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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by pedrilo: 1:31pm On Oct 27, 2021
So?
Which crime him commit?
Every man with his choice.
U made ur choice so Wetin dey mk u cry?
U, d guy and d pregnant gal, make all of una getat

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Testimony1988(m): 1:31pm On Oct 27, 2021
Don't even think about doing that.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by TOPCRUISE(m): 1:31pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.
You avoided a bomb. Thank God for your life

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Focusmind: 1:32pm On Oct 27, 2021
The guy must be from Anambra state. That's the new rage now. Mums are also encouraging their sons to be sure say the thing don enter before any wedding. There is no more trust on the women folk.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by iconnecta(m): 1:32pm On Oct 27, 2021
chaiii
what God can not do does not exist.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Hdhdhd(m): 1:33pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:


Why would I regret my decision? I’m thankful that God saved me from what would have destroyed my life.

How are you coping with the pressure from your parents? Have you found another man?
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Pimine: 1:33pm On Oct 27, 2021
lilvicky68:
If you had hoped in two months ago you would have been the pregnant one now..

Are you sure you're not regretting your decision? grin
Aswearugaaad

Lol �
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Reckyd123(m): 1:33pm On Oct 27, 2021
Are you a virgin?


Nwachi22:


I opened this thread for my fellow ladies to learn from this experience.
Most ladies hop into bed with a guy in a bid to get married without due diligence. The guy is married to a lady that lives in Dubai. He kept that part away from me.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Menezandy: 1:35pm On Oct 27, 2021
Come marry me
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by femi4: 1:36pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.
Mess up your life,? How? You can be the second wife now ....Kini big deal, your biological time is saying tik tok

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Maobichek: 1:36pm On Oct 27, 2021
bigpicture001:


Marry me instead nwachi... But I no get money oo.. but really want to settle down just make. Just mail Me let's talk

I like your boldness dear, the truth is that she won't send any mail to you. From the thread, she appreciates rich men.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Edge1(m): 1:36pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:


I opened this thread for my fellow ladies to learn from this experience.
Most ladies hop into bed with a guy in a bid to get married without due diligence. The guy is married to a lady that lives in Dubai. He kept that part away from me.

Please rest abeg. We've heard these lines before.
You rejected the offer doesn't mean every other woman should reject it. I know many ladies here wouldn't think twice before accepting

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by mabea: 1:36pm On Oct 27, 2021
olabrinks:
So somebody else has agreed to be his wife under his conditions, and you have moved on, so why are you opening a thread about this? At the end of the day If you’re having sex with a guy before marriage, what is the difference if the guy asks you to get pregnant before he marries you? Let’s not be hypocritical here. A lot of us like to act like we are above certain things, when in reality you are just deceiving yourself. Let’s not act like women dont date 5 men at once before they settle down with one. Move on with your life, you’re not better than the girl he impregnated, you’re both the same, just that there’s proof of fornication in her stomach. Ah beg jare.
This thing wey you talk sweet me well well. Lol

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by suffering: 1:37pm On Oct 27, 2021
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.
Your experience not the norm.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him.
Somebody else jumped in while you were deciding. The ship has sailed. Look elsewhere.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Chebs212(m): 1:37pm On Oct 27, 2021
[quote author=Nwachi22 post=107078015]Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

You slept with him,jus that you didn't take in.
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by kingxsamz(m): 1:37pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:


Why would I regret my decision? I’m thankful that God saved me from what would have destroyed my life.

I think people are missing your point.
I think you're saying the guy already got a lady pregnant while asking you to get pregnant for him... Is that right?

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by SLOVFO(m): 1:38pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.
You did the right thing both before God and man. Marriage isn't all about having babies.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Loverboy3333: 1:38pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:


I would have been in a situation if I had given in. The guy is married afterall. I created this thread to share my experience so that people will learn from it.

Some girls are even looking for such opportunities, Regina Daniels married Ned with many wives and kids.
I bet if this man was to be a billionaire na speed you for open legs to deposit sperm put.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nobody: 1:40pm On Oct 27, 2021
RightToReject:


Stop trying to be too clever by half. A responsible man who got married to a true scrupulous woman, virgin or not, who turned out to be infertile won't find it difficult bearing with her, but the same can't be said of a hypocritically disingenuous unscrupulous woman who wears the garb of scrupulousness and whose infertility is as a result of her wayward lifestyle.


Small..... Small....abeg

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by MANNABBQGRILLS: 1:40pm On Oct 27, 2021
Bola146:
shocked Olorun ooooo shocked shocked, hope you haven't aborted any pregnancy for him? If no congratulations, if yes, seek God's face for forgiveness, He will surely forgive you. The mumu never loved you but lust you grin grin just thank God you didn't fall into his trap, move on with your life, better husband's materials is coming.
Madam Bola has said it all.
Nothing more to be added.
We thank God forbher life and her body!
cool

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Trustedpronet: 1:41pm On Oct 27, 2021
How can you met a guy two months and he started asking you to get belle for him without knowing any of his people ...sure you have started considering it as an option hense you are desperate to marry a prick and not a man.

If you are saying the truth...God saved you
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by bigcasava1(m): 1:42pm On Oct 27, 2021
You said no and another said yes, so you both has done nothing for my own judgement ooo! Time wait for no one aunty. Abi you no trust ursef? And you can't tell me you have not been bleeping for the past two months.
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by DAramis: 1:43pm On Oct 27, 2021
Collysmith:
If i insisted for her to be pregnant before marriage I wouldn't be suffering right now. I don't even know what to do whether to marry another wife because adoption is not in my plan.

Deep down within you, if you feel like shooting your shot outside, do it. It will put the confirmation to the masses that the fault is never from you. Proof of manhood is to sire a child boss.

The universe and your parents would be waiting.
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nobody: 1:43pm On Oct 27, 2021
falcon01:
who wanna buy a car with a busted Engine?

You fools neve fail to compare women to objects.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Rubbiish(m): 1:44pm On Oct 27, 2021
Collysmith:
If i insisted for her to be pregnant before marriage I wouldn't be suffering right now. I don't even know what to do whether to marry another wife because adoption is not in my plan.
Why conclude?
& how long have u been married sir?
Did the doctors certified she won't be able to take in?
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Patented: 1:44pm On Oct 27, 2021
Sister sister, when you dodge a bullet, sometimes there is no point asking why....just rejoice.

2 months short to decide marriage for me sha!
Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by CaCO3: 1:45pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.
U were fortunate and and shrewd.
The shrewd sees danger and conceal himself from it.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by dominique(f): 1:47pm On Oct 27, 2021
"take in before I marry you" is the why we have a lot of single mothers around. Rather than our hypocritical no boys to be happy that our society will have one less single mother, they're mocking the op for passing over the opportunity to become the latest single mother in town. Is your confusion not confusing you people laidis grin, why are you so bummed that she refused to be a single mother whom you people love to bash like your existence depends on bashing them?

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by dearie(m): 1:48pm On Oct 27, 2021
olabrinks:
So somebody else has agreed to be his wife under his conditions, and you have moved on, so why are you opening a thread about this? At the end of the day If you’re having sex with a guy before marriage, what is the difference if the guy asks you to get pregnant before he marries you? Let’s not be hypocritical here. A lot of us like to act like we are above certain things, when in reality you are just deceiving yourself. Let’s not act like women dont date 5 men at once before they settle down with one. Move on with your life, you’re not better than the girl he impregnated, you’re both the same, just that there’s proof of fornication in her stomach. Ah beg jare.

What a pity! You are even a lady.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nyascobar1414(m): 1:52pm On Oct 27, 2021
lilvicky68:
If you had hoped in two months ago you would have been the pregnant one now..

Are you sure you're not regretting your decision? grin

Aswwr ehhh she might be regretting
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Chibabe1(f): 1:52pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:


Why would I regret my decision? I’m thankful that God saved me from what would have destroyed my life.

I Thank God for you too

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