrorists, what do you enemies of Nigeria want... thunder fire una, or you prefer bandits Killing you?

You are a big fool. Who cares about your hopeless and useless life. Vulture feed on your carcass you terrorist.

What's this? Chai Nigeria who did this to you?

You mean Nigeria soldiers killed people and chopped off their heads like that? Hmmm....

ednut1:
mr man learn to read the 99 deaths relates to the whole lagos not lekki. Haba

It seems you're confused about the whole thing. We're you not the same people who claimed there was no massacre? Did people claim that there was a massacre in the whole Lagos State or at Lekki tollgate. By the way, I guess killing 99 persons is not massacre in your own eyes.

[quote author=ednut1 post=106965048]police and hoodlums did most of the killings. There are videos online of thugs killing police officers and burning police stations. Some looters too were killed. [/qAt uote] At Lekki tollgate?

ednut1:
People were killed in lekki but it wasn’t a massacre

Killed by who? and what difference does it make?

johnmartus:
And what's their names at least they supposed to have name and family.

What would you do with their names if you were told?

Afodot0022:
Good day my fellow nairalanders. Pls pardon my typo errors and will just make this brief as i can. I need your inputs in this scenerio that is giving me some sort of concern.

I have been married for close to five years now and have two kids to it. My marriage to my wife has been ups and down but have always tried my best to be a responsible husband and also father. I ensure I take care of my home financially to my capabilities.

My wife happens to be a good wife though with her own flaws as she is not perfect. She always has the notion that am cheating on her and have a side chick. But to be honest to you guys, i have never had sex with any other woman except my wife ever since i married her. Though at times the temptation might come to catch some flings out there but will later decline such thought and abort any action have made to do it on the long run.. At times my wife will read chats I do have with some random girls and have the notion that am cheating. I know i have been wrong in this but attimes a man will want to be a man but as i said earlier, have never had sex with those girls. Just random chats that all and it doesnt go further or lead anywhere.

So it happened that me and my wife had a very serious misunderstanding recently that resulted to verbal abuse and also almost physical violence from the two of us. The last time i intended to have sex with my wife, she denied me and this had been in my mind and got me so angry towards her. So it happend that she needed my help for something and did not help, she started shouting and nagging and this got me angry and i almost hit her but i didn't. During those heated moment she started saying things about my cheating and so on. She said if am not cheating that i should swear with bible but i refuse to swear that night. Upon the following day i decided to even swear with bible that i have never had sex with any woman ever sinced i married her. I know i was innocent and i truely swear that very day to make her change her mindset and perception about me.

After the swear, something happened that makes me confused till this very day, I ask my wife to also use the Bible to swear that she had not cheated or slept with any man ever since she got married to me. Could you imagine that despite all my efforts to make my wife to swear using the bible, she refused bluntly that she will never do such. I asked her why but she insisted she is not going to swear.

This got me concerned and was asking myself why is this woman refusing to do this if truely she is innocent and doesnt have any skeleton in her compound. Her excuse was that she cant use the world of God to swear but mind you she is the one that prompted me to do such at first. I even seized her phone that if she doesnt swear i wont return the phone to her but despite my threat, my wife didn't not.

This lasted for hours and I later gave up on the quest. Ever since then have not being myself and have been thinking alot. My wife doesnt look like someone that can cheat on me cos have not seen any traces as such but with this her action, its making me to have a rethink about her.

Pls house i dont know what step to take as i need your mature advice on way forward on this issues troubling me. Every input will be well appreciated especially from married and experienced people.

You made a choice so allow her to make her own choice too. People this days use their own hand to destroy their marriage. Abeg marriage is not compulsory. If you can't handle it don't marry.

Who cares if Igbokwe is hated. He's more of a bastard than he is a son.