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Gejpresident:
I updated my bbm

i dont think this feature is not working yet

If you use android, then I will think it has not come to android yet cos I'm using Z10.
Below is a screenshot of my bbm contact. The ones above called 'bbm contacts' are the ones I got through actual pin invite. While the ones below called just 'contacts' are the ppl I have their phone numbers in my phone and who use bbm. From here, I can chat with them without even sending them invite and once I click to chat, their pin will be their for me.

Bbm just started giving out ppl's pins FOC. Once someone has ur number, the person can get ur pin and can chat with you even without sending you an invite. This function is available in the latest version of bbm. This makes it just like whatapp. What do you think about this development?

mygee2:
You are nt my therapist so jst shut ur mouth nd leave in peace

mygee2:
THAnks then to d next matter do you think doing drugs would help matters for mee

Dude are you for real?

Lala247:
Oh sorry was saying i gave ur dp a like .. Lol dunno y chic dont like guys pics too

Now, you make me blush Thanks for the like, honi.
As for chics and like, I don't really know why. But I'll blame our culture. Our mindset is that on no account should a lady ever let a guy know she likes/loves him. That is absurd. Guys readily give ladies compliments and roll on the floor trying to get a girl's attention but the chic will always want to act like she's not interested even when she is weting her pants for the guy. It's really weird.

Lala247:
What u mean lol ok ur confusing me

You mentioned my name in a comment and I'm trying to understand what you tried to say but I can't.

Lala247:
U too take like lol macmilla

What were you trying to say?

Lala247:
Macmilla abeg no derail dat thread

You accuse me falsely Which thread have I derailed?

Lala247:
Lol how

My brain can't comprehend that comment

Lala247:
Real words

So many words, just to say one word.

Lala247:
U too take like lol macmilla

Sweetheart, please rephrase.

Singing praise and worship, getting ready to pray for all of you.

Leitner:
It's so obvious you are not new.

Within 30 mins after registering,you already know how to bold letters.

Dude you beat me to that. I know it took me several weeks before I learnt all dt.
My best guess is that this is a guy. His mission: to become very popular on NL by being as controversial as possible.
Guys now create new profile and act like females on Nairaland. It's what is in vogue now.

sevantex:
Abeg nor vex bros..,I actuali was in a hurry wn I quoted u nd forgot to write sumtin...,I quoted dt line in ur comment cos its d koko..,Better havin it and not needin it dn needin it nd not havin it..,Welldone bro!

Na so o. And I strongly believe that line applies to ladies too.

Joshkid:
he must be high on some cheap weeds

I taya o. Some dudes are just funny.

lordyugo:
onye ka mu na hate? Lool. Guy relax we knw dem over dr d nvr blend in over dr cos d carry over dr naijamindset.mayb u no mind girl talkn to u anyhw cos u want make she like u.we hv seen it all frm jamo to latinos

They don't talk to me anyhow cos I don't talk to them anyhow. You guys are making this romance section a battle ground between guys and ladies. If you guys succeed, God knows I will be fighting for the ladies.
Before you start calling me a woman wrapper or whatever you wish, let me make it clear that I don't give a fhuck what you think. I will forever respect women.

hifaif:
I can tell you how to live your life in line with the standards expected of a sane person, especially if you have begun to lose your senses. But I can't force you to follow my lead.

Same thing I did here. Someone, a woman for that matter, is losing it and I talked.

In case you've not noticed, the definition of that world "sane" changes by the minute and you are no where close to being the one dt defines it, neither are you the one that enforces it.
You can talk all you like about Rokiatu, you and I know you will only succeed in making her post more pictures of her ass since the thing pains you.

Rokiatu, show them.

sog4mail:
what are the ten things girls like most in guys?

1. Money
2. More money
3. Good money
4. Extra money
5. Additional money
6. Supplementary money
7. Huge money
8. Reasonable money
9. Much more money
10. Good sex

Am I right?

hifaif:
Macmilla or whatever pathetic name you bear, you see the beauty of a forum like this? We can talk. If Rokiatu is none of my business, I am none of your business either. You should never have quoted me since my comments are none of your freaking business. Hypocrite!!!

Bro, I have no problem with who you quote. You can quote me all you want, but what you can't do is tell me how to live my life.

[quote author=sevantex post=33210399][/quote]Dude, when you quote me, I expect you to say something. Whether it's good or bad, just spit it out.

Orijin101:
Here is the Louie Vitton Urban Satchet Bag being sold at the price of $150,000. It is created from all sorts of urban junks e.g cigarette pack,water bottle, tea bag and band aid.

I'm now wondering if any reasonable guy, eventhough he is a son to Aliko Dangote can buy this hand bag for his babe.

Or can a lady accept it or buy it with her own money?

Chisos! Woris dis?

AgapeCharis:
Please speak for yourself. Use the right word - "I" not "we".

Thank you.

You can try to deny it all you can, but my comment stands. It only takes serious self discipline to suppress that attribute.

whizqueen:
Sure it does.
Looking at it from the angle that the lady in question n her boo were able to settle the ish, Lala247 would be caught in the middle.
If she is unable to get a guy thatz gonna be like the one she left soon enough lala might end up receiving the blame for giving a bad advice.
you know how ladies are na

Thank you. D lady should make her own decisions. I believe she is not a kid. My people will say "okwu di na nwunye, ejighi ike etinye ya aka", you don't jump into quarrels between man and wife, if you do, they will use you to settle the issue.

Cc: Lala

whizqueen:
Kissing is clear cut cheating.
But since your friend is gonna be so down cos of break up, let her hold still if she feels she can forgive n let go of the imaginary memory of her guy kissing someone else.

Love doesn't keep records of wrong doing , easier said than done though.

Time heals all wounds

Lala247:
So u think she should give him one more chance .. Cuz she loves him tho . N break up would kill her men ..

Like you said, it's a one-off thing. The guy may have just wanted to be mischievous a little, though this is not right by any standard, it's still forgivable.

Lala247:
Yea .. Dont share it .. I know what u mean
Dats why i said i didnt just want to tell her dump him .. Its easy to say but ave know dem for a while n he loves dat my friend to bits.. So i just want to b sure cuz if i say dump him now n they sort it out i will b like d bad one u get ..

There is one thing I will also tell you about men. We are polygamous in nature, (I'm not gonna exempt myself), but a man cannot love two women equally at the same time. He might cheat with any girl, but there is always that one person he doesn't joke with. This is true. So if the guy is doing everything in his power to apologise and you are sure he loves the girl, maybe you should try to calm the girl down.
Sex is very easy to find, but love is extremely rare.

Lala247:
Yh but it was a one off tho .. Well dats what he said .. He doesn't even know d girl met her at the club . Some event his friend was Having.

But it could b a lie sha lol u guys
Lalasticlala oh or ishilove

Not minding my previous comments, I still blive in 2nd chance. If the lady is able to convince me, and I really love her, I might just give her a 2nd chance. Like they say, ppl make mistakes.
But I also bliv that ppl don't change, they only become a modified version of same old self. So if cheating is in her, I will definitely catch her a 2nd time.

Lala247:
Yea i hear u
I personally will dump the guy just cus of experience but this is her first time lol before she blame me for their break up dats y i wanted to b sure . N get other views

Well, life is so complex and there is no single formula to life. One plus one is not always two. Any formula to life's event will have so many variables that it will cease to be a formula. There are so many things to consider here. I can't really count them. My experience makes me feel that we should not be too fast to draw the sword. The lady/guy involved knows the details and should make his own decisions.
I would have shared my xperience with you, Lala, but NL is not place for personal issues.

Lala247:
Yh some people say it doesnt have to be physical to be cheating

Some say its only when they have sex it cheating various views .

Yeah, to me o, if you leave ur husband to go spend time with another man when ur husband is there for you, even if you didn't touch the dude's hands, my dear, na cheating o.
One of the reasons of marriage, heck if not the most important reason, is companionship. So if you are not there when he needs you, when you can actually be there, to me, na cheating o.

Lala247:
Hey peeps!

When in a relationship or married if your bae, gf/bf, wife/ husband kissing another person is this considered as cheating?
And if so can you forgive that person as they did nkt have full on sex.


Advice, expericnce , discuss

Cc lalasticlala
Ishilove

Call me african, primitive or anything you wish, there is no difference between sex and kiss cos kissing is just one of the first stages of sex. If the kissing was to be uninterrupted, what is it going to lead to? Praying and fasting? What was the intention of the kiss? To bring down the holy spirit?
As my girlfriend, if you need a kiss, kiss me.
To me, if I catch my girl kissing another guy, I will handle it just the way I would handle catching her in bed with another guy. Hoo haa!

biggyrossy:
i have a infinix hot note x551 just 2weeks old at 30k

Hian! Bros are you well at all? Brand new infinix hot note sells for #23,500 and you want to sell a used one for 30k. I laff in swahili.

Teempakguy:
then why the sexist comment?

Teempakguy:
you are so sexist!

Dude, do you even know the meaning of sexism?

Lala247:
No dont walk up to her
She doesn't exist
Focus on u

He should build his self esteem and confidence first.