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RomanceRe: Dating A Golddigger: Wahala by madamkoko(op): 5:28am On Jun 08, 2008
Thanks for the comment.
RomanceDating A Golddigger: Wahala by madamkoko(op): 4:46am On Jun 08, 2008
One of my brothers is dating a gold digger. That is the only word that I can use to describe her. This gal is like a sponge, she sucks him dry in everyway possible. First of, they are not married but I don't know what voodoo she used on him. She likes to travel and he pays for her trips around the world. London, Paris, Switzerland, anywhere her cheap ass likes to go. We all want him to break up with her, but he's not listening. We know that there are better women out there,

How do I advise my bro to break up with this witch while respecting his privacy and decisions ?
RomanceRe: How To Make A Man Fall In Love With You by madamkoko: 4:27am On Jun 08, 2008
@ topic, I dont think that you can MAKE a man love you.


Men are weird.
RomanceRe: Dating An "Omo Aje Butter" by madamkoko: 5:29pm On Jun 07, 2008
@ oziomatv ,


haven't read her posts, but how can you determine that she is or isnt ?
RomanceRe: Dating An "Omo Aje Butter" by madamkoko: 5:28pm On Jun 07, 2008
LOL!!!!!! grin grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: 10 Ways To Ruin A First Date by madamkoko: 4:24pm On Jun 07, 2008
I am a cell phone sinner. embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed
RomanceRe: 10 Ways To Ruin A First Date by madamkoko: 4:23pm On Jun 07, 2008
Have bad breath

Body odor
RomanceRe: Dating An "Omo Aje Butter" by madamkoko: 4:03pm On Jun 07, 2008
@ ty4real
Ajebutters, their wahahla can be killing at times
Not all ajebutters oooh, yes some are accostomed to a certain igbaduns but not all be wahahla, grin grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Dating An "Omo Aje Butter" by madamkoko: 4:00pm On Jun 07, 2008
yea, most times, ajebutter always date ajebutter, because of certain misconceptions, i believe that all a guy needs to date and ajebo is to be cute, educated, net, have a nice sence of humor, intelligent, sharp, etc but being rich is almost or even being ajabor is almost out of the question.

a guy musnt have all these things mentioneed above, a combination of a few of them with selfconfidence is enough.
No, from the way it sounds, it seems like u're the one with the misconceptions,   do you think all male ajebutters are cutehuh have a nice sense of humour? ,  Anyways, I don't think the reasons ajebuts date each other is because of misconceptions but its more of who we associate with from when someone was young,  (the primary school, the people your parents associate with, and other factors) anyways,  enough for me bros,
RomanceRe: Dating An "Omo Aje Butter" by madamkoko: 3:55pm On Jun 07, 2008
I wouldn't be able to help you answer that question bros, I don't really follow her posts, sorry.
RomanceRe: Dating An "Omo Aje Butter" by madamkoko: 3:32pm On Jun 07, 2008
Ajebutter will like to drag your attention to where she'll get fun and entertained while Kpako will take you where you'll spend, feed her and buy her this that. Aje butter will like to know if you're enjoying her company while Kpako don't care(spend that money and get away is her concern)
@ oziomatv You are absolutely right.

Ajebutters, money is always the last thing they focus upon. But most of the time, I should say that ajebutters tend to date other ajebutters because thats how the way our parents set things up,
RomanceRe: Is It Good For A Man To Be A Virgin? by madamkoko: 4:38am On Jun 06, 2008
Actually, I hear say if a man no use his equipments, it normally swells up and is normally on the verge of exploding,

So man suppose use his
ÿekini"
as The Sly would say.
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 4:03am On Jun 06, 2008
Sorry but i don't always listen to what they preach in SUNDAY SCHOOL. . .
Too much girls with short skirts around. . . They wont let me concentrate. . .
[b][/b]


ahahhahahahahaha, lol. our Pastor won't let us wear pants, (saying women should not dress like men) chaaiiii, now I see why. shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 4:00am On Jun 06, 2008
@ The Sly: only if you read it but I responded to your question.
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:52am On Jun 06, 2008
@ ALL

With or without love, Y'all need a partner.
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[b]With the law of supply and demand, NOT everyone can have a partner,  (leaving out social misfits: criminals, blah blah blah)
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:49am On Jun 06, 2008
@Toyinrayo

Who said they were NOT forcing us to marry?
Abi oo:

For moi, family members (comparing one to every other young wife they know), like my friend who didn't go to law skool cause she wan marry Alhaji. Now she get pikin for bele, inside, i find myself asking, why forfeit her dream of being a lawyer, yyeeesh.

But its Niger for you now
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:41am On Jun 06, 2008
@Esss

What sign?? He shows up in a maybach, dressed to kill with all the right accesories, with a bumper sticker saying "this is the sign you been waiting for".



LOL!! hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:39am On Jun 06, 2008
@toyinrayo
some women are berra off more successful when alone. . .sure you might need a man for a bootycall (  ) but it does not necessarily mean you need to or have to marry him.
You are actually right, research finds that a large number of women who are extremely successful in thier career are either single or divorced,
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:28am On Jun 06, 2008
If god sends me the sign that the man that i am with should be my husband i will know it. I will feel it in my heart, soul, and body[quote][/quote]Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhaah grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

im not exactly sure life works that way, hahahaha
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:26am On Jun 06, 2008
@ Esss
maybe through DHL
LOL, HAHAHAHAH grin grin
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:24am On Jun 06, 2008
@ ®Th£ Sly®

Who says a woman has to give birth huh? She can always adopt.

There are women I know who have been married since they were 21 and now theý're much older and cannot have a child,

plus theres an aunt of mine who gave birth at 40 years old ( she had a miracle baby) so pls

With science anything is possible.  grin
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:20am On Jun 06, 2008
@onyinye2

Not because i can't find one but i know when i am ready God will send me my husband
[b][/b]

Personally, I do not believe that God sends people husbands,  we all have choices and we choose our mates.
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:12am On Jun 06, 2008
This double standard thing, I no get, I no understand am at all,

How come marriage is NOT important to men, but should be important to women ?

This law of supply and demand no fair ooh,  chaiiiii
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:10am On Jun 06, 2008
LOL!!! cheesy cheesy cheesy
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:09am On Jun 06, 2008
not necessarily. thats why IT IS A MANS WORLD>
According to James Brown, "But it ain't nothing without a WOMAN" shocked shocked
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:08am On Jun 06, 2008
@ Esss

hahahaha, No I don't watch Oprah nor do I watch Ellen.  wink wink
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 3:00am On Jun 06, 2008
@ 4 Him

I don't think you fit READ.

First of all, no where in my post do I bash married women

you're getting it mixed up. The average nigerian family raise their daughters to be independent, smart women first but do not fail to remind them that marriage is equally important. Are you trying to tell us that married women were raised to see their lives as unimportant and unfulfilling? ARe you saying women who are married with kids are not smart?

If you don't like marriage good, stop trying to make excuses why u think everyone else should toe your line. Marriage is the best thing 2 people can share.
Yes, Nigerian families raise thier daughters to independent. Yes, most Nigerian women are smart. Now, I don't know if marriage is as ëqually important as you state.  Its important but should not be the focus of a woman's life.

I never said that married women should see thier lives as unimportant and unfulfilling, I anyways, I'm tired.
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 2:47am On Jun 06, 2008
@ toyinrayo


LOL cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 2:45am On Jun 06, 2008
@ 4 Him: no one is stating that marriage is not important.

I just think that Nigerian parents should not raise thier daughters to think that thier life is unimportant, unfufilling, just because they're not married or don't have a man.

Most women are smart, brilliant, and yes not all are pretty, not all can give birth.

Yes, Marriage has its own purpose. And with that law of supply and demand, not everyone is supposed to be married. Not enough men to go around anyways and theres enough competition BUT women's life is much more important than for it to be defined by whether they have a man or not.
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 2:39am On Jun 06, 2008
@ Ms. jennykadry


aaah nooo oooh i'm not nj hj. ; grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: "To Hell With Love: I Just Want To Get Married!" by madamkoko: 2:35am On Jun 06, 2008
@ Esss

hopefully your daughters don't create threads like this. undecided undecided undecided undecided

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